DollarAngel:
I admire her resilience and doggedness to move on,
unlike some ladies they would love to stay in their past and play the victim game. Learn to always forged ahead and circumvent ugly situations

I don’t want other girls to make my past mistakes – Sunmbo Adeoye

Sunmbo: To so many people who did not know me, I was a club girl and baby mama. I challenged God to rewrite my story and He did because I was just a victim of circumstance. This is me who used to sing in Ebenezer Obey’s church. I was a spiritual daughter of one of his sons, Pastor Lanre Obey.

I used to lead praise sessions at Obasanjo’s chapel at Ota, Ogun State. Even when I worked with Intercontinental Bank Plc, I used to lead praise sessions. I knew I had the call of God on my life but unfortunately, I fell in love with someone and instead of me bringing the person into the light, I was dragged into something I never bargained for and I started having babies out of wedlock. I was only a victim of my emotions.



Ques: Many will argue that having a second baby is not circumstantial.

Sunmbo: That happened because we were in a relationship. I met Tuface when I was a student of Yaba College of Technology. I had just lost my dad and my mum was living in America. For someone who was a daddy’s girl, I needed love. This was the only person that was showing me love at that time. I feel I had that experience so that other young girls would not make the same mistake. I was 24 when I fell pregnant the first time.

When I got pregnant the first time, I approached the pastor of the church I was attending then and he brought me out before the church and judged me. I was asked to go and bring the father of my unborn child so we could be joined together. I brought a different person and we got married at the registry. Everything fell apart when I had a child who looked nothing like him and my mum came back from America to ask who gave my hand out in marriage because she was not a part of it. I had to walk out of the marriage which I arranged by myself. I moved back home and by age 25 I was already a single mum and a divorcee. There was so much shame and reproach.

It got to a point in my life that I felt that the Devil you know, is better than the angel you don’t know, so I went back to my baby daddy and his mum talked me into living with him, so he won’t have more women and babies. We lived together for three years, and that was how the second pregnancy happened.

It was not a bed of roses while I was there, because I was trying to put together what was not supposed to be. I think we broke up in 2009 after I had the second baby. There were other women who were also going to have babies for him around that time. I came to my senses like the prodigal son and I was so broken. I think my baby daddy was out of the country that fateful day when I returned from work and I packed all my things plus that of my children, and I went back to my parents’ home.
http://punchng.com/dont-want-girls-make-past-mistakes-sunmbo-adeoye/

makky555:


So cause she's made certain mistakes in life which turned blessings she can't be qualified to marry a pastor or preach the gospel huhn? Chief justice

LaudableXX:


Exactly! I admire her ability to take stock of her life, and battle the odds to come out stronger on top. It is not easy to be a single mother of not just one, but two kids. Especially when the father of those two kids is nothing but a rambling casanova, that could not keep his trousers, zipped.

God turned her story around. She learnt from her mistakes and sought God's mercy. He then took her mess, and made a great message out of it. Now, she has moved on with her life. I admire the Pastor who married her. He must be a man of sound principles, deep compassion, open minded with great mental strength, and a heart full of love. I wish Sumbo the very best of every good thing, she desires from the Almighty.

As for Sophie Momodu that Davido's baby mama, I feel sorry for her. She has not learnt anything from her mistakes, and is unwilling to make progress with her life. Let her keep deceiving herself in one corner, waiting for Davido who is busy making waves with his latest catch - Chioma. Some women will never cease to amaze me with their cluelessness...

PETUK:
Princess having two children outside wedlock is not a mistake

wellmax:


I wanted to tell you what the scriptures says on issues like these, but again you writing skill puts me off.
Bye

luxy44:


What is it you don't understand?

A widower (the pastor) that decided to marry again?

Or an unmarried woman with 2 kids that found love?

How is Christianity practised?

Paradigm777:

The Chief justice part got me cracking.

Untainted007:
All these monitoring spirits ehn, na wa for una oooooo. Won't she move ahead with her life. If she had married a babalawo, na una go still talk. Experience is the best teacher in this world, so if she had kids for Tuface and she sees someone who's ready to accept her despite her past, won't she continue with her life? Op face your own life, she's facing hers.

free2ryhme:


Honestly, the kind of Christianity we practice today i wonder if God approves of it.

Well, what do i know?

But I know God is mercy yet a consuming fire