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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by bigv(m): 11:06pm On Jul 21, 2015
Die now!

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by raumdeuter: 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
Nkan nbeee

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
So?



You smoke?

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by femiranking28(m): 11:07pm On Jul 21, 2015
Leave the house abeg

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by HopeAtHand: 11:08pm On Jul 21, 2015
Sit her down one afternoon and ask her whats she wants from you...

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jul 21, 2015
You have 2 options:

Fvck her and get her to like you or...

Relocate!

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by tithe(m): 11:09pm On Jul 21, 2015
she so right; it is her home and she can do what she likes. It is either u stay and endure or u look for alternative accommodation. Never come between them, husband and wife is a very delicate matter to toil with.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by fowowe411: 11:09pm On Jul 21, 2015
Pack your things and go back to your place or somewhere else bro..... You ain't welcome there

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by danielblessing(m): 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2015
@Adamsdelrio you have to leave their house if you want peace cos as the woman said she can do and undo.
Dont underestimate the power of a woman.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by sukkot: 11:10pm On Jul 21, 2015
drake2:

hor=HungerBAD post=36128420]I always tell men one thing.

Never go to any home you are related to the man to stay, you will have problems. People that are related to the wive's usually have a smooth sail.



You got it so right. I lived with two blood brothers not uncles in lagos and abuja. Their wives were so so wicked. They would not cook on time, wouldn't even give you when they did. If they did, na old soup them go give you.

Was a hellish experience, but thank God for admission to the university. Another annoying thing, your confused brothers will never believe you.

I have since regrettably lost my eldest brother and I am in charge of the kids at the moment. The stupid woman is currently living in poverty with one hustler in madalla zuba now.

What a nolstagic evocation this your post got me into. But nevermind, I am stable now. Thanks
well glad to hear the womans end story. no rest for the wicked. the wicked shall not go unpunished

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by missKiffy(f): 11:12pm On Jul 21, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
My Uncle's Wife coming out soon. Grab Your Copy!!
Can I produce and direct it grin

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by An2elect2(f): 11:13pm On Jul 21, 2015
Those on fp have said what i wanted to say, gudnyt.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by sukkot: 11:13pm On Jul 21, 2015
women. hmmm

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by zeb04(f): 11:15pm On Jul 21, 2015
I think you should ignore her and look at the bigger picture but when it gets so bad please leave.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Sunofgod(m): 11:16pm On Jul 21, 2015
Adamsdelrio:
Everything you are about to read is absolutely true. I seriously need your advice on this issue before I do something I will regret

. I completed my academic recently and I traveled to my uncle's house, on his invitation to look for a job. My mother was against my journey to my uncle's house because she knew that his wife is going to cause me a lot of trouble. I didn't listen to her because I believe I'm a big boy and I can take care of myself in any unfavourable condition.


With great excitement, I arranged my things and headed straight for the longest journey of my life. We travelled for about 9-10hrs! I've never traveled that long. I got to my destination without any stress..


Don't let me bore you with a long story. Ever since I got here, it's been from one trouble to another with my uncle's wife. She complains about everything I do. If I touch anything in the house, she will surely has something bad to say about it. She's so over censorious about anything that concerns me in the house. Sometimes when I'm watching a programme on TV, she will just come and switch it off or change the channel. There are 3 functioning TV in the house but it's the one I'm watching that she likes tampering with.


There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.


She's been doing a lot of things to provoke me in the house but I always keep quiet. She's a very good liar and a troublemaker. She does all these things when her husband is not around and I don't want to report her to her husband because it's going to look as if I'm bringing trouble into the family. Please, I need your advice. How can I live peacefully with the woman?

She's sexually frustrated and sending you signals - I won't tell you what to do!

(Save some transport fare - grin)

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by obichiekweibe59: 11:16pm On Jul 21, 2015
You ar already in the city.Just talk to your uncle politely about her actions towards you and pack your things and go.Dont leave without finding time when she is not around to register your discomfort.After telling him,move away on a day he is not around and continue your search for job.OTHERWISE this woman will distract you and set you up so bad that yo will regret entering the house.
To maintain ur relationship with your uncle,you must come and visit HIM once in a long while to show your respect.Your visit only when he is around.Gud luk.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by tall2ce(m): 11:16pm On Jul 21, 2015
record your encounters with her with your phone (audio recording) like 3 times and play it for ur ucle
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by angelberton(f): 11:17pm On Jul 21, 2015
Funny film!
You came to look for work in the city, so what are you doing watching TV when everybody is out hustling?

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by chris4gold(m): 11:20pm On Jul 21, 2015
very simple, just go on hunger strike for 2month. Thanks me latter

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by stonecoldcafe: 11:20pm On Jul 21, 2015
Adamsdelrio:



There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.

How can I live peacefully with the woman?

She is right at the bolded. It is her home and for reasons best known to her, she does not want you there. Perhaps her husband did not ask of her permission before allowing you in there. Perhaps your mother did something or said something about her. You are the guest there and she does not want you. You should not talk back at her or run around doing childish stuff.

I think you should leave her home but if you have nowhere to go, keep quiet. If she finds your trouble, keep quiet and move on. She will get tired with time. Just ignore her. Greet her, if she dey form vex, crack one small joke if you can and move along. All the best. Try and get something small even if its teaching job. Anything to get you out of the house and out of her hair. May God open doors and help you bro.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by dedugbaa(m): 11:24pm On Jul 21, 2015
Are so dumb?are you of slow understanding? You ought to get the unspoken massage she has being passing to you,YOU ARE NOT WELCOMED and PLS LEAVE MY HOUSE.You presence is obviously a threat to her,Let your brother and her wife be,between you and her if your brother is to choose,he will choose her a million times before considering you.If you dare cross her path or assault her just know that the heart of your dear bro will turn against you like a venomous snake.Go away.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by aymondw: 11:26pm On Jul 21, 2015
angieberry:
She's actually right, it's her husband's house so she can do and undo, so you have no choice than to adhere to her rules. She obviously doesn't feel Comfortable with your presence in her house that's why she's acting up, and it will look very wrong if you keep complaining about her or reporting her. If you can't tolerate her behavior, you should probably leave that house. To live peacefully with her, you should get ready to swallow a lot of shit and I don't know if you're ready to do that.

This is the best advise for you, take it or go back to the village and stay with you mummy. Thx

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Lebee4(m): 11:27pm On Jul 21, 2015
many things are involved my guy.
be a man and ready to sleep out.
That place is not your home.
I left Abuja for my home before I got d same job I was chasing in Abuja on empty stomach.
go back to ya root.
fi ayaa alaaya sile.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by bauer007: 11:30pm On Jul 21, 2015
Guy! The only person i will bkame in this ur predicament is u. Cos u want to be on a comfort zone. If u r really looking forward to b some 1 in life u av to realy discomfort urself. You need to think more of gettin a job and settin up ur own home. Forget ur uncles wife. She is nt worth it

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 21, 2015
HungerBAD:
I always tell men one thing.

Never go to any home you are related to the man to stay, you will have problems. People that are related to the wive's usually have a smooth sail.

Not all though, I lived with my uncle, his wife was nice to me, she treated me like I was her brother.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by louisdemaria(m): 11:32pm On Jul 21, 2015
Believe me when I tell u that,that your uncle's wife is your best friend...The truth is,she needs sometin frm u & soon u'll find out what that is & then u'll knw ao big a shit u're in...Thread carefully bro.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by millionboi(m): 11:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
Lol.m.u be pastor
coolestrogue:
Take your worries to God almighty, He alone can see you through. There is nothing lalasticlala and ishilove can do, the best they can do is to take this to the front-page.


What you passing through is just a little of what Joseph in the Bible went through, read that portion of the Bible and find hope.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by kahara(m): 11:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
Adamsdelrio:
Everything you are about to read is absolutely true. I seriously need your advice on this issue before I do something I will regret

. I completed my academic recently and I traveled to my uncle's house, on his invitation to look for a job. My mother was against my journey to my uncle's house because she knew that his wife is going to cause me a lot of trouble. I didn't listen to her because I believe I'm a big boy and I can take care of myself in any unfavourable condition.


With great excitement, I arranged my things and headed straight for the longest journey of my life. We travelled for about 9-10hrs! I've never traveled that long. I got to my destination without any stress..


Don't let me bore you with a long story. Ever since I got here, it's been from one trouble to another with my uncle's wife. She complains about everything I do. If I touch anything in the house, she will surely has something bad to say about it. She's so over censorious about anything that concerns me in the house. Sometimes when I'm watching a programme on TV, she will just come and switch it off or change the channel. There are 3 functioning TV in the house but it's the one I'm watching that she likes tampering with.


There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.


She's been doing a lot of things to provoke me in the house but I always keep quiet. She's a very good liar and a troublemaker. She does all these things when her husband is not around and I don't want to report her to her husband because it's going to look as if I'm bringing trouble into the family. Please, I need your advice. How can I live peacefully with the woman?


To begin with,you r such a disobedient son. U didnt honor ur mother n u expect another woman to honor u. Guy,u r living in sky nine. Com down.

Again,u said u r a big boy. Really? A big boy does nt give a shit by visiting relatives. If u wanted to change environment as a big boy u should be able to cater fr urself.

Guy,be honest did u buy even a loaf of bread for ur aunt n family wen going to visit dem? Som women cannt fgiv u fr nt buying dem any stuff.

The woman is doing exactly wat many ladies who might be commenting here are doing n will do wen dey gt to dia hubby's home. They can b over protective n selfish wt food. And if u r a consumer like myself,den sorry is ur name.


From wat i gathered frm hrere ,such a woman can frame u up of hitting her or sexually assaultin her.

My advice: Pack ur boxers n slippers oya run bck to ur mama. No place like home u neva hear? But nobi de one weh deh leak sha.

If u no wan go bck,den expect OTAPIAPIA fr ur fud.
Goodluck!

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by ade2291(m): 11:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
A word is enough 4 d wise. 1st tin is 2 record her cruel actions as prove 2 ur uncle, cos u might save his life with dis prove.... 2ndly leave d house 2 save ur life, go back 2 mummy nd start ur hustle 4rm there... Women can kill because of matters like dis.... I repeat a word is enough 4 d wise. God can bless anyone 4rm anywhere.
Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by charles009(m): 11:34pm On Jul 21, 2015
You know what! I think you should tell your uncle.
My fiancee whenever my brother comes to the house, she starts acting up. One day I saw my brother eating rice without meat. When the fridge is pilled up with goodies. In fact that day, She saw hell fire. I made it categorical that I will pretend I was ignorant that day, next time she tries that nonsense I would personally throw her out of my house! And she took her corrections immediately. In a house I pay the bills. Maybe am just too quick yo temper, I will not tolerate that shit.

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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: My Uncle's Wife Is Killing Me. by Demmocrats(m): 11:36pm On Jul 21, 2015
Adamsdelrio:
Everything you are about to read is absolutely true. I seriously need your advice on this issue before I do something I will regret

. I completed my academic recently and I traveled to my uncle's house, on his invitation to look for a job. My mother was against my journey to my uncle's house because she knew that his wife is going to cause me a lot of trouble. I didn't listen to her because I believe I'm a big boy and I can take care of myself in any unfavourable condition.


With great excitement, I arranged my things and headed straight for the longest journey of my life. We travelled for about 9-10hrs! I've never traveled that long. I got to my destination without any stress..


Don't let me bore you with a long story. Ever since I got here, it's been from one trouble to another with my uncle's wife. She complains about everything I do. If I touch anything in the house, she will surely has something bad to say about it. She's so over censorious about anything that concerns me in the house. Sometimes when I'm watching a programme on TV, she will just come and switch it off or change the channel. There are 3 functioning TV in the house but it's the one I'm watching that she likes tampering with.


There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.


She's been doing a lot of things to provoke me in the house but I always keep quiet. She's a very good liar and a troublemaker. She does all these things when her husband is not around and I don't want to report her to her husband because it's going to look as if I'm bringing trouble into the family. Please, I need your advice. How can I live peacefully with the woman?

Bro you can't do anything, the mistake is from your uncle he married from a very poor family, she thinks you are hear to take away her husbands money not knowing the one true secret of wealth which is the more you give the more money comes to you. Even in the bible givers never lack.
In summary I see you becomes ten times richer than your uncle, am not a pastor but pastors do respect me. When ever a man has a great destiny his bound to encounter such so my brother you can stay with them till you get that job.
Bro I see you getting a good job and I see the enemy using the woman to distract from the blessings.
Bro.take her insults for now but I bet you in few years time she will call you SIR trust me on that one.
www.

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