Every relationship has three stages and no matter who you date..even if you date your twin of different gender,formed in the same womb,you must go through these 3 stages and the truth is that any guy can date,marry and live together with any lady till old age if only you are both determined to go through these 3 stages.

No matter the butterfly feeling you have towards that new date,until you pass the first two stages with him or her,i will advice you take a chill pill.

Here they are...

1- Initial stage of adrenaline rush where you are just ok with him/her and everything about this person is just wow.This is the most fascinating,deceptive yet frigile stage of every relationship.The initial stage when you meet a new person and you just can't see or hear enough of each other but suddenly after sometime which could be days, weeks or months,you just tend to realize that the feeling is not so real and you move on to another person.The unfortunate twist is that many people tend to mistake this stage for the real deal until they get to stage 2.

2- The reality stage :When all the initial gragra fades and you see the real person. This is the make up or break up stage where you start doubting if you ever made the right choice.This is the stage that defines a relationship and it is at this stage that you start seeing the faults and imperfections of the other person and many relationships break up at this stage due to the dreaded "irreconcilable differences" but the unfortunate fact is that no matter how many times you change partners, this stage will always be waiting for you.

My advice is that people in romantic affairs should not say i do to each other until they have truly passed the first and second stage.

3- Last stage is called comfy stage :At this stage,you have become so used to each other and both of you have made a conscious decision to be together against all odds and couples who make it to this stage will experience the best union ever.

While some believe that falling in love with someone is never planed,i will say loving someone is a decision we must make if we truly want to get the best from any union.

Hope this makes sense.

I always like this guy's threads

Still waiting 4 d day i fall in love

This guy.. you made sense today.

Although I did not pass stage 2. I guess me legs are sooo long that I jumped from 1 to 3

Educative..

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Strahovski1:
This guy.. you made sense today.

Apparently you chose to see sense today..if you calm down,you will most likely see sense in my write ups.

im lost

halfricanadian:
im lost

dnt u Eva sleep

Toks2008:


Apparently you chose to see sense today..if you calm down,you will most likely see sense in my write ups.

Oh really? Telling ladies who want to get married to be ready to share their husband's with a mistress is making sense? Really?

Strahovski1:


Oh really? Telling ladies who want to get married to be ready to share their husband's with a mistress is making sense? Really?

toks2008

Omase o...

Never mind..someday it just might make sense.

But for the records please go back and read before misquoting me...because i still remember writing that its a possibility and not a certainty..thye problem with many people is that they find it hard to comprehend and unfortunately i can't help in that area.

Cutehector:
dnt u Eva sleep

No night crawler

halfricanadian:


No night crawler

pls go and sleep.. unless u are bored

Cutehector:
pls go and sleep.. unless u are bored

Im nt bored cant just sleep

halfricanadian:

Im nt bored cant just sleep

watch a movie or smth!

Cutehector:
watch a movie or smth!

Na

halfricanadian:


Na

Wana talk?

Cutehector:
Wana talk?

Yes

halfricanadian:


Yes

call me.

Can't make calls but can receive.

Cutehector:
call me

Lemme borrow from network ok??

halfricanadian:


Lemme borrow from network ok??

alrite

The King of assumptions is here again. What interests me is how you know that your principle holds for every relationship.

Hmm

The fourth realistic stage is..."All men cheat" !
OK ...not" All men cheat"!
* confused*

nikkypearl:
The fourth realistic stage is..."All men cheat" !
OK ...not" All men cheat"!
* confused*

Lol!
Who doesn't cheat anyway?

I cn only go with stage 1 n maybe negotiate stage 2 to sm xtent but 4 stage 3 is a big NO NO 4 me

You are so on point with the second stage, religious partners might think it's the devil at this stage.

So people don dey fall in love again dey ain't in love agsin

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Nice one, at least this won't put me in trouble with my fiancee if I share this on social media.
# can't forget one of toks2008 I shared and my fiancee and I had a very big argument over it that leads to him not calling for almost a week.

Toks2008:
Every relationship has three stages and no matter who you date..even if you date your twin of different gender,formed in the same womb,you must go through these 3 stages and the truth is that any guy can date,marry and live together with any lady till old age if only you are both determined to go through these 3 stages.

Here they are...

1- Initial stage of adrenaline rush where you are just ok with him/her and everything about this person is just wow.This is the most frigile stage of every relationship.The initial stage when you meet a new person and you just can't see or hear enough of each other but suddenly after sometime which could be days, weeks or months,you just tend to realize that the feeling is not so real and you move on to another person.The unfortunate twist is that many people tend to mistake this stage for the real deal until they get to stage 2.

2- The reality stage :When all the initial gragra fades and you see the real person and this is the make up or break up stage where you start doubting if you ever made the right choice.This is the stage that defines a relationship and it is at this stage that you start seeing the faults and imperfections of the other person and many relationships break up at this stage due to the dreaded "irreconcilable differences" but the unfortunate fact is that no matter how many times you change partners, this stage will always be waiting for you.

3- Last stage is called comfy stage :At this stage,you have become so used to each other and both of you have made a conscious decision to be together against all odds and couples who make it to this stage will experience the best union ever.

No matter how hard you want to deceive yourself that a new partner is better than the previous,until you pass the first two stages with your new partner,i will advice you take a chill pill.

While some believe that falling in love with someone is never planed,i will say loving someone is a decision we must make if we truly want to get the best from any union.

Hope this makes sense.

MR ROMANCE/ RELATIONSHIP ADVISER...I DEY HAIL OO.
the second stage though. i will like to escape it