A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/victim-of-domestic-violence-narrates-her-ordeal-at-the-hands-of-husband.html

Damn

Bad

Prettycrystal how did you allow such sacrilege happen?







Oh reported.

That's cold

Domestic violence is a self replicating cycle

The kids often turn to abusers later on

The role of the extended family is key here

Only they can mediate, others can only comment

Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you

This is why i suggest prayers before marriage

The real guy came to marry you, you said NO.

You want 6packs or cute man,,,

OYA NA!!!!

Why

Too bad.

She is enduring her marriage instead of enjoying her marriage. Please run.

God forbid.

naijaboy756:
The real guy came to marry you, you said NO.

You want 6packs or cute man,,,

OYA NA!!!!

she got pregnant at age 19 na.. As a result she got married. Didnt u read that part?

Dem tie you for dat marriage? E be like say u no dey pity ur kids by trying to die young

Marriage Is Overrated!

I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..
















A quick advice to the young lady who's facing this type of domestic violence... RUN!!!

Yeligray:
This is why i suggest prayers before marriage

haaaaa the mango weh full your brain na serious Opiolo mango, so those that sleep and wake up every day in church yet marriage no last Upto big brother Africa, wetin you go come suggest for them?

Are the 3 pictures the same person?
... sorry madam.

Na wa for your parents, so after seeing these injuries on your body they still left you with that monster of a man.
since you can travel to Lagos,i hope will not just say I want to divorce him but act on it whether your parents like it or not.

Reason like this should prompt the Government and NGO to set up home to take care of vulnerable people in this kind of situation.

Awon badt guys....

Lies

Did you say you went back? OK....waiting for front page soonest. Woman killed by husband

When I complain bitterly about women getting married with no source of income of their own, no skill, no savings to fall on and no certificate to bail you out in this kinda maddening case, they mostly think I'm just being paranoid. The greatest undoing of any woman is to be at total mercy of a man. Most women that stay back in abusive relationships are those who can't run their lives without the help of their husbands, the dependent ones. Ladies should stop this madness, marriage is enough risk already, don't complicate it further by going in unprepared.

This is another reason why I'm pro choice, please be very sure of the kinda man you want to move in with because of pregnancy or else, he ends up getting rid of you and that baby you're trying so hard to protect.

Lastly, I could possibly ignore or endure anything done to me by anyone but if you so as lay a finger on any of my siblings, I'll fight you with all I have. I mean, everything.

the story sound some how, was d man force to marry her,because he seems piss off to be wit her y is he treating her like dat wat did she do,dere is more to d story dan dis.

The signs will be there during dating/courtship yet they will still stick their heads into marriage. Well, I feel sorry for her. The man is a disgrace to manhood.

That is called ONE LOVE

Someone please direct this to the appropriate quarters.

the way women dey take rush enter marriage now eh...see this one now...though her case is different...most dont think before jumping into marriage....bad

dingbang:
Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you

Really? He'll come down from heaven and fight for her? or he'll send angel Michael to do the fighting? so she should just relax there and wait for the Lord to come?

3times a week,the smally self na bad shooter o..

Your husband is a paedophile. He should be jailed for that.
You were emotionally, physically and verbally abused in your marriage, you remained in it. Like that wasn't enough, you brought in your kid sister to partake in the toxic environment.
Ain't you a fool?


Ladies, marriage isn't a do or die affair. It's better to be single and constantly reminded of menopause, than to be in a toxic marriage.

When you do take that step, make sure it is worth it.
Lots of women that are totally dependent on their men are going through a lot and only enduring for the sake of their kids.

Ladies, be empowered. You owe yourself and your kids that.
Nigerian parents change!!

Sorry I had to call you a fool.