Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,150,325 members, 7,808,095 topics. Date: Thursday, 25 April 2024 at 07:07 AM

10 Signs She Settled For You. - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 10 Signs She Settled For You. (3179 Views)

6 Signs She Really Wanna have sex with you / 10 Signs She's Really In Love With You / 11 Sure Signs She Is No Longer Interested In You. (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Apr 12, 2016
Every real man wants a woman whose crazy about them and she'd rather be with Him or no one else...

But if the 'Him' she wants is not available then she goes for the 'no one else'... Here are 10 signs that she's just 'managing' you.

1. Lack of connection

Sure she talks to you a lot but its usually about logical topics not something she is passionate about.

2.Boredom

Everytime you are together the awkward silence is Deafening!... there is no spark in the relationship. Its almost like its a business arrangement.

3. Her Friends hardly visit

Most of her friends are annoyed that she settled for a guy like you and refuse to pay you guys a visit even when you invite them

4.She's way too classy for you

This is the most obvious of signs, Do you sometimes pinch yourself when you look at her and say "how is she mine?"... Oga don't let your head swell.. There's nothing special about you.. You were a random choice undecided

5.She not interested in Trying New things with you

Her reaction, when ever you suggest something new and out of the routine you guys can try together, she just shrugs and says something like "if you say so". Smh


6.No spontaneity

Love should be spontaneous,it knows no time or routine, but in your relationship, there are no surprises, No sweet memories.. Then she isn't into you

7.She's only extra caring when she needs something

When she starts calling you "honey,sweetie,my darling" and your head starts to swell thinking the Gods are smilling down on you...Then she will ask for something outrageous!! sad......


(If you keep giving her then I pray she drains you untill you go back to your village grin)

8.Sex becomes an Obligation

She never throws herself at you, she never kisses you unless you do... Don't get it wrong.. She won't refuse your advances but she'll never enjoy it no matter how hard you 'pump'

9.You don't have much in common

Most couples actually share similar passions,which gives them opportunity to appreciate,explore and share experiences together...but If noticed you have little things in common with her and she seems unfazed by it,then mayb something is amiss

10.She describes your relationship as 'nice'

Chaii....Nice ke.. What happened to "when I see him I feel like there are knots in my stomach" or "he's all I can think about" or "There's something about him that makes me crazy about him".... But she just uses "Nice" to describe it... Ah.sad

There are a lot of reasons why women settle for men below their standards.Some are

*pressure from parents
*peer pressure
*she needs your money
*shes in it for kids (for the married ones)

The list goes on and on





That's it o
Anyone notice anything Different about my post Today?


#burningfingers cry

2 Likes

Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by cruzita(f): 7:15pm On Apr 12, 2016
well I give u 80/100 u try .
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Flexherbal(m): 7:18pm On Apr 12, 2016
Love grows. A girl might start a relationship without actually loving her man. But, ends up falling completely for the man after sometimes.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Apr 12, 2016
You just described my relationship embarassed

Manage manage
My foreign husband needs to find me quick embarassed
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by ClassCaptain(m): 7:22pm On Apr 12, 2016
Change the text colour to black and this might be a frontpage contender...
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Trafford(m): 7:22pm On Apr 12, 2016
You couldn't be wrong... speaking from experience I guess eh op?
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:24pm On Apr 12, 2016
Stupedinluv:
You just described my relationship embarassed

Manage manage
My foreign husband needs to find me quick embarassed

Lol...


I can pretty 'foreign' sometimes wink
N am on my knee holding a ring? Ts got a big rock on it?? Whatchya say wink ??

How are you today?
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 12, 2016
ClassCaptain:
Change the text colour to black and this might be a frontpage contender...
On it Cap.
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:32pm On Apr 12, 2016
cruzita:
well I give u 80/100 u try .

Tanchu... grin


Uhm... I don't know how best to put tis....

A... Uh... A little birdie told me yhur a guy... Is Tis true?? sad
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 12, 2016
Trafford:
You couldn't be wrong... speaking from experience I guess eh op?

Kinda embarassed
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by funshint(m): 7:53pm On Apr 12, 2016
how khaleises later became crazy about kharl drago despite d circumstances surrounding their meet up #GameOfThrones...look OP love grows overtime. Sometimes love is not only about public display of fake affection; if dats d case most celebrities shld hv lasting marriage....love is a deep thing. what works out in a relationship might not necessarily be the case in another. Most of our parents didn't know they'll end up marrying who they eventually got married to but the truth is after sometime they can literally die for their husbands. Love is just so deep my dear OP...
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by firstking01(m): 7:55pm On Apr 12, 2016
Hmmm, you dey think sha, but i don dey suspect you ocheesy




good to know you 've you 've upgraded your informal abbreviations....this is more like itcheesy...nice piece
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by firstking01(m): 7:57pm On Apr 12, 2016
Hmmm, you dey think sha, but i don dey suspect you ocheesy




good to know you 've upgraded your informal abbreviations....this is more like itcheesy...nice piece...

1 Like

Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Cutehector(m): 7:59pm On Apr 12, 2016
I'v grown to dislike d word 'nice'
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 8:02pm On Apr 12, 2016
Lalasticlala smiley
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 12, 2016
firstking01:
Hmmm, you dey think sha, but i don dey suspect you ocheesy




good to know you 've upgraded your informal abbreviations....this is more like itcheesy...nice piece...

Wetin you dey suspect me off ?? grin
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by cruzita(f): 8:04pm On Apr 12, 2016
slyIsaac:


Tanchu... grin


Uhm... I don't know how best to put tis....

A... Uh... A little birdie told me yhur a guy... Is Tis true?? sad
u don't really have to believe everything u see here because this is. a crazy forum with crazy prople
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Apr 12, 2016
slyIsaac:


Lol...


I can pretty 'foreign' sometimes wink
N am on my knee holding a ring? Ts got a big rock on it?? Whatchya say wink ??

How are you today?
Am still me
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by firstking01(m): 8:07pm On Apr 12, 2016
slyIsaac:


Wetin you dey suspect me off ?? grin
i dey suspect you "off" knowing too much about womengrin
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 12, 2016
firstking01:
i dey suspect you "off" knowing too much about womengrin
cool cool
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Apr 12, 2016
cruzita:
u don't really have to believe everything u see here because this is. a crazy forum with crazy prople
Ok....I'll just have to take your word for it.... grin
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Varagous(f): 8:34pm On Apr 12, 2016
she doesn't call often.. when you call she doesn't sound excited talking you!

1 Like

Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by 400billionman: 8:47pm On Apr 12, 2016
Confused beings.

Today, she is in love.

Tomorrow, she is cursing you.
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by 400billionman: 8:49pm On Apr 12, 2016
Stupedinluv:
You just described my relationship embarassed

Manage manage
My foreign husband needs to find me quick embarassed

Why are you still in the relationship ?
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 9:00pm On Apr 12, 2016
funshint:
how khaleises later became crazy about kharl drago despite d circumstances surrounding their meet up #GameOfThrones...
you just had to mention GOT.... Now my body is sweeting me cheesy cheesy
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 9:03pm On Apr 12, 2016
juhan:
you just had to mention GOT.... Now my body is sweeting me cheesy cheesy
GOT freaks.. I tried to watch it once... With my dad... Those People have no chill... Castle is still my best series any day anytime... Seen Jane the Virgin?
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Apr 12, 2016
slyIsaac:

GOT freaks.. I tried to watch it once... With my dad... Those People have no chill... Castle is still my best series any day anytime... Seen Jane the Virgin?
hehehe....nah ive only seen Jane by design
Re: 10 Signs She Settled For You. by funshint(m): 10:14pm On Apr 12, 2016
juhan:
you just had to mention GOT.... Now my body is sweeting me cheesy cheesy
hmmn really wink

(1) (Reply)

Why Do Guys Expect Your Number When They Do Something Small For You / Romantic Love Messages For Him/her / Will you Miss class?? - See Pics (be sincere)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 55
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.