Ilekokonit:


Very true. That's the result when a lot of people cheat to pass exams even in medical school. Shocking.

Ilekokonit:

Its a mystery to me as well, hence I did not highlight it.

I laugh internally when a woman talks at 1000 miles an hour and you are listening patiently digesting her words and just for her to let you get a word in is a problem for her. I also wonder when they send you a flurry of texts like a hyper-active somebody that has swallowed a whole can of nescafe and whilst you are still trying to reply one text many more have come in from her.

If only our women would calm down.

A lot of times these women are sleep deprived because of over ambition and greed for money thus destabilising their brain chemistry hence their hyper-active brain and combative attitudes but if you try to advice them to slow down, take more restful sleep to calm down their brains and generally pause for thought before talking, you will suddenly become their enemy.

SirShymex:


It's about emasculating black men. And perhaps some of them are just bitter about something. Who knows?

Sir, I'm not even going to lie, I started seeing this madness of black women trying to dominate, and thinking the traditional family structure is wrong, on NL. And perhaps, with those naija women who kick their husbands out of house, all the time, out here.

All through Uni, all the chics used to cook for us all the time. Heck, one of my female friends used to do my laundry for me all time back then, cos I lived in a studio flat - and obviously, they don't put washing machine in studio flats. Also, going all the way to Uni hostel for laundry was a mission for me back then. And cos she lives like 5 mins drive from my house, I'll just dump all my clothes in a bag. Drive down to hers, dump the bag there, and she usually ring me later to come get them. And these are chics born and raised in London, not Africa. Hence I still can't comprehend the "western"/"modern" nonsense these blinkered folks always spout on here all the time, to be honest.

fulanigirl:


If you don't mind me asking why are they doing all of that for you and why are you letting them.

SirShymex:


It wasn't just me, it was just basically the same with everyone else based on friendship, and the chics helping guys out. You know like all the group chats in the Library, and you might just say, "I'm hungry, but I don't even know how to cook." And someone who will just offer to cook for you. Or tell you to come over that they've got food. It wasn't a forceful thing - just girls being girls.

And when they need to go out, and they need someone to drive them around. They can just ring you up, and with that, you won't be able to say no. That's mutual benefit - symbiotic relationship.

fulanigirl:


lol I get it now!! Talk about friends with benefits

SirShymex:


Lol, not friends with benefits per se (though friendship is always about mutual benefits), but a symbiotic one, where chics know how to play their role, ditto the guys. They help out with the cooking, and laundry - and the guys help out with other things.

Can you cook for ya man? And don't lie cos you know I can see you in Scotland with the Hawk-eye.

fulanigirl:


See I wouldn't do that based on friendship. I sometimes cook for my boyfriend but I don't make it my job.

SirShymex:


Lol, there you go. Boyfriend is also friendship, but a romantic one.

fulanigirl:


Lol I guess

SirShymex:
And when they have no logical argument, they start making up porky pies.

SirShymex:
And they lure these guy who wouldn't mind sleeping with them, for the fun of it and loose change, with the money they leeched off the system.

Apparently, that woman labelled herself as being "rich" after scrounging all kinds of benefits, as a single mum. These women are hilarious!

Ilekokonit:


Personally I've seen an ex girlfriend on Facebook (when i was still on it) blatantly slash 10 years off her age.

coogar:


10 bloody years off her age?
by the time she's "28", her eggs woulda calcified.

Ilekokonit:


Funny but true. Some women are just unbeleivable in the lies they tell.

coogar:

you can't blame them too much....
their biological clock puts them at a huge disadvantage......and if you meet a 35 year old chic, you would want to know her history between 18 & 35, won't you?

taking 10 years off solves 90% of her problems.

Timbuktou:
Coogar, someone who'd read the book says Vilar said, a pair of brown boots is more important than an orgassm. After I head that, I felt hollow.

Ilekokonit:

It solves her problems temporarily but stores bigger problems for her in the future as anything built on a foundation of lies WILL not last.

Also, only a man that doesn't ask probing questions will be fooled. If you are someone with an inquisitive mind, a retentive memory, someone who doesn't sweep things under the carpet and who can also add 2 + 2 to give 4 then her lies will come crashing down in no time.

I'm one for laying your cards face up upfront to avoid future BIGGER disappointments which tend to hurt more than if you had told the truth in the first place.

coogar:
some women are professional liars.....
you don't stand a chance catching their lies unless you are fortunate to find something out by accident.

Ilekokonit:


True talk. Especially if you are someone who is naturally trusting. Marriage is becoming worse than politics by the day. More like Russian roulette.

coogar:


it's a game of chess.....
thank God, i know how to play chess. i'm 100% covered.

Ilekokonit:


Means that I have to brush up on my rusty chess and utilise its tactics religiously when it comes to dating.

But doesn't that take out the spontaneity out of love or is love really and truly dead like everything in the world seems to point to ?

coogar:

i mastered the art from a very young age. came across some of lord chesterfield's musings in my teens & that prepared me fully for this world of sin.

Ilekokonit:


Doesn't approaching it like chess take out the spontaneity from love or is love really and truly dead like everything in the world seems to point to

What are the main points of lord chesterfield's musings ??

coogar:
let me find some of them.....he's a loon but what he said makes sense...he wrote this letter to his son as far back as 1748.

Ilekokonit:

He probably saved his son from many a heartbreak.

they almost adore that man who talks more seriously to them, and who seems to consult and trust them; I say, who seems; for weak men really do, but wise ones only seem to do it."

coogar:

i mastered the art from a very young age. came across some of lord chesterfield's musings in my teens & that prepared me fully for this world of sin.

chicken & egg, bro......
if you love, you leave yourself exposed. if you don't love, you lose nothing. so it depends on how you wanna play it.

coogar:
he must have saved heartbreaks & stopped loads of bastârds brought in by cheating partners.

they almost adore that man who talks more seriously to them, and who seems to consult and trust them; I say, who seems; for weak men really do, but wise ones only seem to do it."
this bit carried a powerful message.
in other words, make it seem you are doing it without doing it.

Ilekokonit:

In other words, women don't like men who are sincere with them but will adore a man who pretends he is giving them what he is not. And to think that women have always being like that even since 1748.

In fact, the man is also saying that only weak men trust women. Now that is scary.

coogar:


if you are sincere with a woman, you would get burnt. give her an inch & she's taking a mile. women often say men lie a lot but can women really really handle the truth?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxyySRgrYsU

that's a social experiment for you.