You already know it's wrong to go down on a lady/woman before marriage (both morally and otherwise).
Also, why diving raw when you are not ready for pregnancy, not minding the fact that you know she didn't meet your marrital spec. You should have learnt your lesson by now.
As of her sisters disturbing you, just block their line and ensure you have evidence for all that happens in case of future...
She already knows you are not responsible:
1. that is why she call her mother immediately she came to you.
2. She refused to do the scan because it will reveal the truth.

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Ninobraw:
I .
Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

Well, you are very fortunate to have her
1. Love her for real
2. Trust her and help in building her future.
3. Keep your home intact, avoid third party
4. Use the remaining money to buy land in her name (it will soon appreciate him value) OR anything that will advance her business.
5. Or fixed the money in your joint account if there's any.
6. Get her the car of her dream if she want it so.

TomorrowToday:


Please how long did it take before they verified your account. I haven't gotten a response from them since I sent the ID they required for the verification.

I can't really say, but I will advice once is going towards two weeks send them email to enquire about your verification and any other issues (my opinion the though). Thanks

TomorrowToday:
Secondly, pls permit me to ask this here.

Has anyone here successfully ordered and received anything from Wish Online Shop (wish.com).

I saw a gadget selling at a very good price there with good reviews from US customers and I felt confident to order an item from the site.

On the payment page, after inputing my card details I was told, my account was placed on hold pending when my card details will be confirmed so as to protect my account from fraud. They asked I send a copy of my ID showing only my name and photo which I have and it's over 3 days now yet am still unable to pay with the card.

Pls if you have shopped on Wish, did you pass through this stage or how were you able to shop with your card?

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Yes, they do that to verify cards, I read it on a website where someone was given out info on how to shop on wish.com. Presently, am expecting some items from them (first time shoper though).

Medically Six (6) weeks.

VargasVee:


And how do you know that


Do not quote me if you have nothing reasonable to put in. Now reread what I posted, and slowly

Is like you don't understand my statement, you said if her claim is actually true she need to back out.. .And that is what am confirming. No abuse intention pls.. ..

VargasVee:
First off, he's your fiancé not your fiancée.

How did you confirm she was his niece? Maybe they both have been telling lies. Now, if this actually true then you need to stay clear of that guy, anyone that can commit incest can do anything. If the devil can push him to do such then trust the same devil to push him to even worse things.

That is it sister, think well please! .

AntiWailer:
My sister.


Run for ur dear life.


If he sleeps with his niece, sleeping with your sister and your family members or house maid would be nothing.


God exposed them so u can run. Use your head.



Runnnn

Well said, pls flee for your dear life!.

Good morning, to those that had upgraded to Android 6.0. Is there anyway of changing this phone's imei number, if there's pls help me out.

Oluwajomiloju20:
pen house for rent at olosun area close to akala express and obadanjo hatchery for more info call 08020917141

How far is the farm location to new garage and farm capacity?. Thanks

teeboo:
Still available

I will check back.... I got your mail.

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Where is your farm located?.

hisdon:


Thank you Oxytocin. They are doing well. @ 23 weeks now, 82%

To God be the glory, I wish you good success. And make sure you maintain them now that they are doing well.
Success.

hisdon:


I give them 19 kg everyday. All the vaccines are up to date.

If all vaccines are up to date, the look inward, how about the environment i.e their litters. Personally, I will suggest you place them on antibiotics + vitamins (any antibiotic drug that have multivitamin in it) for some days.

hisdon:
I really appreciate what is going on here. I have 160 layers at 19 weeks they started laying. They are 22 weeks today and their out put is 50%. Is there anything that I need to do for improvement.i am using hybrid feed. thanks for you respond.

How many kg of feed are you given them, is the neccessary vaccine given (Lasota ) and what of deworming? .

Mr. Frank please can i get one also.
dam4wummy or anyone else who had gotten it can also help.

dammy902@gmail.com.
Thanks in anticipation.

I all encourage you to forgive her with all your heart. Then let her go so that later in life whenever you travel you won't have double mind on what had transpire between her and your neighbour. Likewise, confide in one of the family member who can keep sicret, by that he or she can speak your mind.

blank:
Here goes. The key was to have absolute trust. First of all, we have a joint account and then we have individual accounts whilst still being signatories to each others account. Thus, anyone can transfer or withdraw from any account. We started this from when we started dating so we kinda had a rhythm by the time we were getting married. He prepares the annual budget while i do the monthly budget and try to make sure it is adhered to.



For the parts you didn't mention, I ensure he spends at least 10% of his monthly income on himself. If not he can wear rags just so that he can have something to give out. And you know for his position, he needs to maintain some semblance of affluence. As for me, he buys me stuff cos i find it hard buying expensive things for myself. I remember as a student, the most expensive shoe i had was the one he bought for me. I used to save my spending money to buy now useless shares.

For my kids, i do most of the buying for them cos he is just out of his league on that one and also foodstuff. Also, i ensure I pay the nanny myself so that they know i am their employer, lol. Importantly, if any request for assistance is to be paid, it is usually from the other spouse's account just a way of us letting you know that the person is aware. This is to avoid people sneaking around thinking they are playing on someone's intelligence. The badside of that is that if someone is not given, they tend to think it cos of the other spouse.

We have people we support monthly and that comes out of my account. Don't know why we just defaulted to this but it is what it is. Hope i didn't bore anyone.

... Huuum, thanks noted!. God bless u

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Dear Mrs Ola, I am glad you are on a path of betterment of your marriage's sexual health rather than contemplating an extra-marital affair. I hope you would make your husband see reason with some advice I would be putting up here. Money and Sex issues and not even lack of love top the reasons marriages fail followed third by decisions on children.

Sex in marriage is a fundamental duty of both partners in marriage to one another and as the almighty has put it a force of bonding as such that the great apostle paul mentioned that it could make a man soul clung to a prostitute. Why not have let that soul-tie exist within a holy matrimony. For Mrs Ola to have joined the #notamperingtillmarried I really commend her and I say do not be discouraged by the disapointment of low sex explosion you have always believed in while still holding out.

Operation Seduce Mr Ola

An appropriate solution is needed for a properly identified problem cause.

Case 1: Mr Ola Really Believes Sexual Contact Is A Sin

Forgive us for this sin we are about to commit (Seriously some do this!)

1Co 7:1 Now, to deal with the matters you wrote about. A man does well not to marry.
1Co 7:2 But because there is so much immorality, every man should have his own wife, and every woman should have her own husband.
1Co 7:3 A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other's needs.
1Co 7:4 A wife is not the master of her own body, but her husband is; in the same way a husband is not the master of his own body, but his wife is.
1Co 7:5 Do not deny yourselves to each other, unless you first agree to do so for a while in order to spend your time in prayer; but then resume normal marital relations. In this way you will be kept from giving in to Satan's temptation because of your lack of self-control.

- Good News Bible

You guys are married and hence should fulfil each other's sexual needs which paul calls normal marriage relations. If it was just for kids modern science can get the sperm and egg lab built to produce a baby but as a deterrent to immorality paul recommended marriage and as being human it is an appetite like food that needs to be met hence the hunger for it every once in a while.

Playing the "You have a Jezebel spirit card" is wrong as having sex regularly is normal.

How regular? I remember a thread https://www.nairaland.com/2070153/sex-marriage-pastor-taiwo-odukoya by lalasticlala where it was mentioned that lack of enough sex in marriage can have grievous consequences. A 2-3 times per week is on the average. Some go like once a week and some more for like once or twice per day (guess they have no need chasing money to have that amount of time - why rich people have better sex).

Rather the prayer point should be for Mr Ola to have a higher sex drive and over time a threshold would be reached for the two of you in between.

Case 2: Physical Trauma

a: Lack of body stamina to carry through the process hence leaving him well spent and stressed out.
Let him have revitalizers to regain back his strenght. Don't forget lots of milk

b: Abbrasions from friction causing soreness
Usually a woman's complaint which can be phased out with proper lubrication. Prior to sex, Mrs Ola should consume lots of waterlike an hour or so for the body to produce lubricating fluid required for sex and with good pre-intimacy, the vagina should produce abundant. Some women however still cannot produce adequately (no two people are the same anyways) enough or some other reason or just to play safe, secondary lubricants can be used. E.g your local chemist should have Lubrica or KY Jelly. Our ever popular olive oil like Goya used by church goers as anointing oil is cheaply available and perfectly safe - probably your most common choice (Lubricate the penis shaft). Oil or oil-based lubricants however break latex condoms so keep note to check the contents and switch to water-based lubricants if you are to use a latex condom.

Case 3: Psycological Trauma

Was Mr Ola abused as a kid, did he see something in the past that put him off? You need to have a heart tete-a-tete with him and let him pour out his soul to you.

Alternatively: You Can Masturbate Yourself To Climax

Nowhere in the bible is masturbation called a sin. The misleading is caused by what some call the sin of Onan

Gen 38:8 And Judah said to Onan, Go in to your brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to your brother.
Gen 38:9 And Onan knew that the seed would not be his. And it happened when he went in to his brother's wife, t[b]hat he spilled on the ground, not giving seed to his brother[/b].
Gen 38:10 And what he did was evil in the eyes of Jehovah. Therefore He killed him also.
- Good News Bible

Onan was killed by God for having sex with his l

God have mercy o!. Imagine number of job seekers who might have fell into their hand. We shall not be use to ballance evil people account. IJN, LET SHINE OUR EYES O!.

dominique: So first, second and third came from one group. Has this ever happened before. Fantastic eaglets

I don't think so.

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donsteady: our keeper is good

YES

CFCfan: FIFA has now credited the goal as an own goal.

Ok

rman: I don't care if he is under 17 or not, IHENACHO Should be drafted into the super eagles with immediate effect.

He is the most creative midfielder we have produced since OKOCHA retired.

Nice one