vizkiz:
If you want to furck go and furck no come dey disturb us this hot afternoon Jare


Because there is a law against premarital sex doesn't mean you should follow it if you don't believe in it

Meaning you follow it

skarlett:


Meaning you follow it

Are you asking if I have never had sex? Are you kidding me?

vizkiz:


Are you asking if I have never had sex? Are you kidding me?

skarlett:
Is abstinence from sex and all other sexual activities before marriage as decreed in the Bible realistic and necessary?"

I came up with that because I feel the bible have made a lot of people overly hypocritical . . .I also find the rule stiffening and ridiculous. . .

It's 99.99% impossible to abstain from everything sexual before marriage, all things being equal i.e so long as he/she doesn't have some sort of disability. . .
and it doesn't have to be penetrative sex(a lot of people that squawk against premarital sex do a lot of sexual acts asides from vaginal sex so it doesn't really make sense). And since it isn't possible to completely abstain then why do people preach about it or act judgmental especially when men/women are sexual beings?

Let's look at it from an extensive view away from the constraints of religion - we are supposed to mate as soon as we hit puberty. If we were not supposed to have sex before marriage then don't you think we are supposed to hit PUBERTY only after we've gotten married or what's the essence of having a reproductive organ ready for action at 17/18 years old but kept inactive for so many years?

JoeBlocks:
Different strokes for different folks. This falls under "practice what you preach". Anybody who clearly feels estranged as a result of practicing a religion that clearly speak against sex out marriage should stop adhering to the tenets of that religion.

A christian can't say he's a christian and be seen committing adultery, that's hypocrisy of the highest order.

If you feel your religion is stopping you from doing what you love to do, then do away with it. Plain and simple

True that! Sex is a beautiful thing, a wonderful thing, anybody who's been in there may find it difficult staying out there. Its all on the hypocritical nature of most religious folks.

However, I will however say if he or she is a christian/Moslem, then they shouldn't be heard or even seen having sex, because their religion clearly speak against having sex and sexual immorality outside marriage.

Em, engaging in sex when one hits puberty might mean some aspects of paedophilia. We know some girls reach puberty at the age of 13 and even younger than 13.

jmoore:
Abstinence is possible to those that believe in it.

Stop trying to justify your 'weakness'.

skarlett:



I'm open to learning how you overcame this 'weakness'

jmoore:
Values I learned as a young boy. These values I never threw away as I became a man. You have to accept that these moral values are for your own benefit too.

skarlett:



What are the values? It seems you're the rare 1%

skarlett:
Is abstinence from sex and all other sexual activities before marriage as decreed in the Bible realistic and necessary?"

I came up with that because I feel the bible have made a lot of people overly hypocritical . . .I also find the rule stiffening and ridiculous. . .

It's 99.99% impossible to abstain from everything sexual before marriage, all things being equal i.e so long as he/she doesn't have some sort of disability. . .
and it doesn't have to be penetrative sex(a lot of people that squawk against premarital sex do a lot of sexual acts asides from vaginal sex so it doesn't really make sense). And since it isn't possible to completely abstain then why do people preach about it or act judgmental especially when men/women are sexual beings?

Let's look at it from an extensive view away from the constraints of religion - we are supposed to mate as soon as we hit puberty. If we were not supposed to have sex before marriage then don't you think we are supposed to hit PUBERTY only after we've gotten married or what's the essence of having a reproductive organ ready for action at 17/18 years old but kept inactive for so many years?

Monalisa185:

skarlett:


That may be a tad extreme like throwing away the baby with the bath water although I agree its hypocritical to not practise what you preach

Easier said than done

This doesn't stop some of our teenagers today, does it?

firstking01:
Are you trying to qoute God wrong??

JoeBlocks:
Extreme? It is saying it the way it should be said.
Cool

Yes it doesn't. That's why I believe religion should be thrown in the trash. Parenting, that is good parenting has nothing to do with religious doctrine.

skarlett:



Noted

jmoore:
The values that concern this topic, 'no to premarital sex' etc.

Laveda:
Hmmmm nice thread skarlett.

But sometimes i can't help but question God even though i'm not gonna get an answer,
Why give us the knowledge of something you've warned us to abstain from till marriage?

Sex is just something you'll find hard to live without especially when you've tried it before it would have been much better if we (humans) are ignorant of sex till marriage.
But that not withstanding, we can do without sex if we mean it, it takes the grace of God and sincere determination though.

Laveda:
Hmmmm nice thread skarlett.

But sometimes i can't help but question God even though i'm not gonna get an answer,
Why give us the knowledge of something you've warned us to abstain from till marriage?

Sex is just something you'll find hard to live without especially when you've tried it before it would have been much better if we (humans) are ignorant of sex till marriage.
But that not withstanding, we can do without sex if we mean it, it takes the grace of God and sincere determination though

iykekelvins:
Nice, Can you do without sex?

skarlett:



it all started with freewill, I highly doubt the bolded to be sincere

Laveda:

Bebe i think it's possible though.

Why doubt?
Cause of the urge right?

TBH most times I find out that the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak

skarlett:




TBH most times I find out that the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak