So, “sex without feelings” is this new skill that all the cool kids have acquired. We used to think it was impossible but with the right tactics and soft skills, it can actually be achieved. I threw the issue to a couple of my friends and my experts are divided in their thoughts. Some say, it is very possible to have sexual relations with a person and not catch any “feelings”, the others say, it’s impossible to not catch feelings, especially if the sex is super awesome!

What do I think? Well, I have been thinking a lot about this and I think I have created the perfect formula for the best way to have sexual relations sans the dreaded feelings. Ready?

Rely On The Tried And True

Do everything like you’ve always done it, do everything that’s been statistically proven to work, do something Cosmo suggested if you’re feeling brave, something completely ridiculous and reaching you wouldn’t have the effrontery to try on someone you actually liked. Skim through the sexual script and linger over the good parts. Concentrate on the task. Set your fingers/penis/tongue/whatever to cruise control. Go on vacation in your head. Go faster when they’re close.

Don’t Look At Them

Of course, look at them because you have to, but try not to really look at them. Don’t look at them in any way that transcends looking. Don’t notice things. Don’t get lost in their labyrinthine geometry, the delicate latticework of their cells, the crisscrosses in their hands, slightly dry. Don’t think about the way their skin feels, the soft coolness of their belly you know they consider before letting someone kiss, like suede, cardboard, petals. Don’t overthink it. It’s just skin.

Don’t Look At Their Eyes Too Much Either

Of course look at them because you really can’t avoid it, but look at them like eyes and nothing else. The way they go from brown to black like a lifting storm, or black to tinted jade like honeyed absinthe(which is absolutely divine by the way), don’t read a pattern in the change. Try not to feel like you’ve been let in on some great cosmic secret, something so private and luminous the subtle flickering beauty of it in any other circumstance would bring you to your knees. Ignore the eyes and focus on the mouth.

Don’t Open Up To Them

This is major! Don’t make yourself vulnerable, become malleable in their...

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I can't even have sex with someone I don't have feeling for, it will be so irritating and I hate doing things that irritate me.

Sabrina18:
I can't even have sex with someone I don't have feeling for, it will be so irritating and I hate doing things that irritate me.

would like to chat u up on whatsapp,

SameBoi:

would like to chat u up on whatsapp,

About what?

IamLEGEND1:
About having sex with you na...

Omokomo ni bobo yii sha
Issokay conTINiu

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IamLEGEND1:
About having sex with you na...

Badh Guy

OP, if we don't do all those things while having sex, aren't we raping the person?

Sabrina18:
I can't even have sex with someone I don't have feeling for, it will be so irritating and I hate doing things that irritate me.

You sound very naughty, hope you bring that your smart mouth with you into the other room.. lol..
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I think the no feelings of a thing is more common with men and promiscous women

FitnessDoctor:
You sound very naughty, hope you bring that your smart mouth with you into the other room.. lol..
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I think the no feelings of a thing is more common with men and promiscous women

Lolz.

lol how about not having sex with someone you don't have feelings for?

Sabrina18:
I can't even have sex with someone I don't have feeling for, it will be so irritating and I hate doing things that irritate me.

.......its fun dear

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amakadihot87:
.......its fun dear

Lets have fun jare

MERS:


Lets have fun jare

.......where do u come from

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I think 'sex' is use for people who dont have emotional attach or feelings.While, 'lovemaking' goes with emotion or feelings.If emotion or feelings is minus you get 'sex',but if emotion or feelings is present you get 'lovemaking'.Both words are interchangeable,but different in usage.

amakadihot87:
.......its fun dear

It's no fun having sex with someone you don't love, its reeks of promiscuity.

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