Politics / Re: Fayemi To Receive NHRC Leadership Award by obowunmi(m): 6:44pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
blessmoss: Criminal He probably bribed them. Fayemi and his wife are clearing out Ekiti State's treasury. Evil people. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by obowunmi(m): 1:16pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Leshurr: We write threads and blogs about how men are this and that.. how "we are the prize" and are doing men a favour - yet, a few months into the average Nigerian relationship, women are already pressurizing their boyfriends to meet the family and propose to them.
We claim we are 'scared' of marriage and yet we join groups like Sisterhood Africa-Global on Facebook where thousands of women can be seen praying and fasting for a husband and posting thier wedding testimonies.
We tell each other that marriage is not an achievement yet the married ones shame others for not having a spouse.
We claim our traditional duties of cooking and cleaning is a shared responsibility but refuse to share the 'traditional' duty of financial responsibility with our husbands.
We insult men under the guise of feminism but cry blue water when they start to injest 'redpills' and decide to go thier own way.
Culture mandates that Nigerian women DIE because of PENIS. Where do you want them to get PENIS from if not from MEN. |
Politics / Re: Bukola And Toyin Saraki Celebrate 29th Wedding Anniversary (Throwback Photos) by obowunmi(m): 8:49am On Dec 08, 2020 |
FAKE marriage.
He has so many side chicks and young pretty baby girls. |
Romance / Re: My Neighbor's Wife by obowunmi(m): 10:43pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
happy200: I'm a very quiet person, and i always approach everyone gently.
I think one of my neighbor's wife has mistaken this approach for romance hence she has taken everything to another length.
Please how do i stop her from frequent knocking at my door, from begging for petty things, from always telling me that her husband is not around e.t.c.
Even if she has not pronounced to me what she wants, but i'm now so uncomfortable with all these but i don't know how to stop her. B.A.N.G her hard. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by obowunmi(m): 9:04pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Do everything you can afford. Years from now, it wouldn't matter anyway. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Prominent Businessman, Harry Akande Dies At 77 by obowunmi(m): 6:12pm On Dec 05, 2020 |
festacman: If rich people could hire other people to die for them, poor people would be making a wonderful living.
R.I.P Big Harry! You did your best and lived your dreams. |
Family / Re: Do You Consider Marriage & Children As Achievements? by obowunmi(m): 8:50pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Many people have children they cannot take care of. They have become beggars.
Many women have JOBLESS husbands. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Beautiful Rivers Girl With Natural Blue Eyes Set To Marry A Nairalander (Photos) by obowunmi(m): 12:22pm On Dec 03, 2020 |
Congratulations to the couple. |
Celebrities / Re: AY And Wife, Mabel Makun Celebrate 12th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by obowunmi(m): 3:02pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
F.A.K.E. marriage. |
Politics / Re: Bisi Fayemi Launches Obinrin Kete Women Empowerment Programme by obowunmi(m): 3:16pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
She is a KILLER and MURDERER.. |
Family / Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by obowunmi(m): 9:27pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted:
What? Finding a woman that will be beating and bullying you ? |
Family / Re: I Find Violent And Authoritative Women Very Attractive. by obowunmi(m): 10:50am On Nov 19, 2020 |
SweetHearted: I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.
When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.
So I was brought up under authoritative females.
This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.
I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.
I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.
I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.
So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.
I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.
The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.
Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.
If so, what do you make of it. How is it going so far? |
Romance / Re: I'm being pressured for marriage. I'm tired! by obowunmi(m): 8:19pm On Nov 09, 2020 |
SatisfyOG: This is becoming irritating, for crying out loud.
When I go visiting a family or old neighbours. They'll be asking questions like:
Why are you not married yet?
You are getting old oo!
Time is going, do fast!
And many other words like these...
I mean, will they be there to feed my family when I'm into the marriage? I don't know why Africa is so obsessed with marriage of a thing.
For crying out loud, I'll be just 29.
The numbers of married men disturbing me for financial assistance daily ehn. That's a turn off to get married soon.
Your opinion please.
Ignore. Live your OWN life on your OWN terms. Why? Because if you die, you die ALONE. |
Family / Re: What Goes Into Naming A Child by obowunmi(m): 9:27am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Ishilove:
My sister, that is the most common na. I asked a Nairalander what his username Omiobo meant and he told me"monkey water". Obowunmi says his name means "I feel like owning a monkey." No, Obowunmi is Puhssy love . Not Monkey. |
Romance / Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by obowunmi(m): 8:20am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Actually its the reverse. Most men are poor, unemployed and very BROKE.
Therefore, very insecure.
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Religion / Re: Virginity Vs Character by obowunmi(m): 12:15pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Marry a hoe. Enjoy your short life. |
Politics / Re: FG Seeks Private Funding To Close $2.5 Billion Electricity Gap by obowunmi(m): 6:23am On Oct 18, 2020 |
Which government officials daughter has a wedding coming up? Private funding for wetin? |
Romance / Re: My Ex Views My Stories And Status But Ignores My Messages by obowunmi(m): 8:13am On Oct 15, 2020 |
nwaimoroseyaho: When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend? MOVE ON honey. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Banky W: Ending SARS Is Just Step 1 by obowunmi(m): 12:39pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
tot:
Who made the stupid statement? It's you isn't it. Some of you have no sense, talking carelessly all over the place because you think it's just words. What's wrong with telling an impotent man to focus on getting his barren wife pregnant ? |
Celebrities / Re: Banky W: Ending SARS Is Just Step 1 by obowunmi(m): 12:31am On Oct 12, 2020 |
tot:
Meanwhile, you don't know what is waiting for you in your own future. I smh. Continue making careless statements. What is waiting for you in your own future ? Death ? |
Celebrities / Re: Banky W: Ending SARS Is Just Step 1 by obowunmi(m): 11:22pm On Oct 11, 2020 |
BankyW should focus on getting his wife pregnant and leave these matters for the younger ones. |
Celebrities / Re: BBNaija: Laycon Meets MC Oluomo by obowunmi(m): 11:35am On Oct 11, 2020 |
MC Oluomo, a killer and a murderer. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Erigga And Morenike Erhiga Traditional Wedding Pictures by obowunmi(m): 1:11pm On Oct 02, 2020 |
Their kids are going to be short. |
Family / Re: At 26 My Dad Still Flogs Me by obowunmi(m): 12:33am On Sep 30, 2020 |
situationreport: Please is there anyone else experiencing what I'm passing through now, because it's making me sad and depressed I can't believe my dad still whips me at my age.. I don't want to confront him because, he's still my father even though I feel gutted for his actions
Yesterday I went to watch liverpool vs Arsenal match in a viewing center, and came back late at night by 9:55 pm, As soon as I came in, he was still awake in the parlor, what he did next was to use the cain he hid to start whipping me...i think is because I'm still living with him, at my age with no meaningful contribution right now, that's why
I have no where to go to, It seems I'm now a burden to them in our house...because I 'm currently jobless now and unemployed for six months now, due to this pandemic... I was initially working in the hospitality industry as a waiter, but was laid off at the beginning of the covid-19 pandemic, ever since then things have gone from bad to worse for me..... I'm broke to hell at the moment
I'm seriously depressed, I just wish I could relocate far away and look for something else to do, and fix my life back, but no where to go, I don't have anyone to help... � May God forgive me if I can't bear this anymore....
Your father is a MAD man. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Governor Akeredolu's Projects And Achievements In Ondo State (photos) by obowunmi(m): 6:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Akeredolu is a thief and a scam. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Career / Re: Is It Right To Thank Your Boss After Receiving Your Salary? by obowunmi(m): 12:41pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
dosage150: Is it really necessary to thank your boss after paying (salary) you for job you did? Thank him for ? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by obowunmi(m): 7:42am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Divanona: Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.
We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant. The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school. I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby. I went through everything all by myself. Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days. He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.
now, I'm so confused with my life.
He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.
I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life. The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.
A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans. But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.
Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.
Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused. What would you advise? What should I do? I don't want to make more mistakes.
Sorry for my lengthy write-up
You know this man is USELESS. Why are you wasting your time ? 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Meet Julie Pinnick, NFF President Amaju Pinnick’s Wife by obowunmi(m): 8:32pm On Sep 28, 2020 |
She isn't his first wife. 1 Like |
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Religion / Re: Bishop David Oyedepo Celebrates His 66th Birthday Today (Photos) by obowunmi(m): 8:37am On Sep 27, 2020 |
I admire his boldness. |
Culture / Re: Alaafin of Oyo's Wife, Queen Abbey, Celebrates Her Birthday (Photos) by obowunmi(m): 5:01pm On Sep 26, 2020 |
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Celebrities / Re: 'Jackie Appiah Is Pregnant For George Weah, Liberia’s President'- Aba The Great by obowunmi(m): 10:54am On Sep 26, 2020 |
She's FAT not pregnant. |