JayIlych:

Probably an error. Thanks for pointing it out

Nelly21 ppost=63864280:
From your write up it's obvious you knew they are sisters before you went after Ada...Why would you do something like that when you know it is sure to lead to strife between the two of them? I mean there are other girls why go for her sister in particular? I don't doubt that you may truly love the girl but if she ends up with you there will always be a coldness between the siblings unless Abigail gets married too

Gofwane:
haha, your signature no be here o

JayIlych:

If i tell ada, she'll never trust me around her sis. She'll always wonder if i'm straffing abigail behind her back.

Exceptionalgod:


think it this way... what if she finds out later, will she ever trust u its better to die for truth than live for lies..

JayIlych:

I'm afraid i'll be the one to lose. I hope she even agrees to the date and sees reason. So i shouldn't tell ada, right?

dingbang:
you won't be the one to lose brother.. Just do as I say... Yes don't tell Ada.. Somethings are meant to be kept hidden deep down in the deep blue sea.

Like me now.. If I wana marry a woman and my woman comes to confess that she had sex with my younger brother before she met me, I am so calling off that wedding no matter what we have been through.. Even if the wedding is tomorrow sef.. I no send..

JayIlych:

After you marry her, and find out, divorce?

dingbang:
nope.. But she will hate herself for the rest of her life.... You think its easy living with a woman with the knowledge that ur brother had already shagged her before you... That's condescending mehn.. I can't deal with that...

Its better a friend did it and I know its outside..than for a blood brother...someone I will be seeing every time... Naaaaah... I cant deal ..

JayIlych:

I think i have to call off my plans of marrying her. Too much complications. It's a no-win situation

dingbang:
better... Please just never let her know the real reason was that you had sex with her sister... Never ever.

Zinny25:
@op the best option is just for to call off the wedding look somewhere else. There will be repercussions in future.

AryEmber:
What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko?

JayIlych:

She's on my arms as i type this. Mehn, i love her so much. She's my ideal woman . I'll talk to abigail tomorrow first to see if it can be salvaged

JayIlych:
I decided to drop this here. I had casual sex with Abigail(not real name) for some months before we stopped seeing each other.
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Fastforward to now, and i met Ada(not real name), was deeply in love with her and now wants to marry her. Problem is, her sister is Abigail. We've not done formal introduction yet, Abigail doesn't seem happy, and i already told her she was a part of my past, but she still seems unhappy.
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I really love Ada and want her for a wife, but what problems could Ada pose to the marriage?
MATURED ADVICE PLS.
Lalasticlala, mynd44.

JayIlych:

Sometimes its good to lie to the one you love to protect them from hurt.

JayIlych:

You think it's that easy?

Zinny25:
I know it isn't easy but you are about to cause serious trouble in that family. I'm sure if the parents get to know of it, they won't be in support of the marriage. If you tell Abigail, she's also a girl she will feel jealous especially now that she's still single. Don't just put trouble in a peaceful family. The decision lies in your hands though, anyhow. Bit that's my take

Exceptionalgod:


u av made up ur mind to keep it from her but I bet the secret won't last long.. u don't even kno what Abigail is planning behind.. put urself in her shoes, ur younger brother once enjoyed casual sex with ur now gf, ll u prefer being in the dark to knowing??

will u prefer hearing from ur gal herself or hearing from ur brother or an outsider??

if u eventually finds out after marriage, will u be happy?? what ll u do??

will u ever trust ur wife even with the make dog of ur house?? this is so logical.. think twice bro

Apina:

Are u the first person to fvck Abigail? if not, tell her say make she face bush

dingbang:
whatever u wana do..do it quick

AryEmber:
What's there to feel bothered about? As an human, I may be worried for a while but as long as you're the one who told me and I didn't hear it from outside, I would count her as your past. Is she a virgin? What if she has screwed a friend of yours before nko?