Laveda:
But with the comments here, is it safe to say men are potential ràpists?

Laveda:


Lol. Tell me

cruchenutii:


I am her boyfriend..Oya Talk

cruchenutii:


Well, you can come over to my house & wear shorts If you are really want to find out

Just tell me beforehand, so I can prepare.

naijaboiy:


[b]When we were younger our parents always told us not to go out at night and for many of us, we grew up with that.

If for example you disobey your parents and go out late and something happens to you, say you were robbed and harrassed, the robbers have committed a crime, yes! But it doesn’t change the fact that you as a child was stubborn and disobedient and your strong headedness is probably what led you to being robbed.

It’s the same case here. He is accused of raping her subtly, as can be seen from the story. If the case is taken up and he is found culpable he will be convicted and justice will be served. Right?

But all those things will not remove the stupïdity from that girl because it’s very obvious she hasn’t learnt her lesson. It’s these same girls that accuse men of rape in this type of way who wouldn’t mind becoming baby mamas just because of a few buckz a nigga’s got.

There’s no way you wanna put it miss, this particular “victim” was foolish and she deserves to be shamed too! [/b]

cruchenutii:


See ehn, logically what you say might make sense. But Pratically, It does not.

You can't receive ORAL & then refuse penetration. Immediately he tries to give you ORAL, you are suppose to refuse & fight back, So what happens next is either you fight, get beaten OR break his head with anything you deem fit in that house.

Kissing & handling is different from ORAL, Lets just make that clear.

Blackhawk01:


Ehn? I trust you, you're not foolish.

zicoraads:

Of course not. And you know this. But, it's time ladies also realise everyone is not the same. If brother A has no qualms with your lying down nakéd on his bed, brother B has no such self control. In as much as I don't victim blame when cases of rape are mentioned, the Nigerian man is not the British or American man.

And if (God forbid) any of my daughter gets raped while visiting any man overnight, I'll take that man to hell and leave him there. But I'll also not take it lightly with my daughter for not realising the fact that she needs to be extra careful when dealing with men.

makydebbie:
Firstly, the girl fumbled!!

My dear, in this 21st century of perverted minds and high libidos, you don't spend a night with a guy, on the same bed for that matter!


And she has a boyfriend too, what was she expecting? That they'll sing hallelujah together? And my dear, the guy already hinted sex.

I'm not going to put the entire blame on that beastly attitude, but she should face the consequences of her actions! Every decision we make in life have consequences, whether good or bad. What was she thinking? They could've gone on an afternoon date why would she spend the night with him on his bed? My dear, few guys have that self control. Maybe she has done this risky adventure with brother John, and thought brother Mike could control himself too..

She laid her bed, she should lie on it. The guy too is wrong sha, he shouldn't have done it. But the girl too, he was doing touching body and she couldn't leave the room for him?


Phew! They should be blamed. They're adults responsible for their actions and decisions they both made.

Blackfyre:


Was just making a joke at that part....

I think females are coming up with this idea that they can only allow a man as far as they want with him on their body.....like...they could both do MouthAction and leave it at that and no penetration....or kissing and grabbing and no penetration....even anal sex and he dare not try going vaginal with her...

It makes it seem the intercourse is only so far as I want it despite how turned on he may be. Now nothing is wrong with this but we can't expect all men to have that sort of control over their urges especially bodies is naked and turned on....you now saying he can only do this and not that....

Anyways....21st century and their problems...if people just adhered to how God wants it....there will be no problem...

*Sips water*

LadyGoddiva:
You see, that’s where a lot of Nigerians get it wrong. You feel it’s not rape if the girl did not fight back or cry or scream. Remember we were not there that night with them so we don’t really know what went down. And consent defines rape, not how the girl decided to defend herself or fight back.

cruchenutii:


No, You are still getting it wrong. It is not practically possible to Forcefully give anyone Head. As a Guy that has Received / Given several times with my GF. I can practically tell you Its not possible. Infact, you have to Stop & breathe every X amount of seconds while doing it. Because your breathing has been blocked while doing it down there LOL. Your mouth is obviously close to your Nose.

It is a extremely thorough and careful task

Them think say to give head na beans

zicoraads:

Have you 'set her free?'

naijaboiy:



Lool that is all shades of wrong if you ask me. Everybody owns a right to their body and can do what they want with it to a reasonable extent.

But when a woman begins to set rules on intercourse, allowing it only the she wants it is plain selfish and manipulative! Yea and I said that, SELFISH AND MANIPULATIVE. Sex is not a half time event, you either go at it completely or you don’t do it at all.

The human body, both male female were not created to work according to laws created by man. That is why every man cannot be on the same pedestal when it comes to self control. It takes a whole lot of self realization and mental development to attain a high state of self-control.

Going back to your point, women shouldn’t use their body as an insurance to do whatever they want with men. If you’re not going to have sex at all don’t even start.

How can MouthAction be given to a woman and then she’ll stop there and say she doesn’t want anymore even when it’s obvious the man is already turned on.

The fact is that majority of you do that manipulative stuff on purpose even to your spouses or boyfriends. Most of you are just lucky enough not to have met guys that won’t rest until they let that sexual beast out.

You girls have to be careful with your emotional games. This is one of the results as we can see. I don’t support girls in this type of situation when it comes to rape. I also don’t stand for the alleged rapist too.

cruchenutii:


No oh, We resolved it amicably

zicoraads:

So why didn't you create another thread to tell us?

LadyGoddiva:
That’s where I’d disagree with you. The girl is already going through enough trauma, that’s if this story is true and she doesn’t need more people reminding her of how much of a LovePeddler she is. Plus, we don’t even know what really went down that night. She was foolish to trust someone she barely knew, yes, but sometimes we do stupid things without ever expecting a sordid outcome. And I don’t see anyone calling out the man, they’re all laying it heavy on the girl which is so disheartening.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

naijaboiy:

If you stay in your house you wouldn’t be arguing consent and all what not.

You have a boyfriend and you carry your stanky legs and itchy vagina to spend the night at a stranger’s house that you don’t even know his history. What was she expecting to happen?

She may have been actually raped, whether subtly or directly. It doesn’t eliminate the stüpidity and naïvety of such a girl.

Because of free wi-fi and free food see what young girls are putting themselves through. And in her parents mind their child is in school not knowing she’s collecting dick because of free wi-fi and pizza.

If you can not control your urge to always flock around men and eat off of them don’t expect the randy ones to have mercy on you when they want to eat their cake. It’s that simple.

Only foolish girls come up with this kind of story to whip up sympathy and sentiments from their folks after actually Fücking up!

itchy vagina.

Died

Papiikush:
Slut!

A guy who is not your boyfriend, what in the world were you doing in his house overnight?

Forget the whole rape brouhaha...she is trying to play the victim card here because all I read is about a one night stand gone wrong.

Wait... How in the world will someone rape you with oral again?

I mean he was licking your pussý comfortably and you couldn't do anything? Ha aye mi!!!!

If a guy can be so comfortable to the extent he goes down on you, removes your panties and use his tongue to wipe your pussý clean without you breaking his neck with your laps, then you are a slut

I need to start telling these Unilag girls I have free WIFI maybe they'll come and spend the night in my apartment too. Awon olosho gbogbo

Forget self control, bìtch if you come to my apartment and you running around in your bumshort I'll fück that pussý.

If you are looking for men with self control don't sleep in my house go and sleep in your pastor's house.

alexialin:








I wonder o


Honestly her story made me weak.

She's not serious.

Go to a guy's house that's not your boyfriend, and don't be shocked if he rapes or have sex with you.

It comes with the territory

Some babes sha.

She's deceiving herself
She no deceive me. Lol

I am still recovering from the shock. As in, a lady sat down to construct such lies

Mariinee:

Should I give you head too?

Papiikush:

I am still recovering from the shock. As in, a lady sat down to construct such lies



Should I give you head too?

Lsofdk:

The girl is plainly stupid. She didn't inform her boyfriend before going on such trip, only to inform him after the incident. From her story her boyfriend forgave her, she's more stupid if she thinks that. I'm not saying forgiving is wrong but not this kind, if she had gotten her boyfriend's consent before going it's understandable, but no sane guy will allow his girlfriend pass a night alone with some random guy.

She knew such will happen, If the guy didn't touch her, she may have tagged him dull and made fun of him. If she didn't want she should have stood her ground.

LadyGoddiva:
That’s where I’d disagree with you. The girl is already going through enough trauma, that’s if this story is true and she doesn’t need more people reminding her of how much of a LovePeddler she is. Plus, we don’t even know what really went down that night. She was foolish to trust someone she barely knew, yes, but sometimes we do stupid things without ever expecting a sordid outcome. And I don’t see anyone calling out the man, they’re all laying it heavy on the girl which is so disheartening.

Mariinee:
Give me tail instead.

naijaboiy:

A wiser and more sensible opinion bereft of sentiments. You’re smart.

imhotep:

Why are you blowing kisses to your fellow woman?
Please direct those kisses to me ASAP

Gofwane:
Happy Sunday to you too.

Erhm.... this one that you are online by this time, it means you didn't go to church. Right??

makydebbie:
Okay take.

Papiikush:

Are you sure you will not push me away?

Chuksemi:


Sorry, but I am respectfully quoting you again. This is a clear case of double standard, so once a woman accuses a man of rape, we immediately assume he is guilty? She doesn't even have any concrete evidence, she deleted screenshots of their chats together. Why delete a screenshot? Why even screenshot it in the first place? Was the deleting done before or after the sex? When and why did she screen shot the chats?

I don't support rape, neither do I support blackmail, her story points towards consensual sex. And she probably said it almost as it is because the guy has more evidence proving she actually came to the house, accepted to cuddle, agreed to her shorts being removed, accepted head. Even if the guy begged for the sex after a little resistance from her, isn't that what most Nigerian women do? Resist at first and then give in at the end? In a bid to know how serious the man is? Or how much he loves her?

Then again, she obviously didn't say No to the end. He slide in effortlessly, went back and forth till he came, she never indicated displeasure while all this was going on. For God's sake, he gave her head.

And Oh, after the sex, she then ran into the bathroom and stayed there till dawn, really? The first time she went in, she came out after he "begged" so why go back and remain there after the did has been done?