@ Danki..

You are welcome to the thread. I thank God you are here. Listen closely.


It's true when you say God chooses a wife for His prophet. It's not that God forces the wife on them but He leads/guides them to a wife He wants for them or He makes it known to them because He had prepared that wife to be a major support in their calling.



And so because satan knows this too, satan will try to lead a prophet of God to marry the wrong person. You can imagine how life would be if this happens.



Based on what you passed through.. Your ex fiancee is not operating with gifts from God. She either knows what she's doing or doesn't. In other words, she is possessed by false spirits disguising as good from God.
This is certainly from satan and if you have fornicated with her, you will have to break the covenant you have with her.


Do you know you may be a prophet of God? The gift of dreams you say you have doesn't seem to be just gift of dreams. There is something prophetic I discern about you. And maybe you have been unaware of it, but satan knows and he has used someone to lead you falsely( to blind you) so that you do not realize who you are.



Wake up prophet! Open your eyes to see around you that you have God and you are stronger than forces that try to pull you down psychologically, emotionally and spiritually.
You need to discern more so that you perceive evil things which are disguised as good.



Leave that girl alone!
If I were I you my prayer to God would be for Him to open my eyes to discover who I really am. Has He called me to be a prophet?
That should be your ultimate prayer.


Satan adopts this strategy(of false wife-to-be, fiancee, etc.) to slay the soul of men God has destined to be great and to lead them away from the plan of God in their lives. He uses people like your ex- fiancee and this same tactics of her being hot and cold (unusual character). I know people who suffered emotionally from this experiences. And I must tell you, it is satan working here, God doesn't operate like that.
The girl is possessed with evil spirits that predict the future and say things on your mind like that possessed girl in the bible. Paul could discern the spirit wasn't from God and He rebuke the evil spirit.
Read Acts chapt 16 vs 16-18.



What you must do is this:


* Repent of your sins and break every soul covenant with that girl. If you don't, your mind will keep wandering towards and even if you have another fiancé it may never work out. So use the word of God in prayers to set your soul free. Psalm 124 vs 7.


* Renounce whatever evil tie with demons might have taken place while you were with your fiancee.


* I believe you are born again. Re-dedicate your life to God and strike a covenant with Him making Him in charge of every area in your life.
It is well with you. You will be set free in Jesus Name.. Amen.


If you leave this girl alone, and do all that I've said then the one which God wants for you will come.



Note: Leaving the girl alone means cutting her off entirely from your mind. If you don't leave her alone, the one for you won't come. That's how it works.


Your ex-fiancee is confident that you will come back to her because she knows that you have a soul tie with her. That's the ugly truth.
So that tie needs to be severed with the Holy Ghost fire.
You will overcome in Jesus Name.. Amen.


GOD BLESS YOU.

@ Analice107..

I believe he needs soul deliverance. And God can perform a self deliverance for him.


What we must do is put him in prayers. I sincerely believe God has a major plan for Danki's life.


I pray that whoever visits this thread sincerely seeking for God's intervention in their lives and deliverance from the burden of sin and darkness will find God's saving grace in Jesus Name. Amen

Sentientcarbon:
Hello Analice07,
I couldn't send a personal message because you were offline.
However, i would appreciate it if we could begin corresponding on BBM, here's my Pin:56841771.
Thanks.

OK, I have sent you an invite. Accept it

Sentientcarbon:
Hello Analice07,
I couldn't send a personal message because you were offline.
However, i would appreciate it if we could begin corresponding on BBM, here's my Pin:56841771.
Thanks.

OK, I have sent you an invite.

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Danki:


Thanks a lot for the polite counseling.

I've heed to your advice months ago. And the contributions and prayers from you and other brethren here will surely solidify it.

Unfortunately, some brethren feel that if one is not fully versed in the Bible like them means he's not born again.

Well, lately I've seen myself in the mold of King David and Suleiman Johnson. I will keep praying for God's purpose in my life like you advised.

Thank you all for your support and prayers.
May God keep strengthening you all!

My brother,
I will not overwhelm you with one too many verses but I will tell you that they are wrong.

You don't need to be versed in the bible to be born again, in fact all you need is to believe, accept and confess Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Accumulation of scriptures or revelation of His word is a lifetime and it FOLLOWS your salvation. If one is required to master scriptures before they are born again, the dying thief hanged alongside Jesus had no hope seeing he turned to Christ a few hours to his death.

Once again, you are born again. What you need to do is prioritize your life in Christ so as to spend more time studying scriptures, sharing what you learnt with others, learning from them, studying Christian books, praying, witnessing, fellowshiping with others and before long, you will be a spiritual giant.

Please don't be intimidated by your limited knowledge of scriptures, commit your spirit to learning and you will not only grow, but you will refresh many!

Never mind that I am quoting the final part of your post, but I read it from part One. I had a similar experience sometimes in the past with a lady (a colleague) who through her demonic Aunt (who claimed to be a pastor) almost destroyed my marriage and caused me other avoidable losses. Your story is true to type, such women always claim to see things and interpret dreams, they claim to have a prophetic gift, but are never far from sin (gossip, sexual sins etc)

She started by asking me to go into a business venture with her and before I knew it, she started introducing me to fake prophets who were always saying we where destined together and that my wife was a witch set out to destroy me. Before I could say Jack Robinson I had spent almost a year in her house. Business? we did not start any, all she was interested in was trying to get me to sleep with her. I don't know how I did it, but she didn't succeed, something kept holding me back whenever she tried (she was a virgin)

Her words did not match her action, and I just marveled at her hypocrisy. She has a younger sister whose husband was suspected to have an affair with some lady and I remember seeing her threatening fire and brimstone on the interloping lady and I asked her if she did not feel any guilt at trying to rip another family apart. All she said was that it was not a crime to fall in love with me. That reply removed a veil from my senses and I immediately started making moves to re-unite with my family. I had wasted one year of my life!

When she saw her plan had failed, she called up my wife and started threatening her, she said all sorts of terrible lies about me (just to break us up) but that also failed. My story with this woman is enough to fill a book and was a chastening lesson for me.

God has been merciful to me and I have regained one hundred fold all the cankerworm destroyed.


@Danki run faster than your legs can carry you from that woman. She is out to use your glory and destroy you.

God will replenish what you have lost.

Danki:
Even if she is of God, I can never love or trust her again. And because of this, can't God provide me with a divine replacement so that I don't sin against God for not loving my wife?

Her family background is VERY bad! But she told me this earlier in our relationship that we come from 2 different background but will form a new platform with happy and unbreakable family. Then I didn't even understand most of what she was saying.

And did I mention that she comes from a broken home.

@zeongeon, thanks brother. That was pretty much enlightening! God bless U

A good example of what happens when you engage an evil spirit in a conversation is what we right on this thread www.nairaland.com/2949124/killed-michael-jackson-nigerian-girl its all lies and the intent is to cause pride in the heart of the deliverance minister. Even if the Spirit leaves, it has achieved its purpose of leading the minister astray

@Analice07: Please do send the request again. Something went wrong, i accepted it but you weren't added to my contact list.

@Danki
@Chelseafan

From my little Christian experience, I have discovered something about the devil and his kingdom of darkness. He operates in the lives of people in 4 ways

-He manipulates people
-He influences people
-He oppresses people
-He possesses people.

This are his 4 major tools against the human race..

Of all the things that both of you have been counselled about in this thread,it's the absolute truth..

Stay blessed

Danki:


Thanks a lot for the polite counseling.

I've heed to your advice months ago. And the contributions and prayers from you and other brethren here will surely solidify it.

Unfortunately, some brethren feel that if one is not fully versed in the Bible like them means he's not born again.

Well, lately I've seen myself in the mold of King David and Suleiman Johnson. I will keep praying for God's purpose in my life like you advised.

Thank you all for your support and prayers.
May God keep strengthening you all!

Good evening Mr Danki


Your ex is a child of God blessed with many gifts of the Spirits from God, but the devil and his foot soldiers who cannot create anything have counterfeited the plan of God in her life, hence her numerous pleas/requests in your dreams to rescue her...She is a victim/she was a blind witch who was unwittingly initiated by her Mum/Grandma and have been given a high ranking within their evil realm...


The reason I am swinging the pendulum the other way is because of the many concerns you raised concerning numerous counsel/dreams that she is your God-ordained wife...According to 1 Samuel 15 disobedience is worse than witchcraft she is being accused of...and you don't want to run the risk of disobeying God's will for your life...


So having read where you wrote that you are fully assured you can discern your dreams are from God, please BEFORE YOU RUN FROM HER go and seek the face of the Most High God again to enquire if this lady is indeed your God-ordained wife...


Peradventure she is not your wife, the Bible enjoins us to pray for ALL and Jesus Christ ransomed himself for us ALL and died for us even yet when we were sinners and according to 1 Tim and 2 Peter, it is the desire of God that every soul be saved and come into repentance and into the knowledge of truth...


Moreover you have the calling of a Prophet on you meaning that God has imparted the annointing to counsel and probably rescue this lady...And as a son and Prophet of God, you have the grace to uproot, decree, enforce and overcome in Jesus' name


So stop shaking and brace yourself up, God has not given us the spirit of fear...It is well with you.


And yes God chooses life partners for "some" people, depending on their assignment on this earth.

Happy new year everyone, glad to see Bro Charles' thread is still up and running. May God continue to uphold us all in Jesus' name.

Busybody2:

Happy new year everyone, glad to see Bro Charles' thread is still up and running. May God continue to uphold us all in Jesus' name.

Gboliwe:

What's your problem?

vooks:

What's your problem?

I have so many problems. Which are you interested in?

Gboliwe:


I have so many problems. Which are you interested in?

The most pressing

vooks:

The most pressing

Tell me about yourself

Sentientcarbon:
@Analice07: Please do send the request again. Something went wrong, i accepted it but you weren't added to my contact list.

OK dear. Will do

Sentientcarbon:
@Analice07: Please do send the request again. Something went wrong, i accepted it but you weren't added to my contact list.

You are in my contact list now. I just sent u a ping but u r offline.

Busybody2:

Happy new year everyone, glad to see Bro Charles' thread is still up and running. May God continue to uphold us all in Jesus' name.

Are you serious??. Whereever have you been girl ? Welcome.

Lol @ vooks and Gboliwe.

Gboliwe:


Tell me about yourself

You are quite idle

I'm living in PHC. Precisely NTA road and i recently left Catholic Church for Assemblies. It wasn't easy

analice107:
@Chelseafan. Where are you. Have you decided to follow psychic development? Hmm, that will be a wrong choice sir. I wish I have your number. I live in pH too, can we meet? My hear bleeds when I see souls going down like this. Eternity is not 1million years. It's for ever.
I know I shouldn't plead with you for your salvation, but if that's what it takes, I will.
Please, don't go down that road, the ends is destruction. Please. Listen to what God is saying to you through his servants here. You may come back here later, but by then, you would have already made a conscious deal with Satan. Then it will be more complex.
It's well.

analice107:
Lol @ vooks and Gboliwe.

Hello Anas09,
He is getting blessed just as I am from this thread. How are you doing dearest?

vooks:

You are quite idle

Epp me please! Vooks, epp me get busy!

Rawblings:
I'm living in PHC. Precisely NTA road and i recently left Catholic Church for Assemblies. It wasn't easy

Hello, is this chelseafan? Is this your other Moniker? If yes, I frequent Ozuoba. I went for evangelism there on Sunday evening. Pls send me an email.

Gboliwe:

Epp me please! Vooks, epp me get busy!

Bros pls get serious, as you can see, we are not joking here.

vooks:


Hello Anas09,
He is getting blessed just as I am from this thread. How are you doing dearest?

Am doing very fine sir. You are doing great I guess?

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Danki:


Sister, at the risk of sounding like I'm not stable or born again; my spirit tells me she's of God but being used by the devil. They got hold of her since when she was a kid. Imagine, being lied to, given some powers and threatened since the age of 9.

I'm the only person this girl listens to. If she's angry, herfamily will call me to talk to her. And on hearing my voice, that solves whatever problem it is. If she's angry, and she hears my voice, she begins to act like its Christmas day.

She always tell me because of the work God wants us to do on earth, the devil will always try to break us or make sure we don't get married. And that was the reason she didn't even bother to wait for me to propose before she got herself the engagement ring. A girl who has been so anxious about marrying me all of a sudden cheated on me just the time she even suggested we got married whether we have anything or not. Just the one time i opened my mouth to tell her to go and prepare for our marriage, the evil spirit made her fall in love with the old pastor. And even at that, she gets very angry and depressed anytime I reminded her of the incident. She has knelt down, cried heavily and pleaded that I should never remind her of that. And remember, she called me right from the man's bed to tell me to meet her up somewhere so she could tell me of the incident. She said she realized where she was the moment the man mounted her and she cried all through.

She said the pastor was supposed to help her. But either the demons used her to seduce the pastor or the pastor is an agent used to destroy our now cancelled marriage. My pastor friend said the pastor is an agent. A big one at that. My ex also told me that she discarned that the pastor saw her gifts and wanted to steal her glory in the name of saving her. But she doesnt know what attracted to him in the first place. The money and expensive gifts the pastor gave her on different occasions were all stolen or misplaced of which I witnessed. ( I didn't know it was his money until she slept with him and she confessed).

And so you should know, this pastor is a divorcée and a soulless liar. A pastor I confronted about formication and breaking our engagement and he told me I was blabbering and that I should sort myself out. I was really shocked that day.
Remember, I told you an angel visited her, held her hand firmly and told her never to cheat on me with the pastor. She ran to to me crying and hugged me tightly and told me never to leave if anything happens. She cried heavily that day. I guess she already saw that she may not be able to resist temptation to cheat. A week later, she slept with this pastor.
Before now, she has told me that she will betray me and I will despise her for months no matter how much she begs. But God will reveal to me when she truly becomes born again. That this incident will be the turning point in her life. The time she will hear that I'm getting married to someone else. It will be then she will make a pact with God. (She doesn't tell me negative things about her directly. She uses parables. And when she does, she doesn't remember doing so)

The first time she met this pastor, she told me the man will be the one to help her out. I was confused cos she has been saying that I will be the one that Jesus will use to save her. That without me, she would amount to nothing on earth here just like she has been a mess from childhood, achieving nothing until she met me.
Not that I was too carried away about saving somebody, a couple random prophet from childhood, my dreams and that gut feeling in me tells me. It has little or nothing to do of love but I feel responsible for this girl. But of course, I know I can't help her now until she's 100% ready for Christ.

I've tried making friends with one or two other ladies who seem to know Christ. Serious church workers. But what I saw in my dreams were terrible. Men lining up to have sex with her. I was like how can such a girl do that? I made a little enquiries and my findings were overwhelming. Very disgusting. Well, the point I'm trying to make is that whenever I have such dreams about these random girls, I just turn around and leave immediately. But for my ex, I usually hang around trying to stop her from walking the wrong way( not sex, the omly time i saw her have sex was the one with pastor) she never listens anyway. But I never leave. And its never because of love nor did I force myself to stay.

I've cried and pleaded with God to show me the end of those dreams just like how he shows me about other girls. But God has never done that even with over 40 dreams about this girl with the dream always cutting off at the point. Well, except with the one I dreamt about her 5 years before I met her.

And less I forget, I saw this pastor in my dream and asked him why he slept with my ex and he replied that it was a mistake, it happened only once and will never repeat itself again. Which reminds me of when my ex told me that when we seperate, that I will be surprised to hear at the end of the day that she never slept with anybody again.

With all these, I've come to realize that she will except Christ when she gets a shocking encounter like I had 4 years ago. And this shocking encounter may be when she hears of my intending marriage with another girl. A girl she has always told me will come into my life because of my impatience to hear the final word from God on my life partner. And when God final reveals to me my wife, I would not listen because I would want to punish her (my ex).

This my ex never takes it lightly whenever I sin (well, apart from sex) she always tell me that God is not happy especially when I sin. And when I ask why my own sin gets God angrier, she would simply say that I don't understand who I am to God, that if i understood, I won't be doing a lot of things. But when she's in another mood, she would not mind me doing those things... Lol.

Finally, I've made up my mind long time ago not to keep waiting for her to turn to Christ. I will keep seeking for God's will in my life like brethren here have advised.

And to be very honest with you, I would not have really understood God or be conscious of the spirit world if I didn't meet this girl.

Hmm. My mouth shuts up for good.

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