tammie24:
Genius

Thanks

NEROSKY:
My advice might make or mar ur home, do this in ur own discretion... Get her an android phone, download automatic call recorder, Goto settings=apps=locate the automatic call app, untick the notification, so she won't see any pop notification after calls, download app lock on playstore as well and lock only the app, now you'll thank me or insult me later...

Neorsky, I did as you have asked me to oo, installed yesterday and today, I was able to listen to our convo. There is a particular persons number she saved as dayo furniture. I will post the contents of the message later this morning Nigerian time so you guys can assess. This app truly works wonders. Though I have not downloaded the app lock yet. Thanks bro, I really appreciate.

Here is the content of their convo:

wife: hey dayo, its been a while
guy: na u fashi me now
wife: no i didnt fashi u, i left u to make your money na
guy: laughs
wife: exactly, making all the money in lekki, so i had to leave u to make it
guy: laughs again
wife: whats up, whats going on
guy: I should be back tmr
wife: hen hen u see, u are the one thats been lounging
guy: no i have been busy
wife: you have been what
guy: I have been busy trying to get my furniture and stuffs
wife: wehre are you
guy: am in chevron at the moment
wife: oh on the island
guy:yes
wife: so your house is not ready yet, or you are still on the project
guy: yes am still on the project
wife: oh ok,
guy: yes everything is ready just remaining the furniture's
wife: wow thats nice,
guy: huh
wife: I said thats nice
guy: I'll see you tmr abi
wife: yea yea am around
guy: I'll call you when i get ....The last part i could not hear cos my wife said ok on the voice


Oh my, I had to sneak her phone while charging in our room around 2:45 am when she was asleep, after listening to this convo, I just knew something was up, am this kind of man that is always patient if I am not sure of something, but as for this, I am 200% sure. I checked on the call history, the history shows they only spoke yesterday, she didnt delete it, and for her type of phone, if sh has been speaking to the same person since last year, the log will be there, so i went to her true caller, behold, true caller showed that they spoke Jan 24, Jan 31, Feb 8, and Feb 21 which was yesterday, so am now wondering where the call logs of the other calls which is suppose to be showing on her main call logs vanished to.

My dear nairalanders, my heart is pounding as I type this message, I havent had 2 hours sleep because I could not, trust me people, some will say you better seek how to make a better life and stop monitoring your wife, if you love and cherish a wife who has given you two children, you would never for once in this life think about having another man mess her. She has always told me about his male friends, but as for this guy, I have never heard of him before, so he probably is being kept a secret probably because of whatever might be between them, and from the look of this convo, they must have been having a deep convo for a while.

Right now, I do not know if i should confront her, or let her be till night while I check on her phone logs to see if she has gone to see this guy or not, my fear is, if I wait and I find out from their convo later on tonight, it could shatter this marriage, do I confront her now or what? And I also dont want her to know that I bugged her phone to know whats going on. Nairalanders I need your help. This issue is stronger than I ever thought of it to be.

darsool500:
Here is the content of their convo:

wife: hey dayo, its been a while
guy: na u fashi me now
wife: no i didnt fashi u, i left u to make your money na
guy: laughs
wife: exactly, making all the money in lekki, so i had to leave u to make it
guy: laughs again
wife: whats up, whats going on
guy: I should be back tmr
wife: hen hen u see, u are the one thats been lounging
guy: no i have been busy
wife: you have been what
guy: I have been busy trying to get my furniture and stuffs
wife: wehre are you
guy: am in chevron at the moment
wife: oh on the island
guy:yes
wife: so your house is not ready yet, or you are still on the project
guy: yes am still on the project
wife: oh ok,
guy: yes everything is ready just remaining the furniture's
wife: wow thats nice,
guy: huh
wife: I said thats nice
guy: I'll see you tmr abi
wife: yea yea am around
guy: I'll call you when i get ....The last part i could not hear cos my wife said ok on the voice


Oh my, I had to sneak her phone while charging in our room around 2:45 am when she was asleep, after listening to this convo, I just knew something was up, am this kind of man that is always patient if I am not sure of something, but as for this, I am 200% sure. I checked on the call history, the history shows they only spoke yesterday, she didnt delete it, and for her type of phone, if sh has been speaking to the same person since last year, the log will be there, so i went to her true caller, behold, true caller showed that they spoke Jan 24, Jan 31, Feb 8, and Feb 21 which was yesterday, so am now wondering where the call logs of the other calls which is suppose to be showing on her main call logs vanished to.

My dear nairalanders, my heart is pounding as I type this message, I havent had 2 hours sleep because I could not, trust me people, some will say you better seek how to make a better life and stop monitoring your wife, if you love and cherish a wife who has given you two children, you would never for once in this life think about having another man mess her. She has always told me about his male friends, but as for this guy, I have never heard of him before, so he probably is being kept a secret probably because of whatever might be between them, and from the look of this convo, they must have been having a deep convo for a while.

Right now, I do not know if i should confront her, or let her be till night while I check on her phone logs to see if she has gone to see this guy or not, my fear is, if I wait and I find out from their convo later on tonight, it could shatter this marriage, do I confront her now or what? And I also dont want her to know that I bugged her phone to know whats going on. Nairalanders I need your help. This issue is stronger than I ever thought of it to be.

Download the app lock first,don't confront her yet till u get solid proof. Now u know why she leaves her biz concern for long hours.

bomasek:
Download the app lock first,don't confront her yet till u get solid proof. Now u know why she leaves her biz concern for long hours.

Gbam!! wait, as long as am concern, nothing much has gone on here, she might be building a house or arranging a shop or some sort of apartment n avin affairs aswell, nothing is impossible, but i hope she will just prove u wrong, meaning that she's been secretive for a good purpose, my brother wait as long as a month to be very very very very sure of what she's doing, when i caught my girl my heart almost fell, but now we re better, becos she know i am 100% ahead of her, she even tell me future truth now... so just be very very patient

NEROSKY:

Gbam!! wait, as long as am concern, nothing much has gone on here, she might be building a house or arranging a shop or some sort of apartment n avin affairs aswell, nothing is impossible, but i hope she will just prove u wrong, meaning that she's been secretive for a good purpose, my brother wait as long as a month to be very very very very sure of what she's doing, when i caught my girl my heart almost fell, but now we re better, becos she know i am 100% ahead of her, she even tell me future truth now... so just be very very patient

Boss I hail Sir

subtlemee:

The ones who married lackadaisical husbands

I beg to differ

I am just having the opportunity to respond. Well everything blew up the next morning the guy was suppose to come and see her. I didnt install the app lock, though I turned off notification which should not have made her see the app, but one way or the other, she saw it, but I already cleared call logs but she was able to retreive the little calls she made that morning. She came back in that morning to confront me, and from the true caller log of the guy that I checked, I guess I mistakenly dialed the guys number which showed on the main call log so she was wondering where that came from. Anyway she came home and asked me about it, since I knew there was no excuse to give, I quickly told her to come and listen to the conversation with the guy, but I asked her first who the guy is and ish, she couldnt answer me , said I dont know. Then when I was about to playthe recording, she dashed out of the room, probably because she could not face the scene.

I called her back and summoned herself, I played the recording and asked her again who the guy was, she answered saying hes a friend in unilag back then, but she suddenly saw him on our estate where he came to greet his aunt bla bla blae, I then asked why she was speaking in a tone this seductive that I never heard her speak like before to a guy you seem to call a friend, she answered saying well if u are talking to a friend, you sometimes want to change your voice, I asked if that makes sense, she said well, its natural. I then asked why you have to be asking him about his onging project and talking about, I left you to make your money, sound like you have been asking or stylishly demanding for money, she said well, she said well there was nothing to discuss, that was why she came up with those lines of conversation. I then asked her if she'll be happy that i invited a former female friend to my officer to come and see me, talkless of even giving her my number when it is not business, she said well she feels because the guy comes arounf the neighborhood to work and he probably feels tired and then come around to chill at her creche where baby are @, I was like WTF, the guy has an aunt on the same estate, why is it your small creche he'll come around to rest.

The whole conversation was about to heat up, so I decided to mute, she then came back later to tell me that she was actually waiting for the dude to come today, so that she'll know exactly what the guy was up to, so she could tell me about it. No denying...my wife comes home to tell me about a guy that ask for her number this and that, but I guess it aint in most cases. I was like, do you have to wait until a guy shows u he aint up to no good before you tell him off when it isnt business, she was like well she didnt know and she just wanted to wait.

Funny thing is, going back to listen to the convo, before my wife said " dayo how you dey", the guy had actually said hello bae, the reason why I could not hear that part before was because i was rushing to listen to the convo, though observing the convo, my wife didnt hear the hello bae part, because her "how you dey" landed almost exactly when the dude said bae, so I asked her how she would feel if another lady calls me bae, she said well shes sorry, but she didnt hear the guy call her bae, that who the hell is his bae.

My dear Nairalanders, the painful part and the most confusing part is, my wife has never wear make up to work before, but after thrashing out the issue, I saw my wife wearing make up, trying to be sure she was ok with what she was wearing, I didnt want to sound childish asking her why shes making up to work which she has never done b4, so my in my mind i was li,e is this woman still hoping to see the guy today after all these confrontation. I later told her that if I find out that the guy came around or ever comes around, I'll take a decision she may forever live to regret. That was how it all went down, she deleted the app and asked me to install it back, asked why, she said she likes it, didnt show too much concern about that. Is there anyway I can get a app hiding software to hide the app if re-installed? I need it installed again because a day after all this, she still went out and spent an un-imaginable amount of time while her nanny was up at the creche with 11 kids alone to herself, saying she was at the cyber cafe doing something for her dad. This woman that I marry, seems to me wont change permanently, I am fed up

When the thrill of the game is on crescents...The careful gets shoddy towards its alibi. It is well my brother...It is well

darsool500:
I am just having the opportunity to respond. Well everything blew up the next morning the guy was suppose to come and see her. I didnt install the app lock, though I turned off notification which should not have made her see the app, but one way or the other, she saw it, but I already cleared call logs but she was able to retreive the little calls she made that morning. She came back in that morning to confront me, and from the true caller log of the guy that I checked, I guess I mistakenly dialed the guys number which showed on the main call log so she was wondering where that came from. Anyway she came home and asked me about it, since I knew there was no excuse to give, I quickly told her to come and listen to the conversation with the guy, but I asked her first who the guy is and ish, she couldnt answer me , said I dont know. Then when I was about to playthe recording, she dashed out of the room, probably because she could not face the scene.

I called her back and summoned herself, I played the recording and asked her again who the guy was, she answered saying hes a friend in unilag back then, but she suddenly saw him on our estate where he came to greet his aunt bla bla blae, I then asked why she was speaking in a tone this seductive that I never heard her speak like before to a guy you seem to call a friend, she answered saying well if u are talking to a friend, you sometimes want to change your voice, I asked if that makes sense, she said well, its natural. I then asked why you have to be asking him about his onging project and talking about, I left you to make your money, sound like you have been asking or stylishly demanding for money, she said well, she said well there was nothing to discuss, that was why she came up with those lines of conversation. I then asked her if she'll be happy that i invited a former female friend to my officer to come and see me, talkless of even giving her my number when it is not business, she said well she feels because the guy comes arounf the neighborhood to work and he probably feels tired and then come around to chill at her creche where baby are @, I was like WTF, the guy has an aunt on the same estate, why is it your small creche he'll come around to rest.

The whole conversation was about to heat up, so I decided to mute, she then came back later to tell me that she was actually waiting for the dude to come today, so that she'll know exactly what the guy was up to, so she could tell me about it. No denying...my wife comes home to tell me about a guy that ask for her number this and that, but I guess it aint in most cases. I was like, do you have to wait until a guy shows u he aint up to no good before you tell him off when it isnt business, she was like well she didnt know and she just wanted to wait.

Funny thing is, going back to listen to the convo, before my wife said " dayo how you dey", the guy had actually said hello bae, the reason why I could not hear that part before was because i was rushing to listen to the convo, though observing the convo, my wife didnt hear the hello bae part, because her "how you dey" landed almost exactly when the dude said bae, so I asked her how she would feel if another lady calls me bae, she said well shes sorry, but she didnt hear the guy call her bae, that who the hell is his bae.

My dear Nairalanders, the painful part and the most confusing part is, my wife has never wear make up to work before, but after thrashing out the issue, I saw my wife wearing make up, trying to be sure she was ok with what she was wearing, I didnt want to sound childish asking her why shes making up to work which she has never done b4, so my in my mind i was li,e is this woman still hoping to see the guy today after all these confrontation. I later told her that if I find out that the guy came around or ever comes around, I'll take a decision she may forever live to regret. That was how it all went down, she deleted the app and asked me to install it back, asked why, she said she likes it, didnt show too much concern about that. Is there anyway I can get a app hiding software to hide the app if re-installed? I need it installed again because a day after all this, she still went out and spent an un-imaginable amount of time while her nanny was up at the creche with 11 kids alone to herself, saying she was at the cyber cafe doing something for her dad. This woman that I marry, seems to me wont change permanently, I am fed up

Baba the tech Dude gave u yam and knife still u effed up,had u not been hasty or careless,u would v caught her right in the act. I may be wrong but it's obvious your wife is up to something. She's obviously smart and has outplayed up in this of keeping up with her. I hope the tech dude comes up with an app with which u can monitor her activities from your phone. Good luck in your quest of unravelling the mystery.

darsool500... u just fall my hand big time,i said download applock immediately, make sure both apps don't have any pop-up notification, you've allowed her outplay u in ur own game, i guess anything you'll find out again, will be the one God lead u to - i just pray and hope her intentions are pure.. i never tried cheating on my babe til i found out love is not enough to trust anyone, i love her so much but these creature's God gave us have a very fragile brain... you'll cry one day to find out the little things they use to deceive woman or the little thing that makes them lose dia husbnd/bf/trust etc... i just pray God help u out on this n help change her, so ur home can be one peaceful one...


Lemme give u one more tips again, if anyone or ur wife locks any app with applock, it could be her message, whatsapp etc, just goto the setting and locate the app, clear cache & data and nothing will be locked on that device again.. have a nice day...

OMG @ darsool500
You just blew a chance of a lifetime. My goodness!
Normally when the hunch is there that your partner is cheating then your partner is cheating
You messed up. Now she's gonna lie low for a while and even when she's back to the game she'll make sure there's no loose ends and no trails.
But make no mistake man, your wife's been having an affair.
You need up the game here and get a good Private Investigator. Your PI must be very good cos your wife's a smart woman
I wish you the best man

wo1F:
OMG @ darsool500
You just blew a chance of a lifetime. My goodness!
Normally when the hunch is there that your partner is cheating then your partner is cheating
You messed up. Now she's gonna lie low for a while and even when she's back to the game she'll make sure there's no loose ends and no trails.
But make no mistake man, your wife's been having an affair.
You need up the game here and get a good Private Investigator. Your PI must be very good cos your wife's a smart woman
I wish you the best man

Omo d thing tire me self

bomasek:
Baba the tech Dude gave u yam and knife still u effed up,had u not been hasty or careless,u would v caught her right in the act. I may be wrong but it's obvious your wife is up to something. She's obviously smart and has outplayed up in this of keeping up with her. I hope the tech dude comes up with an app with which u can monitor her activities from your phone. Good luck in your quest of unravelling the mystery.

I effed up, i sincerely admit to it. Yes shes smart but sometimes she loses her guard as well.

NEROSKY:
darsool500... u just fall my hand big time,i said download applock immediately, make sure both apps don't have any pop-up notification, you've allowed her outplay u in ur own game, i guess anything you'll find out again, will be the one God lead u to - i just pray and hope her intentions are pure.. i never tried cheating on my babe til i found out love is not enough to trust anyone, i love her so much but these creature's God gave us have a very fragile brain... you'll cry one day to find out the little things they use to deceive woman or the little thing that makes them lose dia husbnd/bf/trust etc... i just pray God help u out on this n help change her, so ur home can be one peaceful one...


Lemme give u one more tips again, if anyone or ur wife locks any app with applock, it could be her message, whatsapp etc, just goto the setting and locate the app, clear cache & data and nothing will be locked on that device again.. have a nice day...

Nebrosky my guy, I apologize sey i fall ur hand, the applock wey i download will only request that a password be input before the app opens, in which the Icon sort of shows that its a call recording software, so at the sight of the icon sef, she go don know wetin the app be.

You know many attimes, with my contribution to our sexual life, romantic life, provision of needs, what will still make a woman want to listen to another man and fall, and as a guyman wey retain code of ethics that can tame a normal sane woman, for this one though, the matter sort of pass me.

darsool500:


Nebrosky my guy, I apologize sey i fall ur hand, the applock wey i download will only request that a password be input before the app opens, in which the Icon sort of shows that its a call recording software, so at the sight of the icon sef, she go don know wetin the app be.

You know many attimes, with my contribution to our sexual life, romantic life, provision of needs, what will still make a woman want to listen to another man and fall, and as a guyman wey retain code of ethics that can tame a normal sane woman, for this one though, the matter sort of pass me.

No qualms, hope the matter has died down