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Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 11:34am On Aug 01, 2015
A lot of times, we do things in the name of love or winning over a lady. But an average Nigerian lady really intepretes most of these gestures as desperation, lack of self worth or plain foolishness.

If you do any of these, you might want to think again especially if you are not married;

1. Telling a lady you can die for her: This is just an expression of low self worth. A lot of ladies are are beginning to see through these deceptive lines. At the end of the day, they discover that the guy cannot even kill a cockroach for them. Those words are just means to a selfish end.

2. Travelling thousands of miles just to meet someone you saw on the net: A right thinking person would not embark on this journey. Anything can upload any pix on the net and claim to be that. Even when it eventually becomes who you think it is, the lady might not say it, but she knows you are another mugu on the loose.

3. 'I love you pass my mother': As strange as this sounds, some guys still say it to a lady. Ladies if a guy tells you this, please kick him out your house and life, he doesn't love you. If you have a cane and can flog him, do that as well too. Thanks in advance.

4. Describing ex in worst words: Well I guess if you are not reserved with him, he might even describe you worse with his next lady. If you break up with a lady, old things are passed away, and all things have become new, don't think you can buy your lady's heart by painting your ex with despicable terms. If she is shrewd, she will refuse you.

If you want to win a lady's heart, you need not do these thing because the valuable ones will see you as very cheap. You are not cheap anyway but please don't act that way. Thanks.

Copyright2015 AwesomelyMade

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Ezemarcel(m): 11:34am On Aug 01, 2015
So many list on nairaland...:hahahhahah

FTC things...I dedicate this to the guy below me thanks for notifying me..it was fun ooo

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by donbrowser(m): 11:36am On Aug 01, 2015
Warn

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by elantraceey(f): 11:42am On Aug 01, 2015
I agree with you except the travelling part. Just normal friends will travel miles to see each other ones in a while, it kind of shows she's important to him, not everyone will just do that even if he has the time.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 11:49am On Aug 01, 2015
elantraceey:
I agree with you except the travelling part. Just normal friends will travel miles to see each other ones in a while, it kind of shows she's important to him, not everyone will just do that even if he has the time.

I mentioned travelling when it involves someone you are seeing over the net, not friends. Pls read again

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by naijaboiy: 11:50am On Aug 01, 2015
Number 2 is flawed.

Not everybody meet their loved ones on the streets again like before. Social media has helped a lot.

When people meet and fall in love on social media they definitely have to meet some day.

It can't all be a social media love. There is nothing to despise anyone for in it.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Ginaz(f): 11:52am On Aug 01, 2015
when poverty brings heat, money evaporates it......

men should learn to be responsible and hardworking to impress me, everything else is shit.


I like hard working men, these are guys called "MEN!"
not some babbling with nothing to show for it .

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by IamLEGEND1: 11:53am On Aug 01, 2015
apart from the "Dont bad-mouth ur ex" point, all the others are extremely flawed.

Side note: the poster above me is a gold-digger masquerading herself as a "woman with standards".

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by laplace12(m): 11:58am On Aug 01, 2015
Ginaz:
when poverty brings heat, money evaporates it......

men should learn to be responsible and hardworking to impress me, everything else is shit.


I like hard working men, these are guys called "MEN!"
not some babbling with nothing to show for it .

You will be good for rituals...I swear..

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 11:59am On Aug 01, 2015
naijaboiy:
Number 2 is flawed.

Not everybody meet their loved ones on the streets again like before. Social media has helped a lot.

When people meet and fall in love on social media they definitely have to meet some day.

It can't all be a social media love. There is nothing to despise anyone for in it.

How are you sure that the face you see on the net is the real face?
This social media ish is the reason why interpersonal skills is really suffering in the society.
A lot of times, the solution to our problems are very close by.
I wonder the kind the of love you are going to show to that lady that is thousands of miles away that you can't show to that beautiful and responsible gal next door.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by tintingz(m): 12:02pm On Aug 01, 2015
Women love to be noticed, the attention freakies.

Why will a woman despise all these. undecided

OP you can lie ehn, you better change your topic cuz I smell sarcasm.
angry

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Ginaz(f): 12:18pm On Aug 01, 2015
laplace12:

You will be good for rituals...I swear..

your generations will be good for killing ....I swear

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by naijaboiy: 12:31pm On Aug 01, 2015
AwesomelyMade:


How are you sure that the face you see on the net is the real face?
This social media ish is the reason why interpersonal skills is really suffering in the society.
A lot of times, the solution to our problems are very close by.
I wonder the kind the of love you are going to show to that lady that is thousands of miles away that you can't show to that beautiful and responsible gal next door.
Things have changed brother.

Deal with it.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by naijaboiy: 12:34pm On Aug 01, 2015
Ginaz:
when poverty brings heat, money evaporates it......

men should learn to be responsible and hardworking to impress me, everything else is shit.


I like hard working men, these are guys called "MEN!"
not some babbling with nothing to show for it .
Impress you?

And who the fhuuck do you think you are?

Marry your ass down to a chair young lady and think of something to do about your life than bìtch around like you the queen of England.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by ronald4lif(m): 12:49pm On Aug 01, 2015
naijaboiy:

Impress you?

And who the fhuuck do you think you are?

Marry your ass down to a chair young lady and think of something to do about your life than bìtch around like you the queen of England.

See missiles. grin

Impress her ko. Broke babes be looking for guys who'll 'impress' them.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 01, 2015
AwesomelyMade:


How are you sure that the face you see on the net is the real face?
This social media ish is the reason why interpersonal skills is really suffering in the society.
A lot of times, the solution to our problems are very close by.
I wonder the kind the of love you are going to show to that lady that is thousands of miles away that you can't show to that beautiful and responsible gal next door.
i support you bro

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by kinglekan: 1:16pm On Aug 01, 2015
cheesy cheesy
Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by kinglekan: 1:19pm On Aug 01, 2015
naijaboiy:

Impress you?

And who the fhuuck do you think you are?

Marry your ass down to a chair young lady and think of something to do about your life than bìtch around like you the queen of England.


OooouccH!! This would hurt pretty bad

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:21pm On Aug 01, 2015
Aww, they aren't that bad except 4. I would need some proof for 1 though tongue
Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:24pm On Aug 01, 2015
I need no chewing gum boys! If u are a broke lazy guy, don't even get close to me.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by ronald4lif(m): 1:29pm On Aug 01, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
I need no chewing gum boys! If u are a broke lazy guy, don't even get close to me.

You seem to have this inbred hatred for broke guys. Where did you cultivate it from?. Brothers? Are they skint?

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 01, 2015
elantraceey:
I agree with you except the travelling part. Just normal friends will travel miles to see each other ones in a while, it kind of shows she's important to him, not everyone will just do that even if he has the time.
i will travel baq for you..you worth it
Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Aug 01, 2015
ronald4lif:


You seem to have this inbred hatred for broke guys. Where did you cultivate it from?. Brothers? Are they skint?
for ur info I hate broke guys.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by kinglekan: 1:36pm On Aug 01, 2015
AwesomelyMade:


How are you sure that the face you see on the net is the real face?
This social media ish is the reason why interpersonal skills is really suffering in the society.
A lot of times, the solution to our problems are very close by.
I wonder the kind the of love you are going to show to that lady that is thousands of miles away that you can't show to that beautiful and responsible gal next door.



What if the beautiful girl next door has an IQ of a mustard seed?

Attraction is just the first step, interaction is another.

As much as it is possible to fake personality online, the kinda convo they are able to hold tells a whole lot about their intellectual capacity and a little bit of their personality.

People would always fake, whether you meet them online or offline. The desire to make a first good impression often times leads to deceit.

Not everyone has to hook up the conventional way. For some it happened by chance, more like serendipity.

Everything has its own flaws but don't blame it all on social media.

Kapeesh!!!

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 01, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
for ur info I hate broke guys.

Why can't you mould a rich guy yourself.

Btw, I thought you are married.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by yemstok(m): 1:40pm On Aug 01, 2015
so many olosho's here....God have mercy.

To all the ladies that said they cud only be impressed by money, no Guy wud take u serious.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by jnrbayano(m): 1:42pm On Aug 01, 2015
AwesomelyMade:

2. Travelling thousands of miles just to meet someone you saw on the net: A right thinking person would not embark on this journey. Anything can upload any pix on the net and claim to be that. Even when it eventually becomes who you think it is, the lady might not say it, but she knows you are another mugu on the loose.

What if I told you that I'm in a relationship from this kind of platform?

What if I provide 15 more people who travelled to meet their sweethearts and were never thought as mugus?

You can meet someone, travel to see her/him, fall in love and marry eventually. No mugu in it.

Unless your intention of making such move isn't a positive one.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by ronald4lif(m): 1:44pm On Aug 01, 2015
StephanieEzeh:
for ur info I hate broke guys.

Affluent guys hate broke ladies as much. I hope you're a well-to-do yourself else you'd only attract your ilks.

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by ITSAWRAPP: 1:48pm On Aug 01, 2015
Some points on point while some off-point grin

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by elantraceey(f): 1:54pm On Aug 01, 2015
AlphaMoi:
i will travel baq for you..you worth it


Oh well, that'll be cool if you have the right motives.
Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by elantraceey(f): 1:57pm On Aug 01, 2015
naijaboiy:

Impress you?

And who the fhuuck do you think you are?

Marry your ass down to a chair young lady and think of something to do about your life than bìtch around like you the queen of England.


grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies Despise Guys That Act These Ways! by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 01, 2015
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