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Politics / Re: Makinde Announces Intention To Run For Second Term, Obtains PDP Nomination Form by philfrey08: 8:57pm On Apr 07, 2022
No wonder you are destroying all the roads without any plans in the name of construction.
Its indeed painful.
Security is 0%

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Celebrities / Re: Dj Cuppy Went On A Blind Date To Look For A Life Partner And Was Surprised by philfrey08: 6:31am On Oct 02, 2021
PapaNnamdi:
No white man will date an obese woman,
Dj corpid is obese
Nobody except broke ass niggas wants an obese lady as wife, ask Ned nwoko and oshiomole

You ARE VERY IGNORANT

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Politics / Re: Killings In Igboland: Disband ESN Killers Now— Ohanaeze To IPOB by philfrey08: 6:19am On Oct 02, 2021
loveth360:
We know the recent destruction and killing of civilians like Mr Akunyili is to paint ESN black.Because they have been working pretty well in stopping Fulani herdsmen terrorist in the whole East.


Now Fg have send their attacking dogs to come and say it in



But masses in East are not fooled.




If say i know any ESN,I will just support them in the little way i can.


Your stupidity knows no bounds

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Politics / Re: Killings In Igboland: Disband ESN Killers Now— Ohanaeze To IPOB by philfrey08: 6:18am On Oct 02, 2021
loveth360:
We know the recent destruction and killing of civilians like Mr Akunyili is to paint ESN black.Because they have been working pretty well in stopping Fulani herdsmen terrorist in the whole East.


Now Fg have send their attacking dogs to come and say it in words.

Your stupidity knows no bounds



But masses in East are not fooled.




If say i know any ESN,I will just support them in the little way i can.
Politics / Re: Anambra Joins Oil Producing States, To Benefit From 13% Derivation by philfrey08: 5:07pm On Sep 27, 2021
Furious1:
Anambra get boundary with Rivers State for Ndoni. Anambra has boundaries with, Rivers, Imo, Abia, Enugu, Kogi, Delta
Wow are you for real??
Politics / Re: Anambra Joins Oil Producing States, To Benefit From 13% Derivation by philfrey08: 3:08am On Sep 18, 2021
post=105368069:

Yes use your Google

You mean rivers state or river?
Cos maybe you should be the one using google

Anambra is bound by; Abia, Imo, Delta, Enugu and Kogi states.
Politics / Re: Anambra Joins Oil Producing States, To Benefit From 13% Derivation by philfrey08: 11:01pm On Aug 31, 2021
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Remember Anambra shares boundaries with Rivers and Delta state.

Rivers
Family / Re: My Sister Wants To Quit Her Young Marriage. by philfrey08: 7:25pm On Aug 25, 2021
2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

I totally understand you as a big bro to her.
You have to advise her to start working to take care og herself and her children. As long as the man isnt maltreating or beating her, she should stay put. She is the only one legally married to him. Noone else.
The other one isnt married to him. E go tire both of them.

Let her find something doing asap before things gets worse.
Technology Market / Re: I Need Laptop Recommendation I Am Confused by philfrey08: 9:46pm On Aug 10, 2021
[quote author=Rhaspody post=104645863]What's your budget?[/quote

350k
Technology Market / I Need Laptop Recommendation I Am Confused by philfrey08: 5:23pm On Aug 10, 2021
I want to go into professional photography.

I want to get a good laptop i would use for this purpose alongside video editing and if i have more time learn graphics design.

I need help.
There are lots of laptops out there with different specs… its gassing me out.

I need one that isn’t expensive but affordable and i can use for at least 5yrs.

The current dell i am using now is 8yrs this year and its still clean but windows7.

Help me recommend
Romance / Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by philfrey08: 1:53am On Jun 24, 2021
mugnmuffin:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, i.e acknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.

Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.

At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...

So Catholics are not Christains?

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Politics / Re: Court Orders Nigerian Government To Pay Rivers, Akwa Ibom ₦1.4 Trillion by philfrey08: 5:52am On Jun 23, 2021
I think say dem de strike
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is Being An Introvert A Turnoff To Nigerian Employers? by philfrey08: 5:14pm On Jun 19, 2021
TooMuchStuff:
They are often the movers and shakers of any society. The Brains, jurists, composers, researchers, programmers, clergy, Medics, intelligences, business gurus, Royals etc

They rule the world with ease cos of excess wisdom

TooMuchStuff is one

Business gurus are marketing and sales experts
Clergymen and women are motivators and good speakers unless monks

Introverts don’t thrive there!
Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by philfrey08: 1:01am On May 22, 2021
ImaIma1:


That's why I said earlier that if they are not the same page, he should start re-considering.

And if my brother is in anyway acting like a mummy's boy, he would have been cleared. Besides, my mum was never the type to interfere. She preferred you make your decision so that you can live with it.

I really don’t see how a suggestion will make one a mummy’s boy.

So what if his dad suggested it?
Would there be an issue?
Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by philfrey08: 7:30am On May 20, 2021
ImaIma1:


Didn't he know she wasn't bringing anything before? Why didn't he date her knowing she's not bringing anything? Why is it an issue now?


When you dey comment, think about if the guy is your brother. No just de mis yarn
Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by philfrey08: 7:28am On May 20, 2021
ImaIma1:


Since she made sacrifices, he should marry her abi. Didn't the lady's mother also make sacrifices for her? We don't see ladies always shouting about the sacrifices their mothers made because they are women and know manipulation when they see it. It's easier for the mothers to use this narrative and manipulate their sons.

You just de talk yama yama...
What if the guy’s father gave the advice/suggestions?
Suggestion don turn manipulation.
Abeg if the girl cant go by that, get your own beother to marry her

Why una like wahala?
Health / Re: Doctor in the House: Free Medical Advice Available by philfrey08: 12:26pm On May 19, 2021
Hello
Please i did a scan of my tummy and results came out as “Mild Enteritis”

What is this?
Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by philfrey08: 11:35am On May 19, 2021
ImaIma1:


Leave your mum out of this. The wedding is between you and your fiancée. So you guys have to discuss it and come to an agreement together. When you get married, this is how you will decide together on things. Or do you intend to always ask your mother's opinion Your mum can chip in her advice but it cannot superceed those getting married.

And if both of you are not on the same page; if you are seeing red flags from her behaviour, take the right steps now.

When I got married, my husband and I made the decisions together, not family members. Though we asked for advice along the way. Even my FIL would always say "it's your day. Do it as it pleases you".

Between him and the lady?

Is she bringing money?

Smh

Just look at your last paragraph “Though we asked for advice along the way”

What do you think he did?

Where do you think the suggestions came from?

Haba!

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Romance / Re: Upcoming Wedding Palava by philfrey08: 11:33am On May 19, 2021
Biglittlelois:
Your mistake is, you shouldn't have told her your mum suggested it, you would have said that it was your idea, you should have brought up the topic in a way that will make her see reasons why it is logical to cut cost, instead of calling her on phone saying bla bla your mum bla bla, and i can imagine you saying it in a bossy way sef, it is her wedding as she said, as it is yours too, make her feel like she's in charge but you're the one controlling things on the side, very simple


Most times it is you men that majorly cause unnecessary animosity between your mother and wives, you guys don't know how to present a case smoothly without bringing up issues.



I read the first two lines and checked.. oh its a lady that just wrote. I don’t know why women always tend to bring up issues where there should be none.
He did absolutely NOTHING WRONG in bringing up his mum’s suggestions.

The girl is still a child to think that way. Someone who hasn’t started earning a living or becoming responsible for herself is angry at a save-cost suggestion.

Let her bring her own suggestions to ensure the costs are not so high or she finances 40% of the wedding budget.

My family HAS EVERY SINGLE RIGHT to suggest to me how my wedding can be. Its left for me to choose.
If i do glamour and i go hungry later, na me go suffer.

Let her rest abeg of marry someone who can give her world class wedding

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Romance / Re: I Proposed Marriage But I have now Lost Interest by philfrey08: 5:06pm On May 05, 2021
NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

Soooo
After 6months she became a fraud cos she told you wat she needs for birthday?
Guy, you no good o
You bad gan!!!!

Why not wait till it’s her birthday and see her reaction when u dont get her anything.... btw, why won’t u get her sth?

U stingy n wicked o
Romance / Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by philfrey08: 4:59pm On May 05, 2021
GeneralPula:
Most of them are Yemi my lover kind of guy when them still young. To them, they’re mature, they’re not insecure. They’re usually getting used and dump

Now, at 30+, they’ll want to start acting Manly. Their manly attitude is usually abnormal sha - nah why dem hard to date. They’ll be getting skeptical of every little thing, both when needed & when not needed..

But if you see a 30+ guy that has been sharped from young, such dude has no problem with women..

I don’t see how that’s a problem.
You sounding as though maturity is abnormal.
Above 30, there are a lot on your head; making money, taking care of your family, social responsibilities and co.... women or girls don’t top the list unless your wife.
Don’t blame us... its growth

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Romance / Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by philfrey08: 4:56pm On May 05, 2021
Freestainworld:
30+ men are not that difficult as some ladies depicts them, it's just that they have tasted and seen what some guys in their 20s are still novice on, caution plus self discipline is what drives them around.

Maybe they still want us to act like sugar boys. Abeg I can’t.
Let’s keep it professional... for a bit

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Culture / Re: What Do You Think Is The Most Famous Name In Your Tribe. by philfrey08: 4:47pm On May 05, 2021
Oshokalo:
anybody wey dey answer emeka is a born fraudster 419,if u get emeka for ur office it is either him dey chop u small small or him dey target amount to take japa

I am Emeka ooo
I am innocent ooooo

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Health / Re: 8 Lions In Indian Zoo Test Positive For COVID-19 by philfrey08: 6:02pm On May 04, 2021
Their elephants nko?

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Culture / Re: What Do You Think Is The Most Famous Name In Your Tribe. by philfrey08: 5:55pm On May 04, 2021
Emeka
Chioma
Chinenye
Chidimma

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Properties / Re: Alucoboards Projects by philfrey08: 9:26am On Feb 11, 2020
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