AkpaMgbor:

Is it a personal relationship when the people in the relationship makes everything public? If you show the whole world when you kiss,smooch,eat, bath and sleep with someone you are in a relationship with, do you still have the moral justification to ask people to mind their business?? Davido’s case is different because he needs the public to stay relevant, and staying relevant means making more money from album sales and stuffs..when you’re in the public you have to accept the good,bad and ugly that comes with it...if you want people to ‘mind their business’ then don’t make your business public on a SOCIAL media...

AkpaMgbor:
Is it a personal relationship when the people in the relationship makes everything public? If you show the whole world when you kiss,smooch,eat, bath and sleep with someone you are in a relationship with, do you still have the moral justification to ask people to mind their business?? Davido’s case is different because he needs the public to stay relevant, and staying relevant means making more money from album sales and stuffs..when you’re in the public you have to accept the good,bad and ugly that comes with it...if you want people to ‘mind their business’ then don’t make your business public on a SOCIAL media...

abbey621:
When you post your photos on Instagram, Facebook or Twitter does it mean another who sees them can blindly criticize you or dictate to you how to live yourself? You people seem to think celebrities and their relations are not human being but they cry, laugh, bleed, get depressed just like you and everybody else!

laudate:


Wait first.... is Twitter, Facebook or Instagram your personal diary? If you don't want people to criticise what you put out there in the digital space, then don't share your personal photos and other private stuff, with thousands or millions of followers on such social platforms. Afterall, if your photo was kept in a picture frame on your bedside table, or kept within an album under your pillow, who would criticise it?

abbey621:


Whether you have money or you are broke is not the point. When it comes to personal relationships those in the relationships are somebody while external influences who are not related to them are NOBODIES! In short, mind your damn business!

abbey621:
With that philosophy we might as well stay off social media, skype or even communicate with the world. The problem with most Nigerians who think like you is that you've been oppressed for so long, you no longer know what is right or wrong. If I buy a Porsche for my wife and she posts it on her personal Facebook page, whose father or mother would challenge me? Whose father or mother knows how I make my money? Whose grandfather or great grandmother knows my struggles? I repeat, when it comes to personal relationships everyone should mind their business and if you can't, at least MAN UP and say it to their face instead of hiding behind electronically generated words, see if your a^^ won't get KNOCKED OUT!

sarahade:
I'm minding my business it is davido that is not minding his business. As long as they post rubbish about their relationship it becomes mine and everybody on social media too.
I don't want my children growing up where girls think endurance is the new name for gold digging and laziness.
Thanks

laudate:


And I repeat: you cannot broadcast your private or personal matters to the whole world via social media, and not expect people to react. And people's reactions are unpredictable, because human nature itself is unpredictable. You or your wife who posted the Porsche online, made it their business, for goodness sake! You made your personal stuff, public! Or is it that people simply do not know where to draw the line between keeping things private, and making it public, anymore? Nobody is asking you to stay off Skype, Twitter etc, but be careful what you broadcast to the public. That's all. Afterall, Skype, Twitter, Facebook etc are just public channels of communication...

If you want people to mind their business when it comes to matters affecting your personal life, then be sensible enough to keep your stuff to yourself, or make it private. Social media is a public medium. There is a reason why the Oyinbo people invented the term: "private and confidential." They also added the words "discretion" into the mix. Go figure. If you are not MAN enough to take the heat of public reaction, then keep out of the kitchen.....or social media space!

sarahade:


I'm minding my business it is davido that is not minding his business. As long as they post rubbish about their relationship it becomes mine and everybody on social media too.
I don't want my children growing up where girls think endurance is the new name for gold digging and laziness.
Thanks

abbey621:


Did they give the attention you seek? Do they even you're alive? I guess not, just accept your NOBODY status and be cool

manikspears:


is that what you intend to teach your daughter? don't just argue weigh your options first and then talk.

sarahade:


What are you saying?

abbey621:


That your criticism falls on deaf ears, that you don't matter to them and you are better focusing your energy on something more meaningful. In short, make something of yourself!

abbey621:
You are still confusing yourself, people can react but you cannot dictate! My grievance comes from the contents of the criticism itself. I'm not saying don't criticize or offer your opinion but such opinions rarely matters hence why I termed the criticism coming from a nobody. As long as you accept that your opinion, criticism or advise on someone else's personal relationship does not matter, as long as you accept that you are a nobody in the realm of their personal affairs then criticize all you want. As far as I know neither Davido or Chioma has reacted to any negative criticism further proving my point that a NOBODY cannot and will not dictate to a SOMEBODY......Drops mic!

laudate:


Stop being daft! What do you mean by the criticism is coming from a 'nobody?' Ok, if you feel the criticism is coming from a nobody, then why is such criticism causing you such severe pain, that you are jumping up and down, and screaming that people should 'mind their own business?' Can you see how silly you sound?

The minute you post your personal stuff on an open or public space, then expect somebody, nobody and everybody to criticise, comment or give an opinion about it. Period!

abbey621:
What makes you think I'm pained? After all you are not criticizing my life, the subject of the criticism did not even respond or acknowledge the criticism hence the classification 'nobody'. The problem with nobodies such as yourself is that you feel entitled not knowing the somebodies of this world don't give a flip about your opinion...lol

laudate:


When people post their opinions or criticisms, did they tell you that they are expecting a response from the person they are criticising? No! They are posting just to vent & air their opinions. Period.

Some even post, so that their fellow nobodies or respondents, can also get an inkling into their own thoughts about the subject, or event. Dat's all!

The fact that you are calling those posting their criticisms a nobody, shows you are pained. If you were not, those criticism wouldn't matter to you! Now, go and have a conversation with the Lagos lagoon, while other 'nobodies' and 'somebodies' continue posting more criticisms. I hope it serves to get you further worked up.

They are posting just to vent & air their opinions.

abbey621:
Sounds to me like a bunch of frustrated souls, if you ain't got the cash, criticize those who have it and flaunts it freely....You're pathetic!

laudate:


Didn't I say you were pained earlier? You just proved it. Or is 'pathetic' your new baptismal name? And is 'frustrated soul' your new moniker?

abbey621:
Lmao....that's the best you can come up with? Kids....lol

KanwuliaExtra:


Yes o!

Some of us are not hypocrites.
Shine your nose and eyes biko.
If woman wan do ASHAWO work, make e do am well.

No need to cast your pearls to SWINE!