bobolizim:
It's been long we've checked on each other so I saw her online on Facebook one day and we shared eachother's contact . On checking her dp on whatsapp, I saw her carry a child and I inquired from her whether she's a child and her answer to me was yes, she does .

Well, I'd considered asking her out before this occurrence but this answer of hers put me off totally . Anyways, we ended up meeting and during the course of our discussion , I probed again ; at first I wasn't sure of her answer , I was clearly obfuscated but at the end she eventually demystified my mystry . She's not with any child but then she asked me whether I could marry a lady with a child or not ? Which I hurriedly said no .

She began to tell me reasons there's nothing bad in doing that using a story of a lady who was raped by a guy she'd never fallen in love with. It's not like she didn't have the person she's dating , it just occurred that she's forced and all. Well, she made it known to her boyfriend, her predicament;hmm, it's a cliche that ''love is blind'',her boyfriend who is madly in love promised to care of her and the baby when delivered of.

Well, i have empathy for such a person but my answer is still no. It's not like I'm selfish but I'd not train a child that'd eventually become someone else amongst ample reason.

Hence, I'd like to know whether you can marry a lady or guy with a child ?

989900:


I get your point (I've dated enough single mothers to last 3 lifetimes), but ur wife that you have all kids together with would do worse than that in some cases.
Women with attitude will always be women with attitude, regardless (I could say the same for men too).
There is no hard and fast rule about some things in life . . . . evaluation in choosing works better than stereotype.

BTW, every single case/situation has its own unique issues.
I've seen men leave their spouses they both have all their kids with pack up and leave, I've seen women do same too.

ATEOTD, life ain't math, we're all just trying to make the best out of our unique situations.

Even with your experience, there are still many single mothers out there if you absolutely have to pick one, that you will pick ahead of them single ladies without kids.

Nothing is set in stone.

milky3:

your sense of reasoning is superb, whats d meaning of ATEOTD pls.

Keneking:


" On checking her dp on whatsapp, I saw her carry a child and I inquired from her whether she's a child and her answer to me was yes, she does "

- Useless inquiry

"I was clearly obfuscated but at the end she eventually demystified my mystry ."

- Poor sentence construction and useless vocabulary..who do you want to impress

Codyt:

Shut up

Gmasterp:
Depends...Its not like i'm a virgin myself,i am just smart enough to wear a rubber...

HERSLEY:
so if I give u, u ll av a rubber on

shaybebaby:
So what about me? I'm a single mum, open to a new relationship.
Who's willing to be dada to my little man?

wintersnow:
YES! AND LATER USE THE CHILD FOR RITUALS!

bobolizim:
It's been long we've checked on each other so I saw her online on Facebook one day and we shared eachother's contact . On checking her dp on whatsapp, I saw her carry a child and I inquired from her whether she's a child and her answer to me was yes, she does .

Well, I'd considered asking her out before this occurrence but this answer of hers put me off totally . Anyways, we ended up meeting and during the course of our discussion , I probed again ; at first I wasn't sure of her answer , I was clearly obfuscated but at the end she eventually demystified my mystry . She's not with any child but then she asked me whether I could marry a lady with a child or not ? Which I hurriedly said no .

She began to tell me reasons there's nothing bad in doing that using a story of a lady who was raped by a guy she'd never fallen in love with. It's not like she didn't have the person she's dating , it just occurred that she's forced and all. Well, she made it known to her boyfriend, her predicament;hmm, it's a cliche that ''love is blind'',her boyfriend who is madly in love promised to care of her and the baby when delivered of.

Well, i have empathy for such a person but my answer is still no. It's not like I'm selfish but I'd not train a child that'd eventually become someone else amongst ample reason.

Hence, I'd like to know whether you can marry a lady or guy with a child ?

walera10:
Cant biliv most guys hear prefer ladies who went for abortion dan dos dat summoned d courage to face d consequence of dier action. A big yes for me..

abdulhamid0:
I would rather marry a lady with child than marry a lady who had abortion.

adims96:
yes I will, buh I will first check if her pussy is tight, and the boob still manageabl

bobolizim:
It's been long we've checked on each other so I saw her online on Facebook one day and we shared eachother's contact . On checking her dp on whatsapp, I saw her carry a child and I inquired from her whether she's a child and her answer to me was yes, she does .

Well, I'd considered asking her out before this occurrence but this answer of hers put me off totally . Anyways, we ended up meeting and during the course of our discussion , I probed again ; at first I wasn't sure of her answer , I was clearly obfuscated but at the end she eventually demystified my mystry . She's not with any child but then she asked me whether I could marry a lady with a child or not ? Which I hurriedly said no .

She began to tell me reasons there's nothing bad in doing that using a story of a lady who was raped by a guy she'd never fallen in love with. It's not like she didn't have the person she's dating , it just occurred that she's forced and all. Well, she made it known to her boyfriend, her predicament;hmm, it's a cliche that ''love is blind'',her boyfriend who is madly in love promised to care of her and the baby when delivered of.

Well, i have empathy for such a person but my answer is still no. It's not like I'm selfish but I'd not train a child that'd eventually become someone else amongst ample reason.

Hence, I'd like to know whether you can marry a lady or guy with a child ?

Gmasterp:
sure na...altho you'd make the perfect baby mama!!!

HERSLEY:
lol u r crazy