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Family / Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by offshoreking: 3:25pm On Sep 12, 2021
Children of failed generation, your father trained you in school, he gave you all the support you needed till you are who you are today, he did it because of love and also it is his joy that you succeed in life. Now you are doing well, you are here sounding like a prodigal Son. Look if I were you, I will save that money and give my father to bounce back on his business, look you are doing well already, take the loan and be paying it small small, if he pays fine if not is your duty to lift him up as well.

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Family / Re: Single Life And Married Life, Which One Is More Enjoyable? by offshoreking: 8:31am On Jun 14, 2020
In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

Actually you are missing the point, marriage is for matured people, it come with allot of sacrifices that 90 or 95% of it gives you everlasting Joy. You maybe young from your twenties or early thirties but believe me time shall come when you will look back and found out that your life has been lonely all this while, forget about what you read online, marriage is sweeter when you are married to the right partner. Some of the ladies and men you see online crying about how marriage is bad, especially the ladies, those are the ones that didn’t use their greater opportunities in securing their marriage or accepting to get married on their prime time. Believe me once you are heating 40 years old plus you will attract mostly the already married man, looking for second wife or same men that had miss used their marriage prime time. I will advise you to be wise on what you wish for yourself. Meanwhile your friend you see doing all this, she is not complaining, she knew what she is into and the joy that come from it, haven’t to kiss and play with her own kids is everlasting. Lastly there’s this genuine confidence knowing that you have a husband and family of your own. Good luck dear, stay bless and live wisely.

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Family / Re: My Husband Is Being Insensitive, I Need An Advice by offshoreking: 3:12pm On Nov 07, 2019
Hello ma, please do not pick most of this advice you are getting here, most of them are single, but they will jump in any marriage topics, guys marriage issue are for only the married forks not single.

Now back to your question, I believe things are not like this when you get married to him, from experience woman easily get failed up when the union start to experience financial difficulties, is nature, i am not blaming you, man can be spending his money all his life in the marriage, like house rent and school fees, but any day the wife paid for one this from that day the respect for the man start going down, almost 90 % of Nigeria lady have this same problem.
I believe the project your husband started it, and you supporting him now, and also the business you are doing I believe he started it for you.
This is the difficult time, you should be able to think about the pass and how good he have been to you, so think about those positive time, don’t use this present situation To judge, the future is pregnant, so be careful how you treat him now.

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Nairaland / General / Best Music, Prayer By Wole DSB. by offshoreking: 8:46am On Aug 17, 2018
Lovely Music for everyone.. 'Prayer' by Wolè Dsb Amazing music, Kindly SHARE

Short Biography Of Wole DSB Tolulope Oluwaferanmi Oduwole popularly known as Wole DSB aka (don’t stop believing) Hail from Ondo State and he was born in Lagos to the family of Mr. & Mrs. Oduwole. He is a talented singer, songwriter and performer. He started his singing career at age 16 and he started with a Fuji music. Born in August 26th 1990. He signed to Special Recordz He dropped his first single with Special record titled PRAYER and the video was directed by CK.

Prayer Lyrics By Wole DSB
(INTRO) Yeh yeh... Owo Kendo Special Hi...WoleTide na ni Oh na oh na na....yeh yeh StarB Vegaz leleyi FUNKY

(CHORUS) Osi se kosi ere Ki Olorun maje kari Ati Owo motor kode le Olorun maje kari Tori aiye buru Wole Omo eyan le o Wonko fe ki oni se jere o Won kofe ka ko ere oko dele Shebi them wish make we kosi konga God don strike dem like a thunder From January to December
Wherever we go we go come back As we invest money We go make am o Yeh yeh na my prayer Prayer for you Prayer for me Prayer for everybody o Yeh yeh...

(VERSE 1) Baba give me a long live o I said make I leave a good o Baba give me a good wife o Oh na oh na na Tori oluwa lo n somi Moni moni baba God lo n bo mi Anyway I go he dey watch over me Even at night e dey protect me yeh yeh Baba bless me In the presence of my enemy Make I make money Make I bless my family All my workers Make I pay their salary Make I make my way No matter the economy yeh yeh

REPEAT CHORUS

(VERSE 2) Make e better for everybody Shebi that’s my prayer As you dey work Se you go chop
As you dey buy Se you go sell Alekun owo Alekun oro Owo nofi jaiye Owo nofi ra ile Baba God jo wo o majeki won je mi ma ye Aiye n dun life dey sweet If na lie make you ask dj sees X2

REPEAT CHORUS TILL FADE (OUTRO) It’s STG Kendo Special.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSxLLmQcxU8

Family / Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by offshoreking: 11:59pm On Jul 14, 2018
Unmarried people shouldn’t give advice to couples. Women always feel with pride and ego if they knew they have something you want. We didn’t know what cost the miss understanding, its only does that knows the details we give you cool and perfect advice. Believe me, you will never get any maturerd answer from this forum. The forum is filled with single men and woman, under 30. So i will advise you to meet some married couples and give them the full details of what happen. Remain bless.
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: "You Have Changed” - Miracle To Nina As They Quarrel Over Tobi & Alex by offshoreking: 5:30pm On Apr 20, 2018
Tobi is not a real man. That guy is a real gossiper. I wonder how man can gossip like woman. Nawa ooooo.
Business / Re: The War Between GTBank And Innoson Motors Explained By Adeyanju Deji by offshoreking: 5:07pm On Dec 19, 2017
admax:
I would take anything said by politically exposed person like this guy and Reno with a pinch of salt.

What concerns this guy and Innosson if it's not politically influenced? oh, he love Innosson shey?

Where is the proof of all this nonsense he is saying?

At the risk of you thinking I support any political party in Nigeria, there is no difference between politicians in APC or PDP, both has rogues and thieves.

Simple Google search would have help you to get the fact, but because of your hatred, you ignore all fact and focus on you big empty head.

https://www.premiumtimesng.com/promoted/248936-innoson-vs-gtbank-no-application-issuance-bench-warrant-innocent-chukwuma.html
Family / Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by offshoreking: 10:39pm On Oct 10, 2017
These are the reason why some ladies are going astray because of this nonsense. Bet me all the people here talking trash can do anything to answer mans name, they will come online to deceive the others. Let me answer your question. Is only when the table turn around, you can go to mans family and ask your man family for his hand in marriage then you can talk of been the head of union. As far as is the man that got married to you, you will remain under him till una separate, man is the head of every family irrespective of the situation.

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Celebrities / Re: Flavour Celebrates Culture With Shirtless Photos by offshoreking: 11:49am On Nov 08, 2016
Igbo ndi be ayi mmammanuooo. the reason ladies can't do without igbo guys.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Thailand Police And Military Beat Up Nigeria Counsellor by offshoreking: 1:21am On Apr 04, 2016
hungryboy:
Those Asians are sometimes more racist than even Caucasians,but
Wetin our people dey go find for Thailand nah?,


As of now Thailand is far better than Nigeria in terms of development, currently no 1 or 2 tourist destination in the whole World.
Nairaland / General / Re: Thailand Police And Military Beat Up Nigeria Counsellor by offshoreking: 1:17am On Apr 04, 2016
KashyBaby:
Where u in Thailand Sir?



I visit bankok once in a while ... cool


Bangkok.
Nairaland / General / Thailand Police And Military Beat Up Nigeria Counsellor by offshoreking: 3:30pm On Apr 03, 2016
Happy Sunday to u guys! Is quite sad and annoying for all of us that based here in Thailand.Today our counsellor was beat up and arrested by Thailand military and police while worshipping God right inside the church. We experience this kind of mess often,even when we reported to the embassy nothing will be done .This is really a very big insult and embarrassing to our country for Thailand police to disgrace our counsellor by beating him up publicly,it's very painful. Right now our counsellor is in the hospital. Really painful.
Properties / Re: Is Tejuosho Market Yaba A Waste? by offshoreking: 7:16pm On Jan 03, 2016
Why won't it be a waste? That land is coursed, the people you set their shop on fire and chess them away in the name of building a morden market, their cry had reached God. that place will forever be a waste.
Romance / Re: Wow! This Nigerian Couple Broke All Rules In Lagos Beach Wedding (photos) by offshoreking: 8:49pm On Sep 16, 2015
You really can't tell me that this couple will have the same certificate with me, I spent millions of naira with stress and running around on it, and u are telling me that this couple will be issued the same certificate, Mba.
Crime / Re: Travails Of Siblings Raped By Their Dad For 3years (photo) by offshoreking: 7:45am On Sep 12, 2015
Immediately i saw the title, i already knew the tribe that possess the spirit.
Politics / Re: Ukraine Confirms Export Of Weapons To Nigeria In Fight Against Boko Haram (Pic) by offshoreking: 3:06pm On Jul 07, 2015
Is it the same Ukrain that never defeat their own backyard rabels that is selling weapons to Nigeria? We don sufa. baba na real one Chance.
Nairaland / General / The Impunity Of Kidnapers With The Name Of Sars, In Ukuzu Anambra State. by offshoreking: 9:20am On May 18, 2015
Dear pals, before I erase this story from my memory, I wish to share it with you guys, who knows, it may get to the higher authority to enable them do something about it.
The impunity of kidnapers with the name of SARS, (Special Anti Rubbery Squad) IN UKUZU ANAMBRA STATE. This happened January this year, my brother who base outside the country also, he was in the east raping Village and Owerri almost every day. On January, he was in a popular joint in Owerri with friends, after enjoying himself, set out with a friend who will drive him to his hotel, they started living from the joint area, before he could know it, more than 6 men with guns rush him, and started forcing him out his friend car to put him inside their own car but he insisted, and fort back, that who are they and where are they taking him to, they refuse to respond and started beating him, luckily as God may have it, they now bring my brother friend out and handcuff him force my brother at the back of his friend car with his friend and 4 of them jump inside the car and drove off, my brother hoping that they will take him to Owerri as they later claim that they are Sars, meanwhile when all this is happening they were shooting on the air outside that joint when my brother insisted that he most know who they are and where they are taking him too. They took him to Ukuzu Sars office, my brother narrated how this place look like, in his word, that place is a slaughter house, they kill men like rat there, he was afraid of everything, people inside told him that no one there is safe, they can kill anyone anytime they like.

Meanwhile, I use to talk with my brother always, I tried his number that evening he didn’t pick and he didn’t call back unusual of him, even if he went to club as soon as he return he will call back and said Onyem, I go Kwanangida, means clubbing, when it was in the morning I call again no picking send text nothing, I now call our family members and ask them if they have heard from him, they said no they are trying his number also no picking, one of our brother have to start going to owerri immediately, some of the friends that were with him now call and said the people said they are SARS, our family started searching for him in all the SARS Office in Owerri and police station, nothing, no report about him in all the Sars and Police office in Owerri, calls started going from here and there, someone now said we should try Ukuzu Office, they are the people that can do such thing, my brothers set out to Ukuzu in Anambra state, they went there, they didn’t allow them in, they now ask officers around, they said yes my brother with his friend is in their custody, later they allow them in, but they said they can only see my brothers friend, they have to see my brother friend, later that day they bail my brother friend, he now narrated how everything happened.

We started making some contact to know what my brother did, they said my brother is a Kidnapper, he kidnaper one Chuka, we told them is not possible, my brother just came back to Nigeria in Xmas time, loaded, how can it be true, luckily they allow our family to see him, they went inside and see him, he started saying that Chuka, whom he knows set him up, told this people that he kidnaper him, the Chuka has contact there, in that Ukuzu Sars office, they said my brother case is a kidnapping case, no go area, we told them to charge him to court if they are convince that he is. Meanwhile they knew what they are doing. this Chuka, that claim my brother kidnap him, his brother is a friend to my brother, they had business together, and he was owning my brother, his money now got into my brothers hand my brother told him that they will counterbalance he did and took the money he is owning him, give him the remaining balance, but the brother said no, that the money is chuka’s money that he should give him the complete money, he will then pay him later, before then he had been owning my brother for months, my brother told him no, he can’t accept that, he went and told chuka that my brother seize his money, all this is happening outside the country, Chuka called my brother and my brother told him that his brother is owning him for very long time and luckily for him his brother money fall into his hand, now he had remove the money his brother is owning him and balance his brother the remaining, Chuka said no, the money is his, that my brother should return it, my brother told him, he have no business with him at all that he had finalize business with the person he has business with, he should hold his brother responsible for his money.

The story now started coming out, the person in Charge of the UKUZU SARS Office, his name is Okafor, said my Brothers should wait for the Chuka to come, Chuka came, they brought my brother out, and the story started changing, not kidnapping again it’s a business misunderstanding, they started telling my brother to pay the guy the money, my brother told them there that he is not owning the guy, explain how everything went, because of his contact they don’t want to know the truth, they started telling my brother that he will pay all the money, my brother told them that he is not going to pay anything to the guy because he is not owning him, the following day, we made contact with one of our brother friend who is a Military Cornel, he came to the station and got my brother released.

They told him to come for report the next week, he went there for report, the arrested him again, that he most pay some money, my brother been he don’t want to stay there again he have to cough out a million Naira, and they release him, the next day he went to Umuahia straight, and mate the AIG in charge of zoon 9 Umuahia, and explain to him what happen to him in the hand of SARS, the man himself was so angry, that so many report of that kind had been coming in the same UKUZU, he started telling my brother that he have had same report before many occasion, the same UKUZU, and also the same person, name Okafor, but in the other case they kill the guy, the family didn’t even know that their son is been killed by this evil men of SARS, that he personally made a report to Abuja regarding the level of crime committed by this UKUZU SARS office in Ananbra.

If not for God my brother would have been history by now, what safe my brother was his friend, their mission was to kill him, but he was not with his car and the friend also because they forth back they have to kidnap the 2 of them, without that it would have been only my brother they will kidnap, and they will execute their mission, couple with the plate number of the car the friend is driving, is from Imo State Government, this is what safe my brother’s life on that faithful day, so many life had been wasted by this UKUZU SARS office in Anambra State. I quickly remembered EZU river corpse, this is what happen, the SARS kill this people, this is how they waste peoples life, someone should do something about it, this man name Okafor have many blood on his hand, the SARS office in UKUZU is a slaughter house, please the government should do something about it urgently.
Please kindly over look my bad English. Thanks.
Crime / Re: Okwudili Ayotanze To Be Executed In Indonesia For Drug Smuggling by offshoreking: 9:08am On Mar 25, 2015
EcoTerror:
I don't courier drugs

And u don't carry drugs, that makes you better than him? Grow up man, God would have punish you for little sin of urs but instead he allow u to live so that you can see reason to change and be a better person. So when u see another person going down for his/her sin, what should come into your mind, is ur own sin, what if u are to go down by your sin? We are all sinners in one way or the other.

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 9:07pm On Mar 20, 2015
scholarteam:
sorry Op.
But you didn't tell us the medicine the supposed pharmacist gave you sir.I won't be surprised if it is just folic acid and multivitamins supplements . At least if you know the drug, you will have a chance to eliminate all likely cases of adverse drug reactions if it was what happened.
Nigerian health professionals are always ridiculing one another before patients who care less about the rivalry in the health sector.


he first drug she took 2 times one tablet each is ( Coarcem B/F 80/480 Milligram, ) she took it in the night and morning the next day before we went to the doctor.
Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 8:43pm On Mar 20, 2015
delishpot:
Sorry OP. Hope your wife gets better soon. the doctor saying scan should show result of early pregnancy, what kind if scaning equipment does he have? Yes new exprnsive machines can show pregnancy of a few weeks as soon as the heart starts beating and its done vaginaly too. I doubt its that type they did for your wife.
Na wa. If it makes you feel better sha, we lost 4 pregnancies before we got out 2 kids And one was caused by a "doctor" too. The first successful pregnancy was almost destroyed by a nurse who gave the wrong prescription to my wife. Luckliy for me, I insisted she called her doctor to be sure cos on the leaflet they said not to be taken by pregnant women. The doctor said hell Nooo, hope you did not take it? and asked to bring it back to the hospital. She was given another persons meds( Nowadays we ask the doctor the name of the medication before leaving his office just incase nurse gives us the wrong stuff ). Its well. Wishing you guys twins in future.

NB, misscariages could happen spontenously too. Sometimes the body may sense some problem with tge fetus and expell it. At least that was what our doctors told us then. Next time sha, you and wifey should prepare her body before TTC. she should sleep under net and eat healthy, that way the early days of her pregnancy will happen a bit more peaceful. All women who are TTC should do so too.




Thanks bro, i sincerely appreciate.

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 8:36pm On Mar 20, 2015
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No you are totally wrong here, no good doctor will give quinine to a pregnant woman, yes Malaria it work perfectly but once there is pregnancy, you don't have to use quinine, i spoke with few doctors after the incident.
Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 8:32pm On Mar 20, 2015
holyokoto:
[s]The next day came, my wife was weak to go to scan, we went and took another injection, [/s] undecided

Your wife was too weak to go for a scan but can go for treatment. By the way we don't know the over sea you are before coming to Nigeria including the silence on your village
.


Where i came back from doesn't matter. Yes my wife was so weak, because we have to go far distance for the scan, beside scan cannot dictate early pregnancy, scan can only get from 6 weeks upwards, is after the incident i now found out. So it was wrong for him advice us to go for scan.
Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 8:25pm On Mar 20, 2015
FlirtyKaren:


Hello dear OffshoreKing,

Can i share your story on a blog?


May i know your blog? sure you are free to share it.
Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 10:58am On Mar 20, 2015
sammyyoung2:
Waoh.......so sorry bro, I read it all. Thanks for giving valid details on drugs and address. Don't worry, i understand ur plight coz i just got mysef a boy 8months ago and by His grace, ur baby will come very soon.

U can say AMEN to that.


Amen. Thanks for your concern, hope your boy is doing well?

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 11:06pm On Mar 19, 2015
manmustwac:
I read the whole story and am so sorry for your loss. When my wife went for check up during her pregnancy the hospital was in oyinlola close off okota palace way. Which is just a stone throw from our compound. Am just thinking am so grateful she didn't go to that nearby hospital with its quack doctor

Thanks bro. That's great, hope she is doing great now? always make sure on the hospital before taking ur wife or any member of your family there, some of the doctors don't know what they are into, one have to be very careful on the choice of hospital he/she visit.

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 9:26pm On Mar 19, 2015
Queen1:
Op biko, are you in anyway related to Amos Tutuola? Because as I read through your post the only thing that came to my mind was 'Forest of a thousand demons'.


Not at all. Why do you think so?

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 6:59pm On Mar 19, 2015
doctokwus:

-In all fairness, there is no way your wife's sister cud have known d injection she was given without she being there herself,so its curious how she concluded it was quinine.
-Without trying to excuse d Hosp,its not usual for a dr to prescribe quinine for early pregnancies knowing d risk,IF he did,it wasn't d proper thing.
-Coartem which ur wife took earlier from it post above,its also not usually given in early pregnancy because of d same risks.
-Sometimes for no fault of anyone women have been known to lose very early pregnancies due to other factors.
Be that as it may,hope us wife is now ok.Its also advisable she dies another scan to be sure there is 'nothing left inside her'.
In summary,any of d parties along d line cud have been wrong and each one along d line cud also have had no fault.
P.S.how many days was she given d injection in question?


Thanks for your advice and concern. Meanwhile the sister wasn't the one that said the doctor gave my wife Quinine, it was my wife, the injection was too painful for her, she now ask the nurse the kind of medicine that is so painful like that, the nurse told her that it's quinine that it's always painful, she now told the nurse that quinine is not good in her body, the nurse said it cure Malaria very well. 2 times, on the second night of the injection, after taking the injection about 5 or 6 hours later she lost the baby. Yea she is fine now, but i will also advice her to go for scan, she is currently seeing her first period after the incident.

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Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 3:45pm On Mar 19, 2015
doctokwus:
U didn't mention the names of d drug your wife got from d pharmacist,that she was taking before she saw d doctor.
Can u provide dis information and indeed any all other drugs or supplements she took b4 d miscarriage?
Indeed quinine if u are sure is d name of d injection she was given is not adviced,particularly d first 3mths of pregnancy,but to know d culprit u have to have a good history of all she took.


The first drug she took 2 times one tablet each is ( Coarcem B/F 80/480 Milligram, ) she took it in the night and morning the next day before we visited the doctor. Meanwhile she haven't been taking any medication, because she was too cautious of the pregnancy. Yes that is what her sister that is nurse said, The doctor gave her quinine, which she condemn and also said the quinine, the row one especially is too strong for a pregnant woman.
Health / Re: My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 2:37pm On Mar 19, 2015
Thanks.


Merlissa:
So Sad

It is well

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Health / My Wife Lost Her Pregnancy In The Hand Of Qauck Doctor by offshoreking: 2:25pm On Mar 19, 2015
Hi everyone, I just want to share with your guys my personal experience in my 2 months visit to my country Nigeria last year 2014, I was so happy because I will be coming back home in December time to get married to the love of my life, and also it been more than a decade I celebrated xmass in my village, not that I’m not coming home, but all had been out off festive period, This time knowing well that I had miss celebrating xmass in my village, I had to fix my wedding/traditional marriage during the festive period to be able to have all my people and good friends around, my reason also been that I don’t base in Nigeria festive period is when I will have most of my friends around from outside the country. It was a day to behold, first week of January, all fun, in traditional way, everyone was around even some of my friends I didn’t remember to invite all came and our wedding automatically became the talk of the town, I enjoy myself and my pretty wife so happy too. My wedding came and gone, everything was normal, we went back to Lagos where we have apartment, we live and enjoyed our self, my mind was I will do everything possible to score goal before going back.

Good news after few week maybe one month my wife start complaining the sign of pregnancy, I was so excited, my mind was flying, as a young couple, and also someone that is not around, at list my wife is loaded before 9 months we will have our first child, I was so happy, because already my friends had been calling saying guy try and score goal before u come back oooo, lol, I will laugh it off, I started thanking God because this is how I had planed it from the beginning, and it work for me perfectly, we were so happy, we haven’t gone to lab but she knows her body and she knew very well that she had conceived, I told her we should go to lab she said I shouldn’t worry, we will but later time.
Few days letter, bad day came, she was seriously ill, after taking some isi ewu, it woke up all the malaria in her body, that night was so bad, in the morning I took her to lab and the man confirm that she is pregnant and also have Malaria + and typhoid, the man advice us to meet a doctor, that we shouldn’t buy any drugs yet till we meet a doctor, and her sister is very good nurse working with one of the biggest hospital in Island, Lagos. I wanted to take my wife to her, because she had been treating her all her life, but she was on morning shift, I couldn’t wait for the next day, my wife was totally down, my brother now told me that there is a good hospital nearby, where he normally go for treatment beside the man study in German, I was kind of wow, that will be nice, he quickly took us there, the place was not pleasing to me, but I said ok, he should treat my wife for now maybe if she is not better in 2 days time I will take her to her sister place.

We quickly meet the doctor, I showed him the medicine my wife had been taking, I got it from a friend who have a pharmacy, he said it’s good for pregnant woman till I meet a doctor, that was when I was thinking to wait till next day to take my wife to her sister who understand her body very well and also knows more. I showed the doctor the drug, he condemn the drug, but he said he will not condemn a pharmacist because they doesn’t know much, I said inside me Thank God that I came here, the doctor actually knows what he is doing, I was happy, all my fear left, I said to myself my wife is in a good hand. He wrote something and gave to the nurse who called my wife and gave her injection and also some pill to be taking, we left, he told us to be coming for injection and also we should go to scan. The next day came, my wife was weak to go to scan, we went and took another injection, this period clock is ticking go back to your base and my wife who is in her final year outside too, they had resume, so we are waiting for her to feel more better so that we will leave at the same time. She was complaining to me that the injection is paining her so much, not like the one her sister normally give to her, that evening of the second day, we went to the hospital, and the mean nurse again gave her another injection we left, we played and slept, I was in deep sleep, I heard someone crying, she been calling me to wake up, I woke up, she was crying, I ask her what happen, she said blood, my mind quickly flash I said inside me ohh my God Miscarriage, I didn’t want to let her notice how bad I felt, I ask her what happen, she explain to me, I told her she shouldn’t worry all will be fine, she should dress up immediately we are going to the hospital, I quickly dress up my car key and we walk down stairs to my car and drove to the hospital, met the same mean nurse on the gate, after kicking the gate several times, I told her what we are experiencing, she didn’t even show any sign of pity nor sorry in her face, she just said doctor is sleeping that we should go and come back in the morning, I said inside me which type of human is this, I didn’t want to show any sign of anger, because that will result my wife feeling bad more, she had been crying none stop, I told the nurse ok, we left back home.

Morning came we went back there, the doctor said where is the scan, I told him that we didn’t get it, he said we should go and get it, we went to the scan, the scan saw nothing, we took it to him, he was cancelling us that there was no baby that my wife was not pregnant, I was so shock and surprise, I asked him but the lab show pregnancy positive, he said forget about all this lab people, that the scan is what will capture everything in the womb, I thought to myself, what would I do, I was so angry inside me, because I knew already what the man was trying to do, my wife was devastated, my wife asked the man that she haven’t miss her period like that before and all her body change completely that she knew that she is pregnant, the man said it can happen sometimes, that ur period may come late, we had no other choice than to leave, my wife was crying, she knew that she is pregnant and this man had given her injection which make her lose the baby now the man is saying bullshit, I turn into cancelling, telling her many things, that she shouldn’t worry that the doctor had confirm it that is not baby, I’m saying all this to make her feel more better, because all through this while she had been crying. She called her sister and explain to her what happen, Her sister told us to come, she have a small hospital in her place, we left to her sister place, immediately she saw my wife, she said the baby is out but she knew already by her sisters look that she is pregnant, she start cancelling her telling her all kinds of thing, for her to stop crying that she is ok, because my wife was even afraid if something is wrong in her body, she now told her that she will take her blood now for pregnancy test, that the baby is out but her blood will still show positive, she took the blood and run the test it became positive, she now ask my wife which injection the doctor gave her, my wife said quinine, row one, I don’t know if I got the spelling right, the sister was so furious, asking us didn’t we show the doctor the lab result, we said we did, she said the man is a beast that knows nothing, she was angry, I became angry too, more that if I get the man that time it would result to another thing, now my spirit was flying, you most arrest that beast called doctor, the sister said if we didn’t come to her it would have been a future disaster, because medicine have to be give to my wife to flush out the womb, but the doctor didn’t do it because he is protecting his ass. I was so disappointed, I didn’t know what to think of, remaining few days before I leave and my wife to her school has resume, thinking of what to do to the doctor, my wife told me to let go, that we don’t have much time and I know how Nigeria police works, if we are around now, we would have arrest him and charge the case to court immediately, I have no other option than to let it go. Meanwhile the scan the man was talking about, the sister told us that before pregnancy will show on scan it will be up to 6 weeks, and for our calculation the pregnancy is not even up to that.

I was thinking about my friends, some friends and family member had called already I told them my wife is not feeling fine they started congratulating me already that it’s a good illness, i look up and down, and said to myself God knows the best, in everything I do in this world Godwin. We left few days later, the same day. I just want everyone to be away of the type hospital he or she visit in Nigeria. Meanwhile the name of the hospital is Sonean Hospital Ago Palace way Okota, I guess no 31 Okota, Lagos Nigeria. The street opposite Nice touch dry cleaner.
Thanks for reading,
and please pardon me for the mistakes,
God bless you all.

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