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kingskid04 (m)
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hi people.
am in love with a 25 yr old lady,she is pretty and cute.for the past 3months we hav dated,she pays my water and electricity bills,feed me,she also gives me some money like 5,000 niara a week.Although am enjoying this but something tellls me that what i am experiencing is bad, Am confused,is my girlfriend doing the right thing,should i keep on collecting all te goodies,should i continue with the relationship?plz help!
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Seun (m)
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All you have to do is start paying the bills yourself. No need to break the relationship. Learn to think straight!
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CHIMSKY (m)
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BROS,
I DNT KNW BOUT You BUT WE MEN R CREATURES OF PRIDE .I DNT KNW UR SITUATION RITE NOW BUT EVEN IF You R GOING THRU A ROUGH PATCH MAKE SME EXTRA EFFORT TO PAY UR SHARE OF THE BILLS AT LEAST SO DAT SHE GIVES You SME REGARD.I CAN UNDERSTAND UR FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE COS ITS NOT NORMAL FOR You TO LIVE OFF A WOMAN.
I'M NOT PREDICTING EVIL BUT IN THE HEAT OF ARGUMENT OR SOME OTHER MISUNDERSTANDING,THE SAME WOMAN CLD TELL You UR LIFE STORY.EVEN IF SHE SWEARS SHE'S SORI LATER,THE DAMAGE WLD HAVE BEEN DONE.
DNT LET THINGS GET TO THAT STAGE.
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davidylan (m)
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its not bad at all . . . as long as you are doing everything possible to get yourself independent and not attempting to live off her.
Here is when it gets bad - when you inevitably get yourself going, be sure she wont have to regret wasting all that time and resources. For her to do all this for you means she fully expects that you are going to marry her.
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ndubest (m)
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, Make sure you are in for real
don't enjoy all the goodies and runaway if not don't enjoy it
, Think Independent and Be Independent, and be a man, don't be a parasite or a saprophyte
a symbiotic relationship is always the best the best
the same go for the ladies
all the best Man
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olrotimi (m)
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good, thats very good
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eramate (m)
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all to say as been said please try to be man ignore some aspect u feel u can do but not capable due to no money assist where u can do above all keep a good rel;ationship with one that can do this
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iniovosa
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wats up man.
i really don't know what to say to u,but lets just say it isnt fair enough.
just try to show her that u can be independent.try to work something out for yourself.although my pastor told me that most of the things we get from life should be on favour.but when everything is,its very bad.
try a little suffering,i guess that would help.
GOOD LUCK!!!
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Omolulu (m)
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More grease,oil and vaseline to your elbow,
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Biabeke (f)
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Dude, do not let a woman take care of you 100%. Where is your manly pride?  |
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davidif (m)
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@poster
BAD BAD BAD
Aren't you ashamed to even say that in public???
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