emeralddayo:
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent

I support this above advice because you might not be relevant in the marriage due to the guy will do more negative surprise in the union. make calculative decision for better, brighter and rewarding future.

mapet:


My first reaction without thinking too far........ baby girl, cancel your bridal train. If this is true, you obviously have SHARKS not friends

You just reminded me of SHARK TALE

Birds of a feather flock together. Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are. Olosho United.

It seems to me you need malaria drugs, you are dreaming, they bought you a land for a wedding gift? Keep waiting for free lunch.

cruchenutii:


Thank you jare, this was the same thing I'm was thinking.

She says she isn't even angry with her friends. Thats is probably the lives they lived, jumping from one Rich guy to the other, How can 3 of your friends sleep with your man. Habba?

It has to be that they are all RUNS girls honestly, If its only 1 friend. It would have been understandable. But 3 friends means thats her whole Crew. To be truthful, she is a Retired RUNS girl when she met him.

yes now , the fact that she is not mad at her friends shows she Isn't without identical skeleton in her cupboard.
its a weird world don't be surprised she must have laffed over this with her friends
she has cashed out big it could just be a get away trick to move to the next man , like begets like

emeralddayo:
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent

If you think about this very well, the 3 bride maid including her, are all RUNS girls. This issue happens when one person stops living that horrible live & decides to settle down, But her friends who are still in the RUNS business together will pull her down.

The solution is to leave her friends and have a changed life. Start to mingle with ladies who have the fear of God, she may meet a struggling guy. But fear of God in a guy matters a lot.

cruchenutii:
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 3 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.

The kind of comments some of
you make here can be very very devastating.......
What you will not like others do to you,,, don't do it to them either.

chalsixtus:




yes now , the fact that she is not mad at her friends shows she Isn't without identical skeleton in her cupboard.
its a weird world don't be surprised she must have laffed over this with her friends
she has cashed out big it could just be a get away trick to move to the next man , like begets like

wow, I wasn't even thinking as deep as this. You have a great point.

cruchenutii:
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 3 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.

U just nailed it!...birds of the same feathers will always flock together.

You should worry more about those friends of yours...as for your husband, reserve d magic wand for him until after wedding.. Most guys cheat because they haven't been trained - just like a ^dog

duduade:
He is also man na... Trying his powress... A beg move on and forget that incident... Just have it at the back of your mind that might sleep with your sisters and house helps

oboy na wa 4 u o

jamariwolf:
forgive you say ? nigga slept with not 1 but 3 bridesmaid. have you taken your meds ?

His case don pass meds.

cruchenutii:


okay, if you were the lady. what will you do?

Biko, let her go ahead with the marriage oh. don't put sand in her garri.

Let's say u found out your fiancee has slept with three of your groomsmen, what will you do?

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cruchenutii:
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 3 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.

I owe you a crate of your favorite drink.

emeralddayo:
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent

I love you!

You av brain

Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”

http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

You are about to marry a playa playa. He has too many branch offices and no plans to close any. He may actually have plans to pen some more. If the land and car are enough consolation, then you can hang on. Otherwise, ben johnson when you still have the legs to do so.

Fakest story that ever liveth

Who gives bride big wedding gifts before the actual wedding.? How can huge gifts of money be gifted to your account, and gifted before the wedding.

Why would your husband to be be bragging to his friend that he has slept with 3 of bridesmaids. And that's something he'll probably do while with his friend/s in person.

cheating is part of the game.. follow me on twitter Sapiosexual (@ChukwukaJerri)

You will soon regret your life if you go ahead to marry that guy. Your family members adviced you to go ahead with the wedding because of the money they're to benefit but wait, when the troubles and trauma of cheating continues on the marriage, will they also benefit from it, what if after marriage and the money is no where to be found anymore, it still doesn't take away the cheating on the man, and when he does, what will your family advice you to fall back on. I guess there won't be money for your consolation.

One thing about human beings is that once they've done something, they'll do it again. During dating he slept with three(3) of your friends, that's disrespectful and he bragged on it to his friends. Let me tell you why he did that, for someone as wealthy as he is, he expects you to remain loyal to him because of the money, he thinks he can do anything he likes without any whisper from you that's why he didn't cheat with other girls but your friends to show people that you can't do anything cos of the money.

Now to you the lady, I still don't get the part where you said "you love your girls and you're not mad at them just your fiancee " does that mean that you knew all along or that's what you people do it that you where expecting them to do such to you because I don't get the reason why someone will be disrespected to this level and yet come out and say she loves the person without scolding and protecting your territory, future marriage and prospective family. Your friends ain't loyal and that says volumes about you too. Since the three knew that you're in a relationship with this guy an went ahead to sleep with him, what makes you think more of your friends won't go down with him after you guys are married.

For the guy, well for now you're at his Mercy cos he feels that he's the one with all the cards to play which is literally true, only the immaterial person can win this challenge unless the guy is totally changed but if he's not, I bet you that you're are looking at a time bomb of cheating waiting to explode. And your so called family members are not an exception because if he gets any opportunity with your sister, he's gonna sleep with her, brag about it and since the money is there, he'll expect you to remain loyal. I know he has begged and asked for forgiveness, but you've stayed with him, dated him and you know the kind of person he is more than us, so if he's the type that goes back to his poo after begging and asking for forgiveness then you're in deep trouble.

Possible solution. * teach your friends to be loyal and respectful or otherwise cut off all ties with them and choose the friends you keep.
* 95% of your happiness and life is at stake because a cheating boyfriend is a prospective cheating husband who is bound to bring home STD's nd STI and you'll be infected, so do not let money cloud your reasoning.
* Do not mind people asking you to continue with the wedding because when the problems starts, you're the only person who'll suffer the heat.
* if the guy is truly repentant of his actions, and not they type that commits offence, begs for forgiveness and goes back to commit same offence again then you should give him another chance. If not, I suggest you walk.

Money doesn't doesn't solve everything, and its not bound to stay forever. So if you're considering this matter on the perspective of money alone, you better think twice and don't let it cloud for reasoning.

I also pray you don't tow the line of what's trending Now in most marriages an murder the guy. This is something you can put a stop to now.

You girls competed and you won, he only gave them consolation prizes. If you disqualify yourself, the first runner up takes up your place! It might be your blood self..... QED.

eskorbrown:
He didn't sleep with dem wen dey became her bridesmaids,he did wen dey were not.I'm not trying to justify dat.if he has asked for forgiveness,then she shud do dat.A thief cannot be called a thief until wen caught.Which still begs d question;Wat if she didn't find out??

He slept with them knowing they were her friends. Who does that? He even bragged like na achievement.

He asked for forgiveness not because he is sorry but because he was caught to avoid the drama of broken courtship which is better than broken home with innocent kids suffering the trauma and turning into cultists, prostitutes, almajiris and what have you.
Can't you see the long picture?

Many a thief when caught would blame it on government, unemployment, devil, first time, friends etc.
Nobody wants to take responsibility these days.

Once again we can see another justification for this thing about most women & wealth

She wants to get married and the only positive thing she can quickly tell us is about the Wealth,
She cannot mention any other positive about the guy.
There is definitely a problem with most Women and wealth and if you investigate further, its ladies from poor backgrounds that mostly have this distorted thinking pattern.
This is probably the reason for most failed marriages.

Call-off that wedding and build your life!!!

Poverty is really a hydra-headed phenomenon

Exponental:
You girls competed and you won, he only gave them consolation prizes. If you disqualify yourself, the first runner up takes up your place! It might be your blood self..... QED.

Hmmm

Go ahead and marry him. It all happened while you were dating and didn't know about It but now you are talking marriage. If after sleeping with all of them and he still findsyou worthy amongst all your friends then you deserve to go with him. He has also shown you a sign of remorse with his emotional cry and let me tell you this, if you don't settle with him, those your friends will take your place sharp sharp

Do u knw how many of ur frnds d next guy wil sleep wit?

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In Davido's voice: Granite fall on you, sand fall, bulldozer jam you cos I dey follow you eh?

See the guys giving hypocritical responses.

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since u can't be pissed at Ur friend's for going into the act of fuckery with Ur man so u should be pissed that​ Ur man for doing so. with Ur action it shows u and Ur friends are birds of same feather....if u like cancel the wedding...cos by the time u see this guy again it will be with one of Ur enemies u called friend....wisen up .....

cruchenutii:
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 3 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.

Sorry, it is so sad to be poor.

naa, i doubt if he will sleep with house helps