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skyfaze (m)
Is This Love?
« on: December 10, 2007, 08:04 PM »

there is this girl in my church i got to know her through the elder brother who introduce her to me , after our first meet, i often see her but when ever we meet she will accusing me of avoiding her, that i am running away from her, i dont want to see her again ,the truth is that i love her so much but i don't know whether she feels love for me please help me and tell me what to do.
FactorChic (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #1 on: December 10, 2007, 08:14 PM »

So, u're one of those guys that are scared of rejection, Before you do anything, that's one thing u need to overcome (Rejection), Get out there and go talk to her.
shabangur (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #2 on: December 11, 2007, 03:10 AM »

If she says you are avoiding her,please just give it a try.I sense she likes you too.Don't be a coward man.
Nautillus (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #3 on: December 11, 2007, 08:05 AM »

Quote from: FactorChic on December 10, 2007, 08:14 PM
So, u're one of those guys that are scared of rejection, Before you do anything, that's one thing u need to overcome (Rejection), Get out there and go talk to her.


Factorchic     Bless your heart           my thoughts exactly
rockiedink (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #4 on: December 11, 2007, 10:40 AM »

Quote from: skyfaze on December 10, 2007, 08:04 PM
there is this girl in my church i got to know her through the elder brother who introduce her to me , after our first meet, i often see her but when ever we meet she will accusing me of avoiding her, that i am running away from her, i don't want to see her again ,the truth is that i love her so much but i don't know whether she feels love for me please help me and tell me what to do.

ok lets get a coupla things straight here:
  • you were introduced by her brother.
  • she always accuses you of avoiding her
  • you don't wanna see her again
  • i believe can safely assume you and her have never hanged out before or even gone on a date with her

and now you think you are in love with her? Shocked Shocked Shocked

well thats news to me sha.

if you want the girl, overcome yopuur shyness tell her your thoughts and hang out with her, but that you love her already. . .that na different kettle of bonga fish o!!! Undecided Undecided Undecided

skyfaze (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #5 on: December 11, 2007, 07:47 PM »

i don't think i am the shy type,but i am afraid if she say no
quinofhart (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #6 on: December 11, 2007, 07:53 PM »

if she says no, then problem solved, you will soon find out that you don't really love her after all. Cos rejection will sure kill that love fast. If it is and it goes well then all the best
FactorChic (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #7 on: December 11, 2007, 08:28 PM »

Quote from: skyfaze on December 11, 2007, 07:47 PM
i don't think i am the shy type,but i am afraid if she say no

Exactly what I said, u're afraid she'll say no, that means u're scared of rejection
Get close to her, don't just ask her out like that, try being friends with her, that way you will know if she likes you or not, if not, then don't bother asking her out, hmm well some girls pretend they don't like u but they do, but u get my point

If u keep holding back, thinking some girl will say no to u, u will remain single for life, u need to get over your fear and go talk to her
CrazyMan (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #8 on: December 12, 2007, 03:04 PM »

Grow up and stop acting like a kid; confront her and tell her how you feel.

Or is it when some smarter guy snatches you from her before you wake up?

Just go and tell her, she won't kill you for expressing your feeling towards her; I don't know why most guys are so scared of rejection.
zignor (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #9 on: December 12, 2007, 03:23 PM »

@poster . . . Did I hear you say in my church? Sad Angry
chychy (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #10 on: December 12, 2007, 05:15 PM »

while no one likes to be rejected, it is a way of life,

walk up 2 her and open up,  u dont wanna end up saying coulda woulda shoulda

how can u know if u don't try,

if she doesnt feel the same, it'llonly hurt 4 a while,  time heals everything
skyfaze (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #11 on: December 13, 2007, 06:39 PM »

Quote from: chychy on December 12, 2007, 05:15 PM
while no one likes to be rejected, it is a way of life,

walk up 2 her and open up, u don't want to end up saying coulda woulda shoulda

how can u know if u don't try,

if she doesnt feel the same, it'llonly hurt 4 a while, time heals everything

     you have a point there i will try my best to get her, but not all that open up ,
ifyalways (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #12 on: December 13, 2007, 07:01 PM »

Quote from: zignor on December 12, 2007, 03:23 PM
@poster . . . Did I hear you say in my church? Sad Angry
Grin Grin Grin Grin trust you to notice that.i have been wondering oooooooh seriously wondering ooooo bros,things have gone sour  Embarrassed ask him what he learnt in church that day now and see  Sad 

@poster how old are you first?
how old is the girl in question?
as for your problem i suggest you go meet your pastor,afterall  you guys met in church. Lips sealed
zignor (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #13 on: December 14, 2007, 12:57 PM »

@ifyalways . .follow me see ooo . . .Dogs has entered the church Sad Angry
saucekid (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #14 on: December 14, 2007, 01:05 PM »

zignorr my man,i call this church romance
blackgucci (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #15 on: December 14, 2007, 01:12 PM »

Quote
@poster how old are you first?
how old is the girl in question?
as for your problem i suggest you go meet your pastor,afterall  you guys met in church.


rubish

@poster
she likes you!
ettehgate (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #16 on: December 14, 2007, 03:23 PM »

how old are you?
because you sound underage
ifyalways (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #17 on: December 14, 2007, 04:06 PM »

Quote from: blackgucci on December 14, 2007, 01:12 PM


rubish

@poster
she likes you!
who is this item from psychiatric home sef?who is this idiot from the bush ?who is this monkey in a coat?who brought this bloody grasscutter here? do you have to agree to what i say?what gave you the guts and impetus to call my reply rubbish?wetin you chop sef? hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

@ poster you really should be bothered now on passing your SSCE and JAMB rather than THE UPHILL TASK of CHASING VIRGINS in church. Wink
blackgucci (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #18 on: December 14, 2007, 04:16 PM »

Quote
who is this item from psychiatric home sef?who is this idiot from the bush ?who is this monkey in a coat?who brought this bloody grasscutter here? do you have to agree to what i say?what gave you the guts and impetus to call my reply rubbish?wetin you chop sef? hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

your father
ifyalways (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #19 on: December 14, 2007, 04:54 PM »

Quote from: blackgucci on December 14, 2007, 04:16 PM
your father
hes cool  Cool
rockiedink (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #20 on: December 14, 2007, 05:36 PM »

@ifyalways
just lif de guy. no vex at all.
almondjoy (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #21 on: December 14, 2007, 05:41 PM »

Quote from: ifyalways on December 14, 2007, 04:06 PM

who is this item from psychiatric home sef?who is this idiot from the bush ?who is this monkey in a coat?who brought this bloody grasscutter here? do you have to agree to what i say?what gave you the guts and impetus to call my reply rubbish?wetin you chop sef? hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


@ poster you really should be bothered now on passing your SSCE and JAMB rather than THE UPHILL TASK of CHASING VIRGINS in church. Wink


You are too too too too bad! Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin

Quote from: blackgucci on December 14, 2007, 04:16 PM
your father

Na so e pain you reach? Grin



@Topic
Sorry,  I do not have any interest in this your matter--I was just stopping by.  Off on my "amebo" runs around Nairaland.--Goodluck sha and Happy Holidays! Kiss
rockiedink (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #22 on: December 14, 2007, 06:08 PM »

hey almondjoy, how far now? where u been dey since? just saying hi.
almondjoy (f)
Re: Is This Love?
« #23 on: December 14, 2007, 07:06 PM »

Quote from: rockiedink on December 14, 2007, 06:08 PM
hey almondjoy, how far now? where u been dey since? just saying hi.

Alive and well ma dear!  How are you?  I see you are not tired of Nairaland yet? Tongue  Well have fun and see you around! Kiss
Happy Holidays!
skyfaze (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #24 on: December 14, 2007, 08:45 PM »

Quote from: ettehgate on December 14, 2007, 03:23 PM
how old are you?
because you sound underage


bros is not that i am underage, but for my church i dey claim say i holy pass that is the problem and i don't want to loss my EGO
zignor (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #25 on: December 15, 2007, 09:52 AM »

Quote from: skyfaze on December 14, 2007, 08:45 PM

bros is not that i am underage, but for my church i dey claim say i holy pass that is the problem and i don't want to loss my EGO

lol . . . .you don't mean it Grin Grin Grin
saucekid (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #26 on: December 15, 2007, 12:35 PM »

Quote from: skyfaze on December 14, 2007, 08:45 PM

bros is not that i am underage, but for my church i dey claim say i holy pass that is the problem and i don't want to loss my EGO

so you even get EGO among the girls  Shocked Shocked Shocked
zignor (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #27 on: December 15, 2007, 12:54 PM »

The dude even get EGO?  what does he want again? Undecided

lol  Grin Grin Grin
biife
Re: Is This Love?
« #28 on: December 15, 2007, 01:17 PM »


it won\'t be out of place to tell in a cultured way
how you\'re feeling about her,

don\'t approach her as if you\'ll die if she turns you down;
or, you\'ll conquer the world for her if she accepts you!

it may not be the best step to take- avoiding her!

saucekid (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #29 on: December 15, 2007, 01:26 PM »

he has EGO and he still wants this one,he is only randy to me  Grin Grin Grin
Elisha.com (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #30 on: December 15, 2007, 04:27 PM »

Sky faze  wake up! wake up!! wake up!!!  Angry  Angry
saucekid (m)
Re: Is This Love?
« #31 on: December 15, 2007, 04:30 PM »

Quote from: Elisha.com on December 15, 2007, 04:27 PM
Sky faze  wake up! wake up!! wake up!!!  Angry  Angry

it's morning already and you're having a nightmare Grin Grin Grin
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