i must confess some of u are mean but truthful though,breaking up is wat i ve decided to do but need wider consultations so i wont regret later thats why i post it here for general assessment.thanks everybody.i really appreciate ,this shows that my decision was the ryt one thanks all nairalanders

@ Op don't mind those calling u names 30% of nlanders ve dated a cheating girlfrend b4 nd 60% re still dating a cheating partner with knowing nd unknowing. I've been in that position b4, don't make woman ur most priority in life i knw every man has a bigger issue in life not woman. why not focused more on other important things than killing urself over a girl dat do give a bleeped abt the feelings u hav 4 her. Love of a thing is overrated pls don't b deceive dis one no b love. If u are dating a girl dat does nt reciprocate back the feeling u ve 4 her u re on a very longthing. If u ve developed a very deep feelings 4 her, nd d Best advice i ll give to now just quit. Nd b happy once in ur life. Truth b told d girl no even like u self waste of time. Why nt give other girls a try nd stop wasting a whole 6yrs 4 chasing shadow. Is this another version of d ugandaness nollywood script even d real nollywood don upgrade. U took 3yrs dat one no reach u come sign anoda 3yrs. Mikel Obi u b.

Venom104:


My thoughts exactly..

Yea

DMerciful:
You are just a goat no offence! is there anybody in your entire village that you can compare to the achievements of GEJ? even if they give you 10 life time, you wont achieve what GEJ has achieved. Once again you are a goat

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Frydae:
She n her friends all have u planned out! Run away from that quadrangle of prostitutes! If she could travel to his school to see him, then he is the one! Free that female hound!

EOD.
Retweet.

my friend run fast run far it cannot end well for you!

[size=20pt]I know how hard it is, but trust me she's a bittch and a bittch will always be a bittch. If she thinks you don't deserve her, she's right but show her you deserve better than her cheap asss[/size]

AreaFada2:
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Nnah ehn,

This guy gives guys a very bad name.

If you were not seriously after dating and just wanted occasional condomised bleep, I will even hear. But possibly over 3 years of infidelity and you stayed put. Haba! Abeg check yourself.

Anyway like 80% of guys are being cheated on, only just not aware.

90% of ladies, especially students in higher institutions that I talk to, actually think dating 2, 3 or 4 guys is not really a big deal.
Even after engagement, playing away for some girls is ok.
Only after marriage most are not ready to do it. At least they claim so. It may just be "forming" decent wife things.

In infidelity stakes, girls have overtaken guys years ago, with the advent of social media and smart phones.

So make we nor cruficy this guy. We're all mostly ignorant mugus.

This guy knows, that's the only difference.

He knows and he no fit waka?
abi the girl vaģìna get magnet for inside?

elijah24:
i must confess some of u are mean but truthful though,breaking up is wat i ve decided to do but need wider consultations so i wont regret later thats why i post it here for general assessment.thanks everybody.i really appreciate ,this shows that my decision was the ryt one thanks all nairalanders

Shoro niyen?

They've said it all.

hamjaf:
Try www.questang.com for your questions, comments, advice and suggestion on anything including relationship and romance

indiraserv:
You either have very low self esteem or she has given you vegetable ....
Am sorry that's al I can think of right now
CAN'T DEAL
How someone can accept to be an option to another? Beats me

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elijah24:
i must confess some of u are mean but truthful though,breaking up is wat i ve decided to do but need wider consultations so i wont regret later thats why i post it here for general assessment.thanks everybody.i really appreciate ,this shows that my decision was the ryt one thanks all nairalanders

I'd wanted to take ur head to Dr. Olukoya for special deliverance but on the other hand I discoveReD that I should take it to Pst. Kumuyi for blessing

Dump her with the speed of light

RickRichards:
Please OP, whatever you do, steer clear of politics. Na people like you they become leader like GEJ: docile.

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AreaFada2:
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Yep, not surprising at all. Sad though.

Actually lots of men don't have as many girls as they like to brag about. Dating girls in 9ja costs time and money. And men need time to hustle for money. If you're well to do, you can have very many girls indeed. And in Nigeria of today, less than 30% have that level of comfort to "afford" many women.
The moneyed young men that are equally promiscuous get many girls. That is why bosses in top jobs bleep both married and single female staff. They have authority, influence & money. These three things attract women like magnet. Of course there are still some babes not greedy for money.

An average looking girl that dresses well and carry herself nicely can be approached by many "try-your-luck" guys and serious ones too. If she's not picky, she can have a new man daily. But it takes toasting, paying date bills and other expenses to get a girl. So ladies have more opportunities to cheat.

Also women can date young, old, single, married men BUT most guys would date single and younger women, so that the pool of women a guy can chose from is less than the pool of men girls can get men from.

Thank God you have seen it up close, so you know how it is.
But you cannot blame the women alone. It is still men who knowingly or unknowingly bleep the married and engaged women.

Am not blaming anybody.the men are doing it as a boost to their manhood! the women are doing it to get back at the men

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

you have an inferiority complex.
Regret what later?


You will only regret it if you Dont break up with her now.
You will keep beating yourself up for not breaking up with her sooner.

itxtoff:
you must be rich, and you are her MAGA. Irgo just end the shit, its not love, its called obssesion.

I think its d other way round, dis girl must have been footing his bills, perhaps he is in a better position now, he suddenly remembers how unfaithful she has been.

A cheat will alway be a cheat. I will not advice u end it now cos ure not just a year in the relationship...but sir, u still have a long way to go in life. Just follow ur mind. All is well.

Op, you are to do the following with immediate effect.


1: break up with her NOW!

2: post the proof here on nairaland, text message or whatsapp etc.

3: delete everything that reminds you of her, everything!

4: build yourself esteem because it has been shattered. ( for you to stay with a cheating partner for 3 years with full knowledge means you have no self esteem.

5: Face your studies, improve yourself, look good, work hard.

6: socialize with people of great minds.

7: Love with your heart and HEAD next time!



OK bye.

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uzolexis:


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Omotayor123:
Sharing a girl huh


Answer this question first op
Was she dating the other guy already before you guys starts dating

If not You are a Big tym Mu square....







How on earth will you stick to that kind of Mugulicious Relationship

@bolded,

Do u mean to say dat cheating is justified if she had bin dating d other guy b4 she met d Op?

pattybf:



I think its d other way round, dis girl must have been footing his bills, perhaps he is in a better position now, he suddenly remembers how unfaithful she has been.

Oro yen niyen !

LastProphet:
u havent fallen sick yet, wait till she hands u a correct dose of staph. My guy at that age u can NEVER EVER keep a girl to only yourself, you better get this into your greasy hair now. All girls and guys will cheat as far as they continue to look good it is only the degree that varies from person to person. As par the part where u cant stay without her, that is a totally childish opinion. Nobody was born with another person, moment you stay away from her a few days and do something new or change environment and see other people, u will realize how slow u were. There are other very very exciting people around so open your eyes and meet them. Dont rush into another relationship, sit down and take stock of what you can learn from this about u, your partner and rships in general. Once again forget anything making u believe u cant stay without one person - we all believed it before and found out it was a lie. My late brother was engaged to a lady schooling in UJ [size=14pt]when he died, people were so scared of breaking the news to her [/size]because she was in final year and they were 'heavily' in love, my guy after her exams she shed some tears and got herself a very nice fine man to marry 6 months later - she lived happily thereafter. Enuf said

men those words are heavy men.....
Life sha... Its a singular journey

DrGroove post=3463088 :D7:

Am not blaming anybody.the men are doing it as a boost to their manhood! the women are doing it to get back at the men

. I know you're not. But most women do it for benefits. Money, gifts, favours etc. At the end everyone loses. Unwanted kids, disease, men lose money chasing ladies. Funny enough a recent study showed that men who are househusbands cheat more. That not being the breadwinner, they seek other ways to boost manhood, and sexual conquest is still a major ego booster. You know most female bread winners tend to verbally and attitude wise remind their men what a failure they are. Because for most women it's an unconventional role. Whereas men play that role as a matter of course.

omooba969:


@bolded,

Do u mean to say dat cheating is justified if she had bin dating d other guy b4 she met d Op?

I mean maybe she already told op about the girl But he insisted on being the 'Extra Tyre' with the hope of winning her heart to himself....

Lol! What can I say nah?
I don't understand it

madridguy:
You mean the OP don eat Vegetable ? You get mind oooooo. Nice advise, the problem with our brother here is that he has allowed emotional feelings to blocked his sense of reasoning. I hope he wise up soon and write-off the monster.

Hahahhahahahaha........proud to be a nigeria woman.....#proudly callin the shots since 1352BC#u already no d answer to ur prob so y ask?evn atm machines sumtyms go on a break wen dey tell u temporarily unable to dispense cash or issuer inoperative.#singing,*dnt wake me up,up,up,up,up,up*#

Do u need an angel to tell u dat....fool

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

This is late BT I have to say 'my own'. Hey Op! You can't share ur girl with someone else, if I may ask 'exactly' what have you been doing for those 3 years As the old saying 'Once a cheat always a cheat" IF she loved you, she would never have tot of being in bed with another so don't waste ur time cos it would be like you're begging for it! My Two Kobo

Adetoposh:
Do u need an angel to tell u dat....fool

He can't change his nature ni even if Angel come down

smajatt:


men those words are heavy men.....
Life sha... Its a singular journey

That is it my bro, always find your happiness within you - never in another fallible being

You are all wasting your time, his problem is spiritual !!!! . ..Come to think of it, 70% of you advisers are also someone's mugu! Mschewwwww! Please OP,why don't you invite the other guy and you all have a 3 some !!! Onikatikati!

AnneMomoh:
Simple advice : Part ways with her, she is not worth, trust me.

She will not change, its a character she will hardly drop.

You are too young for High blood pressure

nice one; u r a fine girl with IQ too unlike all those fish brain babes who wiggle on d streets