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So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 04, 2015
Love is definitely based on looks. So called fake love which is common in Nigeria. Girls look at fine faces and men look at boobs and ass. If a man is in a relationship with an ugly woman, he hardly honours her or treats her kindly. Most romantic gestures are extended to a good looking woman, while an ugly one no matter how loyal or decent, is treated like dirt and expected to be grateful she was even looked upon at all.

It is the undeniable truth that no matter how bad tempered an extremely beautiful woman is, she is treated like royalty. An ugly woman can never get away with such unless perhaps she is married. So called 'love' is not blind, partners, no matter how randy, are chosen for their beauty, by men , to a great extent. Does this not prove that this fake thing people call 'love' is based on beauty?

Your opinions are welcome.

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Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by illmatic101(m): 10:54pm On May 04, 2015
That's your opinion, in one way or the other you are also guilty.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 11:11pm On May 04, 2015
illmatic101:
That's your opinion, in one way or the other you are also guilty.

I don't believe I am like that. The one I chose wasn't that dream person in looks at all. I am just saying what I have really seen men do. It's like being ugly is a crime a woman should be mistreated for.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 11:14pm On May 04, 2015
Krystalxxx:


I don't believe I am like that. The one I chose wasn't that dream person in looks at all. I am just saying what I have really seen men do. It's like being ugly is a crime a woman should be mistreated for.
Ugly ladies can be very annoying sometimes. grin grin
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 11:19pm On May 04, 2015
Truckpusher:
Ugly ladies can be very annoying sometimes. grin grin

YOU! You're an unrepentant one grin...........your eyes are too open. Pray, tell me, how are the 'ugly' ladies annoyin?
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 11:27pm On May 04, 2015
Krystalxxx:


YOU! You're an unrepentant one grin...........your eyes are too open. Pray, tell me, how are the 'ugly' ladies annoyin?
Pray you don't come across anyone of them when you're with your boyfriend ,they will almost kill you with jealousy . cheesy grin

Though I confronted one sometime ago and she started crying - I told her point blank that its not my girl's fault that she is fuccking ugly. tongue

Next time she won't beef customers that looks like me. grin grin
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 11:37pm On May 04, 2015
Truckpusher:
Pray you don't come across anyone of them when you're with your boyfriend ,they will almost kill you with jealousy . cheesy grin

Though I confronted one sometime ago and she started crying - I told her point blank that its not my girl's fault that she is fuccking ugly. tongue

Next time she won't beef customers that looks like me. grin grin

Oh that was not nice. I'll probably tell your gf to 'punish ' you very well for being naughty, lol. But jokes aside I do wish no matter how ugly, a well behaved loyal gentle woman should be loved, if love is real.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 11:40pm On May 04, 2015
Krystalxxx:


Oh that was not nice. I'll probably tell your gf to 'punish ' you very well for being naughty, lol. But jokes aside I do wish no matter how ugly, a well behaved loyal gentle woman should be loved, if love is real.
Oh I see , so you want her bullying my girlfriend emotionally? no way - I'll lash out immediately and put her where she belongs. tongue
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 11:57pm On May 04, 2015
Thats a fat lie.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 3:05am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Oh I see , so you want her bullying my girlfriend emotionally? no way - I'll lash out immediately and put her where she belongs. tongue


Lol ok
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 3:05am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:



Lol ok
Policewomen do this a lot. cheesy
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 3:06am On May 05, 2015
softysparky:
Thats a fat lie.

Why do you think it is?
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 3:09am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Policewomen do this a lot. cheesy

You're still awake? But about this I had no idea. Dated a policewoman before?
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 3:12am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


You're still awake? But about this I had no idea. Dated a policewoman before?
Nope, policewomen do act sometimes when they come across you with a confident beautiful lady. grin
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 3:14am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Nope, policewomen do act sometimes when they come across you with a confident beautiful lady. grin

Well you should date the policewoman too so that she can feel alright
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 3:17am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


Well you should date the policewoman too so that she can feel alright
cheesy

What kind of advice is this? angry
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 4:53am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
cheesy

What kind of advice is this? angry


I'm only advising you to be fair tongue
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 4:54am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


I'm only advising you to be fair tongue
grin
Ok I will be nice next time but not when you want to bully ma lady right before me. grin
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:02am On May 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
grin
Ok I will be nice next time but not when you want to bully ma lady right before me. grin

That's a nice truce .
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Truckpusher(m): 5:05am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


That's a nice truce .
Now you agree.

You don't people bully the people you love just for fun. angry

You give it back to them. cheesy
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by MrCork: 5:25am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:
Love is definitely based on looks. So called fake love which is common in Nigeria. Girls look at fine faces and men look at boobs and ass. If a man is in a relationship with an ugly woman, he hardly honours her or treats her kindly. Most romantic gestures are extended to a good looking woman, while an ugly one no matter how loyal or decent, is treated like dirt and expected to be grateful she was even looked upon at all.

It is the undeniable truth that no matter how bad tempered an extremely beautiful woman is, she is treated like royalty. An ugly woman can never get away with such unless perhaps she is married. So called 'love' is not blind, partners, no matter how randy, are chosen for their beauty, by men , to a great extent. Does this not prove that this fake thing people call 'love' is based on beauty?

Your opinions are welcome.


...are u lightskin? angry
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:28am On May 05, 2015
MrCork:



...are u lightskin? angry

No sweery grin
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by coolzeal(m): 5:35am On May 05, 2015
I love smart women. Book smart technically.

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Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:40am On May 05, 2015
coolzeal:
I love smart women. Book smart technically.

And very pretty too
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:51am On May 05, 2015
To be honest with you Africa (Nigeria) love base on pretty, thank other features follow.........you can't know the true behaviour of a person without getting close... You price fruit by the physical appearance.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by coolzeal(m): 5:54am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


And very pretty too
One thing for sure is certain. if beauty is lost nothing is lost. if health or duty is lost something is lost but if character is lost everything is lost. I agree beauty is also considered, but for me its after character and book-smart.

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Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:54am On May 05, 2015
ABJDOT:
To be honest with you Africa (Nigeria) love base on pretty, thank other features follow.........you can't know the true behaviour of a person without getting close... You price fruit by the physical appearance.

That's how I see the men think. The 'inner beauty' thing doesn't seem to be working, lol.
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 5:57am On May 05, 2015
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen fine men with not so fine women. I've seen fine ladies with not so fine men. The important thing is that that is my observations and my reality. So one could only speak for themselves. So I would disagree with your observations on this topic. cheesy
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 6:05am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've seen fine men with not so fine women. I've seen fine ladies with not so fine men. The important thing is that that is my observations and my reality. So one could only speak for themselves. So I would disagree with your observations on this topic. cheesy

Chiam55 dear, there's no disputing the fact that you've seen this but isn't it, just sort of, rare?
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 6:09am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


Chiam55 dear, there's no disputing the fact that you've seen this but isn't it, just sort of, rare?


No it's not hun. Lust is governed by beauty and love is different.

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Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 6:11am On May 05, 2015
Chiam55:


No it's not hun. Lust is governed by beauty and love is different.

Okay....well then love is rare .
Re: So Called 'love' Is Based On Beauty : True Or False? by Nobody: 6:16am On May 05, 2015
Krystalxxx:


Okay....well then love is rare .

Lol... yh, we can agree on that one grin

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