AirFireEarthH20:


Bro, we live in a world full of injustice. Some people that even depended on me while we were in school no longer look my way since they are now rich. I've never been a bad person but situation is making me start thinking of living a rough life. I just pray i don't get to that point. I even made a thread here on nairaland to appeal to anyone who has a used laptop to give me to start an online job that someone introduced to me recently due to the way he saw me but no one cares.

I'm still convinced tho that great people abound even in this part of the world although they may be scarce

Boldwinner:
Eiyah.. Really touched by your post. Reminds me of a blog post I just read HERE. I think everyone should also read it. Whatever Ideas you have in mind, you need to focus and start working it! Don't wait for anyone or any job, just get busy with something while looking out for opportunities and applying for jobs. You need to have something you can do very well that is your skill. It is here the money will roll in from. Op, can you work for free for a company just to gain experience/skill?

dsocioemmy:
I agree totally.. No one cares. You were not born glued to anyone when coming to this world. i have realised something that WE all have that thing hidden in us that can fetch us our success only if we sit down and think what we can do best, that we have passion for. it might not be easy at thr end. But nobody said its going to be easy in life. Life is a marathon, dont kill yourself because you are moving slow. Your end is what matter most. Keep your certificate aside and locate your inner gift... It pays!!

Oocc:
You graduated 15, 10, years ago and still no job yet. You talk to people around about it, to get help but you are mocked behind you and they talk about you and say all sorts of things.

You walk almost all the roads and streets in Lagos in search of job, still no job. Any company you go to, they tell u to apply online whenever they have vacancies.

You stay at home to search for jobs online and neighbours gossip you and say he stays at home doing nothing, instead of him to go out and hustle like his mates. They term you a lazy man.

You come on nairaland to talk about your joblessness and how you have suffered, and you see people advising and some even opting to help, but at the end, you discover it was all but a show. No one wants to help.....Nobody wants to help, even if they can. I even doubt if any man helps any man these days. Mostly they prefer to help women! I've had about 4 different Nairalanders that have opted to help, but they just stop replying when you send them the mail or CV they requested.

You lay on your bed every night, thinking, sometimes praying and crying.. ..soaking your pillows with tears, but it just seem like God is just far away.

The truth is.. ...nobody cares! Nobody gives a damn about you. If you like kill yourself inside your room......nobody cares! You don't have a job for 20 years, nobody cares! You discover that the more you tell people your problems the more they mock you and use you as a topic of discussion, and the more you get frustrated. Nobody helps anybody again in Nigeria.

This is to me and all those nairalanders like me, coming to seek for help......coming to seek for job.....Stop begging for job, stop hoping that someone will help you here. Drop that your certificate, in fact go and hide it(i just did that today) Go out there, carry concrete-in-pans on your head and climb a 3- storey building, wash toilets, carry loads for people, work as labourer on site, carry packages from container to store, carry cement, do all sorts of dirty jobs and make money.. ....no matter how small. At least you won't beg anyone, or hope on anyone.
Just do anything to survive, cos no one will help you except you.



#bowing out

PaperLace:
People still, I care.
A Nairalander reached out to me, asking how she can forward her CV to a particular firm for recruitment_ I told her. She sent me an appreciation mail when she was called for text.

Recently my hubby gave me a slot for ITs/vacation jobbers in his office, I referred who I deemed eligible.

I help when I can.
Maybe you should talk to your fellow men, who reason with their dicks during recruitment processes.

AngelsAndStars:
you don start now. you wan start Watin you no fit finish. take your time oh.

Snow5:
If u gat uncles that u know can help you get a job with a snap of the finger... And you still jobless.... Nor worry...

We are in this together... Like u rightly said... No one gives a damn about you. Just hustle...

I Don plan to enter Street this year oo... Make I look this January finish... And I nor see any hope..

I gat a laptop

I gat a sound android phone..

And I gat little fund which I hustled last year..


If worse come to worse... I do the needful.

Curvinus:
This is basic economics. The world is overpopulated and there is really not enough resources to go round. But people go still de marry de born anyhow even when it's obvious you don't have the wherewithal to sustain these developments. No amount of say it and claim it theology of the Christian religion can change this fact. FACT!

PaperLace:

How?

Oocc:
You graduated 15, 10, years ago and still no job yet. You talk to people around about it, to get help but you are mocked behind you and they talk about you and say all sorts of things.

You walk almost all the roads and streets in Lagos in search of job, still no job. Any company you go to, they tell u to apply online whenever they have vacancies.

You stay at home to search for jobs online and neighbours gossip you and say he stays at home doing nothing, instead of him to go out and hustle like his mates. They term you a lazy man.

You come on nairaland to talk about your joblessness and how you have suffered, and you see people advising and some even opting to help, but at the end, you discover it was all but a show. No one wants to help.....Nobody wants to help, even if they can. I even doubt if any man helps any man these days. Mostly they prefer to help women! I've had about 4 different Nairalanders that have opted to help, but they just stop replying when you send them the mail or CV they requested.

You lay on your bed every night, thinking, sometimes praying and crying.. ..soaking your pillows with tears, but it just seem like God is just far away.

The truth is.. ...nobody cares! Nobody gives a damn about you. If you like kill yourself inside your room......nobody cares! You don't have a job for 20 years, nobody cares! You discover that the more you tell people your problems the more they mock you and use you as a topic of discussion, and the more you get frustrated. Nobody helps anybody again in Nigeria.

This is to me and all those nairalanders like me, coming to seek for help......coming to seek for job.....Stop begging for job, stop hoping that someone will help you here. Drop that your certificate, in fact go and hide it(i just did that today) Go out there, carry concrete-in-pans on your head and climb a 3- storey building, wash toilets, carry loads for people, work as labourer on site, carry packages from container to store, carry cement, do all sorts of dirty jobs and make money.. ....no matter how small. At least you won't beg anyone, or hope on anyone.
Just do anything to survive, cos no one will help you except you.



#bowing out

hoover420:

bros me sef don dust lappy but I no sabi wetin to use am do pass play game & watch movies
help pesin pikin out abeg

pesinfada:
Hi......can we chat?

pesinfada:
please show me way

KealDrogo:
Call it pride or arrogance but one thing I can never do is coming to the public and ask complete strangers not even my close neighbors for help of any kind. My parents have taught me this. People always look for what they will gain in return nothing goes for free anymore it is the kind of world we now live in.
Op, i can assure you that once you eventually overcome this struggle all alone and accomplished your dreams and become a relevant person with much importance, you will now see how everyone wants to associate with you and offer help and assistance even without asking. You begin wonder where are all these people when you are all alone with nobody giving a damn about your life
what will be yours will definitely be. No amount of highly connected individuals can stop or help with what God has destined for you, exercise patients and everything will be alright before you even know it.

Naughtytboy:
Bro u too much, u just lifted my spirit

ideaz:


Which kind question is this.

He is going out to make money as a man and for himself you are talking of working free. Make him an offer, he needs to survive too!

dsocioemmy:


You welcome bro. It's a personal experience. It works. Just give it a try

aimuan:
God will not only bless u,he will bless u abundantly. Over the years I ve come to realized that the greatest obstacle to our success is PRIDE.look there is money in dirty work.and if u re discipline enough to save from what u make,u will not believe what u wil become in less than 2years.once again God bless u.and I hope those that have bn shouting here on nailand for God to pick their calls listens to u.I hope the are dialing d number of hard work.

dboss444:

Sometimes its d other way round God is waiting for us to pick his call

estheora:
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god2good:
Hide it. But No knowledge is waste.

tolsee:
OP, I care and I'm working to make a difference for people like you. In a few months I will start work on a project in Nigeria that will employ about 20 people on a contract basis. They might not earn much but they will get a window of opportunity which will enhance their selfworth. I will be relocating to Nigeria 1st week in February. Watchout for my posts here on Nairaland. I have been through so much myself but I did not give up, you should not either. Please note, no one will have to pay for anything. Those that meet the requirements will be chosen. Simple as that.

C4Ltd:
true talk!



pm me check my signature. I got paid. Let's begin here to think differently.

Boldwinner:
Eiyah.. Really touched by your post. Reminds me of a blog post I just read HERE. I think everyone should also read it. Whatever Ideas you have in mind, you need to focus and start working it! Don't wait for anyone or any job, just get busy with something while looking out for opportunities and applying for jobs. You need to have something you can do very well that is your skill. It is here the money will roll in from. Most people only care about your existence when you're useful to them and you can't be useful when you're always dependent. There is always something you can do to survive on your own. Stop forming, bend down and do it, God will bless you from there.

PaperLace:
People still, I care.
A Nairalander reached out to me, asking how she can forward her CV to a particular firm for recruitment_ I told her. She sent me an appreciation mail when she was called for text.

Recently my hubby gave me a slot for ITs/vacation jobbers in his office, I referred who I deemed eligible.

I help when I can.
Maybe you should talk to your fellow men, who reason with their dicks during recruitment processes.

highrise07:
no paddy for jungle.......

fergieboy:
[size=20pt]My only problem is why can't a fellow man help a fellow man like himself

I just can't understand [/size]