sometime I wonder why most ladies are so anxious
to meet their guys parents and siblings even when
the guy is not ready for that familiarity, i mean it pissed most
of us (guys) even myself off. it
makes the guy feel like u want to force him into
marriage even when he is not ready thereby making
him to start withdrawing from u. There are
something's that should be allowed to grow naturally

A lady is on op's neck

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Alondra:
A lady is on op's neck

, no b lie but i hate desperate chicks

Chriswazo:


, no b lie but i hate desperate chicks

she might not be desperate but just a serious minded one not in for a no future relationship

Alondra:
she might not be desperate but just a serious minded one not in for a no future relationship

I agree with u, but she can still get a man to commit and not by hobnobbing with the guy's family u kno. Am currently experiencing one now and i tell u the truth, is really annoying.

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OP wan chop clean mouth

Chriswazo:


I agree with u, but she can still get a man to commit and not by hobnobbing with the guy's family u kno. Am currently experiencing one now and i tell u the truth, is really annoying.

little do these ladies know that deception comes in this form too. No all 'know my mama/ friends ' leads to marriage. Talk to her about it and let her know you don't like it, but try not to make her feel unloved

Alondra:
little do these ladies know that deception comes in this form too. No all 'know my mama/ friends ' leads to marriage. Talk to her about it and let her know you don't like it, but try not to make her feel unloved

that's the point, to her is not a big deal as she is already playing the role of a wife and feels that she is already part of my family or definitely will be cos am not the type that chase ladies too much, so in her mind, she feels she have arrived. Am even afraid of breaking her heart cos she is 100% committed to me but i haven't made up my mind on her, is still 50/50 for me.

Chriswazo:


that's the point, to her is not a big deal as she is already playing the role of a wife and feels that she is already part of my family or definitely will be cos am not the type that chase ladies too much, so in her mind, she feels she have arrived. Am even afraid of breaking her heart cos she is 100% committed to me but i haven't made up my mind on her, is still 50/50 for me.

It hurts me when a partner falls deeper in love than the other, one is more at the losing end. All you have to do now is speak to her about it, tell her the desperation is getting out of hand but never tell her the 50/50 thing. But her if you are not sure about her don't take too long to let her know. And never marry out of pity... Its for your own good

Alondra:
It hurts me when a partner falls deeper in love than the other, one is more at the losing end. All you have to do now is speak to her about it, tell her the desperation is getting out of hand but never tell her the 50/50 thing. But her if you are not sure about her don't take too long to let her know. And never marry out of pity... Its for your own good

OK, i have heard you dear, i will have to make my decisions whether to stay with her or leave her by next year so that she will be able to accept other guys before it gets late for her. Am afraid that am already pitying her and will not like to disappoint her. Maybe i should even open up to u since we don't know ourselves, my only discouraging factor is her height, i can manage everything about her, for a truth she satisfys my other wants in a lady up to about a 75% mark but her shortness is really a big turn off, she is short indeed and this is a big contrast to her sisters.

Chriswazo:


OK, i have heard you dear, i will have to make my decisions whether to stay with her or leave her by next year so that she will be able to accept other guys before it gets late for her. Am afraid that am already pitying her and will not like to disappoint her. Maybe i should even open up to u since we don't know ourselves, my only discouraging factor is her height, i can manage everything about her, for a truth she satisfys my other wants in a lady up to about a 75% mark but her shortness is really a big turn off, she is short indeed and this is a big contrast to her sisters.

Permit me to laugh on the emboldened sir .. I won't judge you because we are all guilty of breaking up for some little things. 75% is a pass mark tho why loose a lady over something she has no control on? You aren't perfect either but then she took you for whom you are. I hope you aren't one of those who think you are doing a lady a favour by marrying her cos the truth is ... You are both doing and receiving favors. Although you shouldn't manage someone in relationship but sometimes the good things comes in dirty packs. My point is never make a hasty or rash decision

Alondra:
Permit me to laugh on the emboldened sir .. I won't judge you because we are all guilty of breaking up for some little things. 75% is a pass mark tho why loose a lady over something she has no control on? You aren't perfect either but then she took you for whom you are. I hope you aren't one of those who think you are doing a lady a favour by marrying her cos the truth is ... You are both doing and receiving favors. Although you shouldn't manage someone in relationship but sometimes the good things comes in dirty packs. My point is never make a hasty or rash decision

I like your maturity dear. Now back to the discussion at hand, i get all your points, if not for the 75% mark, am sure she wouldn't be with me now, Alondra, this my babe is very short, am trying not to call her a dwarf, she is very fair and beautiful, she is also a graduate and should be serving next stream 2. I have a feeling that she is very desperate and good COs she knows she is short. See, i started dating her cos she was very good to me with no intention that it will extend to this level. I had never envisaged our marriage possibility b4 dating her cos that thought would have quenched my likeness for her. I know she is this desperate cos of the disappointment she had received over the years from her former boyfriends and then my very little money, and am quite sure they all ate her "food" and left her cos of her height. My dear is not easy to date a desperado Gf, do you think you can marry a dwarf?