nomabeeee:
its an old adage..the way to a man's hrt is no longer tru his stomach.. its tru character and submission bc dy re long lasting..buh food does not last..

You're not totally right...

rudedough:


Bless your heart. Honestly, i can't marry a girlfriend that comes to my house just because she wants to "visit". I will like to see my girlfriend (Wife to be) doing the house chores, showing off her cooking skills in my kitchen, discussing relevant matters with me and taking part in the running of my house like a true African woman while i will love her, be there for her and take care of her needs like a responsible African man even if she's got a job. That is what a relationship should look like before courting. Only then will i feel the need to put a ring on that finger because she has proven beyond doubt that she can take care of our home and family.

Most of these girls saying "If he comes to my house i will cook for him" still live with their parents. What kind of man goes to his girlfriend parent's house to eat her cooking?

OP how old are you?

Gbam. Gbamm... Gbammm...

Deefuray:
I concur. I don't subscribe to playing the role of a wife when you're just a mere girlfriend

Cooking alone isn't playing the role of a housewife.

bams01:


and food is not?

Should I tell you a real life story?

Lmao.

yes that is true..some girls are dam just foolish headed before dey talk............only a guy that you are engaged to will be allowed to visit you inyour parents house and sit down comfortable to eat

ewizard1:


yes! you gerrit. I love that part most.

Beside, wont even leave her side in the kitchen. As she dey nack me spoon for head (wen I thief boiled meat chop) na so I go dey kiss and run away.

Very sexy thing!!!

Some olodos who are scared of letting out their awful cooking skills are setting mumu opinions.

Choi...you remind me of a guy i once dated, dah guy was sweeeeeet, he would stay with me in d kitchen and taste every ridiculous thing i concoted. He would crack silly jokes and scare me whenever I asked him to taste anything , wipe my sweat and the sweetest part to me was whenever he said

"Baby, can I have more?"

chinziaski:
The ladies will say no sex, don't cook, etc for him if you're not married. Then I ask, what is your function in the relationship?


Worwor Girls forming Jadon

pls do u av N1000 naira note with u?

TahariX:


Lmao.

indeed..

justmi1:
nice topic, firstly am a guy and i can cook WELL, i dont care if she cooks for me or not, infact i dont like a girl that am not married to, to alwaiz cook for me, but i expect her to cook once in a while, sometimes it feels good for a man to know he has a lady preparing his meal, thats an ego booster and that really makes him think of really settling down. like they say'' the way to a man's heart is his stomach'' that was then, today the way is just ''down there''...lolz

LOOOOOL!! I'm laughing so hard right now.

Na these kind girls wey go eat o bowl of gari. For house but when u take them out they can even finish one indomie. Them go eat imdomie vomit gari, this is just what is playing out here. Girls they can so form and lie in d open. See this girls blabbing

what's is dating?

LORETA:
yes that is true..some girls are dam just foolish headed before dey talk............only a guy that you are engaged to will be allowed to visit you inyour parents house and sit down comfortable to eat

My boyfriend is allowed to visit. Y'all need to stop acting like every Nigerian family is the same.

TahariX:


Not all of us are Christians.

let me help you with screenshot

like kill you does he visit when your dad is at home?

Can't cook for your bf?
It simply means you don't know how to cook. simples

lie n lie...does he visit when your dad and elder brothers is at home?

bams01:


Wow Gentie,
Kudos to you. Don't mind those pseudo independent girls.

Can you upload your pix? I would like to see the face that harbors such brain.

Arrrr....**scratches head**

Be right back!

Suarezpatrick:
let me help you with screenshot

Lmao!! The bible is full of trash. That same bible says that girls who are sexually abused/ assaulted should be sold to their abusers. Good luck with all that.

am asking u ?

taharix

LORETA:
like kill you does he visit when your dad is at home?

He can if he wants to. My dad always wants to meet the men in my life (Probably to scare the sh*t out of them lol).

Olobe lo loko...soko yokoto....

I find this topic to be a very silly question.
If a supposed girlfriend decides to stop cooking in my crib, she siezes to be a girlfriend.
I don't even date girls who don't cook.

Some ladies sha ! But when the guy gives you money or gifts, you won't reject and tell him it's husbands' duty .. Personally, I don't see anything wrong in cooking for a guy you're dating, infact it gives me pleasure to do so ..

tell me the truth..one more last question....then i will believe everything you say here......Are you in the university yet and what level are you..i didnt ask of your age ohhhh

nomabeeee:
I find this very interesting to discuss here..and I will go straight to the point..I don't think its advicible for a lady to always cook for the man she's dating anytime she's visits him.if you visit him 5 times,u can cook two times or once for him..its important that we ladies should know our place in our man's life..if you are his friend,you act like his friend..if you a re his girlfriend ,you act like one and if you a re his wife..you also act like one..A woman is meant to be explored..if am dating/courting you and during the course of that I cook all my delicasies for you,..what threat wil I give you when we get married?hmmm I can't find myself loitering around a man's kitchen when am not his wife..whats ur opinion ladies?men are also free to air their opinions too...reasonable comments please..thanks

As you have said, 2 out of 5 is good enough.

My g wouldnt let me cook. she feels intimidated when i cook cos i am a better cook. she is on time with her meals and i appreciate her for dat

asking taharix polietly?

Guyz jus luv decievin gehs..ds same guyz wil neva narry a geh dt cooks for dem 3times a day..dey wil rada call her cheap, comon or desperate..n later go afta d geh dt has refused to play d wifey role. nw dia blabbin dog shit

LORETA:
lie n lie...does he visit when your dad and elder brothers is at home?

Of course!

Men wanting their women to be everything. Your list's growing longer by the day

You think it's ok for your gf to cook for you and yet it's bad to give her money. Your argument is that you aren't her father, hence you owe her no responsibility. Is she then your mother? Why should she have to come to your house and cook just because you think it'll make her more marriageable?

Hmmm I'm just observing you people and your partiality.

LORETA:
tell me the truth..one more last question....then i will believe everything you say here......Are you in the university yet and what level are you..i didnt ask of your age ohhhh

I'm a sophomore(2nd year).