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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:26am On Jan 03, 2018
My reply to what op listed above!
I don't wanna mention number's please!
Any question feel free to ask!
It is often discussed how difficult it is to understand women. While many times this may seem to be the case, I don’t think it necessarily has to be. I think we all are hard to understand sometimes – we even have a hard time understanding ourselves. I know I do. _______
But if we really observe, pay attention, and learn along the way – we can find some consistencies and reach conclusions about what we as men can understand in order to be more in-tuned with the wants and needs of the woman in our life.
Remember it me asslickergringrin
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:30am On Jan 03, 2018
mhisbliss:
its like there's a motive behind this question and answer series, save it for the jambites or get to the point

Na wa for u oo! Can't I ask question's in peace againgringrin

U sef eh!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:31am On Jan 03, 2018
sekxyqueen:
lol..okay
Lol!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by AryaStark1(m): 9:31am On Jan 03, 2018
Martin0:



Can you please give reason's for her choices of dick!

She ceaselessly fulminated against few men vagabonds like those on NL depreciably mindless crave for vacuous hedonism and as some men like you are ingratiating!

Please that lady made a good point and some few commended her for that!

MR OR MRS OR WHO EVER YOU ARE...... She Was Practically Giving Her Opinion On Boys Not Men ......Boys Are After P**sies they kid around they are not serious But Men are the real deal she should do a mass upgrade that would help

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by mhisbliss(f): 9:33am On Jan 03, 2018
Martin0:

Na wa for u oo! Can't I ask question's in peace againgringrin
U sef eh!
I almost got annoyed
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:33am On Jan 03, 2018
AryaStark1:


MR OR MRS OR WHO EVER YOU ARE...... She Was Practically Giving Her Opinion On Boys Not Men ......Boys Are After P**sies they kid around they are not serious But Men are the real deal she should do a mass upgrade that would help

Boy's/men!

What tha fucvk!

Well it your opinion I guess she has answer's to your thought!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Nobody: 9:34am On Jan 03, 2018
Martin0:
Am saying this based on what I noticed in the list according to op!

•There is the romantic sex you have when you
just want to hold someone and be with them in
the most intimate way possible, there is the
urgent, hot, slightly aggressive sex you have
because you just want it bad, there is the run of
the mill sex you have when you can tell the
other person isn’t that interested, and there is the
sex you have where you can tell that the person
does indeed love and care about you, and not
just their orgasm. It’s a little softer, a little
lighter, a little more involved. There’s a look in
their eye that can’t really be feigned or
replicated.


Op should personally understand and some serious ladies who know what they are doing in a relationship should also understand too!


sometimes your posts shock me. it's sensible and educative
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Cladez(m): 9:35am On Jan 03, 2018
mhisbliss:
I don't know, maybe you should make it your research project since you're so bothered, its ya headache not mine
K

Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:35am On Jan 03, 2018
mhisbliss:
I almost got annoyed
mhisbliss:
I almost got annoyed

It a normal tin!

No need to dey vex!

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by AryaStark1(m): 9:36am On Jan 03, 2018
[quote author=Martin0 post=63848786]
Boy's/men!
What tha fucvk!
Well it your opinion I guess she has answer's to your thought!
[/quote men are matured boys are not ready
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Nobody: 9:40am On Jan 03, 2018
mhisbliss:
1. they become your enemy when you reject their advances and you suddenly become ugly, some take it as far as harassing and raining obscenities on you.

2. They get intimidated and insecure when you make more money than them, but treat you like a dependent gold digger if you make less or nothing at all.

3. B!tch whenever they spend peanuts on you, and act like they're doing you a favour, you're the one who flaunted your money and offered to spend it on me, should I pay for a date you asked me on? Those who would say my dad doesn't own a rangerover so I shouldn't want a guy who owns one, I'm trying to live more comfortable than my dad, it'll be foolish to seek such lifestyle with a man who's lesser than my dad, common sense.

4. They always ask for your number after every conversation, even harmless ones that has casual written all over it, so they can pester your life.

5. Expect you to always reciprocate their advances or end up coercing and pestering you until you agree, because you asked me out I should just say yes, I might be into someone else, I might be in a relationship, I might not be ready for a relationship, or I simply don't like you, my feeling doesn't have a switch that I can turn it on or off whenever I want.

6. They're always nice for a reason, even when they don't ask for payback outrightly, they'll sure ask for it later on.

7. They mistake every gesture as a greenlight, you smile that's a greenlight, you wave its a greenlight, you reply messages its a greenlight, you don't, you're a proud mannerless snub

8. Give them a mile, they take two, visit them at home, its a go ahead to take it to second base, resist, and you might end up getting raped.

9. Lie amongst themselves that they've dated and even slept with you just to feel fly as they get cheers

10. Assume you're sleeping around as long as it aint them you're sleeping with

11. Take back everything they got you when it was all lovey dovey when things go wrong

12. Get on their bad side and things you did in private is online for everyone, anything just to slut shame you, some even go as far as blackmail, how lowly.

14. kiss and tell

15. seeing girls as intimacy gadgets

16. Using marriage promises to keep her inline, if you know you have no intention of putting the ring(branded handcuff) on it, let her go without wasting her time, its not an achievement or a do or die affair.

17. One lover at a time please, have conscience or grow one.

18. Don't classify all girls as slayqueens, I doubt you even know what it means.


typing all ds nonsense means you've got no job...

depending on men with oily shoulders to carry you

wait, if your parents suffered to educate you, why depending on a guy to survive( don't argue, it's on ur thread)

lastly... I see u are pained. please try and move on with your life, the guy that posted your nudes all over the internet is a fool, but you caused it because you can't stop being a BITCHHHH

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Sugar97(f): 9:41am On Jan 03, 2018
BiafraBushBoy:


You don't ask me to apologize to morefuckers okay? You get that?

Just in case of next time. Yo copy babe?

Yea... I won't do it again sad

Good morning smiley
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:42am On Jan 03, 2018
Evaberry:

sometimes your posts shock me. it's sensible and educative
Evaberry!
I greet you! How was your night!
U need to see the fire last night here!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 03, 2018
Tozara:
This is an extremely absurd thing to say. So I go about lusting after or falling in love with ALL my female friends? Lol.
You and Edimolu failed to grasp her point in a bid to defend your gender. She's right about that statement.

Good morning.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:43am On Jan 03, 2018
[quote author=AryaStark1 post=63848877][/quote]
Hian na wa for u ooogringrin

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by zicoraads: 9:55am On Jan 03, 2018
Mariinee:
What's foolish about the party? If you aren't gonn come, I see no reason why you should make a fight out of it. SMH
I will do and say anything I want to about anything I want to. It's foolish and childish and I'll keep saying it. And I'll strongly advice you take that head and shake it very, very far away from here. Very far away. You mustn't really comment on everything. Lest you get your hands burned for a fire that was never meant for you in the first place.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 9:55am On Jan 03, 2018
To the ladies who kind of misunderstand some words like "they are seeing as sex object"

Hear me out!

We are all here to learn!


________


One reason for this is the almost unique
power of the visual to sexually arouse
men. Men are aroused just by glancing at
a female arm, ankle, calf, thigh, stomach
— even without ever seeing the woman’s
face. Those legs, calves, arms, etc. are
sexual objects. That’s why there are
innumerable websites featuring them.
There is nothing analogous for women. Of
course, a woman can be aroused seeing a
particularly handsome and masculine
man. But there are no websites for women
to stare at men’s legs or other male body
parts.

___________

Every normal heterosexual man who
sees a woman as a sexual object can also
completely respect her mind, her
character, and everything else non-sexual
about her. Men do this all the time.

__________

Most heterosexual women also see sexy
women as sex objects — and they are
hardly misogynists. Ask your wife or
girlfriend which would turn her on more:
watching a male strip show in front of a
female audience or a female strip show in
front of a male audience.


________


Lucky is the couple in which the man
can sexually objectify his partner. The
longer a husband can at least occasionally
regard his wife as a sex object, the better
their marriage. It is not always easy to
perceive the woman you see every day,
the mother of your children, as a sexual
object.

_______


The whole purpose of lingerie and
other sexual attire is to render the woman
a sex object in her partner’s eyes. Are all
the women who wear lingerie, bikinis,
cheerleader outfits, or whatever else turns
their partner on — and hopefully them as
well, one might add — haters of wome n?

_________

If your husband denies these assertions,
he is lying to you because he is afraid you
will react angrily or because he is afraid
of hurting your feelings. He may also be
lying to himself — after all, he, too, may
have gone to college or reads liberal
opinion pieces on misogyny, and he wants
to be an “enlightened” male.

It is a sign of the times that these
points need to be spelled out. The
question is, Why? Why are any of these
points — known to just about every
woman and man who ever lived prior to
the 1960s — controversial to so many
well-educated people today?


The answer is leftism and its offshoot,
feminism.


Leftism is first and foremost a denial of
reality.


This just what I think!

And I expect you ladies to understand some few things as to "sex object" base on what you ladies thought or think!

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Tozara(m): 10:01am On Jan 03, 2018
kimbraa:
You and Edimolu failed to grasp her point in a bid to defend your gender. She's right about that statement.

Good morning.
She's right? In what way? Can you explain to me?

Good morning.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by iamJ(m): 10:03am On Jan 03, 2018
Blackhawk03:


I learnt well from you. tongue

Happy new year, Judey. kiss
same to you grin

I dey market, wan buy cow for ur wedding
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Blackhawk03(f): 10:13am On Jan 03, 2018
iamJ:
same to you grin

I dey market, wan buy cow for ur wedding

Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy

Na you go marry this year not me. angry

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by makydebbie(f): 10:15am On Jan 03, 2018
Ah! nezzar I just dey see your mention.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by iykekelvins(m): 10:16am On Jan 03, 2018
Caseless:
they give the number, but turn around to feel as queens. What's wrong in asking for number after conversation? The OP is deluded.
Lol, to her it's a childish act.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by edimolu(m): 10:18am On Jan 03, 2018
kimbraa:
You and Edimolu failed to grasp her point in a bid to defend your gender. She's right about that statement.

Good morning.
You are the one who has failed to understand her point in a bid to support her, did you read her second response to tozara?

She is as wrong as the word itself...she should stop generalising especially when her claim seems so non-evident..it connotes amateurism....

Good morning

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Idecievedyou(m): 10:19am On Jan 03, 2018
so we should just leave all these girls alone...just like that...unm..unm...no way..!!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by DreamChaser2000: 10:29am On Jan 03, 2018
AryaStark1:


MR OR MRS OR WHO EVER YOU ARE...... She Was Practically Giving Her Opinion On Boys Not Men ......Boys Are After P**sies they kid around they are not serious But Men are the real deal she should do a mass upgrade that would help

Lol. The op is a man-hater bro. Her brain is dysfunctional after her little boys bombed her dried puzzy. She wants men to lick her disgusting ass.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Martin0(m): 10:29am On Jan 03, 2018
makydebbie:
Ah! nezzar I just dey see your mention.

My friend my friend!grin
You re back again!
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by nezzar: 10:30am On Jan 03, 2018
makydebbie:
Ah! nezzar I just dey see your mention.
What about it ??
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Nobody: 10:38am On Jan 03, 2018
Tozara:
She's right? In what way? Can you explain to me?
She said a guy can't be in a platonic relationship with a girl without either lusting or falling in love with her. This statement is true.

Firstly, a lady and a guy becomes platonic friends in two ways...

1. Association. You both become acquaintants either because you work at the same place, met in a group meeting with friends, neighbours, course mates, and through other associations you could think of. Here, they automatically become friends if they like each other enough to be friends which starts gradually anyway 'cause trust takes time to build. This relationship at this level is void of romantic affection but with time, a guy starts seeing the perfections in the lady he's friends with and that results in growing affection. As time goes by, he can no longer conceal his feelings so he tells her how he really feels but she has a choice to either friendzone him or accept his proposal. In a situation the former happens, a matured one will value the friendship they shared and respect her decision and nothing will change in their friendship while the immature ones will automatically end the friendship 'cause he feels rejected and can't stand the girl later. More often than not, such relationships ends up in the guys catching feelings for their female friends.

2. Complete strangers. Here, you go after girls on the streets simply because you want something romantic 'cause if you needed a platonic girlfriend, you know where to get one so wouldn't go through the huddles of chasing a girl simply because you want something platonic. grin If mere friendship is the case then it's a cover up to buy him time to get what he wants.


Bottom line, in both cases; that's an element of affection . That validates her point that a girl and a guy can't be platonic friends.

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by edimolu(m): 10:38am On Jan 03, 2018
AryaStark1:


MR OR MRS OR WHO EVER YOU ARE...... She Was Practically Giving Her Opinion On Boys Not Men ......Boys Are After P**sies they kid around they are not serious But Men are the real deal she should do a mass upgrade that would help
You is a confam grin

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Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Nobody: 10:44am On Jan 03, 2018
edimolu:

You are the one who has failed to understand her point in a bid to support her, did you read her second response to tozara?

She is as wrong as the word itself...she should stop generalising especially when her claim seems so non-evident..it connotes amateurism....

Good morning
kimbraa:
She said a guy can't be in a platonic relationship with a girl without either lusting or falling in love with her. This statement is true.

Firstly, a lady and a guy becomes platonic friends in two ways...

1. Association. You both become acquaintants either because you work at the same place, met in a group meeting with friends, neighbours, course mates, and through other associations you could think of. Here, they automatically become friends if they like each other enough to be friends which starts gradually anyway 'cause trust takes time to build. This relationship at this level is void of romantic affection but with time, a guy starts seeing the perfections in the lady he's friends with and that results in growing affection. As time goes by, he can no longer conceal his feelings so he tells her how he really feels but she has a choice to either friendzone him or accept his proposal. In a situation the former happens, a matured one will value the friendship they shared and respect her decision and nothing will change in their friendship while the immature ones will automatically end the friendship 'cause he feels rejected and can't stand the girl later. More often than not, such relationships ends up in the guys catching feelings for their female friends.

2. Complete strangers. Here, you go after girls on the streets simply because you want something romantic 'cause if you needed a platonic girlfriend, you know where to get one so wouldn't go through the huddles of chasing a girl simply because you want something platonic. grin If mere friendship is the case then it's a cover up to buy him time to get what he wants.


Bottom line, in both cases; that's an element of affection . That validates her point that a girl and a guy can't be platonic friends.
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:52am On Jan 03, 2018
Sugar97:


Yea... I won't do it again sad

Good morning smiley

That's my baieby. I will hit you up later okay?
Re: Childish Ways Most Guys Behave That Has Got To Stop by Tozara(m): 10:55am On Jan 03, 2018
kimbraa:
She said a guy can't be in a platonic relationship with a girl without either lusting or falling in love with her. This statement is true.
NOT.

Firstly, a lady and a guy becomes platonic friends in two ways...

1. Association. You both become acquaintants either because you work at the same place, met in a group meeting with friends, neighbours, course mates, and through other associations you could think of. Here, they automatically become friends if they like each other enough to be friends which starts gradually anyway 'cause trust takes time to build. This relationship at this level is void of romantic affection but with time, a guy starts seeing the perfections in the lady he's friends with and that results in growing affection. As time goes by, he can no longer conceal his feelings so he tells her how he really feels but she has a choice to either friendzone him or accept his proposal. In a situation the former happens, a matured one will value the friendship they shared and respect her decision and nothing will change in their friendship while the immature ones will automatically end the friendship 'cause he feels rejected and can't stand the girl later. More often than not, such relationships ends up in the guys catching feelings for their female friends.

2. Complete strangers. Here, you go after girls on the streets simply because you want something romantic 'cause if you needed a platonic girlfriend, you know where to get one so wouldn't go through the huddles of chasing a girl simply because you want something platonic. grin If mere friendship is the case then it's a cover up to buy him time to get what he wants.
And you say this is so in all cases? What if you're in a platonic friendship with more than one lady? You fall in love with each one of them? Or what if you already have a girlfriend, but still have some female close friends? The friendship still can't be platonic? Notwithstanding the fact that for many of us, it's not all ladies that we find sexually attractive (to our taste), since we have our specs in women? But does that stop us from keeping them as friends? So how does being close friends guarantee having romantic feelings towards them?

I can't relate AT ALL with ANY of the scenarios you gave above. You can't be in a female body and be telling me, a guy, how it feels like to be a male. It's ridiculous.

Maybe your assertions might hold true for some. But that definitively proves that.........

Bottom line, in both cases; that's an element of affection . That validates her point that a girl and a guy can't be platonic friends.
........she has no point and her argument is INVALID---a girl and a guy CAN be platonic friends.

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