Realitycheck007:
I would have to oppose this mister.... 5-5:30 am usually up. have i ever slept till 6? maybe when i was med. but the normal me i cant recall anymore

You opened the wrong thread. Goodluck Dem gonna roast you

Reeberry:

This one wey Greenhulk comment for Romance section today. The post really tempted you and vex you gan ooooo. LOL

The op wants to turn the girl to slave. Him post no make sense at all.

Bro I was just reading this last night and the post just vex me.

ifex370:
Op stop wasting peoples mb




Be kiafu

This picture really got me laughing so much

OP, is that the only issue you have with her that made you conclude that she isn't a wife material?
You get wahala oh. I hope you know no one is perfect? You guys have only known each other for a short while, why not keep observing and encouraging her for the time being?
Moreover, if she doesn't go to work late, this shouldn't be an issue yet. She may want to stay longer in bed to rest when she passes the night in your place. As for the kids part, when kids come, you both will adjust your schedule definitely.

Realitycheck007:
Permit me to say you have sex with your spouse every time you guys have a time to yourself. Wow

yes and No

msylva2147:
please can you give me her number? because that's exactly the type of lady I am looking for as a wife material and waking up early is not part of the criteria but since reversed is your case I think we should exchange with my own that is saucy and jobless.

I laughed so hard reading this

You no well

set alarm clock for her wired to bluetooth speaker and place it beside her pillow..if she no wake up buy better pakere to flog her yansh..this will reset her cerebrum..next time she will wake up in time

Realitycheck007:
That's why i came for you guy's opinion. On how to make it work out... What do you advice i do to make her adjust, Or should i talk to her

Kai i didnt check this thread on time. Op your girl has no problem at all. Let's analyse it this way: she's single, no kids yet, works from 8am-4pm, she wakes up by 7am, uses 30mins to prepare,she probably gets to the office within 20mins. Meen! What do you want from her. Let her be please because she will naturally adjust when children start arriving. It seems like you are the controlling type, mr perfectionist.

Op you must be mad. You are instead the one that is not a husband material. Just because your fiance sleeps till 7am, you automatically joined Nairaland to disturb Nairalanders with your mumu story. inshort, stop wasting that lady's precious time. Idiot, stupid and rubbish thread.

Xcelinteriors:
Are you marrying her because you love her or because you want to turn her to maid. That girl should dump you as soon as possible. I am self employed and it is my husband that do prepare my baby for school every morning. I will just wake up like 7am and prepare breakfast but he will be the one to bath him and feed him. We brought the baby into this world together and should take care of him together, omolomo o le wa pa iyaoniya( ask any Yoruba to translate it for you)

For the past 7 years of marriage, I had taken up the bathing and clothing of my two kids since they were 6 months old (while madam cooks and prepare for our office trip). Even when I travel sometimes, it feels so strange to the kids to have their mom bathe them. Your wife is your life partner and not your maid.

One question Op. Are you a husband material?

Preetiex:
But d babe is not married,how can he complain of just 8hrs sleep,if i know d lady i would make sure she dump dis boy she thinks is a man

The way you behave while dating is the way you will behave in marriage. That is why dating is important : to help you detect the behaviours of the other person.

If you know the lady, you should advice her to be more reasonable, rather than encourage her to maintain irresponsible behavior.

Realitycheck007:
not for me, but for d home. Do u advice i buy break fast every morning when she's around?

� ahahah wow @ buy breakfast . You should be able to fix your own breakfast poster you've got hands you know ??

With the rate at which certain genders are expecting too much from women and judging them with the time they ought to sleep I think I'll stick to being single forever lol ..feels like freedom!
My work starts from 10 A.m and ends 7 pm .
I sleep around 11 and wake up 7:10(i'd snooze my alarm for another 30 min lol) whatever I do,I'd make sure I get to the train station by 8:45(the train is less than 6 min walk from mine) and after work, I don't get home until 8:30 then I drop my stuff and go for a long Arse Run or do some quick chores around my apartment and also chat with my folks .though there are times during the week that I wake up for 5:30 (three times in a week) for weight lifting and boxing and still go running later at night !
There's barely much time to do anything.

As for your partner, she's got a enough time after work to do the family runs etc just cut the poor girl some slack

greenhulk:


U have a point, but 1 question... If a lady wakes up by 7am (single lady oh with no children yet), is that enough to tag her as 'not a wife material'? Just a question. And op didn't tell us if it was on a weekend on weekday. The way I see it I think the op is too rigid.

The way you behave during dating /relationship is a window into the way you will behave in marriage

Dimples129:


You made me laugh!

Hmmm I need to sit around for 30 mins then grooming can take another 30 mins, oh and coffee for 30 mins

I wake up 2/3 hours before work to be able to function. I'm just not a morning person

Lol. I'm glad I did. 3 hours?

I want to be like you when I grow up ooooo.

TemmyTee82:


Because your own anus is smelly abi?

nah... Because your anus has a pleasant aroma especially after defecation...

nairanaira12:


The way you behave while dating is the way you will behave in marriage. That is why dating is important : to help you detect the behaviours of the other person.

If you know the lady, you should advice her to be more reasonable, rather than encourage her to maintain irresponsible behavior.

And how responsible is the man in question looking for a maid.

Jimi23:


And how responsible is the man in question looking for a maid.

Does your mom also wake up 7am even when she has to go to work by 8am?

Does your mom take care of the home every morning before going to work? Does that make her a maid to your dad?

Or do you even have a mother at all?

nairanaira12:


The way you behave while dating is the way you will behave in marriage. That is why dating is important : to help you detect the behaviours of the other person.

If you know the lady, you should advice her to be more reasonable, rather than encourage her to maintain irresponsible behavior.

u mean sleeping for 8hrs is irresponsible or is there anoda issue apart her sleeping habit?Bros 4get am u are also a human being & i think d lady does dat only on weekend 4rm wat op wrote

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

Mods please push to front page for more assistance

U need de sleep? Abi she tie you, pls try going into farming it's more hectic so u would not have the strength to seek attention

nairanaira12:


Does your mom also wake up 7am even when she has to go to work by 8am?

Does your mom take care of the home every morning before going to work? Does that make her a maid to your dad?

Or do you even have a mother at all?

y bring his parent into dis because of a comment? Do to other wat u want others to do to u o,besides we all have different ways of living our lives

Realitycheck007:
She has a job ohh. Work hours 8-4

Free the lady joor, she is still single and you expect her to start living like a married nursing mother that wakes by 2 am and 5am to care for the child and running the home.


She wakes by 7am and still be at work by 8am, she is a good time manager sef. An hour is not even enough for some to do make up and dress up.

I hate how selfish most Nigerian women of today are. Saying he should help her with the cooking etc but when it is time to pay school fees, house rent, bills none of these nairaland girls will tell their fellow women to support him oh.

nairanaira12:


Does your mom also wake up 7am even when she has to go to work by 8am?

Does your mom take care of the home every morning before going to work? Does that make her a maid to your dad?

Or do you even have a mother at all?

nobody wants his wife/sisters to suffer like their mum. If he does not like the lady let him look for another one nonsense

Preetiex:
u mean sleeping for 8hrs is irresponsible or is there anoda issue apart her sleeping habit?Bros 4get am u are also a human being & i think d lady does dat only on weekend 4rm wat op wrote

So, you also agree that such a sleeping habit is wrong during work days? Yet, your prescription is for the lady to persist in such abnormality?

And how did you get to know that it is weekend?

A well brought up African daughter will never be sleeping till 7am when she has to go to work by 8am.

Humanistme:


nobody wants his wife/sisters to suffer like their mum. If he does not like the lady let him look for another one nonsense

So, waking up early to clean the home is your own idea of suffering? This your generation has gone to the dogs.

Will you encourage your daughters to sleep till 7am when they have to arrive at work by 8am?

Preetiex:
y bring his parent into dis because of a comment? Do to other wat u want others to do to u o,besides we all have different ways of living our lives

I don't mean to insult your parents,; never. I'm just making references.

One of the things a parent teaches her kids is how to wake up early, especially when they have to go to work. It is on indication of a good home training.

nairanaira12:


So, you also agree that such a sleeping habit is wrong during work days? Yet, your prescription is for the lady to persist in such abnormality?

And how did you get to know that it is weekend?

A well brought up African daughter will never be sleeping till 7am when she has to go to work by 8am.

dat is ur opinion anyway

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

Mods please push to front page for more assistance

O boy...its a normal thing o why won't she sleep after giving her lots of konji till daybreak, after all she has no responsibility at the moment I believe if she get to the bridge she will cross it

if u babe no get wife material den buy one for her nao simple