Married But Dating Another

[Bob James]

Am married but my wife gives me sex like twice a month. Am currently dating a babe to cater for
my sexual needs. Am i wrong? have done i could to help my wife but she seems frigit.
Do you think am not right dating another girl? My new girl wants me almost everyday. i really do love her now.

[ibkaye]

are you wrong? well yeah. You promised to love and cherish your wife until death do you part did you not? and then there you are getting jiggy with your babe on the side, think about your wifes feeling jare. what you are doing is wrong  why not talk about how you feel with your wife and maybe she will understand and allow you to get 'frisky' more often

[Bob James]

she doent feel sex. she said she can without it.

[finemocha]

1. piece of advice, any woman that can fcuk a married man, run away from, no lovy dovy nonsense. those girls are only made for one thing and one thing only, sex sex sex.

2. did u not know that she was frigit in bed before married her. chai uselessness, u all want a virgin or a saint, now u have one, have fun.  so techinically your wife has pushed u to adultery and u know that leads straight to hell.

3.  BEst of luck, but dont be surprised when your little slut gives u an std, because u konw u aren't the only guy right?  i hope u know that.

[iice]

What's frigit?
Don't you have numerous threads looking for one particular lady (forgot her nick)
And all of a sudden you have someone new
If you are sure you are doing the right thing . . .why are you askin us?

[toyinrayo]

i could have sworn they made a word for ppl like you. . .

[c_blow]

strong man!!!
u know exactly what u are doing and you come to ask us. u think nairalanders are stupid to support adultery. desist from it or your wife will find out and before you know it, she will also go out to your supprise. dont get me wrong, i mean no disrespect, but you have insulted the holy institution of matrimony,

[sweetlizzy]

i could have sworn they made a word for people like you. . .

 

  you are right

[SOJ]

you are treading a long,tough road my guy.
i would like to be in your shoes when it blows in your face o.think this:what if one day u r careless and this "babe" gets pregnant and she decides to keep it;afterall u r responsible and able to cater for her?

[Bob James]

Thanks for your advice.
I am quiting dating the babe.
Will concentrate on making my marriage work.
I have decided to even live for God now.
You guys wont see a thread by me anymore
I respect all your opinions especially from the girls.
What God has joined together let no "lack of Sex"
put asunder. I think i would rather enjoy more of God
than trade my life with what is for a moment.
Thanks to you all
So long

[No2Atheism]

1. piece of advice, any woman that can fcuk a married man, run away from, no lovy dovy nonsense. those girls are only made for one thing and one thing only, sex sex sex.

2. did u not know that she was frigit in bed before married her. chai uselessness, u all want a virgin or a saint, now u have one, have fun.  so techinically your wife has pushed u to adultery and u know that leads straight to hell.

3.  BEst of luck, but dont be surprised when your little slut gives u an std, because u konw u aren't the only guy right?  i hope u know that.

@topic

Dating while married is wrong pure and simple,
 - Carry your wife go meet sex and marriage counsellor, this one that she's not giving your enough of it, nevertheless its still not reason for you to go out,
 - moreover sef are you a nympho man that the thing no dey do you, wen its not like you are hosting a daily show john sthomas


@finemocha

Yes is there something wrong with wanting a virgin, or, saint. (_{, dude hisses rolls eyes and throws a tantrum,} )

The learning curve is not that steep hence there aint no reason not to want a virgin, or have you ever seen a Toyota Prius with "second hand fuel injector and cylinder"

[prittigrrr]

Aren't you the same man who started the 'Affair Affair' thread about an affair with a lady you met on a plane? Man, how many women do you need? Did your everyday sex babe know you were married when you started up with her? I hope you will leave these women alone and seek counseling not just for the wife but for YOU. Dude, you are messed up and selfish.

[mikeansy]

its a free world

[Fiona0007]

@poster
you are a serial cheater. is your wife still with you? how come she doesn't know about you.

[mikeansy]

guys make una cool down

every man is always tempted to cheat

some do others dont

if anybody will tell me they have never looked at another woman lustfully even though they are married or in a relationship . . . .  then I will show them a big liar

[sistawoman]

I doubt if he is even married.

I doubt if he has even seen a real live in person puzzy.

[Am Alone]

make orna no mind Bob James ooo! Na funny Man  Lie Lie

[Orimili]

I'm quite sure that Bob James is a troll. Obviously any grown man should know the difference between right and wrong, especially dealing with relationships.

[Deebugluva]

What's wrong is some African women after getting wifed and having children tend to let themselves go and forget about sex as they believe it's not necessary. They feel at this stage men only need sex once or twice a month. What a bloody cheek and shame. If you've got some to get down with every now and then good on you. You ain't doing anything wrong in my books.

[ThiefOfHearts]

If it's good, I doubt the women would stop after marriage.

[Tonyblu]

Isnt this BOB JAMES confused or just plain daft or stupid?