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I'm Back - Advice And Help! by obowunmi(m): 5:31pm On Apr 04, 2015
What advice do you have? Some old posters might know me.

Lesson learned is that put God first and in all things... Pls tell me, what could I be doing wrong? The thing don tire me sef. I need some kind of help and advice.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by thorpido(m): 5:36pm On Apr 04, 2015
Maybe you should change your moniker first.

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by cozy7(m): 5:41pm On Apr 04, 2015
U hv still not learnt d lesson of humanity....u think wealth can get u d world, as u make such statements as "I come from a wealthy family", "I paid pastors", "I travelled to Singapore" etc. Only God knows how mch inferior you've made her feel with such utterances.....like your d 1st to do so.
Add humility to all u hv learnt (if u really hv), become romantic WITH WORDS, allow her (ur nxt) hv a say, build your relationship.....u obviously don't. And hay, try travelling with her next time. Goodluck!

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by BeeBeeOoh(m): 5:42pm On Apr 04, 2015
You need Jega in your life that's all..

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by obowunmi(m): 5:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
You need Jega in your life that's all..

haha.. grin

Jega is a reputable man but I'm not gay.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by obowunmi(m): 5:46pm On Apr 04, 2015
cozy7:
U hv still not learnt d lesson of humanity....u think wealth can get u d world, as u make such statements as "I come from a wealthy family", "I paid pastors", "I travelled to Singapore" etc. Only God knows how mch inferior you've made her feel with such utterances.....like your d 1st to do so.
Add humility to all u hv learnt (if u really hv), become romantic WITH WORDS, allow her (ur nxt) hv a say, build your relationship.....u obviously don't. And hay, try travelling with her next time. Goodluck!

What does humanity mean... what else do women want?

She says I'm controlling... but I would do everything to make her happy. I even told her this.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by BeeBeeOoh(m): 5:50pm On Apr 04, 2015
obowunmi:


haha.. grin

Jega is a reputable man but I'm not gay.
just a JEGAQUIN & ur life will never remain d same..
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by dominique(f): 6:00pm On Apr 04, 2015
We're already in the 2nd quarter 2015, your dream of marrying this year may not be a reality except if you want an arranged marriage. Don't rush into things, take your time and work on your flaws. The right woman will come your way when you least expect it.

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by cozy7(m): 6:00pm On Apr 04, 2015
obowunmi:


What does humanity mean... what else do women want?

She says I'm controlling... but I would do everything to make her happy. I even told her this.
By "humility", I meant u shd stop flaunting ur wealth.... From experience, let me tell u that u shouldn't tell her u "will do anything 4her....such can be perceived as "flaunting wealth". JUST DO WHAT U WANNA DO. TALK LESS AND PROVE MORE. Stop saying what u feel, prove it. Most guys talk a lot, promising heaven on earth, but do nothing...except aiming at having s*x. Don't u think that ladies are used to hearing such stories?
There are simple but effective ways to earn a lady's heart. Seems like u got a lot to know abt women. I may not be able to say it all publicly. U can contact me, I'd luv to help u out PRACTICALLY ......FOC

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 04, 2015
if u've been dumped several times , then u're obviously doing something wrong. don't think u can buy their luv . u can hv all the money in the world buh if u don't treat dem right, are arrogant, flaunting ur money whatever it is u're doing wrong, dey'll eventually keep it moving

obowunmi:
Hi,

Many of you may remember me.

My mother has been pressuring me to get married. I come from a very wealthy family.

I began dating this girl (fine babe) who I really, really like(not love bit I can manage her) but things just suddenly went haywire because she says I'm a player. Now she's left.

I've learned that one should always put God first. This dating life don tire me small. I buy every thing on planet earth for my babes but they still don't stay.

I've even paid different pastors but it's like God doesn't answer their own prayers sef.

I recently traveled to Singapore, upon my return, the babe has dumped me.

Pls what should I do? I want to marry this year (2015) at all cost. I don't believe in arranged marriages and my time as a fornicator has expired.

What advice do you have? Some old posters might know me.

Lesson learned is that put God first and in all things... Pls tell me, what could I be doing wrong? The thing don tire me sef. I need some kind of help and advice.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 04, 2015
Lol....waste of mb
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On Apr 04, 2015
Money is not everything. Best believe it.
You don't know how any girls have dumped richer guys to settle with less rich guys.

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 6:24pm On Apr 04, 2015
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obowunmi:
Hi,

Many of you may remember me.

My mother has been pressuring me to get married. I come from a very wealthy family.

I began dating this girl (fine babe) who I really, really like(not love bit I can manage her) but things just suddenly went haywire because she says I'm a player. Now she's left.

I've learned that one should always put God first. This dating life don tire me small. I buy every thing on planet earth for my babes but they still don't stay.

I've even paid different pastors but it's like God doesn't answer their own prayers sef.

I recently traveled to Singapore, upon my return, the babe has dumped me.

Pls what should I do? I want to marry this year (2015) at all cost. I don't believe in arranged marriages and my time as a fornicator has expired.

What advice do you have? Some old posters might know me.

Lesson learned is that put God first and in all things... Pls tell me, what could I be doing wrong? The thing don tire me sef. I need some kind of help and advice.

Hmm, have you really changed, I have a fabulous younger sister I'm looking to marry off o grin, but she lives in San fransisco

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by 5minsmadness: 6:26pm On Apr 04, 2015
Lol@op
I see why you replied the way you did on the other thread.



Pls eh, what actually does your moniker mean?
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by 5minsmadness: 6:30pm On Apr 04, 2015
How the HELL did this thread turn into 'you' re flaunting your wealth thread? ' . Abeg make una go siddon jo.
You guys act as if you are not living in the real world. So he should wear rags and go and visit his girlfriend and beg for money cos he is trying to for humble. Personal experience : IT DOES NOT WORK. A woman wants to know you can take care of her needs. The longer you keep your wealth away from her the bigger your chances of being friendzoned at best or completely ignored at worst. And when you r friendzoned even when you expose your wealth they never see you as serious boyfriend again.

. The thing tire person jo.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Dheartless: 6:42pm On Apr 04, 2015
obowunmi:
Hi,

Many of you may remember me.

My mother has been pressuring me to get married. I come from a very wealthy family.

I began dating this girl (fine babe) who I really, really like(not love bit I can manage her) but things just suddenly went haywire because she says I'm a player. Now she's left.

I've learned that one should always put God first. This dating life don tire me small. I buy every thing on planet earth for my babes but they still don't stay.

I've even paid different pastors but it's like God doesn't answer their own prayers sef.

I recently traveled to Singapore, upon my return, the babe has dumped me.

Pls what should I do? I want to marry this year (2015) at all cost. I don't believe in arranged marriages and my time as a fornicator has expired.

What advice do you have? Some old posters might know me.

Lesson learned is that put God first and in all things... Pls tell me, what could I be doing wrong? The thing don tire me sef. I need some kind of help and advice.
honestly I think I can help you.

I have a relation who is God fearing, beautiful and also ready for marriage,
you might want to contact me
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Ewuro4: 6:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
Fem29, we need to discuss in camera... That lady will fit my brother. He's in his 40s though , you game? grin


Just kidding oh
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Ngokafor(f): 6:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
...@OP keep praying...one day God will answer your prayers cos he never fails..

...obviously there were things you were doing wrong ..womanizing much perhaps? lipsrsealed..you admitted it and your babe cited that as one reason why she left.

...since you say your fornicating days are over,good now hold on to God.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Ewuro4: 6:46pm On Apr 04, 2015
fem29:
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Hmm, have you really changed, I have a fabulous younger sister I'm looking to marry off o grin, but she lives in San fransisco

You're very very bad girl grin cheesy

Who gave you the audacity to marry her off hehe grin
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 04, 2015
Ewuro4:


You're very very bad girl grin cheesy

Who gave you the audacity to marry her off hehe grin

Lol no o, I'm being a good big sis grin, she is 26 and you know how it is , young ladies, say I'm young im young, then oops you're 32, not that there is anything wrong with being unmarried at 32 but it's the biological clock, they want kids and then they become very conscious of their fertility and the quality of their eggs.

If not for children matter I would advise her not to get married sef and just have fabulous relationships. She is very arty farty americanaish grin
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by obowunmi(m): 7:03pm On Apr 04, 2015
fem29:
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Hmm, have you really changed, I have a fabulous younger sister I'm looking to marry off o grin, but she lives in San fransisco

Wow... she's beautiful. I stay in NYC when I'm in the U.S.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by obowunmi(m): 7:03pm On Apr 04, 2015
I'd love to meet her.
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Apr 04, 2015
ahsekeena:
Lol....waste of mb
gud 4 u
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 7:59pm On Apr 04, 2015
obowunmi:


Wow... she's beautiful. I stay in NYC when I'm in the U.S.


Thanks Hun

Eeyah funny enough she moved from nyc about 6 months ago for work.

Ur name is not exactly appetising tho tongue
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Ewuro4: 8:06pm On Apr 04, 2015
Fem29, who cares about NL moniker appeal? The rough the better grin .... Shoot monkeywunmi a PM and let the two lovebirds start their journey. tongue


Gosh I love arrangee courtship grin
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 8:35pm On Apr 04, 2015
Ewuro4:
Fem29, who cares about NL moniker appeal? The rough the better grin .... Shoot monkeywunmi a PM and let the two lovebirds start their journey. tongue


Gosh I love arrangee courtship grin

Llolz I no want roughian for her oo, I want a gentleman
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Ewuro4: 8:37pm On Apr 04, 2015
fem29:


Llolz I no want roughian for her oo, I want a gentleman

Roughian ke? I meant the moniker, OP has been around for a while. Can't vouch for him but he's worth a try. wink
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 04, 2015
i've a guy friend in sf. he's looking to settle. he's 25, will be 26 this yr. he's a Chiropractor, a total gentleman. what does your sis do?

fem29:


Lol no o, I'm being a good big sis grin, she is 26 and you know how it is , young ladies, say I'm young im young, then oops you're 32, not that there is anything wrong with being unmarried at 32 but it's the biological clock, they want kids and then they become very conscious of their fertility and the quality of their eggs.

If not for children matter I would advise her not to get married sef and just have fabulous relationships. She is very arty farty americanaish grin
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 04, 2015
Ewuro4:


Roughian ke? I meant the moniker, OP has been around for a while. Can't vouch for him but he's worth a try. wink

Okk oo, I'll interview him first if he is cool with that

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Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 04, 2015
aflyingbird:
i've a guy friend in sf. he's looking to settle. he's 25, will be 26 this yr. he's a Chiropractor, a total gentleman. what does your sis do?


Oooo cool grin, She is an anti money laundering specialist.

She is finding it hard to find non gay suitable guys in San fran. How tall is your bro my sis is a bit taller than me and I'm 6ft
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by ifyalways(f): 8:56pm On Apr 04, 2015
Hahaha.

Obo is back. Wait make I call Slimyem first.

Seriously, enough of your " I'm from a wealthy family ish". It's old. Enough of buying expensive gifts to guilt trip Babes into dating you.
Brb
Re: I'm Back - Advice And Help! by pinkycute(f): 9:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
Ooh.... This is not the first time he's even bragging about his wealthy family cheesy cheesy cheesy Hmmmmmm... Some guys and pride undecided


Smh lipsrsealed


ifyalways:
Hahaha.

Obo is back. Wait make I call Slimyem first.

Seriously, enough of your " I'm from a wealthy family ish". It's old. Enough of buying expensive gifts to guilt trip Babes into dating you.
Brb

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