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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:18pm On May 25, 2015
gunners160:
menh,u must b high on ur gf's pants.Read d story again from the begining. U lack comprehension...

Notice you are the ONLY one choosing this interpretation. Does it make sense that way at all? Use your brain. Noone else can use it for you.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:18pm On May 25, 2015
A guest is a guest and should be taken care of. She is a guest and should be looked after. If she lived there, then she could do some chores.

When I have guest whether young or old or an in law, I host them appropriately. When people live with me, then they can do chores.

Some men say they left/will leave a woman who does what the fiancee did. Women, these kind of men are men you should run away from unless you are of course one of these women who believe in becoming a cleaner for their in laws. When there are men who want to treat you like a partner, why settle for backward thinking men.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by spicykev(f): 7:20pm On May 25, 2015
Yea, u are one Nigerian that has spoken her mind....I noticed most pple here are just following the crowd, some cannot sit down for a minute and analyze the whole story the guy has put up. its not only a woman's responsibility to ensure peace in a home, its a collective responsibility, ego is something that can reduce someone or deprive people of better opportunities, I have seen it happen.I am not a proponent of arrogance and will never be,am only analyzing a situation from my church mind( lol) all am saying is that there is a way the guy wld have managed the situation and no body wld hear a thing. He could have washed the plates and table his case before the brother properly, everybody wld be happy and he won't be told to leave.....wisdom is profitable to.....

kiss
ugodean8485:


Am so loving your point. It's disheartening to see a good number of people support d young man..even some ladies in this forum who HV been screaming "wrong wrong" fall into the category of the lady(fiancée) mentioned. There is nothing wrong in the young man washing the plates.He would have risen above the threat and averted the misunderstanding he has with his brother now. If he feels too big,let him fetch himself another apartment nd leave his brother's biz alone.the fact that d lady didn't wash the plates doesn't mean she is evil. She could even become the savior of the family in future. What is in washing plates sef that all and sundry in this forum is screaming "wrong wrong"...some guys sha...smh

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by CaptPlanet(m): 7:20pm On May 25, 2015
She dey mad. The elder brother dey mad join.


She be oil marketer? Abeg make she go wash that plate
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by wamenzy(f): 7:21pm On May 25, 2015
Wat she did is so wrong... It wud have bin a different tin if she finished eating and just begged d younger bro to help her....... But she must be very lazy.. How many seconds will it take her to wash d plates she used to eat..... D elder bro shud better stop supporting wat he knows is wrong..... Hope if he gets marid to her in future and she does not do huz chores he won't turn her to punching bag ohh..... If I was d younger bro I wud just give her... Her way and mind my business... Let d elder bro continue to wash plate... Nonsense

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:


Here we go again. Feminist egoistic ranter. Keep advocating for equal right but the promise remains that as you were a woman, till you return to your ancestors, you'll remain a woman and men must always exhibit authority over you.
Oga, hold on. Let's look at this ur story in a civil manner.

1. The fiance visited the house (she's a guest)
2. She was served a plate of food (courtesy from the host)
2. She ate up and left the plate unwashed before going home (any crime here??)
3. The elder brother engaged the younger one in a bitter quarrel over the "unwashed" plate the next morning!

To me, this argument is totally baseless! The younger brother should be ashamed of himself. I would even expect him to take the plates away after the girl (fiance and guest) is done eating. So the washing of plate is not even supposed to raise a topic!

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015
spicykev:
My sincere opinion is that the guy is exhibiting pride....There are times in life one needs to overlook certain things with humility and understanding, for me the story dozent start here, maybe the guy has been flexing muscles in the house with the lady and she propably wanted to belittle him.

By all ramifications, it's wrong, very very wrong for a lady to eat and leave the plate for an in-law, a male in-law for that matter to come wash the plate. Dont you have respect for men folks? If you try that, it means you can as well leave the plate you ate for your husband to come wash it while you cross your legs at the sitting room watching nollywood movie. If he agrees to do this, then the next you remind him of your undies that had been soaked for days and need to be washed and get dried.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:21pm On May 25, 2015
missKiffy:

Well you have a point but the girl no try
Please, read the story again
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:23pm On May 25, 2015
There are always 2 sides to every story.
Am more concerned about the age of the lady in question.
Personally if my younger brother who is well above the age of 25yrs refuses to do the dishes because my fiancee didn't do her own, I'll call that lady and give her proper orientation.
Everyone should know their place in the scheme of things. Respect, is paramount in our culture, and we should not loose ourselves in other people's culture.
If the younger brother were a teenager I would have used a stick to teach him good manners.

My problem with ladies copying their western counterparts is that they will not be quick to claim 21st century when it comes to splitting the bills.
Finally, no lady I repeat no lady comes into a house with two grown adults, bearing the tag 'fiancee' eats and doesn't do her dishes or the entire dishes for that matter, it's simple African etiquette. Even my spoilt brat of a sister can't try such.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Beamborla(f): 7:23pm On May 25, 2015
It's really painful to see ladies coming here to scream 'wrong' yet they fail to see the kind of words our dear OP used on them.

I'm trying seriously not to comment on the issue itself lipsrsealed
Very soon, the younger brother would tell the elder brother to call her to come clean their apartment for them on weekends.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:24pm On May 25, 2015
njays24:
What kind of a silly and nasty uncultured attitude is that? She left the plate for her houseboy to wash or what? Even me that the madam of my house,whenever I visit my mother-in-law or sister-in-law,I would be the one to do the dishes,cook and tidy the kitchen even when his younger sisters are there. Onibaje oshi.
You are blessed sister

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Sodams(m): 7:24pm On May 25, 2015
amokeme:
I don't like doing dishes grin.. She might be like me tongue

I see.
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:25pm On May 25, 2015
BabaOneChance:

Oga, hold on. Let's look at this ur story in a civil manner.

1. The fiance visited the house (she's a guest)
2. She was served a plate of food (courtesy from the host)
2. She ate up and left the plate unwashed before going home (any crime here??)
3. The elder brother engaged the younger one in a bitter quarrel over the "unwashed" plate the next morning!

To me, this argument is totally baseless! The younger brother should be ashamed of himself. I would even expect him to take the plates away after the girl (fiance and guest) is done eating. So the washing of plate is not even supposed to raise a topic!

Does the word "fiancee" reflect a visitor?

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by BabaOneChance: 7:26pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:


Does the word "fiancee" reflect a visitor?
She's a visitor as long as she's not living with them

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:26pm On May 25, 2015
amokeme:
I don't like doing dishes grin.. She might be like me tongue

Hoe-kay

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:28pm On May 25, 2015
BabaOneChance:

She's a visitor as long as she's not living with them

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:28pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:


The guy may have purposely refused to wash the plates because...

Since the dude who's a student and well over 25yrs realised that a lady, who should be respecting men would rather try to bring him down to that extent and had thus refused to wash the plates...

@gunners160

I helped highlight the section which will help you comprehend better. All the rest of us needed to figure out that in this case, there would be no reason for the senior to 'refuse to wash plates' in the first place. Does it sound normal for a Senior brother to have to 'refuse' anything as he's the one in authority?
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by peedeeasobie(m): 7:30pm On May 25, 2015
1. If she's just a visitor, I see nothing wrong in what she did. Someone that visits once in a while.

2. If its a habit, she comes, eats and dumps the plate for someone else to wash then something is wrong with her.

3. I believe she is called 'Fiancee', she should no longer be called a visitor and shouldn't be dumping plates like that.

4. The younger brother didn't do well, unless its a constant habit of the lady, if not there is no big deal in washing the plate.

5. OP. Your statement smacks with egoism. What do you mean by 'mere lady who should be respecting men'? She should respect people because they are human beings not because they have penis!

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:31pm On May 25, 2015
freecocoa:
I will die at a ripe old age, I don't have a problem with that.

Feck you and your 'misogynic' culture, I don't watch telemundo btw.
lol

People like you are the ones that guys use to their satisfaction before dumping your proud asss.

Which guy's mother will accept a FEMALE that regards herself in the same level as the MALE

Even the bible said the MAN is the head...goodluck though

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:33pm On May 25, 2015
freecocoa:
If I were to be that lady, I'd seriously reconsider being married into such a family, good thing her hubby to be is sensible sha.

What's the big deal in doing a dish? Why does it have to come down to who ate with the plate? the said fiancee is a guest if I'm correct, so why should she being doing dishes in a house she's visiting for starters?(not that it's bad anyways), just that, it's not proper etiquette to demand your guests do chores(well except there are rules, which you must let them know about) then again, it just isn't normal.


This is the crux of the matter!
Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:33pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:


Does the word "fiancee" reflect a visitor?
Help me ask them.

She'll be the one to demand a duplicate of the house keys yet she still calls herself a guest in a house she comes to ffuuck on a daily basis

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 7:34pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:


By all ramifications, it's wrong, very very wrong for a lady to eat and leave the plate for an in-law, a male in-law for that matter to come wash the plate. Dont you have respect for men folks? If you try that, it means you can as well leave the plate you ate for your husband to come wash it while you cross your legs at the sitting room watching nollywood movie. If he agrees to do this, then the next you remind him of your undies that had been soaked for days and need to be washed and get dried.
Just shut your chauvinistic mouth already, you sound like someone just out of a cave.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:34pm On May 25, 2015
BabaOneChance:

She's a visitor as long as she's not living with them

How about severally coming to sleep and leave the next day? She is still a visitor? She has already started showing bad characters and the guy should know what he's about to delve his hands into, else, he will be the one going to market to buy grayfish, pumpkins and tomatoes and come cook for her and as well as washing her undies for her when they finally get married.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by francizy(m): 7:34pm On May 25, 2015
amokeme:
am just lazy angry but I do things when necessary.. smiley ( there is a difference btwn being lazy and dirty)
The girl should have washed the plates tho..


Lazy årse! tongue

Anyways, you are now on the right track based on the bolded..

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by babygirlfl: 7:35pm On May 25, 2015
Beamborla:
It's really painful to see ladies coming here to scream 'wrong' yet they fail to see the kind of words our dear OP used on them.

I'm trying seriously not to comment on the issue itself lipsrsealed
Very soon, the younger brother would tell the elder brother to call her to come clean their apartment for them on weekends.


My dear please don't make what these women do hurt you. It used to make me angry until I realised they should be pitied. How can someone be happy to be called that kind of name? How can being treated like the only thing you are good enough for is to clean and bear kids be enough. Some of these women don't know better.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 25, 2015
If you use a plate, then you are liable to wash it. The elder brother just wants to show domination. If the girl cant wash it, then the elder brother should have washed it.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Aida13: 7:36pm On May 25, 2015
The girl is wrong in the sense of our normal culture. She should have played the womanly aspect of nurturer and helped the men clean up. But in the case of her either neglecting, forgetting or refusing to do the dishes then the junior Bro is wrong for trying to prove stubborn.

Two wrongs don't make a right. Out of respect for your older brother he could have just washed up. Then jokingly tell his big Bro what the girl failed to do. The senior will then warn his gf. In the meantime his regard for his wise jnr Bro will grow seeing the younger one showing foresight.

Stay there dey do strong head till ur big Bro throws you out of the house. Na you go marry am before? Lol. Take it easy people.

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by emperorchedda(m): 7:36pm On May 25, 2015
Otamayomi1:
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Its Very Very Wrong. She Is Nt Yet Married 2 Him. Evn If She Is, She Is Supose 2 Extend Respect 2 Her Hubby Sibling More Sef.
your kind are the type that encourage and gives me hope that I can still marry a Nigerian girl.

This is lovely!

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by 9jatatafo(m): 7:38pm On May 25, 2015
Elder brother don chop vegetable

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by suzzy16(f): 7:38pm On May 25, 2015
RedBenson:
A neighbourhood brother was seriously angry with his younger bro this morning when he realised that the plates his fiancee ate with when she visited last night was not washed by his younger brother.

The guy may have purposely refused to wash the plates because he believes it's an insult for a lady (be it his senior or junior) to have eaten from a plate and lacked the basic womanly manners to leave it unwashed.

Since the dude who's a student and well over 25yrs realised that a lady, who should be respecting men would rather try to bring him down to that extent and had thus refused to wash the plates.

This issue actually caused an uproar between the two brothers up to the point the elder brother was telling the younger one "finish your school asap and leave my house...nonsense".

Well, the elder brother later went and washed the plates furiously angry without his sibling. The fact that he even supported the lady on such act is what surprised everyone.

The question is, what RIGHT does a lady (be it a wife or fiancee) have to keep the plates she ate with for her brother in-law to come wash for her? Who should rather do that to who? Smh @women of nowadays. No iota of manners in them again.
hmmm,bt why would he treat his brother like trash all becos of a woman

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by Menace2Society(m): 7:39pm On May 25, 2015
BabaOneChance:

Come on! This is a babe they're expecting to become the madam of the house soon. It won't hurt a fly if the younger brother kisses her feet even...and he's doing it for the elder brother! The girl would naturally like him for that and would wanna return the favour. I don't support the junior at all
Crap undecided

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Re: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of His Fiancee's Unwashed Plates by freecocoa(f): 7:39pm On May 25, 2015
emperorchedda:
lol

People like you are the ones that guys use to their satisfaction before dumping your proud asss.

Which guy's mother will accept a FEMALE that regards herself in the same level as the MALE

Even the bible said the MAN is the head...goodluck though
Seriously though, I pity the women that end up with your kind.

You sound really stup1d. No man or woman can use me, whatever I do, I do because I want to and am comfortable doing it, which doesn't include pretending/accepting everything thrown at me, just to please a prospective MIL/boyfriend.

Not everyone believes in your bible and only dumb/ignorant people, bring religion into a secular discourse, go get some education you simpleton.

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