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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jun 17, 2015
themodernman:


I meet them everyday as a Medic...aint just got their time yet...still flaying enough poozies around tongue won't be difficult getting one when its time I tell you.

You can only imagine.
dearie! I did bet some of those gals u may be thinking are wifey material are nt. When u are finally ready to settle than,i d urge u to look very well be4 u leap, some are devil in deguise. Divorce cases are very rampant in our society. It really calls for alarm.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 6:14pm On Jun 17, 2015
otunsman:
There is no wife material na.Majority of our future wives have given their body to aristos.And I learned majority of the aristos are ritualists who uses these girls fluid to renew their quest for wealth from sango.

Lmao cheesy
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 6:17pm On Jun 17, 2015
Jollyjoy:
dearie! I did bet some of those gals u may be thinking are wifey material are nt. When u are finally ready to settle than,i d urge u to look very well be4 u leap, some are devil in deguise. Divorce cases are very rampant in our society. It really calls for alarm.

You can't teach an old dogg new tricks.

You can't Con d Conman.

Incase you do not know I'm a resident doctor in O&G. I deal with Women for a living grin

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by coolcare(m): 6:19pm On Jun 17, 2015
he go better for the person wey post this .............na wetin they happen but i wonder why...........am in same league
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by ednut1(m): 6:20pm On Jun 17, 2015
hope i dont join dem too o. single life sweet sha. no stress/ worries. i dont buy credit gv money for hair lol. bt konji is a bitch
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by DAVE5(m): 6:25pm On Jun 17, 2015
ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.

so on point


that's how of one of my fwends got her husband ohh, they barely dated 4 3months max b4 they got married, meanwhile some babes dey engagement ring 4 long sote they turn "LORD OF THE RINGS"


ednut1 so u sef dey dis zone, we arrive late to the party

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by NEROSKY(m): 6:27pm On Jun 17, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Why will responsible and mature guys want to marry when ladies has lost their value by giving their assesst to the highest bidder..
Beside who want to purchase wat he can easily borrow,

the fact is that majority of those decent girls are anti social now tell me who want to marry such a lady?

With rampant cases of divorce here and there no body want to settle than because marriage is now endured instead of enjoyed,,, before those ladies finally want to settle down, they might have been in their late 20 or early 30. And maybe those responsible men would want to marry early 20s.

Now tell me why a wife material would nt be difficlt to find..
You've earned my respect for this comment alone kiss wish you're in 042 angry
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 6:31pm On Jun 17, 2015
NEROSKY:

You've earned my respect for this comment alone kiss wish you're in 042 angry
tank u.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 6:32pm On Jun 17, 2015
maryhaam:
some people like them,not xtreme antisocial,they just love keeping to themself,n love been online.u dig

Cute girl.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by NEROSKY(m): 6:33pm On Jun 17, 2015
Jollyjoy:
tank u.
You're welcome dearie... Who knew nairaland still have sophisticated girls like u
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by MrPresident1: 6:41pm On Jun 17, 2015
ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.

Sometimes they are recommended by God Himself.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jun 17, 2015
ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.

Hmm beautiful and e-hug for u

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 6:48pm On Jun 17, 2015
lurlah2014:
seriously afraid of making commitment and sacrifice

Afraid!

No o!

They are terrified. It is like Saddam's goons about to torture them.

Nonsense talk. Persin no want something, then you see women trying to challenging their masculinity with "afraid".

Black women with all their stinking attitude, instead of changing it, would say "Black men are only going for other women because they are scared of a strong black women". Their undesirable attitude is a sign of "strength"? undecided

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 6:49pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sagamite:


Is that one of those lame attempts to attack his masculinity?

More like a myopic thought pattern. And they continue to wonder why they're getting dumped. undecided

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Edusouls(m): 6:55pm On Jun 17, 2015
Florblu:
Most guys/men don't know exactly what they want,so they end up choosing d wrong lady and later drop them.
Your outlook, money or position doesn't guarantee u a good wife,PRAY WITHOUT CEASING.
shut up, the reverse is the case, wife materials are almost gone, what we have all over are gold diggers,wolves in sheeps clothing, pro pretenders,chronic liars,players that can score high on extorting multiple men..you women of this generation brings calamity and untimely death to men, so we go on defence..who wants to end up with a witch that will destroy his home after the suffering to make it for years? Noo man..

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 6:55pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sagamite:


You listed well some of the consequences of many Nigerian women's sense of "entitlement" and "my pussi is a reward" mentality.

Actually most Men and Women are somehow to blame.

The Man thinks once he has d money the girl will remain loyal.

The Woman thinks all she needs is her Genitals and guy will remain loyal.

Most Men have however outgrown that mentality and have started knowing more about Women since we've always been called Jon Snow who knows nothing.

Women on the other hand still believe-"all men are d same" and decide to keep believing in d power of their genitals.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by omoharry(f): 7:04pm On Jun 17, 2015
Abugab:
Simple matter.
Girlfriends are many out there
Wives are are scarce.

Comfortability for a young man now is even a problem cos ladies want comfort so much these days they don't want to break a sweat.
Call it money love instead of true love.
It's a difficult thing these days for the unmarried guys out there
some men too do not show love to thier wives or girl friends.if they do they they wont be the serial cheater they are known for.some are inconsiderate that after the woman finish just finish giving birth, they wiill begin to loose in the womaan becos they is no longer the lekpa theywanted.its a two way.... u guys keep complaining about women being gold diggers but i m surprise tht the kind of young men we women come across these days are equally gold diggers ,maybe due to the harsh nigeria economy i do not know.abeg u guys should not lebel all girls as gold diggers...in my life all my phone i have been using from my uni days till date have been bougt by me.....i do not ask for money becos i d embarrass easily especially when my the person turns me down.. so guys pls let us be and stop the steereotypeing Nigerian women.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by patrickmuf(m): 7:14pm On Jun 17, 2015
The most interesting thing about this topic is that so far the ladies have not being able to counter the points raised by the guys here...A case of being bullied into submission or a clear case of guilt playing out?
Romance section na funny place sha...Back to politics section...

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Notyourb1tch(f): 7:21pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sagamite:


Afraid!

No o!

They are terrified. It is like Saddam's goons about to torture them.

Nonsense talk. Persin no want something, then you see women trying to challenging their masculinity with "afraid".

Black women with all their stinking attitude, instead of changing it, would say "Black men are only going for other women because they are scared of a strong black women". Their undesirable attitude is a sign of "strength"? undecided
I really wonder the type of women some of you men come across. 'Black Women with all their stinking attitude' as if Black men are saints. Maybe it's time you change your circle or look inwards to see why you keep attracting the same type of women. I don't have an attitude and many of my girlfriends don't have such. I won't generalise and say all black men are a certain way because I know all black men are not the same and generally I tend to associate and surround myself with a certain caliber of people. You should stop hanging with such women.

The biggest problem is a lot of men/black men don't know what they want. When they see an independent, well together, educated and strong black women they automatically blame Feminism and are often times intimidated by such women, as if somehow your manhood has now become emasculated.

Then you men will also complain about the materialistic/dependent type who constantly need material items and stuff from you.

If you men want to be bachelor's forever or don't want to date black women that's fine, but there is no need to bash black women. I must admit what amuses me is that white women are even more tougher on the 'Feminism' and Equal rights ish then black women but I guess because of some of black men's inferiority complex you accept it because she is white. We really have a long way to go as a black race. I for one am tired of all you black men constantly bashing black women left, right and center.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jun 17, 2015
themodernman:


What is d single most important benefit of Marriage?

Any woman that knows it and satisfies her man will rarely remain single.

Ofcourse I expect most women to think it's sex and babies-WRONG!

Its COMPANIONSHIP. Every other thing is an offshoot of THIS.

Anyone will better be alone dan ill-company.

They have girlfriends who keep them company
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by themodernman: 7:54pm On Jun 17, 2015
vfactor:


They have girlfriends who keep them company

Girlfriends can't be there forever...A wife can.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jun 17, 2015
themodernman:


Girlfriends can't be there forever...A wife can.
That's why they re taking their time. And coupled with the high rate of divorce, u can't really blame them!
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 8:12pm On Jun 17, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
I really wonder the type of women some of you men come across. 'Black Women with all their stinking attitude' as if Black men are saints. Maybe it's time you change your circle or look inwards to see why you keep attracting the same type of women. I don't have an attitude and many of my girlfriends don't have such. I won't generalise and say all black men are a certain way because I know all black men are not the same and generally I tend to associate and surround myself with a certain caliber of people. You should stop hanging with such women.

This is the kind of nonsense I hear time again from Black women everytime you highlight the typical nonsense personality they have.

One starts wondering in humour that if all of them are claiming not to be like that, how come majority are like that? undecided

This just shows you the average woman's capacity for lies to have her way/get an advantage and proficiency in self-deceit.

{Imitates her in a feminine voice} "I really wonder the type of women some of you men come across"

Notyourb1tch, my description is what a vast majority of Nigerian men would give you. Are you saying we are all lying or, by some magnificient and glorious coincidence, we are all meeting the same small pool of girls and "your unique type" are locked in some secret dungeons filled with happiness, honey and milkshake?

Now lets even say "Fck it! All you murrafcking black/Nigerian men are liars", the same unapproachability and lack of social skills is what men of other races state deter them from approaching black women. Are you saying they are also part of the "conspiracy and lies"?

Or they too just, by some magnificient and glorious coincidence, we are all meeting the same small pool of girls black men are meeting?

Cut the crap, girl! Majority of Naija girls are exactly the way I described. You are the people the need to change and stop engaging in this self-deceit women are so comfortable in.

Notyourb1tch:

The biggest problem is a lot of men/black men don't know what they want. When they see an independent, well together, educated and strong black women they automatically blame Feminism and are often times intimidated by such women, as if somehow your manhood has now become emasculated.

Then you men will also complain about the materialistic/dependent type who constantly need material items and stuff from you.

If you men want to be bachelor's forever or don't want to date black women that's fine, but there is no need to bash black women. I must admit what amuses me is that white women are even more tougher on the 'Feminism' and Equal rights ish then black women but I guess because of some of black men's inferiority complex you accept it because she is white. We really have a long way to go as a black race. I for one am tired of all you black men constantly bashing black women left, right and center.

AHHHH!

Awon strong? (The strong?)

E ku ro lona o. Awon strong ti de ibi yi o. grin grin grin grin grin grin (Get out of the way. The strong are here o.)

Ehen! I knew it. It is all part of that "strong" philosophy. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

https://www.nairaland.com/2318469/growing-number-rich-comfortable-single/8#34869636

Sorry, shokolate-pops. Many men know what they want. They somehow find it with women of other races.

They want a fine woman, who is approachable, is not rude, is good in conversation, does not over-value herself (or the thing between her legs' powers), brings something to the table apart from her what is between her legs (e.g. being comfortable in domestics), has good manners, does not have alterior motives apart from genuine like of the guy, does not have a history as a slut, knows a man being with her/nice to her is not a birthright but mutual reward AND understands what the man wants (or is willing to find out) and willing to satisfy it if she is interested in him.

How many Nigerian girls can offer ALL that?






Fine Nigerian ones o!!!!!

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by joseph1013: 8:18pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sagamite:


Fcking well said.

I can NEVER date a woman who does not respect me. Any woman thinking she has a chance while being disrespectful is only fooling her life.

I have always told guys on NL: The minute a woman becomes disrespectful, move on.

A woman can't love a man she does not respect.
,Define respect...
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 8:19pm On Jun 17, 2015
joseph1013:
,Define respect...

Oga, you no get dictionary? grin

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sharksblow(m): 8:26pm On Jun 17, 2015
when ladies will see a single guy woo them, they're like: you are married.
they just conclude without finding out.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Florblu(f): 8:29pm On Jun 17, 2015
[quote author=Edusouls post=34869847]shut up, the reverse is the case, wife materials are almost gone, what we have all over are gold diggers,wolves in sheeps clothing, pro pretenders,chronic liars,players that can score high on extorting multiple men..you women of this generation brings calamity and untimely death to men, so we go on defence..who wants to end up with a witch that will destroy his home after the suffering to make it for years? Noo man..[/quote
Hey!I think dia should be a way u air ur view politely without insult.what's d "shut up" for?
Btw y do u av to generalize this? d fact dt u ve not being so fortunate wen choosing a gal doesn't mean all gals are the same.
Go lick ur wound outta hia jor
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Florblu(f): 8:32pm On Jun 17, 2015
Revolva:


See as u de run mouf....all ya ladies of dis generation r only money lovers....so wat do u expect a rich dude to do...truly women r just for child bearing....dats d best way if u can't get true love

See the words coming out of ur miserable mouth.#Smh#
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 8:34pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sharksblow:
when ladies will see a single guy woo them, they're like: you are married.

they just conclude without finding out.

It is part of this lack of social skills I observe with Naija girls.

Another is when they just say "You are a player" and expect you to defend or prove yourself to the contrary like some inquisition.

And I bet they wouldn't like it when you reply them by labelling them players too that sleep around.

Not, once in my life have I ever met a white woman that would make such rude remarks. They would rather just ask "Are you ......?".

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by joseph1013: 8:35pm On Jun 17, 2015
Sagamite:


Oga, you no get dictionary? grin
Cmon...you know context matters na.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 8:38pm On Jun 17, 2015
joseph1013:
Cmon...you know context matters na.

I mean the traditional context.

Insulting, disparagement, low regards, put down etc.

If a woman is ever disrespectful to you, put her in a place immediately.

If she does not want to be in her place and does not apologise, sack her. It's not worth it!

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