Office Dating: For Or Against?

How would you handle an affair with a colleague in the same office as you. Maybe you both like yourselves and can't seem to stay apart. And before you know it kissing and petting in private places away from the view of fellow workers begins to happen. Do you think you can handle it. If yes HOW and if no WHY?

hmmm _{grabbing a seat and some popcorn and watching for other replies}

against, like blueband mentioned, if there's an eventual break-up, its usually akward. A friend of mine had an affair with her boss and he was very possesive. When she tried to break up with him, he got vindictive and always found ways to make her appear incompetent. she eventually had to quit. it's also very distracting having the hots for a colleague. u'll find it  hard to concentrate on your work.

, forget it
, it never lasts or your performance in the office may not be upto standard due to lack of concentration

It's not appropriate.
If you must do it then one of you should resign

i am not fully in support of office romance, but if the parties are both matured then they can stay put, it has so many complications .i wouldnt like to find myself in that condition.

I actually know nothing is wrong with it because I actually did it and it worked and it is still working for me.But u have to very careful so as not to make a mistake of choosing the wrong person because it can be very terrible.

My guys, it can be a sweet experience anyway![b][/b]

i'm totally against - with a but.

look having a serious relationship in the office is a no-no. it doesnt work for your concentration, trust or peace of mind. one is bound to suffer, and both may perish in the aftermath of the lovey-dovey episode. like they say a happy couple = deaf husband + blind wife. what u don't see can't eat at u. when u work together, you tend to see or hear too much 

on the other hand, if u're ABSOULTELY SURE (dettol  ) that it's a short-term, one-time, this-guy-is-so-cool-but i can't seriously date him kind of thing, go on. it's fun when both sides understand that hey, when it's over (and it will be very soon) we hug and part ways emotion-wise. and it can be very cool, because work will have an exciting meaning for those brief moments. i repeat - as long as there are no heart strings attached. some people will wonder how it's possible, but trust me honey, if you can bring yourself to do it, it's fun!

however, for the sake of most girls who don't and would never date someone for the pure fun of it, forget office crushes.

i think the really sticky one is dating your boss. how does one go about it? what if u find your boss ultrasexy? it's an absolute no-go area, even for me, but how do some chicks navigate those waters? i'm CURIOUS!

i am against the idea, its not pretty at all.

just like jintujinta said, as long as the two involved are single and matured, there is nothing wrong. matured in the sense that the two will be able to know how to conduct themselves in the office esp when there are othe people around and when there is work to do. whateva they do after office hours is there own business. but incase either or both is married I say a big NO to that.

I don't advise office dating because there wil b jealousy,no respect 4 one another and honestly the relationship wil nt last then al other tings follows.Why must it b the offic guy or lady?

Rightness,

be blind and insensitive:   for or against?


thats how it is yo!

Please don't get into office dating.
It causes problems.

This is a No No

am totally against it.