hello bro .... there's this girl I met through another friend (a female) like 3months back. now we're now chatting consistently on WhatsApp. and she's very beautiful. at first I didn't rush into her. but now Im interested in this girl. I've gone out with her once. (just told her I'm coming to see her and we choose a place nd she agreed) ....... now I'm about traveling to lag nd I'll be back though. nd I need to make her my girlfriend. how do I go about it pls help !!??!!

#Teddyboo...If a gal ask u " Ar u a virgin?" what's d reason u'd think she ask?

Hykis:
#Teddyboo...If a gal ask u " Ar u a virgin?" what's d reason u'd think she ask?

She din dey think about going down
Throw the question back. If an me sha.

For me I will be like
Are you already fantasising about me hitting you hard. Please don't rape me o.
Or better still
Come and check but only once

Obere4u xxxtedyxxx Hykis

Obere4u xxxtedyxxx Hykis
Pls Ooh come and help me... am chatting with my crush on fb right now.. but don't know d topic 2 talk ab2t Pls help me... but we have not met face 2 face before.. what can I chat with her ab2t.. she also lives in my neighborhood Dat how I saw her..

zadokokezie:
Obere4u xxxtedyxxx Hykis
Pls Ooh come and help me... am chatting with my crush on fb right now.. but don't know d topic 2 talk ab2t Pls help me... but we have not met face 2 face before.. what can I chat with her ab2t.. she also lives in my neighborhood Dat how I saw her..

Start from simple to complex. From things happening in neighbourhood to how she catwalks. Slight shades here and there

Obere4u:


Start from simple to complex. From things happening in neighbourhood to how she catwalks. Slight shades here and there

but how do I initiate it.... do I introduce myself

zadokokezie:

but how do I initiate it.... do I introduce myself

damn run to the beginning of this thread or pm her details let me add her up

Nastydroid:
damn run to the beginning of this thread or pm her details let me add her up

add her up.... how, am not understanding

zadokokezie:

but how do I initiate it.... do I introduce myself

its a stage by stage process I will advice u go through this trend from the start...

Obere4u:

She din dey think about going down Throw the question back. If an me sha.
For me I will be like Are you already fantasising about me hitting you hard. Please don't rape me o. Or better still Come and check but only once

I love dat reply.

Hmmm

zadokokezie:
Obere4u xxxtedyxxx Hykis
Pls Ooh come and help me... am chatting with my crush on fb right now.. but don't know d topic 2 talk ab2t Pls help me... but we have not met face 2 face before.. what can I chat with her ab2t.. she also lives in my neighborhood Dat how I saw her..

all you need is FMAC.

it's on page 1 - 9.
Read those pages. Everything you need is there.

Calm down, no need to rush or seem desperate. Trust me, there are millions of hot girls like her out there. So chill, and communicate with her from a mentality of abundance.

xxxtedyxxx hw do u get a girl to fall madly inlove with u.

bro .. pls help me my own problem is up there

xxxtedyxxx


I have been able to chat with her and tease her but we have not met in person so I want 2 go out on a date with her.. hope it is alrite at dis stage.... but don't know if I should officially ask her out when on d date

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xxxtedyxxx:


all you need is FMAC.

it's on page 1 - 9.
Read those pages. Everything you need is there.

Calm down, no need to rush or seem desperate. Trust me, there are millions of hot girls like her out there. So chill, and communicate with her from a mentality of abundance.

xxxtedyxxx



OK lately I have been able to bring up interesting topic and keep her chatting till late midnight and she tells me Dat she want 2 go to bed. but she is not investing yet.. if I don't say hi she don't say anything when online on fb... how do I get her to invest in me although we just started chatting for not up 2 a week now

igboboy3:

Hmmm

Well mine is like this, we started online and she had often insisted that she was not ready for a relationship and I persisted. She complained about guys not caring and helping with real life problems but I proved I have no problem doing any of those and taking up responsibilities when necessary, showing I care.

Overtime, she stopped saying she is not ready for a relationship but started saying we should take things slowly so as not to end the relationship so soon.

initially she would go offline for some days and tell me she does not feel like chatting. When she does this, I don't buzz her at all until she breaks the ice herself. She did this more than 5 times.

Then I made the first phone call to her. It was very brief. while we chat normally. I hardly called her. Then another time, I called her again. This time around very brief too. Like 45 seconds to 1 minute.

On 3rd time i called, she queried me that why do I spend less than 1 minute on calls, so for that day, I obliged her and we spoke for almost 1 hour. It was fun and I could feel the excitement in her voice.

Then we moved on still chatting... calls were reduced but I do call once a while. Then she started calling me when she feels like but still maintain that we should take things slowly.

Sometimes I would send her romantic text,she would appreciate it and some other times she would ask me to tone down the messages. Still when I bring up the issue of us dating she would say she does not fall in love so easily and that it has to come from the inside.

Now here is what I find weird... Her signs!

one day she asked who is the girl on my DP and I told her it is my sister. My sister is very pretty, very very pretty. I bet she was intimidated lol.

So she said she thought I would say my girlfriend because that would make her sad. I asked why and she said because I would toasting two girls at the same time. She said it as if she was joking.

Another time I asked her if she has any last words for me before we go to bed while chatting. And she said I should lock all doors and make sure no girl comes in or sleep over. Again, she said it as if she was joking. Next day she asked whether there was any girl sleeping next to me. I said no, she said are you sure? I said no one... again, she said it as if she was joking.

One time something happened to me and I told her via chat. She was calling frantically to know whether I am safe. She called normal line but it didn't connect and called via whatsapp , which I missed. all through, she asked where I was, if have gotten home and all that.

Again we were chatting and I was talking about how I won't take things from women and she asked if I beat women, I told her no. She said tears of joy( making it seems like a joke) and I said why did you ask, she replied and said it is nothing but asked because of someone she wants to give me (again, joke)

Another time while on phone she asked if I was travelling and I said no, she said are you sure and I said no I am not.

This disposition above and many more is what she has exhibited but each time i bring up the dating issue, she says she does not fall in love easily, or tells me that my sms should be toned down ( I don't send them much but I have stopped cos of the way she reacts). There was a time I sent a lovely one and I was expecting another lashing but to my surprise, she called me that day, few hours after sending it. I asked hope no problem and she no, that she got my sms but decided to call to check on me. One time again, not long after that one, she called me to take her second phone line and save it, which I never asked for and neither did I know she had it.

All these has been my experience and some that I can't remember but the bottom line is that we are cool in all areas, I love and enjoy chatting with her but anytime I bring up the dating issue, I get the aforementioned reaction. Now what I don't know is whether she would prefer I don't ask her out officially and just play along or she just studying me.

at last count, I have decided not to communicate with her anymore for as long as it is necessary but at the same time, I don't want a situation whereby a lady is interested but acting like she is not interested that would make me give up easily.

What will you guys advice?
cc xxxtedyxxx:

groomed:
Well mine is like this, we started online and she had often insisted that she was not ready for a relationship and I persisted. She complained about guys not caring and helping with real life problems but I proved I have no problem doing any of those and taking up responsibilities when necessary, showing I care.

Overtime, she stopped saying she is not ready for a relationship but started saying we should take things slowly so as not to end the relationship so soon.

initially she would go offline for some days and tell me she does not feel like chatting. When she does this, I don't buzz her at all until she breaks the ice herself. She did this more than 5 times.

Then I made the first phone call to her. It was very brief. while we chat normally. I hardly called her. Then another time, I called her again. This time around very brief too. Like 45 seconds to 1 minute.

On 3rd time i called, she queried me that why do I spend less than 1 minute on calls, so for that day, I obliged her and we spoke for almost 1 hour. It was fun and I could feel the excitement in her voice.

Then we moved on still chatting... calls were reduced but I do call once a while. Then she started calling me when she feels like but still maintain that we should take things slowly.

Sometimes I would send her romantic text,she would appreciate it and some other times she would ask me to tone down the messages. Still when I bring up the issue of us dating she would say she does not fall in love so easily and that it has to come from the inside.

Now here is what I find weird... Her signs!

one day she asked who is the girl on my DP and I told her it is my sister. My sister is very pretty, very very pretty. I bet she was intimidated lol.

So she said she thought I would say my girlfriend because that would make her sad. I asked why and she said because I would toasting two girls at the same time. She said it as if she was joking.

Another time I asked her if she has any last words for me before we go to bed while chatting. And she said I should lock all doors and make sure no girl comes in or sleep over. Again, she said it as if she was joking. Next day she asked whether there was any girl sleeping next to me. I said no, she said are you sure? I said no one... again, she said it as if she was joking.

One time something happened to me and I told her via chat. She was calling frantically to know whether I am safe. She called normal line but it didn't connect and called via whatsapp , which I missed. all through, she asked where I was, if have gotten home and all that.

Again we were chatting and I was talking about how I won't take things from women and she asked if I beat women, I told her no. She said tears of joy( making it seems like a joke) and I said why did you ask, she replied and said it is nothing but asked because of someone she wants to give me (again, joke)

Another time while on phone she asked if I was travelling and I said no, she said are you sure and I said no I am not.

This disposition above and many more is what she has exhibited but each time i bring up the dating issue, she says she does not fall in love easily, or tells me that my sms should be toned down ( I don't send them much but I have stopped cos of the way she reacts). There was a time I sent a lovely one and I was expecting another lashing but to my surprise, she called me that day, few hours after sending it. I asked hope no problem and she no, that she got my sms but decided to call to check on me. One time again, not long after that one, she called me to take her second phone line and save it, which I never asked for and neither did I know she had it.

All these has been my experience and some that I can't remember but the bottom line is that we are cool in all areas, I love and enjoy chatting with her but anytime I bring up the dating issue, I get the aforementioned reaction. Now what I don't know is whether she would prefer I don't ask her out officially and just play along or she just studying me.

at last count, I have decided not to communicate with her anymore for as long as it is necessary but at the same time, I don't want a situation whereby a lady is interested but acting like she is not interested that would make me give up easily.

What will you guys advice?
cc xxxtedyxxx:

@putit

cc groomed

IMO, asking her out is not what you should be doing, she seems to be into you and I know you want some words of confirmation from her but then which do you prefer, words or actions?

Do you guys spend time together? If yes, now is the time to start going physical; kisses, playful biting of the ears or something as innocent as whispering in her ears, these ensure there is no confusion in what you want from her.

On an ending note, keep your distance a bit, make yourself unavailable once in a while. I know it's difficult but give it a try and as Teddy will say game other chicks.

I hope this helps

agrovick:
cc groomed

IMO, asking her out is not what you should be doing, she seems to be into you and I know you want some words of confirmation from her but then which do you prefer, words or actions?

Do you guys spend time together? If yes, now is the time to start going physical; kisses, playful biting of the ears or something as innocent as whispering in her ears, these ensure there is no confusion in what you want from her.

On an ending note, keep your distance a bit, make yourself unavailable once in a while. I know it's difficult but give it a try and as Teddy will say game other chicks.

I hope this helps

thanks bro. Yeah, words of confirmation but I think she is okay with the flow and don't want to declare things officially but would prefer to play along and that is why she gives the action vibes.

I hadn't spoken or chatted with her since 19th but I managed to send her Xmas and new year text few minutes ago.

I think I would settle for the action and forget about the words. But in the meantime, I believe a brief break and distance is cool.

groomed:
thanks bro. Yeah, words of confirmation but I think she is okay with the flow and don't want to declare things officially but would prefer to play along and that is why she gives the action vibes.

I hadn't spoken or chatted with her since 19th but I managed to send her Xmas and new year text few minutes ago.

I think I would settle for the action and forget about the words. But in the meantime, I believe a brief break and distance is cool.

In that period from 19th she didn't get back to you right?

Now is the time to try other chicks, just enjoy the flow. Mistakes are going to happen in that process but we are gonna learn

agrovick:


In that period from 19th she didn't get back to you right?

Now is the time to try other chicks, just enjoy the flow. Mistakes are going to happen in that process but we are gonna learn

our last chat was she replying me but I didn't respond. So since then, it has been like that. The chat was her telling me about what I said above that she doesn't catch feelings easily...and don't know how to do it or explain it for me to understand.

I just read it and said no words. We are very cool in all other aspects except when I bring this up. But I think I should just accept the actions like you suggested and flow along.

groomed:
our last chat was she replying me but I didn't respond. So since then, it has been like that. The chat was her telling me about what I said above that she doesn't catch feelings easily...and don't know how to do it or explain it for me to understand.

I just read it and said no words. We are very cool in all other aspects except when I bring this up. But I think I should just accept the actions like you suggested and flow along.

Cheers bruh...

groomed:
@putit

OK groomed, There's high chance she's really interested in you and there's also high chance she's just NOT interested in you..

You see, there are 2 major kind of girls I'v encountered in my years of dating girls(naija girls);;

1..The girls that are interested in you but will act or pretend they are not interested for few reasons like; they don't want to look easy or cheap or they don't trust me, because of my player/asshole vibe, or even worse because they have a boyfriend already and they don't want to cheat on him... I always end up dating or sleeping with all these kinda ladies..So bro, I guess she might really really likes you..The best thing to do is to invite her over. If she ask why, tell her you want to spend some real quality time with her.. If she resist tell her "it will be surprisingly fun for her". If she still resist, don't persist anymore, just talk about other neutral things with her for few more minutes and end the conversation. After that don't initiate any sort of conversation with her again until she herself does that.. Anytime she does, make sure you tell her about your intentions of she spending time with you ..With these she'll know you're serious about starting something with her

2.. Now there are girls that are really and sincerely not interested in you but will act or pretend they are interested in you because of the big financial favors they are gaining from you. Not just financial benefit, any kind of (special ) attention benefit you're giving to her..
So groomed, if you're treating her with any sort financial favors, there's good chance she's not really interested you. She might just be "COCK TEASING" you.. If she's just cock teasing or playing silly games with you, my advice for you is to forget her and go game/woo other mature and classy ladies..

Gud a.m bosses on this thread! I hail o! Tuale! I swear, the tips i get her often don do me better. I have now a proud controller of 4 beautiful ladies. They are always calling and texting. I had to run away yesterday to hang out with my guys wen 3 of dem threatened to come to my place to spend time with me. I just want to say bosses. Thank you o. Na'gode! Odinma! E se o!
There is this my neighbour, the girl fine sha. I like her small. About 2016, i walked up to her to get her contact, she was surprised though (i no dy roll with anybody 4 street, just to go play soccer, that's all) bt eventually gave me. I went back 2 skul n started calling her n chatting bt she was doing 'yanga', so i stopped calling and deleted her number sef. When i graduated, i was @ home for months and i do see her but i no dy give her face till nysc called. I came bak last week and we'v bin seeing, no talking. Sometimes some kids will cum to tell me dat she said dy shud grit me. I woke up dis a.m to see her request on fb. Wat shud i do?

[quote author=calcus post=63612198]Gud a.m bosses on this thread! I hail o! Tuale! I swear, the tips i get her often don do me better. I have now a proud controller of 4 beautiful ladies. They are always calling and texting. I had to run away yesterday to hang out with my guys wen 3 of dem threatened to come to my place to spend time with me. I just want to say bosses. Thank you o. Na'gode! Odinma! E se o!
There is this my neighbour, the girl fine sha. I like her small. About 2016, i walked up to her to get her contact, she was surprised though (i no dy roll with anybody 4 street, just to go play soccer, that's all) bt eventually gave me. I went back 2 skul n started calling her n chatting bt she was doing 'yanga', so i stopped calling and deleted her number sef. When i graduated, i was @ home for months and i do see her but i no dy give her face till nysc called. I came bak last week and we'v bin seeing, no talking. Sometimes some kids will cum to tell me dat she said dy shud grit me. I woke up dis a.m to see her request on fb. Wat shud i do?[/quAs if u knw wetin i dey plan sef!!!ote]bad guy bro......lol....... U wan decline am

putit:


OK groomed, There's high chance she's really interested in you and there's also high chance she's just NOT interested in you..

You see, there are 2 major kind of girls I'v encountered in my years of dating girls(naija girls);;

1..The girls that are interested in you but will act or pretend they are not interested for few reasons like; they don't want to look easy or cheap or they don't trust me, because of my player/asshole vibe, or even worse because they have a boyfriend already and they don't want to cheat on him... I always end up dating or sleeping with all these kinda ladies..So bro, I guess she might really really likes you..The best thing to do is to invite her over. If she ask why, tell her you want to spend some real quality time with her.. If she resist tell her "it will be surprisingly fun for her". If she still resist, don't persist anymore, just talk about other neutral things with her for few more minutes and end the conversation. After that don't initiate any sort of conversation with her again until she herself does that.. Anytime she does, make sure you tell her about your intentions of she spending time with you ..With these she'll know you're serious about starting something with her

2.. Now there are girls that are really and sincerely not interested in you but will act or pretend they are interested in you because of the big financial favors they are gaining from you. Not just financial benefit, any kind of (special ) attention benefit you're giving to her..
So groomed, if you're treating her with any sort financial favors, there's good chance she's not really interested you. She might just be "COCK TEASING" you.. If she's just cock teasing or playing silly games with you, my advice for you is to forget her and go game/woo other mature and classy ladies.

the first point you raised is much likely... She is single and some times say things like few days ago, "so that is how you will starve me"when I talked about not giving my brother food cos he can get that done himself. She also jokingly told me she has friend in my location and would visit the friend and use that opportunity to see me.

She always always sound excited when we speak on phone. You know when someone is happy to get your call.

I mean, I have asked other girls out and when they say they aren't interested, none has ever exhibited the kind of traits this girl has. The height and most obvious of it all is that NONE ever called me... And if they did, it might just be once. Which is why I think has might be genuine.

She always asked after my brother and sister. Like few days before our mild feud, she asked after my sister whether I won't go see her. This is like 3rd time she has asked after I told her she gave birth. I had to tell her my sister doesn't reside in Nigeria.

So many variables.

Now for the second angle your raised I can not really decipher is that is the case. Yeah I have been of help and I do it due to her complaining about guys not caring and all that but it is not regular thing... Just once a while and she does not ask me for it. I do them by my own volition.

But either way, time will tell which is why I think a long distance and break is needed to clearly evaluate if she is really interested in me.


P. S: did u create the thread you said you were writing?

groomed:
the first point you raised is much likely... She is single and some times say things like few days ago, "so that is how you will starve me"when I talked about not giving my brother food cos he can get that done himself. She also jokingly told me she has friend in my location and would visit the friend and use that opportunity to see me.

She always always sound excited when we speak on phone. You know when someone is happy to get your call.

I mean, I have asked other girls out and when they say they aren't interested, none has ever exhibited the kind of traits this girl has. The height and most obvious of it all is that NONE ever called me... And if they did, it might just be once. Which is why I think has might be genuine.

She always asked after my brother and sister. Like few days before our mild feud, she asked after my sister whether I won't go see her. This is like 3rd time she has asked after I told her she gave birth. I had to tell her my sister doesn't reside in Nigeria.

So many variables.

Now for the second angle your raised I can not really decipher is that is the case. Yeah I have been of help and I do it due to her complaining about guys not caring and all that but it is not regular thing... Just once a while and she does not ask me for it. I do them by my own volition.

But either way, time will tell which is why I think a long distance and break is needed to clearly evaluate if she is really interested in me.


P. S: did u create the thread you said you were writing?

As you have said ,she only ask things from you only once in a while, and even when you want to treat her with any financial favor, you do it on your own TERMS.. In that case, its a big sign, she's interested in you..Good luck bro
And No I haven't created that thread yet, but I will anytime from soon..

Merry Xmas to xxxtedyxxx and every dude on these thread

putit:

As you have said ,she only ask things from you only once in a while, and even when you want to treat her with any financial favor, you do it on your own TERMS.. In that case, its a big sign, she's interested in you..Good luck bro
And No I haven't created that thread yet, but I will anytime from soon..

Merry Xmas to xxxtedyxxx and every dude on these thread

thanks. I mean I do give once a while. She has never asked me for something. Things I have given her is on my own volition. She didn't ask for it.