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Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 05, 2017
Yes, this thing has puzzled me for a while but why do guys wait for their girlfriends to get pregnant before getting married to them? This is the trend we see now. Celebrity examples are Tonto Dike, Laura Ikeji, PSquare just to mention a few. Not to talk of most people I know personally. This removes the sacredness of a pure union.

Is it that the pregnancy removes a cloak from their eyes and they realize that they want to get married to their girlfriends (something that didn't know before?) or they just want to do right by the lady, thereby, entering into a marriage they are not ready for.

This doesn't guarantee lasting and fruitful marriage for both of them because they both were kind of forced into it and not from their own genuine will, as it's meant to be.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Mar 05, 2017
Are you pregnant?

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Gurumaharaji(m): 6:51pm On Mar 05, 2017
Doctors have wash bitter leaf wit some girls womb thru abortion...It just a way to avoid story dat touches d heart .

meanwhile, testing is allowed b4 buying goods

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by falconey(m): 6:52pm On Mar 05, 2017
To test run before buying.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by dingbang(m): 6:54pm On Mar 05, 2017
To know whether u lots committed series of abortions in the past or not

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by firstking01(m): 6:55pm On Mar 05, 2017
Don't generalise, not all guys.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Mar 05, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Are you pregnant?
No but I wouldn't want to before I get married sad

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Mar 05, 2017
Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:

No but I wouldn't want to before I get married sad
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 05, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho
That's where trust, love and God comes to play

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Mar 05, 2017
kimbra:
Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.
I know. But if a guy doesn't want to, he wouldn't. Pregnant or not pregnant. Flavor, Tuface. But most guys see it as a sign to get married

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by sEGXY2(m): 7:01pm On Mar 05, 2017
Fallacy of hasty generalisation

Most of these hoes wanna be your baby mama soon as they see you cashed up, they don't even care if you already got wife and kids

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:

I know. But if a guy doesn't want to, he wouldn't. Pregnant or not pregnant. Flavor, Tuface. But most guys see it as a sign to get married
And when his parents say he must you think backing out is easy?.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:

That's where trust, love and God comes to play
interesting

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:

That's where trust, love and God comes to play

by the time a new married woman spent some couple of years in her husband's house without conceiving her mother in law would ask her son to find out if he actually married a fellow man since she cannot conceive

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by FreshShavedBalls(m): 7:31pm On Mar 05, 2017
Is this thing on? Testing the mic...testing 1, 2 testing grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by sekundosekundo: 7:32pm On Mar 05, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

No man can play God, she may as well surfer secondary barrenness.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by sekundosekundo: 7:39pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:

That's where trust, love and God comes to play

I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate for that matter. I love her so much.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Abortions: 8:08pm On Mar 05, 2017
dingbang:
To know whether u lots committed series of abortions in the past or not
NEVA U MENTION MA NAME AGAIN

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by dingbang(m): 8:18pm On Mar 05, 2017
Abortions:
NEVA U MENTION MA NAME AGAIN
see dis goat o...

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by thunderfiremods(m): 8:23pm On Mar 05, 2017
if u wan buy suya ehn...aboki go give u testing*....we guys got to check if shes fertile na....

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Vickiweezy(m): 11:09pm On Mar 05, 2017
If you wan buy phone from 2nd-hand market, u go test whether the thing dey bring service before you buy am nah.
Ds world be like 2nd-hand market, nothing like tear rubber. Even new born baby dey enta ds world with original sin.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by tmgold007(f): 11:09pm On Mar 05, 2017
Ogun idile dey part of waten dey cause am....wen witch to much for person generation na wahala
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Tazdroid(m): 11:10pm On Mar 05, 2017
So baby mama and baby dada are no longer the trends?

Well, I think some guys bang first to test the girls' fertility before marriage while some just bang anyway without giving the act and its repercussions a second thought

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Expl0rers: 11:10pm On Mar 05, 2017
it;s not about the pregnancy
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Mar 05, 2017
Ask Nnamdi Kanu's followers grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Eaugusta(f): 11:11pm On Mar 05, 2017
thunderfiremods:
if u wan buy suya ehn...aboki go give u testing*....we guys got to check if shes fertile na....
Must you test?

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by seunlly(m): 11:11pm On Mar 05, 2017
ask pmb
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by budusky05(m): 11:11pm On Mar 05, 2017
Me too am waiting for my own too.


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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nonix22(m): 11:12pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:
No but I wouldn't want to before I get married sad
very good for you o. to be sure if your man is really a MAN o!

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Missmossy(f): 11:12pm On Mar 05, 2017
Not all do, some abscond grin without taking responsibility. Lets hear their excuses....

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by jchioma: 11:12pm On Mar 05, 2017
Na insurance policy.

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