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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jan 24, 2015
Gboliwe:


I read that mail and that is not what emmysexxy said. She didn't say he was dead but that he should be too weak as to be the one typing. Where did "die" and TeHN impersonating him come from na? Please stop, this back and forth with the insults too is getting to me badly.

I asked this question earlier too. The only thing I got from that mail was that Tehn was being economical with the truth. R231 simply stated the claims were false and I believe him. I'm sure a lot believe him too, so I don't know why some of them are now hyperventilating.
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:34pm On Jan 24, 2015
Gboliwe:


I read that mail and that is not what emmysexxy said. She didn't say he was dead but that he should be too weak as to be the one typing. Where did "die" and TeHN impersonating him come from na? Please stop, this back and forth with the insults too is getting to me badly.

Are you available to confirm the state of Hammed

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jan 24, 2015
BoboYekini:
I think that the TEHN should have sort of 'appropriated' their own (hopefully) personal donations for 'logistics' and not used out of the general fund. That way no one gets to raise issues like these, which to be honest have some legitimacy.



Absolutely not, sir! They should be free to use out of the donated money for all and every logistic purpose related to the matter.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 10:37pm On Jan 24, 2015
aisha2:
When I said the attitude of some people here is like cultism my comments were hidden yet the aggressors go around freely attacking, abusing and throwing insinuations free because its what suits their taste.

Anyone differs its insults and accusations
From Babymama to busybody2 now emma, last time I asked why emmas account was banned no response yet the resident lout is left free roaming insulting throwing her village curses, being rude with her new recruit probably an alternate account rayo attacking anyone and they gather and be liking comments yet accuse others of being the problem.
Only cults act like this, hide my comments one sided biased bunch

Lol, u crack me up. Hmmmm, so my asking questions without insulting anyone now is attacking people. Na wa o. Did u see emmy's email and all the allegations she made based on heresay? Honestly, of u were the one handling the case would u be happy with ur integrity being called into question?

Busybody2 might have had good intentions but her approach has dimmed all that and all that's left is harsh criticism. Saying that they volunteered and as such shouldn't use any of the donations for logistics, can u honestly say that's a fair statement.

I believe in criticism when it's out of love and constructive. All of us typing if called upon may not have the time to be there in person, so should we be so harsh with those on ground not being fully aware of whatever challenges they face. They are human too and not infallible so we should do our best to correct and support so things can move on. Now she is asking for money back. Sigh

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Kimoni: 10:37pm On Jan 24, 2015
Gboliwe:


Is the address still showing in your screen?

Thanks boss
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:38pm On Jan 24, 2015
Kimoni:


Pick, as much as I empathize with Tehn members and understand you want to absolve yourself, DJ and his welfare still remains the focus. Don't understimate the number of people that will go there. It is not the best for him...

Gboliwe pls remove the address and description, mbok.

No dj is not the focus
We are

On this thread we have been accused of so much and now logistics to move around is now being bandied around.

We are hynoptised
We are theives
We are impersonating dead people


I am willing to refund the logistics fee

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jan 24, 2015
Busybody2:



That's why I say God will judge...Even those claiming they are working for free we can all see some amounts such as N9,000, N6,000, N4,500, N3,000, etc deemed LOGISTICS, LOGISTICS, LOGISTICS oh...voluntary and free indeed... undecided





Hmmm. Wise words Sir cool

I understand logistic cost its the silencing of different opinions and suggestions that is my problem. I don beg taya for an action plan and cost dating 5 weeks I have been ignored. I am so frustrated and tired. My husband is upset because he is asking if I want to leave my own health and go to lagos before i calm down yet they will.gather and attack anyone who differs or says the truth
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by r231(m): 10:38pm On Jan 24, 2015
jaybee3:

You are obviously the lowest scum. TeHN is not r231 so get that in your thick skull.
If you gave r231 money then simply demand it from him not TeHN

TeHN as a group isn't aware of this 500k donation so stop making unsubstantiated claim to draw attention to yourself

Like i said before, do you want us to hand over to you since you can handle it better

Nothing was transferred to me
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On Jan 24, 2015
i wasn't happy when Tehn didn't listen to the India suggestion Babymama brought up long ago. And I was kind of disappointed they let those rogue hospitals fleece them with the barrage of unnecessary tests.
I saw reason with busybody2 when she tried to instil the sense of urgency into the team because me I was biting my fingers too and worrying a lot.


But to accuse them of financial fraud is something else. It is somewhat ugly.
God knows I can't withstand such accusation especially if I'm putting much of my time into the work. You guys should take it easy abeg.

And what's all that about alternate account ish?
Unnecessary accusations and snides everywhere.
People like to look for trouble sha.


You guys should settle any other issues that doesn't affect DJ's case on another thread.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jan 24, 2015
aisha2:


Yet they will gang up and accuse her of all sorts she should swallow it and shut up abi? I have never seen a thing like this in my years of working with others, opinions may differ but they are respected. You suggest they ignore it goes bad they gang up and insult you
Aunty Aisha.any issue that has got money in it for this long is bound to cause rancour. What u all need is patience to be able to setle ursefs and respect for eachoda because any1 who donates to this project no matter d amount deserves respect even the backstage workers also deserve respect.If this arguements persist, others might begin to also ask for refunds and that wuld become a funny situation.you all need to work together and not keep gangs to silence some certain good minded individuals.abeg,make una easy.No1 knows tomorw,anytin can happen pls

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jan 24, 2015
rayo2002:


Lol, u crack me up. Hmmmm, so my asking questions without insulting anyone now is attacking people. Na wa o. Did u see emmy's email and all the allegations she made based on heresay? Honestly, of u were the one handling the case would u be happy with ur integrity being called into question?

Busybody2 might have had good intentions but her approach has dimmed all that and all that's left is harsh criticism. Saying that they volunteered and as such shouldn't use any of the donations for logistics, can u honestly say that's a fair statement.

I believe in criticism when it's out of love and constructive. All of us typing if called upon may not have the time to be there in person, so should we be so harsh with those on ground not being fully aware of whatever challenges they face. They are human too and not infallible so we should do our best to correct and support so things can move on. Now she is asking for money back. Sigh

Who exactly are you? Are you the monitor here? Was her own intergrity not called into question! Why didnt you defend her too? Busybody2, babymama2 and even I have been saying the same thing, babymama has been thoroughly insulted why didnt you come then and defend her? That you are doing well doesn't mean you are immune to suggestions and queries, answer thw queries decently and not by bullying others to silence

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Gboliwe: 10:41pm On Jan 24, 2015
pickabeau1:


Are you available to confirm the state of Hammed


You want to pick on me too? Why are you singling me out? Lol

Abeg I don't have the strenght to do this with you.
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by jackpot(f): 10:41pm On Jan 24, 2015
Caracta:


Pride? Seriously?

I'll gladly refund her if she wants it back. What am I fueling? Adults shouldn't behave like children.
from which source? Your own pocket or d donations made for DJ?

You exhude too much pride.


BTW, Busybody2, you're really a busy-body. Mgbeke!

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:41pm On Jan 24, 2015
r231:


That guy is seriously ill have gone back to school but I beged my mum to put her ears on d ground incase of any news.nl said dj is an outpatient but from wat mum said dj is not in his house as at last week so where could he be?few weeks ago it was rumoured d guy died then I later confirmed dat he slumped and was rushed to an unknown hospital.all we want is for dj to get well.but if things are not done fast we might lose him but God will not allow that.pls feel free to ask me any question.I wonder y someone will think am seeking atention from nl.haha a mans life is at stake fah.I refused to say anytin on nl again cause I was banned reasons dat a mod reported dat I was given false info by telling d room to act fast on dj's case.no point talking since anbything I say is captioned lie.and my dear dj is weak to even type so I strongly believe mayb a family member is using his phone to reply us to keep our mind at rest let's just hope for d best.pls I am only telling u cause u have been part of d team from d very begining b4 tehn evn got involved.and all d tym u c baba lawos coming and leaving deir house so I was tld.but we have been fasting and praying for him.we are nt close neighbours but his ailment and nl been involved made him popular.
I only entered d rooom dat day to tell u guys dat dj case was worse than wat we thought was wrong with him before the results of cancer came abored and I hear ppl saying he is having multiple organ failures.pls I will aDvice u take dis info to be a secrete pls .so try and ask tehns dat apart from cancer wat oda ailment is he suffering from.at least dat will help u guys knw wat u dealing with thank yu
Can someone help me in pointing out where sshe accused TEHN of impersonating DJ?

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 24, 2015
pickabeau1:


Which wrong are you referring to
Someone comes here to say I organised or am aware of an impersonation of a supposed dead person and you want me to take it lightly

What's your own angle

Will you be available to go and see djdola for yourself

I wonder if this was said in another post somewhere else. If its the same mail r231 posted you are talking about, then I must say we have different comprehension skills. undecided

I personally have never doubted the Tehn updates in here, the approach of some of you Tehn member just irks me. I got nothing but respect for the likes of jarus, chaircover, r231, OAMJ, who know how to interact maturely with people. I don't care what your behind the scene role and the other childish ones amongst you is, but you really need to work on how to communicate in public especially when public funds are involved. Stop acting like you are doing the public a favour. You were not forced to volunteer, so keep your emotions in check abeg.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:42pm On Jan 24, 2015
cococandy:
is the donation of time and energy not enough?
of course. Their time and energy are invaluable, as is the risk they have to bear. Frankly, they are better men than I am in that regard.
But therein is the problem. Monetary donations are what catch the public eye, and I'm afraid that in a case like this, especially when you're the custodians of the general purse, true altruism demands that you go all the way, that you make financial and then time/energy donations. In that order. Or else we become just another NGO. It hurts but I don't know how else to put it.
P.s. An easy solution is that whenever expenses are drawn up, 'logistics' don't feature at all.
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Kimoni: 10:42pm On Jan 24, 2015
pickabeau1:


No dj is not the focus
We are

On this thread we have been accused of so much and now logistics to move around is now being bandied around.

We are hynoptised
We are theives
We are impersonating dead people


I am willing to refund the logistics fee

Pickabeau, pls calm down. You are accused of something does not mean everybody shares that opinion. Tehn can't afford to lose it now, when DJ is fully recovered, then we can turn this thread to a free for all. But not now!

You all need to stay and remain focused.
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by gbadexy(m): 10:42pm On Jan 24, 2015
jaybee3:
Y
@busybody
This was the last update from jarus as far as donations is concerned and we can't see any donation of 350k

Did you transfer the money directly to r231?
she did mention 500k including 150k used for tehn's registration. asking about 350k donation to dj means you admit she did pay the 150k for the registration of this organization.
what would now make the relationship degenerate to this level seeing she has genuine interest in tehn. having divergent views shouldnt have degenerated to this level.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:42pm On Jan 24, 2015
Gboliwe:


You want to pick on me too? Why are you singling me out? Lol

Abeg I don't have the strenght to do this with you.


I am not picking on anyone

It's simple
We want a non tehn person to confirm if djdola is alive or

Simple
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2015
By the way,will try checking on DJ once done from church. And how do I get the address?
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2015
AlphaGentleman:
Aunty Aisha.any issue that has got money in it for this long is bound to cause rancour. What u all need is patience to be able to setle ursefs and respect for eachoda because any1 who donates to this project no matter d amount deserves respect even the backstage workers also deserve respect.If this arguements persist, others might begin to also ask for refunds and that wuld become a funny situation.you all need to work together and not keep gangs to silence some certain good minded individuals.abeg,make una easy.No1 knows tomorw,anytin can happen pls

I agree but bullying others won't help us move forward
Take.different views, work on it and keep people informed. Also when we need to act let us act instead of gagging people and ganging up on them

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by rayo2002: 10:44pm On Jan 24, 2015
aisha2:


Who exactly are you? Are you the monitor here? Was her own intergrity not called into question! Why didnt you defend her too? Busybody2, babymama2 and even I have been saying the same thing, babymama has been thoroughly insulted why didnt you come then and defend her? That you are doing well doesn't mean you are immune to suggestions and queries, answer thw queries decently and not by bullying others to silence

Madam please calm down, we are not fighting. I wasn't here when babymama was being insulted so I can't say anything about that. I haven't seen where Busybody2's integrity has been called into question. The person whose report is being questioned I'd emmy's and I asked questions cos I am honestly surprised that she couldn't verify the information before raising alarm. Chikena.
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by olu4life(m): 10:44pm On Jan 24, 2015
cytochromeC:


I wonder if this was said in another post somewhere else. If its the same mail r231 posted you are talking about, then I must say we have different comprehension skills. undecided

I personally have never doubted the updates in here, the approach of some of you Tehn member just irks me. I got nothing but respect for the likes of jarus, chaircover, r231, OAMJ, who know how to interact maturely with people. I don't care what your behind the scene role and the other childish ones amongst you is, but you really need to work on how to communicate in public especially when public funds are involved. Stop acting like you are doing the public a favour. You were not forced to volunteer, so keep your emotions in check abeg.

#GBAM.... Oro nla

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:45pm On Jan 24, 2015
olu4life:
By the way,will try checking on DJ once done from church. And how do I get the address?

Thanks
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by coogar: 10:46pm On Jan 24, 2015
r231:

Nothing was transferred to me

are you saying busybody is lying that she transferred money to you? if you didn't receive money, then why is she claiming to have sent money to you?

you guys need to be transparent about what is going on in the background. all these bickerings about refunding donations made and what not isn't cool at all.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by cococandy(f): 10:47pm On Jan 24, 2015
pickabeau1:
I wonder why you are disturbed by the fact that emmysexy is an alternate account
Someone that has an agenda..

pls you guys should stop this alternate account thing.
Maybe you didn't realize it, when you started saying it, it was a direct jab at all those with opposing views from yours thereby sending a direct message that you suspect them of mischief.

Recipe for wahala.

Besides I don't believe that girl is an alternate account. Maybe she's exaggerating but it is a stretch to insinuate that someone else here is using the account to stir trouble.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:48pm On Jan 24, 2015
Kimoni:


Pickabeau, pls calm down. You are accused of something does not mean everybody shares that opinion. Tehn can't afford to lose it now, when DJ is fully recovered, then we can turn this thread to a free for all. But not now!

You all need to stay and remain focused.


My dear I am calm
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by cococandy(f): 10:48pm On Jan 24, 2015
gbadexy:


what would now make the relationship degenerate to this level seeing she has genuine interest in tehn. having divergent views shouldnt have degenerated to this level.
I'm wondering too.

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Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by jaybee3(m): 10:49pm On Jan 24, 2015
gbadexy:

she did mention 500k including 150k used for tehn's registration. asking about 350k donation to dj means you admit she did pay the 150k for the registration of this organization.
what would now make the relationship degenerate to this level seeing she has genuine interest in tehn. having divergent views shouldnt have degenerated to this level.
r231:


Nothing was transferred to me
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Busybody2(f): 10:50pm On Jan 24, 2015
gbadexy:

she did mention 500k including 150k used for tehn's registration. asking about 350k donation to dj means[b] you admit she did pay the 150k for the registration of this organization.
what would now make the relationship degenerate to this level seeing she has genuine interest in tehn.[/b] having divergent views shouldnt have degenerated to this level.

Thanks for this.

Now I am emmysexxy and olu4life who hates tehn and I am emmysexxy that is accusing them of covering up that DJ is dead!!!

Gosh!!!
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by pickabeau1: 10:51pm On Jan 24, 2015
cococandy:
pls you guys should stop this alternate account thing.
Maybe you didn't realize it, when you started saying it, it was a direct jab at all those with opposing views from yours thereby sending a direct message that you suspect them of mischief.

Recipe for wahala.

Besides I don't believe that girl is an alternate account. Maybe she's exaggerating but it is a stretch to insinuate that someone else here is using the account to stir trouble.

First this fellow says she had some info
She never posted
Then she says she was banned because of
Them she says she will bequiet

Now she says it is unfathomable that djdola can be posting with his phone

What is the common thread behind her actions
Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by Gboliwe: 10:51pm On Jan 24, 2015
pickabeau1:



I am not picking on anyone

It's simple
We want a non tehn person to confirm if djdola is alive or

Simple

Abeg take your vex elsewhere. I am not the only nonTeHN person on this thread.

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