ivyT:



guy i wonder sef o

dats how d broke ones talk cos them never c fine babe for their life

Gold digger alert!

The major problem is our 4kedup society. The huge pressure that comes with the importance we attach to marriage makes it less attractive to some of us. Op should ask his friends what really is the problem, this is not about scarcity of wife materials but it's majorly about guys not ready for that trap.......staying with one person for years, having sex with one person for years is a trap! We r bn dishonest with ourselves cos I know 95% of. Present days couples are unhappy. There is nothing wrong in getting along with some1 that u av feelings for but do not trap ur self under any matrimonial title... Av a good career, Av lots of sex with the babe/'s u r feeling , make babies, stay together but have your own apartment incase shitz bore you out. Most of these girls get married cos they wanna become a Mrs, from peer pressure to family dictates. Well this is just an opinion of some1 sha..... Nothing serious

Marriage is not everything. Rather find someone you are comfortable with, can laugh with and whom you can just be yourself with.

There is too much pressure to tie the knot. Do you know how many unhappy married couples there are who wished they had waited? It's really not the walk in the park everyone makes it out to be.

All the the same, good luck with your search.

Who wants to commit to the kind of ladies we have in the society today? 90 percent of them won't add value to your life. Deduct from your account & think fucking u is a huge favor when they give it to a higher bidder anyway. How many babes will visit their bf house & cook with their money, do his laundry or fall in love with a broke guy with prospects? Shey after we hammer them think say we go easily forget? Many are called but few are chosen. Most of these ladies have slept with married men, random dating & seek refuge where they did not invest. Yes men disappoint but your best bet on getting a husband is building a relationship & being submissive. Invest your time & make a few sacrifice if the guy is nice. I no say make u sponsor am ooo.

U'll never know how difficult it is to get a decent lady .

Having a "girlfriend" is pretty easy buy a "wife material" is one of the biggest challenges confronting men that r ready to settle down.

Well, that's why "Baby Mama" trend is growing more and more.

The mods should this to front page cc ishilove rocktation.
topic is interesting.
I think the sudden increase in runs girls has made it difficult for many to settle down. Also, men are unnecessary weary and cautious of getting involved with a random lady out there.

Most guys in ds category are not ready for commitment or responsibility cos they thought most ladies are gold digger

rockshandy:
Marriage is not everything. Rather find someone you are comfortable with, can laugh with and whom you can just be yourself with.

There is too much pressure to tie the knot. Do you know how many unhappy married couples there are who wished they had waited? It's really not the walk in the park everyone makes it out to be.

All the the same, good luck with your search.

Did you read the post at all? I never said I was searching. for the sake of emphasis, I said there is a growing number of single eligble men out there. i never talked abt myself.

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.
Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.
A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

cc lalasticlala ishilove seun.....FP please. this issue needs to be deliberated
Even Seun is one of the 30+ years old men who is yet to marry. maybe he can contribute

. They are scared of making commitment. That's why its absolutely best to find a lady when you have less wealth. Ladies at that time usually show their true colour after-all she does not demand cash from you unreasonably.

Why will responsible and mature guys want to marry when ladies has lost their value by giving their assesst to the highest bidder..
Beside who want to purchase wat he can easily borrow,

the fact is that majority of those decent girls are anti social now tell me who want to marry such a lady?

With rampant cases of divorce here and there no body want to settle than because marriage is now endured instead of enjoyed,,, before those ladies finally want to settle down, they might have been in their late 20 or early 30. And maybe those responsible men would want to marry early 20s.

Now tell me why a wife material would nt be difficlt to find..

op.forget the others.
please can you introduce me to that your 33years old oil block pal. I pledge to be faithful,loyal and honest

ivyT:


guy i wonder sef o
dats how d broke ones talk cos them never c fine babe for their life

where ve u been all this while?

Jaypea98:
where ve u been all this while?

Been around..

Sparkles003:
op.forget the others.
please can you introduce me to that your 33years old oil block pal. I pledge to be faithful,loyal and honest

lol. are you serious?

olowoba:

lol. are you serious?

Yes o.Very serious but come o,hope no be woman beater.cos my voice is not loud(i cant fit shout)

Sparkles003:

Yes o.Very serious but come o,hope no be woman beater.cos my voice is not loud(i cant fit shout)

lol. believe me most of my friends don't lack women around them.
however, if you are serious, pm me. i will link two of you and leave you guys to do the sorting yourselves.
i have never had any report of him beating any lady. hope say u make sense small sha.

Seun is not up to 30 yet

G3n3sis:
Seun is not up to 30 yet

seun was born 1982. that's 33

olowoba:

lol. believe me most of my friends don't lack women around them.
however, if you are serious, pm me. i will link two of you and leave you guys to do the sorting yourselves.
i have never had any report of him beating any lady. hope say u make sense small sha.

uhmmm."my friends don't lack women around them."i hope he is not a serial cheat.
will pm you.
about the making sense part.goes both ways

I think the problem is from both sides,there are alot of materialistic lazy women out there ,who discourage such men you talked about.Another issue is if you look deeper such men may have had one woman in their life at one point or another but when money comes d'guys start misbehaving cos to them,they got d'money if d'lady likes let her stay or go,after all there are many fishes in d'river.And when they discover that d'women outside are only after d'money they start complaining.And what makes u think dat girls who are always indoors are decent or anti social .Trust me most of all those decent girls are bad deep down.So my advice is this guys if u have a good girl keep her,dont take her for granted and later come and start bitchin about.Most girls have stayed with a guy when there is no money only for the guy to leave them when there is money so Do u xpect such girls to go after broke struggling dudes?And most broke dudes sef no dey try be guy :u arent not fine,rich,caring or good in bed wat thre for d'girl to enjoy and such guys go still dey misbehave .when d'girl leaves them for a better dude they start screaming'those hoes arent loyal.

ivyT:


Been around..

I swear for some time now i ve been clicking peoples' profile in search of that face of yours.....

winnieberry:
I think the problem is from both sides,there are alot of materialistic lazy women out there ,who discourage such men you talked about.Another issue is if you look deeper such men may have had one woman in their life at one point or another but when money comes d'guys start misbehaving cos to them,they got d'money if d'lady likes let her stay or go,after all there are many fishes in d'river.And when they discover that d'women outside are only after d'money they start complaining.And what makes u think dat girls who are always indoors are decent or anti social .Trust me most of all those decent girls are bad deep down.So my advice is this guys if u have a good girl keep her,dont take her for granted and later come and start bitchin about.Most girls have stayed with a guy when there is no money only for the guy to leave them when there is money so Do u xpect such girls to go after broke struggling dudes?And most broke dudes sef no dey try be guy :u arent not fine,rich,caring or good in bed wat thre for d'girl to enjoy and such guys go still dey misbehave .when d'girl leaves them for a better dude they start screaming'those hoes arent loyal.

Wow. I like your comment . Read through your posts. they make a lot of sense. Can you be my friend? No strings attached (I mean, not for relationship, just friends). I will pm you and give you my bb pin/whatsapp number if you respond. Is that fine with you?

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.
Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.
A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

cc lalasticlala ishilove seun.....FP please. this issue needs to be deliberated
Even Seun is one of the 30+ years old men who is yet to marry. maybe he can contribute

. Ermmm, help the ministry by hooking some sisters up with those your rich, single friends.

jashar:


. Ermmm, help the ministry by hooking some sisters up with those your rich, single friends.

I am not a matchmaker oo.. . I was not hired as one. lol. Just making an observation.

olowoba:
This is a source of concern. I write for a few friends of mine - hardworking and nice guys (30+ years) working in various reputable firms in Nigeria. But 3, 4, 5 years after, they are still searching for the lady of their heart desires. I also notice the trend everywhere I go.
Just as we complain about the growing number of unmarried ladies, I'm also worried abt the growing number of unmarried, comfortable men who are over 30 years.
A case in study is a popular friend of mine who has been working in the oil sector for more than 5 years. He clocks 33 this year. He still remains unmarried. He says he is still searching. I can count more than 10 of my friends - comfortable, hale and healthy, gainfully employed but single after working for more than 5 years..What can be the cause?
Are ladies getting scarce, or is it that there are few "wife materials" in town now? or are they simply afraid of making commitment?

cc lalasticlala ishilove seun.....FP please. this issue needs to be deliberated
Even Seun is one of the 30+ years old men who is yet to marry. maybe he can contribute

Maybe you should find something more useful to do with your time. In what manual did you see obligations of people are so-and-so-age? Or maybe you should start going round giving gold medals to those who have married. It is people like you that pushed a boy I brought up due to failed parentage, who abandoned me in my hardships now that he is able to do something, so that he can meet timetables of people like you. I laboured to stabilise a family due to hopeless parents who also followed pressures like yours and started families they could not take care of. I put considerations like marriage in the bin and lo and behold, I fell on hard times, the ones I've been looking out for finally reached fruition and run to be married as they're in '30s. I have news for you: I'm in my 40s. You're a kid. You have NO IDEA

from what you have stated it shows that all these men are rich and work in a reputable company. causes of their predicament (late marriage) :p

1. they are afraid of commitment: most rich single men are afraid of commitment because ladies are at their beck and call. why settle for one while their are many ladies highly responsive to their slightest request.
unfortunately it happens that all those ladies turns out to be runs girls.

2. their is this common belief that as a man even when you grow old you can still marry gorgeous ladies as long as you are rich 'cause practically to them most girls can do anything for money leading to their lackadaisical altitude towards geting married on time ,thus they refuse to realise that modest ladies run from them.

3.they see women as sex tools and unfortunately they end up single having baby mamas and not wife.

though my reasons above doesn't apply to all rich single men but a higher percentage of them.

i have observed this trend too

When they re getting some benefits of marriage while single, why will they want to get married?

ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.

Voted

Yes.. if u look at the criteria most single wealth guys want in a lady..it's almost impossible to find one to fit in..they might end up settling for less anyway,so they are just taking their time..Better late than to be sorry..