The Hitch Is In Da House, Hola @ Ur Boy If U Av Any Problems In Ur Relationship

Here's the deal.  People have already posted their problems.  Just go to their threads and answer them

seun,  if u havent gotten it by now then u just aint getting it. I don't do things when i am not invited, so if anyone feels like he/she needs some advice then the person should holla!

thats why i posted it, , remember

You Say Your Mr. Fix It.
So Mr. Fix It Please Help Me LOL


HI Valencia


What Is The Best Way To Show Love 2 A Guy?
I'm So Inlove But Unsure If My Guy Really Loves Me.
He Says Our Love Is Not One Sided But I Can't Help But Feel That It Is.
Even Though He Was The First To Say I Love You.
Could He Really Love Me But Its Hard For Him To Show it?
Why Do Some Men Hold Back What Their Feeling Inside. [i][/i]


babygirl, so sorry that i have not been able to write back since, i have been so busy, anyway, back to your question, though it is kind of long but i hope you will find out time to read them. Apparently, it is a known fact that some people have ego problems and people behave differently. some guys have this mindset  that once you let a woman know how they feel about them, they would start taking them for granted, which explains why some men would rather prefer not to show how they feel openly.

 i do not blame people like that because i have experienced it myself and believe me you, i know how it feels, but the deal is; even if he hardly shows how he feels or tells you, always do your own part to let him know that you care and do love him unconditionally, at the same time, i would advice that you make out time to talk to him concerning how you feel because communication is very essential in any relationship. always try to create a suitable environment where you too can talk to him and make him see reason with you. there are ways you can get a message across without getting across,so don't try to be naggy about it,
 
 In every relationship there should always be a certain degree of separation and detachment, sometimes, we feel like being free to have some free moments alone, so when you keep hanging around every now and then,he might feel like you are choking him, so we all deserve some breathing space. take it from me, "no one will do it for you, except you make it work by yourself, so always show love to your companion,boyfriend,husband etc, make them feel the need to reciprocate even if they hardly tell you, believe me, we all have concience and i believe that with time, he will learn to appreciate your worth. sometimes, it takes time to achieve these, so always keep an open mind and never hold back how you feel and if after some reasonable time he still doesn't learn to appreciate you and treat you like a queen you are, then it will then be obvious that he can never change, , so i would advice you to move on because no one deserves your tears because those who do, wouldn't make you cry,besides, there is a saying that you'll never know what you have till its gone. My dear never let anyone make you feel inferior about yourself because it doesnt count what people calls you, what counts is what you answer to. take care and try and confront him and let him know how you feel and watch how he reacts to it.