I have buh only once
And this girl was so persistent
We ended up kissing
Buh no sex


Buh if na my ex dat yr wella
Anytime weh she annoy me

MISFITrep:
lol...it is not a nigerian feature...its a man thing generally...thank God you said 3 out of 10 ... most women think all men are hysterical hypersexual beings

Thank God this is coming from a man, no one will type epistle for you to debunk something we all know . I can't say all, there are always exceptions. I only know Nigerian men naw...

sirfee:
I have done that before (to be honest) but it is not easy,I rejected her because.......
I kiss and finger sha
but don't try this with some ladies,dem go call you impotent o
Longest time poco,how are u?

Dem realist are here. I'm fine Sirfee, where have you been?
The fact that some ladies will call you impotent in such a situation should make some people think...it's because some guys lack it.

boiz2men:


maybe dem boiz like you

thought of that possibility?

I'm not capable of reciprocating such likeness. Hope your night was good, boiz?Please, do have a nice day.

THERE'S THIS CERTAIN STAGE A MAN ATTAINS ,WHEN ALL HIS THINKING IS CHANNELED TOWARDS BEING A BETTER MAN, HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND HOW TO BE GREAT.

ITS NOT PRIDE ,BUT I CAN CLEARLY BEAT MY CHEST AND SAY I AV TURNED DOWN SEX OFFER FROM A GIRL...
THE QUESTION I USUALLY ASK THEM IS, WHAT ELSE CAN YOU OFFER APART FROM SEX?
WHAT GOOD WILL THE SEX DO TO MY LIFE?

I DON'T WANT A LADY WHO CAN'T THINK SANE WAY I DO,
I WANT A LADY WHO WILL ASK ME ,BABY WHERE DO U WANT TO BE 1YR FROM NOW, HOW CAN I HELP TO BUILD UR DREAM.

24sqm:
A man will get to a stage in life where he will have to turn down so many offers.


Matured men will understand this.

true talk...thats real man

ibkayee:
Same people that resort to mounting goats turn down sex ke


Lol I'm joking sha

Oya come and offer me Sex lemme turn it down

chic2pimp:


Oya come and offer me Sex lemme turn it down

When there's naija blood running through you

ibkayee:

When there's naija blood running through you

@ibkayee, welcome back. This username is one of the few i knew back in the days when nairaland was still sane and interesting.

edgecution:


@ibkayee, welcome back. This username is one of the few i knew back in the days when nairaland was still sane and interesting.

Lol seems like yesterday but it's been about 10 years, thank you dear, hope you're well

Ask Joseph The Dreamer

Yeah twice, first one was a girl who's supposed to be my younger friend's chic..so her guy was on night duty & she asked to crash at my place that night as she had no where to go,so I saw no reason to turn her down. I was fvckn high so we were kind of watching a movie one thing led to another we were touching n kissing but then I remembered my smallie n his loyalty n how serious he took her so I stopped but she was still holding on n insisting..i had to ask her to leave my place b4 I do something I would regret that night. To my surprise next day her girlfriend who's also a mutual friend told me I fvckd up cos I didn't fvck her as I would have enjoyed d punny cos she's pregnant..yeah I was just awe struck dumb by her comment tho.. She now lives with my friend and they have a baby boy...another one was a chic that friend zoned me so I ran into her @ a bar alone n asked her to join my table ,she ordered a small bottle of vodka and started talking about how her Bf of over a year never made her cum.. Next she's grabbing my pipe n talking loud nonsense telling me to take her home and fvck her cos according to her she loves fvckn after getting tipsy on vodka or any other spirit I had to take her home dump her on her bed n head my way. I didn't do it cos she was drunk..too drunk to even know what was happening.

ibkayee:

When there's naija blood running through you

Why don't you offer me first so that we can confirm if I am actually Nigerian

chic2pimp:


Why don't you offer me first so that we can confirm if I am actually Nigerian

Smh

pocohantas:

Thank God this is coming from a man, no one will type epistle for you to debunk something we all know . I can't say all, there are always exceptions. I only know Nigerian men naw...


Dem realist are here. I'm fine Sirfee, where have you been?
The fact that some ladies will call you impotent in such a situation should make some people think...it's because some guys lack it.


I'm not capable of reciprocating such likeness. Hope your night was good, boiz?Please, do have a nice day.

It is a long story but I'm fine now.Have a great day.

ibkayee:

Lol seems like yesterday but it's been about 10 years, thank you dear, hope you're well

Iyawo mi atata. My babalawo's juju has worked ooo.

From pestering you for so long to add me to adding me yourself with the new moniker.

Why the change of name? Too many male admirers abi?

GeneralOjukwu:


Iyawo mi atata. My babalawo's juju has worked ooo.

From pestering you for so long to add me to adding me yourself with the new moniker.

Why the change of name? Too many male admirers abi?

Lool I like you and find you funny

Lol no I had this monicker before, other one wasn't one of my original handles, just decided to get rid of it and use one of the older ones

Sure we can refuse sex...


Gay ppl full naija nah...

Most sane ppl won't however...


Oya ibkayee when are we coming to warm ur bed 4 u?

Cos my eye don dirty finish... The hunger for ur body is real

Loyalblak007:
I don't think an average Nigerian guy will refuse sex

thank God you said "i don't think"
what you think doesn't matter

Yup. That was when i was still stupid.

Yes I v ,still a V THO

I have refused a sex offer because she insist I must do it rawDpipper.

Silkmoth33:
Sure we can refuse sex...


Gay ppl full naija nah...

Most sane ppl won't however...


Oya ibkayee when are we coming to warm ur bed 4 u?

Cos my eye don dirty finish... The hunger for ur body is real

Be hungry o, warm ko

ibkayee:

Be hungry o, warm ko

My eye don dey chook now oh... I Don get xray vision...I promise we no go too do much... I go just chop kiss and suck bobbie

vanida6:
funny question


man reject sex.......op u dey lie

He might be right......I've done it before.

She's a friend, we slept on the same bed, in my house. Then we started talking romantic, I touched her boobs, and immediately she reached out for my d1ck, I asked her to stop, that I really don't wanna do it. She stopped and that was it!

richfriendsng:
yes, when I discovered she is a virgin, I don't want to toil with blood, atleast not yet

yea, this happens to me too

my ex'es have bin trying to rape me for some time nw! i'm stil on the run! dy wont jst leav me alone even 1 datz married! so its normal it takes a great deal of self control

Silkmoth33:


My eye don dey chook now oh... I Don get xray vision...I promise we no go too do much... I go just chop kiss and suck bobbie

ibkayee:
Same people that resort to mounting goats turn down sex ke


Lol I'm joking sha

Just like some girls that force or Rape horses or dogs, guess those girls still control their sexual urge...those are also the set of girls that turn down sex......... it's just a point

...

pocohantas:

No mind them, except say them just no like the girl or the environment and factors no add up.
The ones that can actually subdue that urge, let's start by asking how many of them can date without sex? LOL!

Now they're trying to teach me the difference between boys and men, but when we tell them to stop dating 'girls' they won't hear. Naso them dey pack us put for the same category...

some guys can date without sex also some girls but greater percentage of girls pretending they can date without sex because the guy refused to give her what she demanded, that same girl moves to the second or third BF who has given her what she wanted and make serious love / have sex with him. All this hide and seek game under the umbrella that she can date without sex but rush to the next man to unleash her sexual urge weighing her down

me refuse sex?? am i mad??