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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by NEROSKY(m): 5:21pm On Apr 23, 2016
layla129:


I wish...they are contacts embarassed
See ur big eyes, u no bad sha kiss
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 23, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
obviously his undiluted affections & support/advice isn't enough to motivate her to shed the unhealthy weight.so the next logical step is to bolt.... logic always Trump's emotion.

And where did u see me insult her? she's fat & so i called her ass 'overinflated'....from where I come from,it's called the 'truth'....
Undiluted affection my ass, when he's proudly cheating on her. And u're not the girl so how do u know she isn't trying to loose the weight.
I can imagine the kinda place u come from if u actually think the word u used isn't insultive.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 5:32pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Who told you that am not ready yet? I said that my girl at 20 is now looking like my mother and this is all you could say. You...can you marry a very big lady(fat) with potruding belly. Infact, a lady almost full blown like baloon? Is not my fault guy! God knows that if she can endeavor to shed those fats, I would have worried atall! I would have include her pics here but I changed my mind, it is not good, especially to my love for her.

Then you have to seriously engage her in a gym and follow up with her, Id take a fat Babe that's nice so over skinny bitch who will give me hell anyday.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 5:35pm On Apr 23, 2016
andyanders:


Don't even try throwing her away and if you do that, the gods in your home town will be after you. Please, do not allow this lady die because of how you now feel about her. Help her to overcome her weight issue if you truly love her as you said.
Holy Ghost fire u! I still love my girl dearly, and does cry over her situation when am alone and my mind carpet-crosses over her issues. I didn't say am quitting her. I'll continue but, may cheat on her on the long run, which I don't prayer for.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by toprealman: 5:50pm On Apr 23, 2016
You are a horror! Your type will ditch ur pregnant wife just cos of some weight. She has all those qualities and a paedophile like you think you deserve better....MTCHEW
I hope she slips off you to a better guy that will give her pure unlimited joy.
Go look for another minor to defile.....he-goat!
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by HaneefahRN(f): 5:55pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Holy Ghost fire u! I still love my girl dearly, and does cry over her situation when am alone and my mind carpet-crosses over her issues. I didn't say am quitting her. I'll continue but, may cheat on her on the long run, which I don't prayer for.

You do not love her! If you did you won't even contemplate cheating on her. If you feel you are no longer attracted to her with her weight gain and can't support her while she sheds it (which might not be so easy and quick), just let her go for someone more deserving who loves her just the way she is rather than stay with her just to cause her heartache.
She has lots of potential, a 400lvl medical student with a lovely demeanor and not bad looks apart from the weight which you might have exaggerated, she has men on the queue for her.

PS- Leave her for someone more deserving, go for a slim girl you are attracted to. And maybe if by luck she gains weight after child birth too, just divorce her.

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 5:56pm On Apr 23, 2016
NEROSKY:

See ur big eyes, u no bad sha kiss

Thanks hunnae...Who are you voting for miss Nl?
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 5:57pm On Apr 23, 2016
Prospero01:
Well I don't blame you. Some of us are praying God for a wife not a girl friend or miss world with slim figure at 35 and you here spewing thrash. Get something into your "ideal" description of who to marry, they fail after the first five years of marriage. Beauty is vain, favour is deceitful but a woman that fears God, she will be praised. And Solomon a chronic womanizer Advices your type that let her breast satisfy you at all times. You know why? All breast will eventually sag, it's just a matter of time. Now get out. You still a child and shouldn't be talking about marriage in the comity of ready to settle down bachelors
Oga! Must u always talk poo?
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by LUSTY1759(m): 5:57pm On Apr 23, 2016
Pls can we see Her piX just to assertain ur clames.........
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 5:59pm On Apr 23, 2016
akyus:
@Op, I feel your vibrancy now. But beware that the emotional trauma you are playing around can mess you up big time. Don't let your experience to teach you a lesson you can learn from others. Imagine you @36 saying had I known.
I hv nt broken up with her. The only problem is her size...very, very big!
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 6:06pm On Apr 23, 2016
mizzkweenbee:

Undiluted affection my ass, when he's proudly cheating on her. And u're not the girl so how do u know she isn't trying to loose the weight.
I can imagine the kinda place u come from if u actually think the word u used isn't insultive.
What is you problem? I love my girl, only that am scared of what her size would be after she might have given birth. Did I tell you that I don't love my bae? Why are you attacking this guy for speaking the truth. You... What solution have you proferred, so I can relay it to my gal girl as penacea?
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by ogawisdom(m): 6:08pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Most women will become fat after marriage deal with dt. Also force urself to love fat women too angry
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 23, 2016
[quote author=Davindal post=44975873]What is you problem? I love my girl, only that am scared of what her size would be after she might have given birth. Did I tell you that I don't love my bae? Why are you attacking this guy for speaking the truth. You... What solution have you proferred, so I can relay it to my gal girl as penacea?[/quote
Dnt remember telling u I av any problem nd also not attacking anybody, equally telling him the truth too.
If u really love ur girl, firstly u wouldn't be cheating on her, u should respect her feelings enough to keep ur dick in one place. Secondly because she's getting fat isn't enough reason to consider leaving her, wat if u guy are already married before now, would u be considering divorce? . I advice u stand by her, enrol her in a gym or something, map out a diet for her, talk to her and keep encouraging her. She shouldn't be eating much of junk, she should avoid eating late at night, take more fruits and water too. With the exercise and all this, there's no way she won't slim down. Maybe when she isn't showing commitment to loosing weight, then u can think of leaving her
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(m): 6:13pm On Apr 23, 2016
toprealman:
You are a horror! Your type will ditch ur pregnant wife just cos of some weight. She has all those qualities and a paedophile like you think you deserve better....MTCHEW
I hope she slips off you to a better guy that will give her pure unlimited joy.
Go look for another minor to defile.....he-goat!
Thunder fire you buffon! I entered into a relationship with my bae 4yrs back, but went canal after a year and few months, so don't call me a peadophile. My babe already was in consenting age that 2013. So carry your sorry ass outa here pig!
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Holy Ghost fire u! I still love my girl dearly, and does cry over her situation when am alone and my mind carpet-crosses over her issues. I didn't say am quitting her. I'll continue but, may cheat on her on the long run, which I don't prayer for.
May cheat on her on the long run, like u not doing that already

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by missjahiniekpe(f): 6:24pm On Apr 23, 2016
You think she likes everything about you? I Just wonder why women are able to put up with mens flaws and the men keeps calling out on women over something she has no control... You don’t deserve her, please let her go... Lets see how the next lady will have every attributes you need.

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by toprealman: 6:29pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Thunder fire you buffon! I entered into a relationship with my bae 4yrs back, but went canal after a year and few months, so don't call me a peadophile. My babe already was in consenting age that 2013. So carry your sorry ass outa here pig!
I don't respond to kids...let alone paedophiles!
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by deathmen12: 6:43pm On Apr 23, 2016
Love is When u take away the feelings, the passion and the romance in a relationshp, bt u find out u still care 4 dat person.
Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by MizTyna(f): 6:44pm On Apr 23, 2016
Rexhenrex:
am sorry but it seems you replaced your brain with beef shawamar..


Nairalanders! Una can diss! Chei
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Prospero01(m): 6:48pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Oga! Must u always talk poo?
For your information I am one of very few Nlander's who comments on people's issue. Count it worthy that I responded to your plight. That said, I stood with my late ex who had to battle cancer till her death. When her beauty faded and she was looking like a ghost, with her hair completely fallen off. I stood and God knows I kept on reassuring her. Her parents saw it. Mind you we still dating not married. So if at 35 years of age I took time off to deposit some wisdom into a non functional, irrational and a fascadious brain of yours, you need to do a thanks giving in church. Same vituperation you have been throwing at whosoever tries to talk to you. Good luck to you as you decided on what to do with her. # Davindaldecides#
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by IamLEGEND1: 6:58pm On Apr 23, 2016
mizzkweenbee:

Undiluted affection my ass, when he's proudly cheating on her. And u're not the girl so how do u know she isn't trying to loose the weight.
I can imagine the kinda place u come from if u actually think the word u used isn't insultive.
#SmH
You do you, kwinB....I'm outta here.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Drabrah(m): 7:02pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Did you say that I'm after her body? If you were in my shoes, would you go into marriage with somebody having the prospects and potentials of becoming the next YOKOZINA, particularly when she gives birth to baby? If you don't know what to comment...you had better keep mute.

So if u marry her "lepacious" & she lerra turns "orobo" u'll throw her away, Right!
Then, marry anoda one & throw away 1 by 1, after u don useless all of Them!
Application to "Serial Monogamy"
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by lalahhh(f): 7:06pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
Did you say that I'm after her body? If you were in my shoes, would you go into marriage with somebody having the prospects and potentials of becoming the next YOKOZINA, particularly when she gives birth to baby? If you don't know what to comment...you had better keep mute.
wow!!! Do u even know what u are saying? U love her yet u r complaining abt her size, Uncle dats not love ooo... Ahh, After launching the main thing Nd topping it up for 4yrs straight, u r now complaining about her size? Damn!! God is really Patient mehn. May God reward us according to our deeds (Amin). All iz well, God will lead you to the right path my brother.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by danot1030: 7:10pm On Apr 23, 2016
Op you need to know that as men needs good wife material the ladies also needs and deserve good husband material. With the descriptions you gave about yourself and your escapades you are a dangerous husband material that I don't see the possibility of you stopping womanising even after marriage thus leaving the innocent lady to become a ghost of herself courtesy of the frustration you immoral life will give her, you don't deserve a decent lady.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by akyus(m): 7:11pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
I hv nt broken up with her. The only problem is her size...very, very big!
Exaggerating your only problem can compound it. Note, the poor girl too might go to seek advice elsewhere. You don't know the kind of girl she might meet. Stop exaggerating what you have tagged to be a problem and begin to find ways how to solve it.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Blessograo(f): 7:41pm On Apr 23, 2016
i think you both should register in a gym together to encourage her and stop her from eating junks or stop her from eating when its 8 p.m if she's hungry she can eat fruits, buy plenty for her.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by NEROSKY(m): 7:42pm On Apr 23, 2016
layla129:


Thanks hunnae...Who are you voting for miss Nl?


You... of course kiss


For payback, lemme take u out for a date undecided
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Obiwiz(m): 7:43pm On Apr 23, 2016
Davindal:
If you don't know what to say, why not ignore this post and gerarahere. Why did you chose to gape your vocal cavity to vituperate absolute gibberish in written form, all in claims of providing advice, that is better cosigned to the waste bin? You yourself...can you marry a very fat person? If not, you better disappear here. What has being a medical student got to do with this post that expects a better advice than this poo you posted here?
To tell guy man say make him grow brain na abuse too? Oya, no vex. BTW, na fingers I use type wetin I post, not vocal cavity. Next time, wen you want quote or reply a post, use better dictionary. D one u use here no try at all. We no dey impressed with d grammar (since na dat point u want prove to us).
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Blessograo(f): 7:45pm On Apr 23, 2016
But seriously you don't tell a lady with good qualities she's fat, you just make her work out with you to encourage her without telling her
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by louisdemaria(m): 7:48pm On Apr 23, 2016
Donpizzle:

da FCK with ur post.....dude u ain't communicating.
bro,there's mre dt meets d eyes than one can see...he's communicating.
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by layla129(f): 7:51pm On Apr 23, 2016
NEROSKY:



You... of course kiss


For payback, lemme take u out for a date undecided

I'm not contesting
Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by louisdemaria(m): 7:52pm On Apr 23, 2016
Dear Op,I told ma slf somtin days bk & it goes like dis,"a day will come when one will look past physical beauty"...Dnt do wht u may regret in d future cos of temporal issh & start wishing this and that.Gudluck bruv.

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