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Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 5:32pm On Feb 12, 2016
Saw this picture on IG, while a good number of ladies saw this as slavery, others think it's submission (gave the bible as reference )
So is this the submission the bible talked about? Ladies, will you have any problems doing this for our husband?? And guys, your opinions are also needed smiley

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by RoyalBlak007: 5:34pm On Feb 12, 2016
whoever picks SLAVERY should define it please. Thank You

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Cutehector(m): 5:35pm On Feb 12, 2016
Mchew, people like taking things too far

This is just more like an instruction in a wedding ceremony. Obviously d husband will still wash d feet of the wife too..

Nobody remembered that. Its only d one d wife was washing d husband"s feet people will capitalize on.

OK so what if the picture were d oda way round? What would have been ur comment?

Yes am talknn to u! U dats reading this!

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Feb 12, 2016
All na wash undecided
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 5:48pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
Saw this picture on IG, while a good number of ladies saw this as slavery, others think it's submission (gave the bible as reference )
So is this the submission the bible talked about? Ladies, will you have any problems doing this for our husband?? And guys, your opinions are also needed smiley

Ummm ... there's a photo that showed the man washing the woman's foot ... and you feminists chose to ignore it ?

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by sinaj(f): 5:51pm On Feb 12, 2016
Derez no big deal there sad





Will keep doing it evn after d wedding each time he returns from work kiss kiss kiss

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by tubouncen(m): 5:56pm On Feb 12, 2016
It's neither submission nor slavery... It's just a fotoshoot created by the cameraman or the event planner

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Tallesty1(m): 6:13pm On Feb 12, 2016
Feminists and their yeyeism.

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Strahovski1(m): 6:22pm On Feb 12, 2016
Well in my opinion this is slavery. Not submission.

Although in my tradition man wash wife feet on wedding day but to me it's still slavery irrespective of the side.
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 6:27pm On Feb 12, 2016
KingEbukasBlog:


Ummm ... there's a photo that showed the man washing the woman's foot ... and you feminists chose to ignore it ?


Tallesty1:
Feminists and their yeyeism.
I'm not a feminists sad

This is actually something I can do for my husband everyday, to pet him. Is the linkage between this and being submissive I dont agree with

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by cruzita(f): 6:27pm On Feb 12, 2016
well to me I won't let any man wash my feet and I won't wash any mans feet
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by oodua1stson: 6:29pm On Feb 12, 2016
I don't get the fuss. It could be a cultural thing
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 6:35pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:



I'm not a feminists sad

I always thought you were one smiley

This is actually something I can do for my husband everyday, to pet him. Is the linkage between this and being submissive I dont agree with

Its just a wedding tradition that does not even take up to 5 minutes which depicts the acceptance by a woman to be submissive to her husband . Jesus showed humility washing the feet of the his disciples . But in this case humility - washing the foot of the man by the woman - implies submission not slavery .

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 6:36pm On Feb 12, 2016
@amokeme - was it because the woman is black and her husband is white ?
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Tallesty1(m): 6:43pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:



I'm not a feminists sad

This is actually something I can do for my husband everyday, to pet him. Is the linkage between this and being submissive I dont agree with
Read John 13: 4-17
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Seun(m): 6:45pm On Feb 12, 2016
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Vivly(f): 6:48pm On Feb 12, 2016
A submissive woman is actually the head of the home.

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 6:49pm On Feb 12, 2016
KingEbukasBlog:
@amokeme - was it because the woman is black and her husband is white ?
honestly, I didn't even notice that, I had to check the picture again. But he might just have very fair skin.. doesn't mean he is white.

KingEbukasBlog:

I always thought you were one smiley .
are you serious?? Nah, I'm not and I can never be, advocating for woman independency is totally different from being a feminist.

KingEbukasBlog:


Its just a wedding tradition that does not even take up to 5 minutes which depicts the acceptance by a woman to be submissive to her husband . Jesus showed humility washing the feet of the his disciples . But in this case humility - washing the foot of the man by the woman - implies submission not slavery .
none of the bold... you think a woman washing the feet of her husband will change he if she is a demon??
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Vivly(f): 6:50pm On Feb 12, 2016
Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.
That is con.descending.
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Henovy: 6:52pm On Feb 12, 2016
Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.
It is an injunction from the Holy Bible.

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by TheSonOfMark(m): 6:55pm On Feb 12, 2016
Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.

Vivly:
A submissive woman is actually the head of the home.


The women have chosen for themselves...and wisely so.
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 6:58pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
honestly, I didn't even notice that, I had to check the picture again. But he might just have very fair skin.. doesn't mean he is white.

True that

are you serious?? Nah, I'm not and I can never be, advocating for woman independency is totally different from being a feminist.

Feminists advocate for women to be independent - you always do that and that's why I felt you were a feminist .

none of the bold... you think a woman washing the feet of her husband will change he if she is a demon??

Hmmm ... true you know . But for her to keep her rage/evil nature/pride in check and wash her husband's foot , it might tweak her a little
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by ksstroud: 6:59pm On Feb 12, 2016
Nothing is wrong here... Tis neither slavery non submission... Just a show...

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 7:00pm On Feb 12, 2016
Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.

Define "submission " , pertinently . You might have a misconception

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 7:07pm On Feb 12, 2016
Strahovski1:
Well in my opinion this is slavery. Not submission.

Although in my tradition man wash wife feet on wedding day but to me it's still slavery irrespective of the side.
it is not, this is pure TRADITION... shows how well you are going to treat yur husband at home that's all, it has nothing to do with slavery, the bible or submission.

Seun:
I can't believe men managed to convince women that God wants them to "submit" to men. It's one of the greatest cons I've ever seen.
"women, be submissive to your husband and men LOVE your wife"
Some men have actually turned this part of the bible to their favor.
When you love a woman, you don't abuse her, you don't ask her to do impossible things all in the name of wanting her to submit. Love her and watch her submit naturally...
The only cons are abusive husbands (verbally and physically ) wanting their wife to be submissive undecided it doesn't work that way

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Acidosis(m): 7:10pm On Feb 12, 2016
I'm more concerned about what the families intend to do with the WATER. Rituals?

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 7:17pm On Feb 12, 2016
Vivly:
A submissive woman is actually the head of the home.
that's the trick most women don't know... cheesy but you have to be submissive to a loving husband.

KingEbukasBlog:

True that
Feminists advocate for women to be independent - you always do that and that's why I felt you were a feminist .
anybody male or female can advocate that, and it's for the good of the family too. Expecially if she is financially independent. She is suppose to be a help mate to her husband not a liability.

KingEbukasBlog:


Hmmm ... true you know . But for her to keep her rage/evil nature/pride in check and wash her husband's foot , it might tweak her a little
Lol, are you kidding? Then you my dear have not seen evil
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by KingEbukasBlog(m): 7:18pm On Feb 12, 2016
Acidosis:
I'm more concerned about what the families intend to do with the WATER. Rituals?

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Seun(m): 7:25pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
"women, be submissive to your husband and men LOVE your wife"
Love is largely a feeling while submission is a practical act, so it's not similar. A husband can claim to love his wife while taking advantage of her submissiveness (if she is truly practicing the submissiveness, which fortunately is rarely the case). Also, the bible does not say that a wife should only submit if she is convinced that her husband loves her. Even if he is mistreating her, she is supposed to "submit" to him. That's bad.

KingEbukasBlog:
Define "submission " , pertinently . You might have a misconception
It means her husband has the final say in family matters. If they disagree on an issue and she can't convince him, she must do what he wants.

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Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Acidosis(m): 7:26pm On Feb 12, 2016
KingEbukasBlog:

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Yea, the scene portrays a fetish culture
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by amokeme(f): 7:27pm On Feb 12, 2016
Tallesty1:
Read John 13: 4-17
if I'm to go by that scripture, the mam is to do the washing.. since he is the head to the woman. As Jesus christ the head of the his disciples... I don't know how you understood that verse, but it's not applicable in this context. That exercise is highly spiritual. So let's leave it at that.
Re: Submission Or Slavery? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 12, 2016
It's only slavery if she was being forced to do it.

If the man has showed that he is deserving of her submission then yeah why not ? I honestly don't see the problem.

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