ERCROSS:


Yeah.
U made mention of it in ur diary.
Upon say ur threads dey make FrontPage
Who dem be naa..

you be my maaan jawe

desire7:
That he wants to woo a girl does nt mean he wants to start sle*ping with her abi op?

Just be yourself ,watch out 4 things that interest her ,talk abt it and chip your request in at the middle make sure you look into her eyes and smile while u state ur request .

Hope you are cute? If you are it wnt be so difficult.

Thanks jare..I value your contribution.

xixzler:


I still find it hard to believe that common sense is scarce

I still find it hard to believe that common sense is scarce

I'm sure your a child outside wedlock. This doesn't make sense to you so I'm not surprised. #borntroway

ERCROSS:


Some balls....


Seriously

Like how many more balls does he needs after d 2 he already has

Lol..you really have to look beyond the surface meaning. I meant it literarily and its not what you all think.

EyeKandy:
Think of it like a conversation. Don't be hard on yourself and no, don't use crazy pick up lines. Ewwww

1. Watch her mood though some girls are naturally mean-faced.
2. Be polite - Hello, can I talk to you for a minute?
3. Introduce yourself confidently: I'm Xixzler, you caught my attention and i just wanna introduce myself. It will be nice to know you. What's your name? - If she responds positively, talk about school, ask more about her - how she spends her evenings, weekends, etc, look around you and talk about anything interesting or funny. (Don't ask open ended questions. let it be like you guys are gisting).

Secret: When you're smiling, its harder to turn you down unless she doesn't like you. If she's rude, walk away! Hope this helps.

Babe God go bless u , even me too don learn from u..nice comment babe! Thumbs up for u.

crisycent:


I'm sure your a child outside wedlock. This doesn't make sense to you so I'm not surprised. #borntroway

Even if am born out of wedlock, how does it commensurate with the topic I initiated? Must you display your stupidity online ? This is what happens when your wisest comment sounds daft..e-diot..

Omolola1:
the spirit of "wooing" shall be vested upon you

..hehehe.,na rilli "spirit of wooing"...,Confidence is d key.,Just act normal and don't be too forward also..,Havin a good sense of humour helps too. If she rude, walk away. Life nor hard!

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dre11:



Are u sure u can fulfill the condition and pre-conditions that is associated with the naming of it

Your ways no pure.

TheNaijan:

There are 3 kinds of guys, the alpha, beta and the omega...I'd classify you as a beta... I used to be in the same position as you ...no thanks to my upbringing... and I'm not saying I'm the best guy to advise you but at least I figured my sh_t together w.r.t girls...
You have to figure out what you want? One night stands?Long term relationships that'll lead to marriage?Etc

Seek self improvement...hit the gym frequently; workout...take some martial arts or defense classes... Improve your body language...walk tall; face up... don't fidget, etc...
Improve your public speaking skills...
Have a style... dress nice...not like some bandit or gangster...dress masculine...I'd recommend red, blue, green or black (because they have some significance)
DOn't put girls on the Pedestal...if you can say sh*t to a guy; you should be able to say the sam to a chick... Girls shouldn't be any different...it's just the way some men(omega's and betas) have made them to be...

Go out to talk to girls in the public...see whether you can get any girls number, especially the ones you find attractive. DOn't get discouraged if you don't succeed at this...it would only get better.
Ask her questions(but not too much)...find her interests....and sometimes assume... say something like: '' I know you love dogs, or I know you pink colors''...stuff like that.
Don't always complement or agree with her-tease her... be sarcastic...don't always make it about you... get her talking... smile(but not too much)... have a good posture(AKA good body language)...
And let her know you aren't some loser...
Have a social circle...friends...who value you...
And always have options in case it doesn't work out...
Don't reveal so much to her..keep her guessing... and don't be too nice-Know when to stand your ground...
Don't act too needy...
Don't send boring messages...Keep your conversation short when its not going too well...
Tell don't ask... Don't say: Would you grab a coffee with me? Rather say: ''Come let's grab a coffee''...stuff like that--l[b]ead AKA dominate[/b]. Remember-you are a male...you are special(even if you don't look too good)--you are the boss!
They are just like you remember--

Thanks bro..I really appreciate ur contribution..

Just focus on your education for now young man
At 19 you shouldn't really be indulging in things that would most certainly affect other aspect of your life.

Your success alone in the future is enough attraction for ladies IF only you stay on course as well as staying clued

All the best

TheNaijan i learnt from your write up thanks...

i have an observation which is some of our ladies are too full of themselves, and i cant just stand unecesary pride,i witnessed an encounter where a guy cute and appeared alpha toasting a girl in front of her house, d lady was just busy pressing her phone didn't say a word nor look at his face even though she later gave her contact......

another is d ladies on my wassap group from d way some chat u can deduce they ain't interested so i choose to ignore so as not to appear desperate or a looser,some ill b online but wont reply talk less of instigating a chat

That's y our guys keep having dz thread of nlders i dnt know how to talk to ladies,guy to guy we don't complicate things we meet one another chat well online and so easy...

so ill like you address this post thanks!

BuddhaPalm:
Hey bro. What you say doesn't matter - at all.

Picture your hottest girl, would you not listen if she talks about her cat or her hair or the blister on her feet? I might not, but you fvcking would.

Your problem is really not what to say. You're 19, so have most likely been talking for about 17 years. You're a fvcking talking expert!

Your problem is that you don't TRUST that what you have to say is valuable enough.

ANYTHING you say is the most important thing that can ever be said!

Its valuable and worthy - because YOU are the one saying it.

Even, when a girl becomes attracted to you, she really does stop hearing what you say. She FEELS you.

Dazzall! Pure and awesome!

Woo Money and Girls will woos you, don't see that as top priority and reason why you don't have a girlfriend. Once you get into institution, before you know it, you will probably have one genuine girlfriend beside you, must especially if you are the brilliant type.

Secondly, wooing a girl could be funny, some even fit say; you no get respect, me and your sister bi mate. Some will even say funny; u dis small boy dey toast me even if they are younger, one have pride. See everything they say as joke when you are wooing. I remembered when I was young, when a lady told me' see this small boy" I replied say; u know wan make small boy taste better tin?, she just look into my eyes and laugh...

As me, I don't take anything from ladies serious but before I knows it, dick and pûssy don dey enter each other. ...

Even me get some funny toast like chai, I suspect say you bi mammy water, because you too fine. Even sometimes I don't always woos in english language but pidgin, that's make me more of a joker.

Make I yarn you one joke, I met a girl in offshore ikeja, I do not know what got over me that day, I say "hi" to the girl" she replied in "low tiny voice, the next I asked her what happened to her voice? She said; what did I mean, I said the one you are sounding like a cat, I don't understand, the girl replied in pidgin" so you dey toast and you dey insult me, I said no; I'm just realistic, I'm sure you don't talk like this at home. The next wey the girl dey replied, say waka ja re, me self reply say ur number nko?, the girl say why u no wan come carry ham for my form. ..

Everything they said, either insult or serious, I don't feel it because me self no gbadun

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xixzler:
Oya, over to the badoos of Nairaland. Am not ashamed to say this publicly that i am 19years old and I can't woo a girl. Am quit sure of my confidence but the thing is, I don't usually know what to say and how to respond during the conversion, especially, if its a girl am meeting for the first time. Please, your help is needed..


Help your brO in need..
Thanks

Let me woo you now:
FACE YOUR STUDIES!
There will enough time to woo after your studies!

desire7:



Your ways no pure.

U be winch nice to have known

xixzler:


Even if am born out of wedlock, how does it commensurate with the topic I initiated? Must you display your stupidity online ? This is what happens when your wisest comment sounds daft..e-diot..

At your stupid age, you should not emulate your father by getting a girl pregnant. Why do you want to bring another child into this world out of wedlock? Must you emulate your useless father?

Your mates are busy thinking of how to be the next bill Gates you are here asking for help on how to woo women. What a waste of life. Dem for use the time wen dem take carry your belley take break mellon.

Hit like if u tink dis guy is ugly.

dre11:






U be winch nice to have known

MrPresident1:


He is giving you correct advice. You better cool down and face your studies. U don enter university?

Oga park well Joor,so you enter university before you have gf...hypocrisy
At its peak

desire7:

She only came up to show me her tongue




Your profile picture fine oooo

crisycent:


At your stupid age, you should not emulate your father by getting a girl pregnant. Why do you want to bring another child into this world out of wedlock? Must you emulate your useless father?

Your mates are busy thinking of how to be the next bill Gates you are here asking for help on how to woo women. What a waste of life. Dem for use the time wen dem take carry your belley take break mellon.

You a fool,so you impregnated the first girl you wooed

At op,please ask for advice from the reasonable people around you...this is faceless forum where fools will want to look as if they are wise

crisycent:


At your stupid age, you should not emulate your father by getting a girl pregnant. Why do you want to bring another child into this world out of wedlock? Must you emulate your useless father?

Your mates are busy thinking of how to be the next bill Gates you are here asking for help on how to woo women. What a waste of life. Dem for use the time wen dem take carry your belley take break mellon.

Shame on the dick that f*cked ur mother. You must be one of those who thinking dating is all about sex.. What a waste of sperm u are!! Go purchase a Jamb form and get education bro..This is what happens when MTN gives every cat and dog weekly 10MB..'My regards to your dead brain'

TheNaijan:

I can't joint a group to chat with girls... A girl needs something more than just a message before she replies you; except she your close friend or a colleague...she has to be attracted to you, or find you of importance... which is usually through the way she perceives you...
Girls love the validation they get when they flake guys (AKA not to reply to your text or chat)...
When they do this don't message with messages like: "didn't u see my message? Why u not replying? Please reply me, etc"...makes you appear even needy and of low value...That is why I speak of options... approach, approach....approach... It helps you as a man...But you game should be solid and not lame...a girl shouldn't make you feel shy or embarrassed...
Never make a girl think she is your everything...if you do-she owns you and maybe can use you the way she wants...
Every guy needs a good game...

Working out builds a guys testosterone, body, and hence gives him a more masculine outlook... Girls are attracted to that... And it helps builds a guys confidence...changes his mindset to a level.

I prefer physical approaches than online stuff... You see her...you go talk to her... you build an attraction and escalate... that's if you want her...but for me, I talk with random girls to build my confidence levels generally...
These and some of the things I have already stated are important for a successful game...confidence...etc

PUA.

dre11:



She only came up to show me her tongue




Your profile picture fine oooo

Awww thank you .......#sneaking to go see urs#

desire7:


Awww thank you .......#sneaking to go see urs#

I hope the notes did entertain u

This makes better seven
I did even not recognize u after having a mental picture ur former pic

dre11:


I hope the notes did entertain u

This makes better seven
I did even not recognize u after having a mental picture ur former pic

Former? Which of them? I have had 4 or more......

desire7:


Former? Which of them? I have had 4 or more......

I only know of one......
The one u did use when we did communicate then

dre11:


I only know of one......
The one u did use when we did communicate then

That picture is older than dis.

upload ur picture prove u are no ghost.

desire7:


That picture is older than dis.

upload ur picture prove u are no ghost.

Who said am not a ghost


U have always being talking with mah thought, mind and reasoning



Not mah body