Blackhawk01:


Which is why I said the guy is shameless too. Only a man with no control, self respect rapes. That being said, the girl aided him. Dude left her twice before he finally raped her, his first attempt should have prepared her for his next action... Kick his balls, stab him with pen, run into the bathroom to hide like she did after the act...

Blackhawk01:


Lol. I'm single now, I can go anywhere

But with my ex, dude even screened my female friends. Nobody must corrupt lirru Blackie.

Nawa oh

Which kin FBI boyfriend is that wan?

Blackhawk01:
Dear men, so a girl cannor comman visit you in peace?


The men of this generation go just dey think with preek, ehn!

Laveda:


I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house naked, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?

Papiikush:


Were you there to know she didn't accept it.

Listening and judging a scenario based on one side of the story is baseless.

As it seems you all feminist wanna be are already falling for the trick

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m7 reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

Laveda:


I guess we should pause with the slût shaming until we hear from the guy then.

My people don find me reach IG. A lady in my whatsapp is already fighting me for my comment on IG

Cladez:
Dear women,so a guy cannor stay with you for an hour without you going hungry?

The women of this generation go just dey think with hole

lenghtinny:
Whores everywhere ....
Sleeping overnight at a guy's place and you expect him to be keeping watch over you as the night watchman wey hin be.
You put yourself in that situation. You knew sh*t was likely to go down whether he's sane or not, that's why you gave in to him in the first stage

Papiikush:


My people don find me reach IG. A lady in my whatsapp is already fighting me for my comment on IG

Papiikush:


Nawa oh

Which kin FBI boyfriend is that wan?

Blackfyre:


I didn't even read the story sef but until I saw the oral part had to go read it again....plus how will he getting married open wounds for her again?....

Anyways.....na them sabi...

Laveda:


Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!

Laveda:


You deserve to be fought.

Laveda:


You've said well.

But the men of this generation are something else and we should learn to guard ourselves.

Rape can never be justified but we can as well try to avoid it, yes a girl is walking naked doesn't mean she should be raped.

But what will you be doing in a strangers house trying to pass the night over when you have a boyfriend? What happened to meeting during the day until you're comfortable with him. I know they already agreed to seeing without anything happening but I tell you my dear, these men are very predictable, don't even fall for all that.

But in all these, there was no consent, she was raped.

RareKind:
going to spend a fucking whole night at his place puts the highest blame on her.... Isn't her boyfriend available?


I hate this issue you ladies can't understand! Being just a friend with a guy just isn't cool... You may be thinking nothing sexual since you're both "just friends" but believe me, he's fantasized most times how it would look like when fucking you...

The earlier you ladies work this out, the better!

LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house naked, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?

Laveda:


Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!

Abeggi!!!
What was she expecting? Praise and worship or something. Incurring bills on the guys account, sleeping overnight at his place because of free WiFi. What did she think the guy would want in return if not sex.
She knew from the onset that there was a huge probability that they would have sex, that's why she warned him about no sex. She entered into the trap with her eyes wide opened, she was just deceiving herself with that I thought he's sane remark.
As far as I'm concerned, this is not rape. She's just guilt tripping
Imagine she even got a head. How did he overpower her when he was underneath

JeffreyJamez:



If we are to go by the Dictionary meaning of Consent, the moment she allowed hm take of her shorts, that was when she consented to his wish. So y'all should cut that "No consent" crap out biko.

Laveda:


I understand perfectly, if you read all my comments, I said she's got her own part of the blame.

That she slept over didn't mean he should rape, but the story she gave didn't just makeup for all these.

Like some girls will say, even if you dress in a very provocative manner, you shouldn't be raped, they forget these are the things that triggers rape.

No, I'm not justifying rape, but when you find yourself in a society like ours, one has to be very cautious.

This is clearly not rape

Gofwane:
mhmmmmmmm.... as usual, an unbiased analysis. Always making sense!

Laveda:


Lol. According to some people, rapists give heäd to smoothen the process.

I'm only trying to be nice

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.