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Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by yazach: 3:52am On Apr 20, 2017
VIDEO CALLS.
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When the youths formed the habit of exchanging pictures, the scholars and tulaabs warned against it.
The new trend among youths is video calls.
I wonder how a brother can have a video call with a sister and claim that his desire was not provoked or that he didn't stare at her.
If you did not look at her, what then was the essence of the video calls? Why didn't you just make a normal call instead?
Indeed, shame is dead and buried.
As a sister, if you see an incoming video call, how do you feel comfortably picking it, even if you are on niqab?
You should be ashamed that a man is looking at you, it should affect your spine and make you feel uncomfortable, if you are comfy with it, then you need admonition. Why don't you put yourself in a showglass so that every passer-by will see you verywell.
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Aisha radiAllahu anha said,
I used to enter the room where my husband and father were buried, while I was dressed shabbily, but ever since Umar was buried there, I would not enter it except that am covered properly, out of shyness for Umar
(Mustadrak 1/7)
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If she was shy of the corpse of a strange man, how about the women of today who are not shy of men who are still alive?
.
Video call should only be made with your spouse, parents or close family members who are your mahaarim, even if your female friend wants to make a video call with you, don't pick it, it maybe that a man is with her who may see you!
Making video calls with strangers is dangerous, they may take snapshots of it and expose it later, they may record it and send it to other people.
Its only permissible for a strange man to look at you for a marital purpose.
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Al mughirah bin shubah said,
I proposed to a woman, so the prophet said, go and look at her, it will cause compatibility between the two of you.
I went to her house, she was inside her bedroom, so I told her parents that:
The prophet ordered me to look at her.
They remained quiet, so she raised one of her bedroom curtains and said,
"I strongly reproach you, but if the prophet ordered you to look at me, look, but if he didn't, then don't do so. I looked at her and married her, no other woman captured my heart the way she did.........
(As saheehah 96).
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She was not comfortable with him looking at her even though it was for a genuine purpose, but she had no option, such was the shyness of the sahabiyyah!
Today, shyness is now a past tense!
If till this day, you still post your pictures, do video calls and send your nude pictures to men, then you deserve an urgent medical attention in the emergency unit of the nearest psychiatric hospital.
May Allah return us back to our sences! Ameen

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 2:16pm On Apr 20, 2017
Ameeeen. jazakhalahu khaeran

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by charlydamianpat(m): 11:43am On Apr 21, 2017
hmmm......I still don't get this story. wao moving close to first time to comment

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by D34lw4p(m): 11:44am On Apr 21, 2017
Wee you keep kwayet!

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by sheanzy(m): 11:47am On Apr 21, 2017
op

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by spartan50(m): 11:48am On Apr 21, 2017
Rubbish talk.. Seriously

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Judas2013: 11:51am On Apr 21, 2017
Video call is not evil. It serves it's purpose to make life easier for humans. But as guns,religion can be use for evil, so can video calls. A good human will make good use of video calls. Only terrorists will harm others with bombs and gun as a result of defending religions ...... Bombs don't kill people, people kill people.

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by D34lw4p(m): 11:52am On Apr 21, 2017
BORNTOSUCKPUSSY:
Video call is haram...allahu akbar ...may bomb destroy skype headquatres amin

Just see yourself. now you're wishing bomb to destroy other people's business! which means you'll destroy it if you've the power to ! and you say you're not a terrorist

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by obafemee80(m): 11:57am On Apr 21, 2017
jazakumullahu khairan
Everything stated above can only be understood by men of wisdom
Video Technology has done more harm than good
Most women don't get married nowadays becos of their dirty past
An example is sex that suppose to be done in private are now been filmed and snapped.
Hmmm No more shyness in the dictionary of our youths angry

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by paskyboy: 11:57am On Apr 21, 2017
yazach:
VIDEO CALLS.
.
When the youths formed the habit of exchanging pictures, the scholars and tulaabs warned against it.
The new trend among youths is video calls.
I wonder how a brother can have a video call with a sister and claim that his desire was not provoked or that he didn't stare at her.
If you did not look at her, what then was the essence of the video calls? Why didn't you just make a normal call instead?
Indeed, shame is dead and buried.
As a sister, if you see an incoming video call, how do you feel comfortably picking it, even if you are on niqab?
You should be ashamed that a man is looking at you, it should affect your spine and make you feel uncomfortable, if you are comfy with it, then you need admonition. Why don't you put yourself in a showglass so that every passer-by will see you verywell.
.
Aisha radiAllahu anha said,
I used to enter the room where my husband and father were buried, while I was dressed shabbily, but ever since Umar was buried there, I would not enter it except that am covered properly, out of shyness for Umar
(Mustadrak 1/7)
.
If she was shy of the corpse of a strange man, how about the women of today who are not shy of men who are still alive?
.
Video call should only be made with your spouse, parents or close family members who are your mahaarim, even if your female friend wants to make a video call with you, don't pick it, it maybe that a man is with her who may see you!
Making video calls with strangers is dangerous, they may take snapshots of it and expose it later, they may record it and send it to other people.
Its only permissible for a strange man to look at you for a marital purpose.
.
Al mughirah bin shubah said,
I proposed to a woman, so the prophet said, go and look at her, it will cause compatibility between the two of you.
I went to her house, she was inside her bedroom, so I told her parents that:
The prophet ordered me to look at her.
They remained quiet, so she raised one of her bedroom curtains and said,
"I strongly reproach you, but if the prophet ordered you to look at me, look, but if he didn't, then don't do so. I looked at her and married her, no other woman captured my heart the way she did.........
(As saheehah 96).
.
She was not comfortable with him looking at her even though it was for a genuine purpose, but she had no option, such was the shyness of the sahabiyyah!
Today, shyness is now a past tense!
If till this day, you still post your pictures, do video calls and send your nude pictures to men, then you deserve an urgent medical attention in the emergency unit of the nearest psychiatric hospital.
May Allah return us back to our sences! Ameen

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 21, 2017
Jazakallahu khairan op.

if the post de make heat worry you, lagoon water cool Wella. take a deep plunge

if video calls didn't exist, hapostuu Johnson wouldn't have been in deep poo. gringrin



who im pain, I'm in my house. comman beat me

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Shehucom(m): 12:00pm On Apr 21, 2017
May Allah forgive our iniquities

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by MAGNETIC(m): 12:00pm On Apr 21, 2017
stupid post. always finding fault in technology advancement

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Amoto94(m): 12:01pm On Apr 21, 2017
Nice thread OP but next time include the name of the writer. He is Aboo Bannaat

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by aksule(m): 12:03pm On Apr 21, 2017
Telephone itself is HARAM. Yes because the voice you are hearing from either sex does not belong to your husband or wife. At times l wonder what is HARAM. Some Technological inventions used by Muslims are classified into haram or halal depending on who is talking. I think we should go back to the olden days way of life to live a halal life deviod of haram. Is it possible? I think we should tune down our haram stance otherwise we will loss the battle. Why are we fighting boko haram then with this extreme views

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Nobody: 12:05pm On Apr 21, 2017
clems88:
Na waa oooo. So video call na crime. But to kill with the motive of meeting 72 virgins isn't a crime abi? Kwantinu

Leave am shebi hn get data to waste

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by clems88(m): 12:05pm On Apr 21, 2017
BORNTOSUCKPUSSY:
i will behead you shege arna
kai ab.oki ka ji soron allah pa grin ya da zagi . kuma na san zaka je masalaci yaw

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by clems88(m): 12:06pm On Apr 21, 2017
kingjabz:


Leave am shebi hn get data to waste
lol
Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Shafiiimran99: 12:08pm On Apr 21, 2017
D34lw4p:
Wee you keep kwayet!
If they banned u people now u go tok say Seun na bad person

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by saydfact(m): 12:11pm On Apr 21, 2017
ameen
Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Sammyblaq(m): 12:15pm On Apr 21, 2017
BORNTOSUCKPUSSY:
i will behead you shege arna
This niggi has a link with Al queeda...

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Re: Evil Of Video Call With Opposite Sex by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 21, 2017
Islam is so analogue.

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