makydebbie:
Lmao.

You really made me laugh this morning

Omudia11:
Why are people so senseless like This?

Safiaa:
The wife is even accustomed to his behaviour because she knew what happened without her even saying anything. If this is what marriage is about then I want to die single please.

HeWrites:
Ayomide Ajibade took to Facebook to narrate how she was sexually harrased by her friend's husband when she went to spend a few days with them. According to Ayo, the door lock to the room she was given to stay was bad so couldn't bolt, hence the husband saw that as an opportunity to sneak into the room at night to sexually harrass her.

It seems Ayo isn't the only victim of the said man as the wife wasn't suprised when she narrated her ordeal with the husband, instead she was seeking advice as to what to do with the marriage.

Read the story below...



Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

wickedworld:



And what if the wife like to do other men, will he buy her condoms?

And her husband is not solomon . Solomon is a king that took advantage of many women and that was 3000yrs ago infact no man can be like him

makky555:
She should forgive him abeg... Its not a trivial issue but that's how the older generation lasted.

No domestic violence on her. He just cheated like every other man out there who cheat... If our mothers divorced our fathers for issues like this then I'm sure we'd have more broken homes than we have infrastructure in Nigeria

Panshow:
All men have their brains intact, until the thought of sex begins to take over.

Safiaa:
The wife is even accustomed to his behaviour because she knew what happened without her even saying anything. If this is what marriage is about then I want to die single please.

Mynd44:

Did you say "just"?

Will she still be married if she goes to seduce her husband's friend in the middle of the night?

Truth is in this situation, her husband does not only not love her, he has no self respect and he has no respect for his wife or his marriage.

This is the type of story you see in Nollywood movies when the husband has been cursed not real life because it is too crazy.

This woman is not married, she just has a flatmate…………

luminouz:
like
I have..slowpoke... so don't hype ya black ass!

Follygunners:


Devil punish you! wor-wor fellow like you... BS!

Omudia11:
Yaba left product. Pls engage your fellow made mad people. I don't converse with senile schizophrenics.

luminouz:

See how u proved to d world dat ur not a wife material!
Get ready for Shiloh 2050!

Omudia11:
Get ready to return to yaba left tomorrow, idiot.

sarafa68:

Are you for real?

damoore:


Point of Correction. Not every Man Cheats. If you see one rotten Mango on a tree. You pluck it off. You don't say they are all rotten

makydebbie:
Your other comments proves my claim jare.
Settle for less, go say your marriage vows with the mentality your husband would cheat on you later on because that's how all men are. You'll be good.

makydebbie:
Your other comments proves my claim jare.
Settle for less, go say your marriage vows with the mentality your husband would cheat on you later on because that's how all men are. You'll be good.

people4rmVillag:

Please don't disappoint me ooo

makky555:


I'm sure you're very conversant with English language. I didn't say all men cheat. I categorised him under those who do.

And no I'm not going to go into marriage with that kinda mentality cuz your thoughts and words what produces your outcome in life.
But if peradventure it happens... I'd forgive him. But all the same God cannot give me a husband that is not my own. If he's mine he won't cheat

But wait o so you mean you won't forgive you husband if he cheats? Well while I was growing up I used to have that mentality. I always thought that I'd make so much money then build my own separate house and that If we have one small quarrel or if he cheats I'd just pack my things and stay over at my place shikena! When I think about it now I just laugh at how stupid I was

makydebbie:

I'm definitely conversant with the language thank you, and in case you haven't noticed, your statement comes across as ambiguous.



In your post, you've justified his reasons for cheating. And no one can justify their reasons for it. Even though, you're going to hurt the second party, it's still wrong. You said he acted like other men who cheat. Men are not supposed to cheat, same with women. You said it's in their nature to cheat, that's another myopic justification. So women who cheat should be castigated because it's not in their DNA, but it's in men's?

There's no justification for it, once your husband cheats, he has broken this vow. Same with the woman, it takes more than love to forgive, and even if she forgives, forgetting is a different ball game. Once he has a strange call, you get paranoid and start thinking '"is he cheating again?" so tell me if you can enjoy your marriage always being on your toes. Not everyone can forgive.


I'll agree with you that it was a stupid mentality too.
To your question, it depends on the circumstances. If I get to notice (though late) that he's an unrepentant cheat like the lady's husband in this context, then I'll definitely leave. I cannot live my life a sad woman for a man who gets to 'enjoy' different ladies and he isn't going to change or is sorry about it. And it also depends on who he cheats with, it better not be a friend or someone close to me because I'll be the best wife I can be and if he's going to cheat, he should take the exit.

One thing about cheating, when he cheats and you forgive easily, he can still do it again with the mentality that she'll still forgive, and would take every baggage he bring to the table because you want to be the 'ideal' wife.

nedu2000:
maybe mothers should've done so

Mynd44:

Did you say "just"?

Will she still be married if she goes to seduce her husband's friend in the middle of the night?

Truth is in this situation, her husband does not only not love her, he has no self respect and he has no respect for his wife or his marriage.

This is the type of story you see in Nollywood movies when the husband has been cursed not real life because it is too crazy.

This woman is not married, she just has a flatmate…………

makky555:



I'll try not to. I'm only human. I hold my opinion and ideology. So do you sir

I appreciate

people4rmVillag:

Can we be friends

makky555:



Sure