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Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Youngpo413: 5:28pm On Jun 28, 2016
If she can suck and fucccck his dick countless times, na only cooking go tire her?
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 5:29pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

I won't cook you, better hire a cook oh
hahahha I know that even if you decide not to you Wil have no choice than to cook for me since cooking is most likely one of your hobbies... Anyway, we can get a good looking maid in her twenties or what do you think grin (a friend of mine told me about sacking their maid immediately after she got married ... I supported her.. besides the maid is in her twenties and she loves wearing shorts skirts/gowns.... At least my friend is still in her marriage now with two kids after the sack of the maid)
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:35pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

I won't cook you, better hire a cook oh

Now look at yourself and ask yourself, "what is my value then??"

Please, go add value to yourself... there are cheap places where you can learn how to cook... Before you become a national embarrassment cheesy
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 5:36pm On Jun 28, 2016
SmellingAnus:
hahahha I know that even if you decide not to you Wil have no choice than to cook for me since cooking is most likely one of your hobbies... Anyway, we can get a good looking maid in her twenties or what do you think grin (a friend of mine told me about sacking their maid immediately after she got married ... I supported her.. besides the maid is in her twenties and she loves wearing shorts skirts/gowns.... At least my friend is still in her marriage now with two kids after the sack of the maid)
Hahaha it won't work for now
I will employ an old mama as nanny, you mission have failed tongue
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jun 28, 2016
Ioannes:


sure dear. pardon my expression.

all I'm saying is, if she's going to give the excuse that "my pastor told me not to", then she'd better tell us what her pastor also told her about fornication.

making a meal can be viewed two ways:

it can be a drag and become tedious if you are forced to do it or

it can be a pleasant chore you happily engage in because you are doing it for someone you love.
°I think she made the excuse because she views it like option 1) a drag
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by rose54321: 5:38pm On Jun 28, 2016
I see absolutely nothing wrong with cooking for him, so long as the guy reciprocates, I.e. he can also cook for the girl when she visits.

And if I was the lady in question, I would have dumped the guys ass first, how will you have the effrontery to ask me to cook for you. I can cook at will but not when you ask it.

Ladies shouldn't tolerate trash. boys these days are becoming something less, if you want a lady that will cook for you MARRY HER. what rubbish angry angry.
I also don't blame the religious leaders, they have noticed the trend, guys now have girlfriends that perform wife roles, they cook, wash, clean for him, some even bath him.

I ain't against taking care of your guy, but it should be done at your volition not under compulsory or request.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 5:39pm On Jun 28, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


Now look at yourself and ask yourself, "what is my value then??"

Please, go add value to yourself... there are cheap places where you can learn how to cook... Before you become a national embarrassment cheesy
And who is this one, get a life and stay off my mention.
And incase you are jobless come boy I have a job for you
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Richiy(f): 5:39pm On Jun 28, 2016
Should a lady eat when she visits her man? undecided

Even if not for him, wouldn't you want to eat?
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:41pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

And who is this one, get a life and stay off my mention.
And incase you are jobless come boy I have a job for you

cheesy cheesy cheesy.... What Job are we talking about??

You know what, Give it to the person am quoting, She needs it badly....

And Just incase you need something special, I sell Common sense...

Get some cash and buy some angry
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by PunkyV(f): 5:42pm On Jun 28, 2016
Yes, if she wants to. Is she not also going to eat?

I've done it & I don't see what the big deal is because I also ate. Take-aways can be tiring & sometimes you just crave a good home-cooked meal.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by rose54321: 5:43pm On Jun 28, 2016
lecturerdabo:
I dated a girl some yrs back in Jos. She was beautiful and well decorated by God

But

When she visits my corner, she will cook, eat and then leave all for me to clean!

Today she is above 35 and single!!

Ladies, pls be wise cos men ar looking for PROBLEM SOLVERS NOT PROBLEM CREATORS!!!

Na real wa for you, so she cooked and I believe you ate from the food, but you still expect her to wash the plates. This is the 21at century my dear, the days of slavery are long gone.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jun 28, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°I think she made the excuse because she views it like option 1) a drag

Yeah. That's what I thought too, or maybe she can't cook and doesn't want him to find out.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 5:47pm On Jun 28, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


cheesy cheesy cheesy.... What Job are we talking about??

You know what, Give it to the person am quoting, She needs it badly....

And Just incase you need something special, I sell Common sense...

Get some cash and buy some angry
Common sense, you should try using one on yourself first because you really need it.

Come lemme hug you cos life is very difficult for your type and again if you still needs the job, I am still willing to offer it. Now run along boy and don't quote me again
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 28, 2016
Ioannes:


Yeah. That's what I thought too, or maybe she can't cook and doesn't want him to find out.
°Maybe. But I can't cook and cuz I think it's a "drag" ,I don't mind tellin' a dude grin
....he won't bother asking.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:54pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

Common sense, you should try using one on yourself first because you really need it.

Come lemme hug you cos life is very difficult for your type and again if you still needs the job, I am still willing to offer it. Now run along boy and don't quote me again

No, I will quote you but I wouldn't go dirty with you...

You know why

It would give you joy dragging me to the mud where you already belong...

I gat my white shirts on.... and I don't play dirty with pigs..

Meet me on my sofa, not in the mud, then we can talk...

Danke shu madame.

Piss!!
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 5:58pm On Jun 28, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


No, I will quote you but I wouldn't go dirty with you...

You know why

It would give you joy dragging me to the mud where you already belong...

I gat my white shirts on.... and I don't play dirty with pigs..

Meet me on my sofa, not in the mud, then we can talk...

Danke shu madame.

Piss!!
Hahahaha see this one, are you sure you are obsessed with me. Again stay off my mention
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 6:03pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

Hahahaha see this one, are you sure you are obsessed with me. Again stay off my mention

Read your statements again and know why life is difficult for illiterates... lol
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 6:13pm On Jun 28, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


Read your statements again and know why life is difficult for illiterates... lol
Stay off my mention but I guess you name says it all
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 6:23pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:
Stay off my mention but I guess you name says it all
I will for now... Buy see you when next you post something senseless.. I will be your nemesis. .
Just remember me.
The Bush Guy...
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by chigoizie7(m): 6:53pm On Jun 28, 2016
If she wouldn't cook while dating, how will I be sure of what I am dealing with? It might lead to marriage.


Normally, I don't date girls just for the fun of it. I don't go into relationships just so I could fúck her and move on, I go into relationships to weigh my ups and downs, to know if we can be together forever. Things just don't work out. So, when I am in a relationship, I look out for all the things I would need in a wife. I don't just go in just to waste time. If I need pússy, I know where and how to get it.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Doubleagent008(m): 6:57pm On Jun 28, 2016
mizzbouqui:
A girlfriend should be able to cook and do some chores for his guy willingly not forcefully, because that is what some naija guys uses to determine wife material, to me the lady talking about her pastor is just being lazy she knows that once shes married to the guy then the guy will have no choice than to hire a maid and unknowingly to her the maid might end up becoming a madam.
you had me at your 1st sentence. Didn't read the rest. Nice opening.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by YUNGLURD(m): 7:21pm On Jun 28, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°Bad word no! Sex was for HER pleasure,he just got to benefit.
Why would she then clean and cook for him? undecided
there is no gain or pleasure in that!
simply because she cant cuk but having sex together can eventually lead to break up wit d gal, who lose?
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by YUNGLURD(m): 7:29pm On Jun 28, 2016
rose54321:
I see absolutely nothing wrong with cooking for him, so long as the guy reciprocates, I.e. he can also cook for the girl when she visits.

And if I was the lady in question, I would have dumped the guys ass first, how will you have the effrontery to ask me to cook for you. I can cook at will but not when you ask it.

Ladies shouldn't tolerate trash. boys these days are becoming something less, if you want a lady that will cook for you MARRY HER. what rubbish angry angry.
I also don't blame the religious leaders, they have noticed the trend, guys now have girlfriends that perform wife roles, they cook, wash, clean for him, some even bath him.

I ain't against taking care of your guy, but it should be done at your volition not under compulsory or request.
who knws if u r doing all u wrote up there for ur guy & u r here sayin otherwise...Ladies take her advice @ur own peril.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by rose54321: 7:35pm On Jun 28, 2016
YUNGLURD:
who knws if u r doing all u wrote up there for ur guy & u r here sayin otherwise...Ladies take her advice @ur own peril.

Dude, I cooked for my guy, we even washed cloths together sef, but note the key word TOGETHER.
He knows better than to tell me to go and cook, cooking is not a big deal the issue is the circumstances that leads to the cooking, did he ask, compel or demand, or did you do it on free will.
I will cook on free will, but never on request by any man I am not married or engaged to.

I am not saying any girl should take my advice, infact I ain't advising any one, just saying what I do and what has been working for me.

If you know you who are and act responsibly nobody can take advantage of you.
Everybody likes free things, even myself, so I don't blame guys that expect wifely roles from girlfriends. It's up to the girls to draw the line.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 7:41pm On Jun 28, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


I will for now... Buy see you when next you post something senseless..
I will be your nemesis. .

Just remember me.

The Bush Guy...
Bye dear not buy
Start by correcting yourself, goes a long way to show how jobless you are nemesis my foot!
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 7:45pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

Hahaha it won't work for now
I will employ an old mama as nanny, you mission have failed tongue
hahahaha ok o... But I honestly think a maid is needed to relief you certain stress so that you will not give me excuse at night that you are too tired tongue
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by onstelly(f): 8:03pm On Jun 28, 2016
SmellingAnus:
hahahaha ok o... But I honestly think a maid is needed to relief you certain stress so that you will not give me excuse at night that you are too tired tongue
Chineke shocked
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 8:21pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

Chineke shocked
I have spent much time with couples and in some cases the husbands complain that their wives most times claim to be tired when the husband needs action... It was later discovered that wife actually stresses herself more especially when kids start coming in and on household work... The solution was simple... Get a househelp/Nanny if you can afford one... Hope you get me now...
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by SmellingAnus(m): 8:33pm On Jun 28, 2016
onstelly:

Chineke shocked
I think you misunderstood me... I never meant I will get involved with any maid (Godforbid.. ) I meant the pressence of maid will give you more time for me especially at night... Winks...
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 28, 2016
YUNGLURD:
simply because she cant cuk but having sex together can eventually lead to break up wit d gal, who lose?
°Breakups happen. She enjoyed him and on she moves.
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by lacasera14(m): 8:44pm On Jun 28, 2016
RUBBISH POST
Re: Should a lady cook for a man she is dating? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jun 28, 2016
[email] It's only normal she prepares meals both of them'd eat, once in a while. [/email]

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