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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by dckng16(m): 12:51am On Sep 04, 2015
I had similar experience with d OP 8 years back. All I did was to end d relationship and Move on, cos d trust and love is gone already. Now am not d Good boy I used to be. I found that girls don't like good boys. They are more attracted to bad boys.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Norenal(f): 12:53am On Sep 04, 2015
Tapout:
seriously, u don't know what to do?? undecided ....chie, embarassed some guys dey fall my hand scatter cry ....okay I'll give u my little advice


"buy an expensive ring, close ur account if possible....then use ur knees and walk to her place (make sure it's bleeding excessively before u reach).....then conclude by proposing to her......


no need to thank me, it's nothing

laughing'' U z jst wicked wit dz kin advice, d guy z in pain mehn
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by IYANGBALI: 1:09am On Sep 04, 2015
op are you a virgin?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 1:13am On Sep 04, 2015
ignis:
She could have been raped.
did i hear u say rape? If she was rape y didnt she tell her bf d day she was rape if she really love her bf

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:17am On Sep 04, 2015
Oboy, you too dey dull things joor!!! Pick that call and chop your own na, she wasted your time so she must pay! No turn big time maga oooo
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:20am On Sep 04, 2015
ignis:
She could have been raped.
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY YOU WOMEN DON'T THINK WITH YA HEAD AT ALL!

SO EVERY ABORTION IS A RESULT OF RAPE undecided


YOU ARE TOO DULL.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 1:22am On Sep 04, 2015
xclusivelyurs:
Well I dnt tink dis story is real cos doctors dnt reveal such a case 2 sum1 who isn't a relative.. Anyways, guy I feel 4u cos I hav fallen in2 dis "am stil a virgin" trap.. But wuld d lies and secret moves stop wen u accept dat? Guess u hav 2figure dis out on ur own dude..safe
y wont d doctor disclose dat to sum1 who show up as a relative? Accordly to what d OP said dat d doctor told he was dat she had an abortion wch wasnt successful nd i guess dy av to sign some document b4 d doctor has to clean up her system properly. She was btw live nd death d doctor av to tell sum1 who can pay d bill also b4 nd after d operation has been done

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by gidjah(m): 1:26am On Sep 04, 2015
Optional2:
y wont d doctor disclose dat to sum1 who show up as a relative? Accordly to what d OP said dat d doctor told he was dat she had an abortion wch wasnt successful nd i guess dy av to sign some document b4 d doctor has to clean up her system properly. She was btw live nd death d doctor av to tell sum1 who can pay d bill also b4 nd after d operation has been done
Thank you ma'am,even if you are a stranger, in as much as you show up as the bill settler,them go tell you the full gist,after all het friends that brought her to the hospital all abandoned her in case she fit kick the bucket.they all knew about the crime

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by gidjah(m): 1:28am On Sep 04, 2015
Bros you did the best thing.Say good bye yo her forever.Good riddance to Rubbish abegi
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by omoikea(m): 1:30am On Sep 04, 2015
you still dey believe say virgin still dey this country? ...am shocked, i just dey wonder which village you come from...
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by activelyA(f): 1:31am On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:



Lol, even at that, calling a relative and disclosing such information are completely different issues.
Exactly,
Check his previous topic on same day, the one that says how do you pray to God after a good time with bae...
Imagine bringing up various untrue topics for the soul purpose of front page
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Valjinn(m): 1:31am On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:



No sir, as long as the patient is over 18, he alone can decide who should know about his health status. I have attended to people who are hiv+ and their spouse know nothing about it. im bound by ethics not to reveal it to their spouse unless they tell me to.



Hmmmmmmm!
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by breakeven: 1:36am On Sep 04, 2015
Na today? they have been lying about their virginity since 200BC. Mcheww
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:37am On Sep 04, 2015
[size=14pt]Never be afraid to break up. if she can abort a child and lie for that long then she can take a heart break[/size]

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by hustla(m): 1:38am On Sep 04, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..


Shoroniyen
undecided

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 1:39am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
my guy move on wit life. See no reason y a gal should lie abt her virginity to sum1 she claim she love.


Av a male who also fall a victim in his own case he slept wit d gal nd d gal wake up nd put sum tin dat looks lyk blood in d bed to make d guy to luk lyk a fool. He has to end d relationship @ dat spot.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by kolafouro: 1:45am On Sep 04, 2015
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 1:49am On Sep 04, 2015
gidjah:
Thank you ma'am,even if you are a stranger, in as much as you show up as the bill settler,them go tell you the full gist,after all het friends that brought her to the hospital all abandoned her in case she fit kick the bucket.they all knew about the crime
we gals av lot of secret, so much lies full lot of gals mouth. I can lie but not abt my virginity cos sumday sumwere sumhow sumtym d guy wil knw. So y lie abt sensitive tins lyk virginity? wats d benefit in it.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 1:49am On Sep 04, 2015
gidjah:
Thank you ma'am,even if you are a stranger, in as much as you show up as the bill settler,them go tell you the full gist,after all het friends that brought her to the hospital all abandoned her in case she fit kick the bucket.they all knew about the crime
NO MIND THOSE SHALLOW MINDED PEOPLE, MAKE THE DOCTOR NO TALK AND SEE IF POLICE NO GO ARREST AM DUE TO FORENSIC EVIDENCE THAT SHE DID ABORTION IN CASE SHE DIE DURING OR AFTER THE OPERATION.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Datoyo(f): 1:57am On Sep 04, 2015
shocked That's sickening. Forgive her but please apply wisdom in dealing with her,she's capable of doing worst. Sorry for the broken trust
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by histemple: 2:05am On Sep 04, 2015
donholy28:
This a condition where d patient nearly died.Really?

According to oath of confidentiality, code of conduct and professional ethics, even if the patient is in coma or moribund, no trained doctor will reveal that to you without the approval of the patient.

The doctor will rather try to resuscitate her and where all efforts failed, you will only know what happened when she is dead.

Let me ask you, if the lady wanted you to know, why didn't her tell you before carrying out the abortion.

Do you know that the doctor can lose his/her license because of this?

The medical profession is just like banking. No trained banker will tell you anything about you husband, father or mother's account balance, not matter the emergency situation.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by sexaddict08(m): 2:12am On Sep 04, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..

slap yourself 4 times for this stupid question
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by coobboy(m): 2:16am On Sep 04, 2015
Its normal for nigerian girls, dunno what they are always trying to prove
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by DrHighchief(m): 2:19am On Sep 04, 2015
Virgin ni, Virgin ke
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by histemple: 2:23am On Sep 04, 2015
Optional2:
y wont d doctor disclose dat to sum1 who show up as a relative? Accordly to what d OP said dat d doctor told he was dat she had an abortion wch wasnt successful nd i guess dy av to sign some document b4 d doctor has to clean up her system properly. She was btw live nd death d doctor av to tell sum1 who can pay d bill also b4 nd after d operation has been done

There is what we call oath of confidentiality, aside code of professional conduct and ethics, it's only the adult patient that can authorise the doctor to tell anybody.

And just to educate you, there is nothing they need to sign after the abortion. It's only before the abortion that a relative or guardian is supposed to sign, authorising the abortion and agreeing to accept the outcome. This is so, because abortion anywhere in the world is 50/50.

This doctor and the hospital can be sued for revealing this information and the doctor must lose his license.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by sexaddict08(m): 2:26am On Sep 04, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:



Ask her what is she begging u for?
U said u were not taking her calls huh? She might be begging u 2 take her calls. When she was begging did she say she committed abortion?

pls where do u school they need to return your school fees
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by gryhusky(m): 2:28am On Sep 04, 2015
My Guy, I will not advice to broke d relationship just , because she is passing true pain that is why she is calling u, try and take her call , pls there is no parfait relationship in life, some marriage today can do more down what she dis and them still curve up :::: the only thing is that there will be no trust , but u can make it to be
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by lakamua: 2:29am On Sep 04, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..
u lack wisdom. Reasoning with ur john thomas

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by sexaddict08(m): 2:32am On Sep 04, 2015
chigoizie7:







Did u actually read what the Op wrote? Even the text messages, it Is very very obvious that she knew what she did and why she is begging, op already knew that too, he paid the hospital bill remember?


The only thing that will happen if OP gives her a listening ear is for her to scope,wash,rinse,dry and iron OP into giving her a 2nd chance which obviously she does not deserve.




Me, I can forgive a gf that ordinarily cheated on me and apologized, but to deny me the sex, and then go fuking other guys to the point of getting pregnant and aborting it, nawa oo,I will not even allow our paths to cross ever again, if I see u coming tru the door, I will jump the window.

I will allow our path to cross.... but
she would become my ss.ex machine. I will fun.ck her like a hoe...I will do it like 5 times daily with different styles...turning n spanking her ass like every minutes.
I'll need to months to satisfy myself.

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by lakamua: 2:33am On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.
oga be wise . Everybody knows the hypocratic oath but not everybody obeys all the rules all the time. Dont try to be superhuman
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by lakamua: 2:37am On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:



No sir, as long as the patient is over 18, he alone can decide who should know about his health status. I have attended to people who are hiv+ and their spouse know nothing about it. im bound by ethics not to reveal it to their spouse unless they tell me to.
i always knew wer u wer driving at. You just want to tell us u are a doctor. Empty vessels make the loudest noise. Who knows u might just be a lab scientist sef
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Optional2(f): 2:41am On Sep 04, 2015
histemple:


There is what we call oath of confidentiality, aside code of professional conduct and ethics, it's only the adult patient that can authorise the doctor to tell anybody.

And just to educate you, there is nothing they need to sign after the abortion. It's only before the abortion that a relative or guardian is supposed to sign, authorising the abortion and agreeing to accept the outcome. This is so, because abortion anywhere in the world is 50/50.

This doctor and the hospital can be sued for revealing this information and the doctor must lose his license.
d story says dat she was still bleeding wen her frnds took her to d hospital dat means sum1 has to pay 4 d bills b4 dy start treating d patient nd d only pesin her frnds knw is her bf. So d guy has to knw wats wrong wit his gf b4 he pay anytin. Am not a medical student jst sayin dat d guy has to no wat he is payin 4.

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