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Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Mar 21, 2015
A week ago, I smelled something like cigarette on him though I wasn't sure because I've never seen him smoke and he doent look like someone that smokes. As in, no trace of it in him. The smell was so strong that I was forced to ask him.

Me: Did you smoke?
Dele: No, why?
Me: Are you sure?
Dele: No I didn't
Me: But I smell something like cigarette in you
Dele: I didn't smoke


I was so convinced that he smoked but I had no strong evidence to prove that he smoked. The next day, in the afternoon precisely, I perceived that same smell on him which wasn't so in the morning. I was forced to ask again.

Me: You smoked today again. Don't even deny it.
Dele: *Speechless*
Me: I knew you smoked yesterday but I wasn't so sure of what I smelled in you. Today that same smell is on you and its so strong. So tell me, Do you smoke?
Dele: Yes but not cigarette.
Me: What?
Dele: Skunk (don't know if I got the spelling right)
Me: What's Skunk?
Dele: He explained though I didn't understand any of his explanation since I was hearing it for the first time.
Me: For how long have you been smoking Skunk?
Dele: For years. I wasn't like that before not until some circumstances pushed me into the street. Mumsy and everyone doesn't know I smoke. No one knows.
Me: Please I want you to stop smoking. I don't feel comfortable with smokers. How can I help you stop?
Dele: I'm not an addict. I can stop right away.


I was so happy that I thought it was that easy to stop. Right there I believed he had stopped smoking skunk. A day after our discussion, I saw him with something that looked like grinded grass or dry leaf wrapped in a small white nylon. I was so curious to know what it was, so I asked.

Me: What's this?
Dele: Thyme
Me: what kind of thyme is this?
Dele: Its Thailand Thyme. Its used in cooking soup and its also medicinal. When you use it to cook, you will like it.
Me: wow, I will like to try it. Can I have some?
Dele: (This time around, laughing out), its weed ooo.
Me: you mean Igbo?
Dele: Yes Igbo. Its also called Weed.
Me: (Not suspecting he smokes weed too) is it the same Igbo that is being mixed in hair creams?
Dele: Yes but not this one. If you want that one, I will get it for you. This one is being put into tea or chewed. Its medicinal.


Dele explained the medical benefits of taking weed (In tea or chewing). I never knew he smokes weed not until a day he went out with his friends, his eyes was bleeding blood like he was given blow in the eyes. His eye balls were out and scaring. This time around, I walked up to him and asked if he had been smoking and he said Yes. I was furious. He promised to stop smoking skunk but I was surprised when he told me it wasn't skunk this time around but weed. I was so down. He promised to stop again.

Just yesterday, I caught him smoking. He didn't know I was coming. I saw him smoking the white paper. I was heart broken. I was speechless. I ran inside. He came in, he knew I was angry but he didn't know what to say. Not long, he slept off. I searched d whole house. I found wraps of weed in a nylon. I also found some in the varandah under a chair. I threw them into the water closet and flushed them. I placed the wrapper closed to where he will see them. He woke up and saw the wrappers emptied. He asked and I told him I ate them all. He didn't believe but I insisted that I ate them all since that's what he likes doing too. Ever since then, I've been keeping to myself.

I want to help him stop his smoking habit. I don't want him to damage his health due to excessive smoking. I'm afraid if he continues this way, something bad might happen to his health.

Please fellow Nairalanders, I need him to quit smoking, how do I help him stop. Matured advice only.
Thank you.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Mar 21, 2015
Catered4 I know you are married ...hope its not .....you're talking about? shocked

If yes I will advice you to.... But confirm first...


Meanwhile FTC....which I donate to Buhari...


Sai Baba
Sai Buhari!

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Mar 21, 2015
SmartChoices:
Catered4 I know you are married ...hope its not .....you're talking about? shocked

If yes I will advice you to.... But confirm first...



WoW SmartChoices you know me so well, that's cool. Anyway back to the reason why I'm here. My Cousin. He's so dear to me. So do you have any tips on how I can help him stop smoking?
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by talk2hb1(m): 7:17pm On Mar 21, 2015
First you need to open the line of communication, let him feel comfortable telling you anything, from their you can will have the ability to stop him.
Believe me with what I read above you will make smarter in where he hides it, and possibly go out to take which is not good at all.
This is my own little stopping procedure:
*Let him feel comfortable talking about it
* Know the quantity he takes everyday
*Encourage him to take it inside and not with his friends
*Control the quantity he takes daily
* Dissociate him from his friends who does the same (Evacuation)
This is a long process oo, it could take months if not years, So help him GOD.
Regards' Habeeb Salami www.qlickas.com

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 21, 2015
Catered4:




WoW SmartChoices you know me so well, that's cool. Anyway back to the reason why I'm here. My Cousin. He's so dear to me. So do you have any tips on how I can help him stop smoking?
OK I will get back to you...
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by CR77(f): 7:22pm On Mar 21, 2015
hmmm i fear oo
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by nollyway(m): 7:22pm On Mar 21, 2015
Its a gradual process, and also God's intervention
I PRAY U OVERCOME DUH! cry cry

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Mar 21, 2015
Suen how would you like to smoke some weed.


Cannabis sativa.

If you like weed like me, click like

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by siegfried99(m): 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
grin

Dele is addicted to dry paw paw leaf grin

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by jauntty: 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
Why do Girls think they can CHANGE a guy ?

He can only change if HE decide to change. otherwise you can't do much.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by hungryboy(m): 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
Carry police arrest am

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Mynd44: 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
I have been on the same road as the OP...suporting a weed addict *Shivers* not fun.

hiding money, searching his pockets and drawers almost stalking......you are in for a long ride

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Johnheir2(m): 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
Ur source pls

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by falconey(m): 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
Just leave the country you are now and move to a no weed country.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by MadCow1: 7:23pm On Mar 21, 2015
Hmm..

First of all, weed isn't addictive as it has no addictive properties.


Secondly, quitting anything is a personal decision. If he isn't ready, he wouldn't stop.

Finally, to alay your fears somewhat, weed isn't as bad as it is reputed to be. Currently, about two or three states in the U.S have legalized recreational marijuana with another 5 states soon to join in. In the not too distant future, weed would become legal. It indeed does carry some medicinal properties like aiding appetite and helps patients with glycoma.

Talk to him about it and chill.. Don't hound him on the matter otherwise he would just learn how to hide it better.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Mar 21, 2015
Drug addicts tend to crave privacy. Talk him into enrolling in any programme just to take away some of his alone time. Then have him change his circle of friends. That should be a good start. It's a long road though. Just pray he isn't yet dependent on the drugs, else that'll make for a bigger struggle.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by stunningjudy(f): 7:24pm On Mar 21, 2015
He should be ready and willing to stop and also give his friends who smoke some distance while he rehabilitates or else you can't help him. #been there before#

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Thermythorpe(f): 7:25pm On Mar 21, 2015
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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by cupidFlint(m): 7:25pm On Mar 21, 2015
Smoke with him, he'll be disgusted seeing you smoke.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Mar 21, 2015
[size=15pt]A classic case of a good girl loving a bad boy.
God's speed on your new found project OP..

Ciao!
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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by pak: 7:26pm On Mar 21, 2015
It's an addiction, You can't unless he's also interested in changing. Professional help can come in handy too.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by tiamiyukunle69(m): 7:26pm On Mar 21, 2015
This guy needs rehabilitation. This is really an addiction already
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by layinkakeem(m): 7:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
Talk some sense into him,
That weed destroys internal organ.
And kills slowly
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by luckyman1010(m): 7:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
He will stop it by God grace,it wouldn't cost you anything,call me or watzapp me on 08037934770.
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by olola4(m): 7:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
NOTE:Is not a thing u can render any help, if he want to stop he depends on his willingness to stop.

meanwhile

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by steppin: 7:27pm On Mar 21, 2015
Catered4:
A week ago, I smelled something like cigarette on him though I wasn't sure because I've never seen him smoke and he doent look like someone that smokes. As in, no trace of it in him. The smell was so strong that I was forced to ask him.
Me: Did you smoke?
Dele: No, why?
Me: Are you sure?
Dele: No I didn't
Me: But I smell something like cigarette in you
Dele: I didn't smoke

I was so convinced that he smoked but I had no strong evidence to prove that he smoked. The next day, in the afternoon precisely, I perceived that same smell on him which wasn't so in the morning. I was forced to ask again.
Me: You smoked today again. Don't even deny it.
Dele: *Speechless*
Me: I knew you smoked yesterday but I wasn't so sure of what I smelled in you. Today that same smell is on you and its so strong. So tell me, Do you smoke?
Dele: Yes but not cigarette.
Me: What?
Dele: Skunk (don't know if I got the spelling right)
Me: What's Skunk?
Dele: He explained though I didn't understand any of his explanation since I was hearing it for the first time.
Me: For how long have you been smoking Skunk?
Dele: For years. I wasn't like that before not until some circumstances pushed me into the street. Mumsy and everyone doesn't know I smoke. No one knows.
Me: Please I want you to stop smoking. I don't feel comfortable with smokers. How can I help you stop?
Dele: I'm not an addict. I can stop right away.

I was so happy that I thought it was that easy to stop. Right there I believed he had stopped smoking skunk. A day after our discussion, I saw him with something that looked like grinded grass or dry leaf wrapped in a small white nylon. I was so curious to know what it was, so I asked.
Me: What's this?
Dele: Thyme
Me: what kind of thyme is this?
Dele: Its Thailand Thyme. Its used in cooking soup and its also medicinal. When you use it to cook, you will like it.
Me: wow, I will like to try it. Can I have some?
Dele: (This time around, laughing out), its weed ooo.
Me: you mean Igbo?
Dele: Yes Igbo. Its also called Weed.
Me: (Not suspecting he smokes weed too) is it the same Igbo that is being mixed in hair creams?
Dele: Yes but not this one. If you want that one, I will get it for you. This one is being put into tea or chewed. Its medicinal.

Dele explained the medical benefits of taking weed (In tea or chewing). I never knew he smokes weed not until a day he went out with his friends, his eyes was bleeding blood like he was given blow in the eyes. His eye balls were out and scaring. This time around, I walked up to him and asked if he had been smoking and he said Yes. I was furious. He promised to stop smoking skunk but I was surprised when he told me it wasn't skunk this time around but weed. I was so down. He promised to stop again.
Just yesterday, I caught him smoking. He didn't know I was coming. I saw him smoking the white paper. I was heart broken. I was speechless. I ran inside. He came in, he knew I was angry but he didn't know what to say. Not long, he slept off. I searched d whole house. I found wraps of weed in a nylon. I also found some in the varandah under a chair. I threw them into the water closet and flushed them. I placed the wrapper closed to where he will see them. He woke up and saw the wrappers emptied. He asked and I told him I ate them all. He didn't believe but I insisted that I ate them all since that's what he likes doing too. Ever since then, I've been keeping to myself.
I want to help him stop his smoking habit. I don't want him to damage his health due to excessive smoking. I'm afraid if he continues this way, something bad might happen to his health.
Please fellow Nairalanders, I need him to quit smoking, how do I help him stop. Matured advice only.
Thank you.
Sister, pele. Your bf is a junkie, he can't stop even if he wants to.
Just get yourself another Boyfriend.

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 21, 2015
Lol
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Adyrin(m): 7:28pm On Mar 21, 2015
He should be arrested and detained for 7years...
Sentenced to 7years without smoking and if he violates court orders he will be jailed!




Lol.....
He needs the Holy Spirit to st0p that shit because there's a spirit behind that...
#mystery...
Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Samirana360(m): 7:28pm On Mar 21, 2015
Kill him

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by okonelfg(m): 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
jus giv him a blowjoob

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Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 21, 2015
talk2hb1:
First you need to open the line of communication, let him feel comfortable telling you anything, from their you can will have the ability to stop him.
Believe me with what I read above you will make smarter in where he hides it, and possibly go out to take which is not good at all.
This is my own little stopping procedure:
*Let him feel comfortable talking about it
* Know the quantity he takes everyday
*Encourage him to take it inside and not with his friends
*Control the quantity he takes daily
* Dissociate him from his friends who does the same (Evacuation)
This is a long process oo, it could take months if not years, So help him GOD.
Regards' Habeeb Salami www.qlickas.com



Hmmm. Thank you sir

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