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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by gracevile: 8:20am On Apr 15, 2016
somegirl1:



Not true.
Igbo men are less likely to marry outside their group. When they do, they are more likely to marry women from cultures with equally high marriage costs e.g Efik, Ibibio, Ijaw.
no not True come to the north n north central u will see wat I mean
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by drewxx88(m): 8:22am On Apr 15, 2016
on the funny side due to ladies clamouring for gender equality I say they should start paying Dowry to men to get married yeah juss like in India ,now on the serious side culture is culture you can't really say it's expensive that's why you arnt forced to date or marry her ,if you feel or rather people feel its too expensive maybe you should try other tribes that don't take bride price ;eg my own the 'Ishan tribe' we don't accept it ,rather we give it to the husband and tell him to use it to take care of his new wife and remind him that we do not sell our daughters so he should remember our kindness and treat her accordingly my two cents...

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by balatukur: 8:22am On Apr 15, 2016
is marriage poverty alleviation program? in case they are looking forward to open up a provision store they should simply request from the guy in question, I believe he will want to help willingly but not in a disguise manner like this

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by cosmicrayboi(m): 8:24am On Apr 15, 2016
igbo families, go hausa nah, na if u fit chop cane.. eriteria say dey marry 1 get 2 since 1879..

i dont know why igbo women too dey cost like ds
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Benprak(m): 8:25am On Apr 15, 2016
Let him talk to ur father . U too as d woman shud talk to ur parents about the list. because dat was what I and my wife .
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by pwettiejay(f): 8:30am On Apr 15, 2016
gbadenor:
na sell dey wan sell her ni....when my cousin just wan collect 5k lasan as bride price
. 5k is even much, what of Ooni of Ife that paid #25?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by vickypark(f): 8:36am On Apr 15, 2016
lol,I laugh. but seriously, it all depend on d family.once both sides come togeda,d list is just a formality.I remember when a frd was getting married, he was told that the bride price he was to pay was 100k but when both families met on the traditional day,he paid 1thousand.he was told that the 100k and other things written was to know if he can go on with the marriage or run away.The main items are the ones to be given to the women in the compound and men.others na jonna.even Yoruba get list it's just the way the ibos presented ders that made it seems they want to sell der girls.

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by somegirl1: 9:29am On Apr 15, 2016
gracevile:
no not True come to the north n north central u will see wat I mean

There is only a relatively miniscule percentage of Igbos outside the SE/ SS.

P.s. I wouldn't be excited about being the last resort/ other option to a man who only shows interest in me because he can't/ doesn't want to afford a marriage list.

The marriage list has never frightened a serious suitor away.

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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by sonature1: 9:33am On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


First of all go to hell too!

My reason for writing that is cos i want to support women who are being maltreated *domestic violence* cos of they were sold in d name of bride price so men spends so mch on a woman dat dey feel dey own her nd do so mch to hurt her

Does bride price gurantee a successful marriage?
Does bride price make a good husband and a good wife?

Do u pay bride price wen u marry a foreign woman? Dats why they av equal right only a woman who is crazy in love dat will stick to a man who hurts her

I meant no harm bro
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by hadaydoyin(m): 9:34am On Apr 15, 2016
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Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by gbadenor(m): 9:40am On Apr 15, 2016
pwettiejay:
. 5k is even much, what of Ooni of Ife that paid #25?
lool
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Omonigeriarere: 9:47am On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:
This means d guy bought u

Chai he can do wateva he likes with u

cry cry i prefer to be seen as a companion i will b his puppet ni

tongue tongue tongue With this list, a graduate without job will establish an average beer parlour coupled with pepper soup joint, honestly.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Iammesh(m): 9:55am On Apr 15, 2016
asin,this is real nonsense.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Nobody: 10:28am On Apr 15, 2016
mehn, sorry to say igbos are terrible if this is true
Adaowerri111:
Been dating for years and today I decided to go through my Bf's pics/gallery...I found this, is it for real?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 10:35am On Apr 15, 2016
Omonigeriarere:


tongue tongue tongue With this list, a graduate without job will establish an average beer parlour coupled with pepper soup joint, honestly.

Shey u go open one make i b managing director of d shop mainly the one with food wink
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by FBLJ(m): 10:49am On Apr 15, 2016
Nothing is wrong with this list, just negotiate, When i finished presenting my items to marry my wife, it was like i was about to open a mega store, but my wife is worth every penny. despite being a student and i was the one paying her bills, i thought no sacrifice was too much for the woman i loved.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 10:51am On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


Huh? sad remember u nt d only guy existing in d universe



What if I am d only guy for u?

What if I am ur missing rib?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 10:53am On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:




What if I am d only guy for u?

What if I am ur missing rib?

Really my missing ribs? Really? Really?

Thats why u missing i dont want to ever find u if u goin to marry my younger sister

Only guy for me? cheesy oga calm down u kno u aint adam i aint eve

Wen one door closes anoda opens

God is a merciful God he wud give me someone better
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 10:56am On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


Really my missing ribs? Really? Really?

Thats why u missing i dont want to ever find u if u goin to marry my younger sister

Only guy for me? cheesy oga calm down u kno u aint adam i aint eve

Wen one door closes anoda opens

God is a merciful God he wud give me someone better


Ouch!!,


That was mean


I wasn't even good? Talk more of better?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:02am On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:



Ouch!!,


That was mean


I wasn't even good? Talk more of better?

angry u are not even on awaiting list let alone entry list
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 11:25am On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


angry u are not even on awaiting list let alone entry list

Bye bye,

Ur younger sis will do just fine.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:33am On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:


Bye bye,

Ur younger sis will do just fine.

Dont go near my younger sis do u know her self hell no!!!!!
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 11:36am On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:


Bye bye,

Ur younger sis will do just fine.

Dont go near my younger sis do u know her self hell no!!!!!.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by femmyAdagba(m): 11:51am On Apr 15, 2016
won't they add 20litres of fuel??
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 12:30pm On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


Dont go near my younger sis do u know her self hell no!!!!!.


They dia na, dey for water make soap enter ur eyes.

Person wey me and am don de run package tey tey.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 12:31pm On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:



They dia na, dey for water make soap enter ur eyes.

Person wey me and am don de run package tey tey.

Joke of life are u out of ur mind?
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 12:34pm On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:


Joke of life are u "out of" ur mind?


Nooo, I am "inside" my mind.


Ur sister is even the luckiest, we are getting to 2weeks now, normally, I be hit and run.

But ur sister sabi work, so, I am still considering her.
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 12:36pm On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:



Nooo, I am "inside" my mind.


Ur sister is even the luckiest, we are getting to 2weeks now, normally, I be hit and run.

But ur sister sabi work, so, I am still considering her.


U insane dont talk bad bou my sister

Fuvk u asshole she will never do such now get lost
Attention seeking mofo
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by chigoizie7(m): 12:42pm On Apr 15, 2016
halfricanadian:



U insane dont talk bad bou my sister

Fuvk u asshole she will never do such now get lost
Attention seeking mofo


U re really pained oh, funny enough,it sounds so funny how u re already taking this so serious.


Well, I am considering dumping ur sister for u, I know say u go sabi work pass her.






















I wonder how u can take "jokes" of someone u barely know so serious.

Are u such a sadist? Damn
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by Samdeejay100(m): 12:47pm On Apr 15, 2016
MilesLamar:
Our Igbo sisters ain't cheap.. smiley
una Igbo sister ain't cheap Abi, no problem after paying all these they will never smell their daughter again... odi gbere...
Re: Is This Why He Doesn't Want To Propose? by halfricanadian(f): 12:48pm On Apr 15, 2016
chigoizie7:



U re really pained oh, funny enough,it sounds so funny how u re already taking this so serious.


Well, I am considering dumping ur sister for u, I know say u go sabi work pass her.






















I wonder how u can take "jokes" of someone u barely know so serious.

Are u such a sadist? Damn

No but i dont want bad mouthing

U can use dose jokes on me bt not on my sisters i'll crush u for that

grin im very playful not a saddist

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